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Nonso23:
My brother, nkwucha aburo ujo.
Even u.j know sef.

Matthewbriggs:
This guy is not serious . Babe say make you take her out you dey fear her non existing numerous husband. Kai which kain level be this Na Haba.

Bro do the needful ... . Go and have fun and detox your self from the toxicity in the both sections you frequent.

Who knows...

Nonso23:
That is like calling daddy to watch you, while you want to steal meat from the pot.

Nonso23:
Unless it's not the same NL we are using o! They are numerous o!
At least 10

Nonso23:
It's not you jor but numerous NL husbands. They will hire assassins for me o.

Nonso23:
E be like say you no want make i see new year o!

Nonso23:

Nonso23:
I don't believe in horoscopes and all that stuff but sometimes when i read your posts it's like your are ripping out my own very thoughts.
Na wa o!

Mizmycoli, you are very correct but there are actually only two options.
1) Give your all, risk it all; the hurt or bliss.
2) Hold it in until you feel ready and miss out on the finest things; trading them for 'control' over your life and its attendant benefits.
To attempt to blend both options will lead to the usual mind games, unrealistic expectations and every other thing that is unhealthy for the union.

It's very simple but still very complex.

1one:
Out of your fingers?


But it's your "mouth- " that's open

1one:
This list itself looks like something from telemundo

CoCoLav:
Lol @Scrypt

Okay first of all, this is a very nice article that reflects what many people are going through. However I must point out that though everyone seems to be talking of how they have been hurt they have not stopped to think of those they have also hurt.

I believe life is a cycle and although love is very beautiful we find ways to complicate it. Boy A dates Girl A and gets hurt. In his next relationship with Girl B he tries to be very careful and to ration his affections as you stated in an earlier article. Girl B shows him love fully but feels that Boy A doesn't love her enough because he isn't showing it unknown to her he is trying to ration his love as a result of his past experience. Girl B is hurt and has resolved not to love fully again and also decided to ration her love in her next relationship with Boy B. Boy B gets hurt again and the cycle continues....

I'm not afraid to love. I love fully knowing that I may/may not get hurt at the end but that doesn't stop me from giving my all. Heartbreak has never killed anyone, with time you heal and you move on.

Life is too short and love too beautiful to be afraid to love.

My motto: Live and let live

CC: Anaskie
Scrypt

MizMyColi:
I've been in that kind of love, that sucks.

I'm learning of a whole new paradigm.
I'm looking forward to love that is reciprocated.

can't wait to experment my new findings on what Love really is!

That said --- I told myself the bitter truth, I've never really loved
Now I want to.
But I need to be sure the person is worth it

MizMyColi:


You might wanna change that mindset Hun, and maybe the person in question
Wisdom tho'............

Oildichotomy:
And you're so jobfull

Even "jobfull" guys have abundant testimonies of Gold-miners personified in the feminine gender that flock around to illegally exploit gold they don't know where it came from.

So relax and leave the young man to let out steam from his experience

Aprime:
I thought there was something lurking to discuss about this, but this counter write-up disintegrated everything. I don't know what to say again. True points and as such, Yeah. No 1 is invalid. Bullshít as you said It.


cc: tosyne2much.

fabiano09:
Aaah feisty! Me like.