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Superpower:
This is so insensitive. Using someone alleged status to score cheap point is just too low.

It's like you don't know her. She can/has even go/gone lower than this sef...

InSanety:
See how TolaniBaj don get favor by aligning with the right people

Position yourself well and favor will come to you

Tolanibaj and Tbaj is even trending at the same time...

Kidd sprays pepper to all you Erica haters

ItsCookie:
Bloody narcist!

They have given you another ammunition

ANTISIMPS:
Elikem best Ghana rep till date

I agree

Mariinee:
1. It isn't wrong. Everyone does it at one point or the other. However, Erica regularly catches subs that weren't directly thrown at her and then she reacts to them because of the perceived slight on her person. Note the word, "Perceived."

2. It's not something that happened one time. The way she phrased "Anyone should feel lucky to have me in their live" or "Anyone that leaves me for so so doesn't have taste" is indicative of the belief that she's special/superior. A grandiose sense of self is a hallmark trait of narcissism.

3. Erica saying (not just thinking) her and Nengi are the hottest babes portrays the tendency of narcissists to seek out people with perceived higher status in society. Simply put, they always try to form relationships with the best people in a group.

4.Yes, someone corrected me that it was Nengi that said that. Still, it doesn't take away from my observation and submission.

When I said I wish I watched the show more, it was so I could give an in-depth analysis on all the housemates. I watch the vital aspects of the show; I don't make my observations from the updates here.

I assume the reason you haven't seen the traits is because you don't know what to look out for. Many people don't know about covert narcissism, so that's fine.

Your assumption is very wrong dear. I won't engage because I feel like it's pointless to do so.

Mariinee:
You are unbelievably gentle this season. I'm waiting for you to go full terminator on Kiddwaya.

Threebear:
And who are you to say he'll remain an upcomer ...the Lord or his appointee ?
The maker of destines ?
Some of you go too far sha .

Trolling for Tacha for almost one year has made you extremely toxic .
Please start reducing your bile .

Haaa the bear, is this your handwriting? . As soon as I saw this post, Efe, Teddy A and perhaps Ike ego came to mind. Hmmm, this season is really different and I like it .

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
Nengi said this in the DR not Erica.

Lekan has also said something along the line of "if you stop being friends with me, you'll miss me"

Oh, I just saw this now. I was a bit uncertain about Laycon's exact words.

Erica and her fans don suffer for this thread - everyday different names . Una dohh

Mariinee:
Gods, you are so smart. You described everything perfectly. Yes, the reason why she's subtle about it is because her narcissism is covert.
I don't know if you know about covert narcissism but Erica exhibits all the traits. She appears to be humble, but she's sensitive to personal remarks about her person. She doesn't understand why Laycon doesn't want her friendship because she believes he should be glad to have her in his life one way or another.

Lol, I can write a whole epistle on everything she's done that points to covert narcissism. Saying she and Nengi are the hottest babes in the house is a major sign. She wanted to attach to Nengi because she feels she's the only babe in the house who can compare or compete with her. So, she wanted them to be friends to avoid possible competition. So many things. Oh, another thing. Remember the fight with Lucy? She said, "Is it because I'm fine and always smiling?" or something similar. Can't remember the exact words. All these are signs.

1. Is it wrong to be sensitive to personal attacks about your person?
2. Some of us also feel that our friends/spouses should be glad they have us in their lives especially when we know we are caring. Also, Laycon has said something like "if you stopped being friends with me you'll miss me". Does it also point to subtle/covert narcissism?

3. Erica talked about how she and Nengi knew each other before entering into the house and promised to have each others back in the house (I didn't watch this. I read it from here). If this is true, then you are wrong to imply that she wanted friendship to avoid competition.

4. "...is it because I'm always smiling" is like a usual phrase many "always smiling people" use when they are trying to emphasize that they should be taken seriously/or they can also banter. Meanwhile I thought it was Nengi that said this not Erica.

I saw your earlier post where you admitted that you haven't really watched the show (BBNaija Lockdown) much. So I'll assume (I may be wrong) that you mostly get your updates here. Most of the updates here (especially as it concerns Erica in recent times) are biased.

I haven't seen the narcissistic tendency you talked about although you said its covert. I'll be watching closely.

Froshloaded:
Whorica's mother, should better keep her phone away, when she comes out..


[b]Suicide and Depression is real [/b]

Beverly Osu, Bisola, Nina, Bamike, Ka3na have not committed suicide. She may be depressed (if the act bothers her so much) but she'll be fine eventually.

