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I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

Your dad na “agbaya” how can he give you such an advice? Something he did to your mother in one way or the other. Know this: Man na man! He’ll always want to feel in charge. You as a woman wants to prove to him that you’re a boss lady, then he played you. Yes, he jobbed you 200k, you should also reasoned it that the money might have returned back to the family in one way or the other. These is your family, the father of your kids, even the yet unborn. So the money is not lost. Stop acting like you earn more than your husband! Even though you do, comport yourself, you’re the woman! Those advising you are not advising you well, including your dad, if not, why would you rent an apartment? Because you think you have money (boss lady). People are calling you and begging you is because of the kids, and if you don’t want to go back and comport yourself because of the kids, then dey your dey, because there won’t be peace. If you want to go back, go back and be the woman, and let the man man the house!!!
Lastly, change your advisers!.. Stop discussing your family matters outside!

Please which of the Nigerian ATM cards works on binance to buy crypto?…

Nonexisting1:
So she died a black woman, went to an imaginary heaven up there in the skies that haven't been located upon all the trips up there and God pushed her down only for her to turn a white boy.

Lol, the thing tire me sef. The young boy has been brainwashed with a lot shit right from the womb

PandoraObi:
Hehehehehehehehehe miserable and mischievous IPOB miscreants, zombidients and zombidiots criminals are full,
"turning a critical situation to a bad one" like turning a worst situation to a correctable situation, like bringing a almost brain dead accident victim to consciousness but could not talk, the bitterness and hatred in those Biafra idiots that have submitted their brains to Kanu, do not have anything to reason with

From my observations: I think people should stop criticizing Tinubu.
He's a great guy.
Problem is, he chose politics over Babalawo.

mediclife1987:
How about working there as a medical doctor, my colleague told me the salary is ¢7,000/month.
Is that a good salary to live a conducive life?

If only you can learn to manage so as to save more. Otherwise you might have nothing at the end of the month

damilola4162:
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Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/10/rico-swaveys-girlfriend-caroline-breaks-silence-after-his-death-says-he-was-planning-to-relocate-to-the-united-states-videos.html

Oh, poor widow���

N3TRAL:
All I want is peace in the South East so that my babies can visit their grandparents.

It's been two years since I ate fresh Eguisi soup prepared by my lovely, amazing, beautiful and hardworking mother-in-law.

Nkechi can do the stir fry spaghetti which are always as delicious as her body and sweet like her soul, but I just want a traditionally prepared Eguisi with fresh fish and he-goat meat Mama prepares to welcome her fit son-in-law. I'm tired of my Nkechi's stir fry Eguisi which she refrigerates for one month and serves once a week.

Please end the agitations. Let's give peace a chance. Christmas is coming.

God bless Nigeria in the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Let peace return to the South East and other parts of Nigeria in the name Jesus Christ, Amen.

Mumu talk. The agitation for your freedom should be stopped because you want to eat egwusi soup. I wonder how some people reason in the world. Just for a plate of egwusi soup?

Christistruth00:
I can tell you for free that this Appeal Court Judgement is Fake News


It would mean that if Cameroon Captures the leaders of Boko Haram and Iswap then immediately hands them over to the Nigerian Govt then the Government is supposed to release them without taking them to Court because FG will have no right to Prosecute them

That would mean that the FG must now release all the Boko Haram Terrorists that Cameroon handed over to Nigeria
and they can even Claim damages from the FG

The Court of Appeal would never do that

Give it 2 more days and the Truth will be confirmed

Tell me that you’re a fool without telling me that you’re a fool: Why is your FG delaying to hand over the criminal Abba Kyari to the FBI?

[quote author=inoki247 post=117537194]Na people wey neva experience the country dey talk Jargons the same Dollar I was exchanging at 6.5 Ghc around November to December as at today na 11.6...


We neva talk about fuel oh people just come online and start talking rubbish go dere first and experience the country nobody go tell u before e clear for ur eyes....[/Quote]

Bro no mind them joor. Them go just type rubbish with their japa mentality. For Nigeria, you can comfortably manage 10k for one week+, but you can’t try that with the equivalent in GHC (dem no born you well). Ghana cedis is worthless in Ghana but the equivalent in Naira can do better here. The only cheapest food there is kenke and koko. A bottle of bear (Club) is about 1k in their local bars, Imagine the amount in their hotels and clubs. Omo, the only thing good in Ghana is their constant light (very expensive) and security, no police intimidations, every other things are zero. Inflation is biting hard on them

ijustdey:
https://pmexpressng.com/man-35-docked-for-mistakenly-engaging-his-friends-28-year-old-wifes-in-sx/

The story no complete at all… Who switched on the light?

I’m planning of using this remittances app to receive funds from USA but I’m scared of losing my hard earned money, since They don’t have any physical office where to report to and no one to hold responsible. So I need to be sure that my money is secured. Please drop your experience here, before another guy man go run me street this kin hard time…
Street too tough✌️

How do I register to get a better survey?
What's the best way to answer registration questions to get a better survey?

Nnamdi Kanu has been consistently RIGHT, but got it wrong somewhere.

He got it wrong when he dished out the Undiluted Truth in its large quantity at a time.
I wont agree less with Malcolm X when he said; "The Black Man is so brainwashed, that you have to drop the Truth little bit at a time and wait a while to let that sink, before advancing to another".

Mazi Nnamdi Kanu would have first called Nigeria, a Den or British Dungeon, when it sinks, he advances into the tag "ZOO".
After which he picks the name of One or Two animals, then tag Nigerian Citizens Dogs and Baboons like Muhamadu Buhari did in 2012, then proceed to Hyenas and Jackals like Aisha Buhari in 2017, before advancing to the general description ANIMALS.

