₦airaland Forum

givedemwotowoto:
Tinubu supporters have shown that they are the real enemies of Nigeria.

How can you still be supporting a government that shows little to no effort at fighting insecurity, but puts a lot of effort into its re-election bid?

FreeStuffsNG:
Smh.

You are truly ignorant of the real casualties in Occupied Palestine. Smh.

While airports, seaport and oil and gas plants were still operating in Iran during the war, all the airports, seaports and oil & gas fields in Occupied Palestine were bombed and forced to shutdown.
They are in serious trouble and US that is dashing them freebies of weapons is bleeding now.

CYBERWEAVER:
I am currently planning to get married. I’ve been with my babe for about a year now.

After several consultations, we agreed on a wedding budget of about 3 million Naira.

But I keep asking myself one very honest question: how do I commit that kind of money to someone who hasn’t really shown the same level of effort back, even in something as small as 5k, despite earning a little?


Asin, I never smell her 5k since we started dating.


At this point, it’s not even about the money anymore. It’s about intention, balance, and simple acts of kindness.

Even on my birthday, I didn’t receive a gift from her, and that stayed with me more than I expected.

I’ve never had to deliberately test her money, because genuine care and small acts of giving usually show themselves naturally over time.

To be clear, I’ve been carrying most of the financial weight in this relationship, and there’s hardly anything tangible she has ever done for herself without at least my 50% contribution since we met.

I don’t complain, but I also don’t want to ignore what I’m seeing.

As a responsible man, I’m trying to be honest with myself before I take a step I can’t easily undo.

So I want to ask people who are married or have real experience: if I go ahead and marry in a relationship where this is the current dynamic, what should I realistically expect in marriage?

I’m not trying to assume the worst, but I also believe experience speaks louder than hope.

Double0h7:
What in the testosterone overload is happening here

I don’t care, I’m calling this AI 🤖.

enemyofprogress:
Can a man still love her like this?

Obakoolex:
Surely I know my wife would love to marry me over and over again

Even all my ex would also love to because I still pay some of them pension when needs arise

Reflect7:
Honestly, this man's head is not correct.

What kind of foolish man is this?

How did Nigeria enter his head, now?