MamBi:
He prabably thought they would include him for punching the plantain

Nengi still hurt by what Lucy said to her and she should be. I felt her pain while she was explaining it now in her DS.

She also body shamed Lucy sha... So na 1-1

Kimbrielle:
I know.

[b]I am a Laycon fan [/b]funny enough and I will drag any ICON that wants to condemn Erica for having sex simply because of a perceived hatred toward her.
They just wanna troll and that is not nice if she did this with Laycon will they cry foul

Elites need to borrow you small . You are the kind of person Erica needs on this thread .
Indaboski extraordinaire

Zzor:
you can't speak for any lady,that Erica finds him attractive does not mean every other lady does, he may be so disgusting to some ladies,some ladies might pick laycon over kidd.

Will you?

Madam Ka3na also had sex, sorry aggressive cuddling, in the house (and may have had more if she stayed) but she wasn't dragged like Erica. Will it be right to say that the continuous dragging of Erica is because some fans are afraid that she's outshining their favourite?

Na question I ask ooo. I no sabi do back and forth.

Tatiana4u:
Yawns...
Erica is a good girl from a decent home who's only crime is lack of self control...especially when she's in love.
Nengi on the other hand is an orphan and a poor church rat who paid for her education with her body!
Her best pictures were taken in hotel rooms with rumpled sheets,stained with semen!
She openly admitted to participating in 3somes,gangbanging and orgies...na she talk am o!
She's dating a man not out of love but gratitude for funding her fake life!
She's been linked to Tompolo and other militants and her gist is dirty!
I guess she paid for her multiple surgeries with your tithes and offerings!
Nonsense and ingredients!

...and substance abuse (I didn't watch, I read about it here). When she said she would like a daughter like Nengi, I didn't see the need to engage her jare. Me I am not kuku an indaboski like some of you

I can only wish her what she hopes for.

nazablossom:
Both of them are indaboskies

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bigjackass:
What annoys me is that despite all these , next year another girl will still find herself in Erica's situation again. Despite seeing how a woman is shamed separately by nigerians for something she does mutually with a man. I don't understand

...because its a reality show and these things happen in reality. Some of the girls that are criticizing Erica may have had many one night stand but their actions are not on live TV. We live in a judgemental and hypocritical society jare... Erica should have known better.

ItsCookie:
Nengi is no dait, no one is and no one is talking about being a saint.

Talking about sexual position and her preferred interest is not only very healthy but also informative, hell! We teach sex education in our schools.


I would love my daughter to be someone who knows her sexual preferences and exhibit the kind of self control Nengi has been showing so far in the show. I would love my daughter to be focused and have an unparalleled competitive spirit just like Nengi. I would love my daughter to know her self worth, have a healthy self esteem and thrive to proof naysayers wrong, just as Nengi has been doing so far. I would love my daughter to know when to draw the line and set her priorities right.


I want a daughter like Nengi; A goal setter, a focused beauty queen, a woman with an enviable self worth, a virtuous woman who isn't a se.x toy for a random man on live TV.

Noted

geezprince:
Honestly, We need to cut Erica some slack. I don’t think It’s right for her to be judged on what she has decided to do with her body and who she has decided to share the cookie with, on a show that is Rated18.
That aside, How are we even sure they had sex?

I seriously doubt if this will reduce her fan support. At this stage in the game, people have invested so much money and emotions into the game, hence her supporters can’t and shouldn’t be swayed by this.
It’s just sad that we live in a judgmental and close-minded society, where you can’t express yourself freely, even on a show R18, without someone adding their 2 cents.

The fact that we live in a judgemental society is one of the reasons she should have applied a little restraint. I really do like Erica and I hope she puts a stop to this.

ItsCookie:
I am glad my baby girl has been vindicated time and time again.

The loose girl with battered self esteem with no iota of self control is the Whoreica of the w.horing kingdom.

You met someone under two weeks and you are opening your legs for him already to destroy you in so many different ways, worst is the fact that you know it's on national TV, a public place, couldn't wait to leave the house, you had to show the world how much of a ho.e you are, how easily you can burst it open once there is a physical attraction.

God forbid the kind of girls she will raise. God forbid our young girl sees her as a role model. God forbid I condole such crass immorality with my two eyes wild open.


Tufiakwa! Aru!!!!