Just like Israelites and other Civilised World believes Inventions can grant solution to problems, The Black Man is programmed to believe, #2000 Anointing Oil kills Armed Robbers.

The Truth is too alien to Black Nigerians, thus Biafrans tutored by Mazi Nnamdi Kanu are the only individuals ready to assimilate, discern rightly and get Biafra restored.

Ndiara!

Well he's not far from the truth. We are just deceiving ourselves... SARS, herdsmen, bandits and bokoharam killing people everyday. Hate speech everywhere

Tasha7:
Hello, I am a black woman born and raised in North America and married to an Igbo man. We have been in a long distance relationship for the majority of our relationship. We got married almost 2 years ago while still long distance and he recently immigrated to Canada in Jan 2020 under the spousal sponsorship. He has a wonderful bond with my mother and sisters. (my father has passed). I have met his family and we get along very well.

Everything was going well until I was looking up something in the search history of the laptop we both share and stumbled across emails he had recently accessed. Please note, I could not read the email itself, I could only see the subject lines in the search history. I will attach pictures if possible. It wasn't a normal email account like yahoo or Gmail. It was from a website called: Roundcube webmail. I had never heard of it before. Anyway, there were a bunch of emails forwarded from a hotel in Istanbul where people were being asked to pay their outstanding hotel bill (unfortunately I didn't take a screenshot of the hotel stuff). In addition to that, there were emails to 2 different women (named Wendy and Elizabeth) with the subjects: re: Thank you for written, re: back from customs baby, re: I am so happy our paths have crossed re: I am writing you with much sadness in my heart etc. I will try to attach the screenshots I took.

Lastly, within the same search history, my husband seemed to have been looking up songs like: 'what songs make a woman feel confident about herself' and 'what if I never get over you', and 'songs that make a woman feel beautiful'.

I confronted my husband that same night. It was 2am. He was already sleeping. I woke him up bc I wanted to catch him off guard. His explanation was that his friend in Cyprus had a bad internet connection and asked him (my husband) to look up something in his friends email account. He insisted that he had no idea what his friend was up to, as it was none of his business. In the process of me confronting him, he grabbed the laptop from me and deleted the search history. I told him that was making him look real guilty and I started packing my things to leave. He pleaded and insisted it had nothing to do with him, it was his friends email account blah blah blah. I wanted to believe him but some things just didn't add up...like why was he looking up those songs if he was just checking his friends email for him? His only saving grace was that the subject lines were written with poor grammar and my husband has excellent English speaking and writing skills.

Fast forward a few weeks later, my husband left the bathroom to put out the garbage and accidentally left his phone in the bathroom playing music. This is significant because he has never parted from his phone from the day he arrived. He sleeps with his phone beside him. He showers and uses the bathroom with his phone beside him. When he cooks, he keeps his phone beside him. The day in question, I went into the bathroom and locked the door shortly after he left the bathroom. Side note: I only lock the door bc sometimes he jokingly sneaks up on me to scare me while I am in the shower, so to avoid being snuck up on, I sometimes lock the door. I digress. I commenced using the bathroom when I noticed that hubby left his phone on the side of the bathtub with Nigerian gospel music blasting. I was shocked! It was the first time he was separated from his phone! I didn't touch his phone and started using the bathroom. Within 15 seconds, my husband started knocking on the door saying he really needed to use the bathroom and wanted me to open the door. He was saying he really needed to pee. I asked him to hold a minute, because I was on the toilet. He said he didn't believe me and then things escalated from there. He started pounding really hard on the bathroom door, demanding that I open the door because he really needed to pee. He was eventually pounding so hard and yelling to the point where he started to lose his voice! I was freaked out! I told him to hold on and I would be done in a minute! But he wouldn't listen and eventually broke open the bathroom door by force...there is literally a large crack down the bathroom door now. I was shocked. Beyond words. Once he broke down the door, he quickly did a scan of the bathroom and saw his cellphone was right where he left it. I didn't touch it. Then he was more calm. He then reiterated that he really needed to pee and went into the shower, pulled the curtain and turned on the water.

I started freaking out. I started yelling telling him that he was a liar and if there was any doubt in my mind he was hiding something, I need not doubt it anymore! He broke down the bathroom door NOT because he really nedded to pee, but because he was so terrified I was going to snoop through his phone! Of course he denied it. He was saying that if that was the case, the first thing he would have done is grab his phone. I responded saying that he's not stupid, if he grabbed his phone first, it would have made him look guilty. After that blow up, we stopped talking to each other for days...

And here I am today. If anyone could provide me insight into what is going on, I would be so appreciative. What is this hotel stuff and what are these msgs to multiple women? I am thinking he may be involved in a 419 scam or his friend is a yahoo boy....but why is he using such poor grammar when he speaks and writes excellent English?

I am so stressed over all of this that it is literally consuming my every thought. My husband only denies everything and gets defensive then ignores me if I keep pushing for answers. Outside of this incident he is incredibly loving and affectionate and treats my mother so well. He cares so much about what she thinks of him.

I have turned to this forum with the hopes that someone would have more insight into what is going on. Thank you so much to anyone who has taken the time to read this very long post and respond. I truly appreciate it. Again, I attached photos, but scratched out names just in case.

Thank you,

Tasha

The only thing I can say to you is that your husband is not cheating on you, he's just into some kind of business that he don't want you to know about. If you love him truly, then you just have to take easy with him, with time you will understand. Don't be too inquisitive!

nick50:
I am only here to check names..afonja ajoka

Please Yaribansa or yorubanza. Take note!