Nengi, your favourite (who I also like by the way) is not particularly the kind of girl I would want my daughter to see as a role model judging by some of the statements I have heard her make about her sexual exploits/choices . While we all agree that Erica's behaviour is unacceptable, Nengi is certainly not a saint. She may just be more emotionally intelligent. So calm down with the Erica name calling. Just saying

Threebear:
While I'm a strong feminist ...if you think we are living in a society where a woman can have sex on national TV and get away with it , then you're pandiculating in delusion .

There was a time when religion made people kill twins and burn suspected witches at the stake...what did people do ?

They hid their spiritual gifts and transported their twins to another village.

You don't fight for change by losing your head .
You do it while keeping yourself alive and then working for a better outcome.

Any woman with half a brain would resist giving the society an ammunition to blow her to bits .
While we are all hoping that there will be a time when true equality will thrive and both genders will be held selfsame accountable for their actions ...the truth is that we aren't there yet ...not by a long shot.

Erica should have known better .

Good luck to Erica and her Elites ....

Hope you people will prove your elitism in voting and defending , because you sure have a lot of work to do .

You are very correct about this. I'm very disappointed at Erica right now having made excuses for her previous indiscretions (unlike me). Whether or not she and Kidd are an item does not in any way excuse her actions of now consistently having sex/performing sexual acts or aggressive cuddling on live TV (I know the show is rated 18).

She should have known better like you rightly stated... Moving on jare. This girl cannor comman kill me before my time.

Threebear:
While I'm a strong feminist ...if you think we are living in a society where a woman can have sex on national TV and get away with it , then you're pandiculating in delusion .

There was a time when religion made people kill twins and burn suspected witches at the stake...what did people do ?

They hid their spiritual gifts and transported their twins to another village.

You don't fight for change by losing your head .
You do it while keeping yourself alive and then working for a better outcome.

Any woman with half a brain would resist giving the society an ammunition to blow her to bits .
While we are all hoping that there will be a time when true equality will thrive and both genders will be held selfsame accountable for their actions ...the truth is that we aren't there yet ...not by a long shot.

Erica should have known better .

Good luck to Erica and her Elites ....

Hope you people will prove your elitism in voting and defending , because you sure have a lot of work to do .

You are very correct about this. I'm very disappointed at Erica right now having made excuses for her previous indiscretions (unlike me). Whether or not she and Kidd are an item does not in any way excuse her actions of now consistently having sex on live TV.

She should have known better like you rightly stated... Moving on jare. This girl cannor comman kill me before my time.

nazablossom:
Hawk and Steph really shook this thread yesterday. See missile flying everywhere

I hope there was no casualty/casualties

None at all...It was a battle of equals . The good thing is that they both laughed at the end although I see another one coming before the end of the show since Steph is now trolling with the same intensity with which she loved Erica...lol.

Bomboiy:
Nengi vs Lucy. Nengi lost.

Nengi vs Kaisha. Nengi lost.


When will Nengi ever win a fight? Her fans Carry Erica matter for head instead of them to be concerned about the Gbas Gbos their favorite has been receiving.

Especially "Cookie Lyon". See the way she wrote full PhD thesis on top Erica matter.

akthedream2019:
Laycon weere... O fe dobo Erica..

O fe do expensive Obo... Nkan gidi hun weere..

Ejo e ko.

Erica lo jebi.

Nigbati oun na ma ma feyin Kiri bi asinwi

2O22:
this is very low from team dora

Why will someone have to go this low? This is so sad.

majamajic:
Everyone making good fun out of Ozo

Ok oooo

I know u can't try this with some housemates , their fans will cry all over and come for your head
No one pity Ozo about his basket ?

I did. I pitied him and felt it was unfair though his attempt to force the plantain into the small basket was quite funny to watch.

nazablossom:
Londoner and passport hustler on my screen

. Naza, you came back from your leave to start giving our BB couples tags abi

MissAnnBoleyn:
They might prove the naysayers wrong

Anything is possible. I was one of those who never thought that BamTeddy would continue their relationship outside the house though I liked them in the house. I'm not saying Kiddrica will end up the same but one can never be too sure.

fitzmayowa:
GBAM!!!

I think after this eviction they will revert to nominations, the new style doesn't make too much sense...

I would have love to see the HOH being very powerful where by the HOH will be the one to nominate at least 4 HMs every week and we would see the drama unfold every week...

This can't happen sha. They can adopt the usual save and replace option although the DHOH is a variant of the save option.