₦airaland Forum

idahme:
Isn't this your story what men face everyday and most women down play men's efforts? Madam settle your issues, you knew he was struggling with his finances and went ahead, its only a man that can feed a jobless woman for 50 years without complaining and divorcing her o doubt if any woman can do that.

You want us to tell you tto leave your husband because his finances aren't checking up? Madam any decision you want to taake do and the society will still go. On

danvon:
She was not a good Muslim. Going to a man house alone, a man she is not married to and not related to.

According to the father she had a fiance she was about to get married to but she still went to a handsome stranger on Facebook house.

This is why we need to fully adopt sharia in Nigeria it would reduce many of this madness both from men and women.

It is this liberal western corrupt constitution that allows madness like this to persist and keep persisting.

Lionessza6:
LMAO

What has angered you so much in my post,was it the natural skin part?

Point me to where I said anyone was superior to the other....that's a Nigerian language not ours....we don't do the better pass our neighbor rubbish here. But the reality is that Nigerian women and men do stand out here because of their skin; that looks unnatural most times because of all the chemicals they use even on the kids faces. That's a reality not a diss. You can go and jump over a cliff if that hurts you.

Shattuck:
ok so south Africans can decide who is Nigerian by the nature of it skin.

Lionessza6:
She neither sounds nor looks like the typical Nigerian women we see here. Plus her skin looks very natural . Her parents might be living in Nigeria but I'd love for her to say where her mother is really from.....I'm still not convinced . And the guy must tell us where his father is from

Samantha125:
Nope, her parents are living in Nigeria and only visit SA every now and then.

idahme:
U can't even hide the loathe you exude towards the south east, pathetic. This country is the headquarters of hate and bigotry

OneOnland:
In what world would someone anticipate...

I would answer your rhetoric: this present world where Mercy Okafor was battered and many cases previously.

This is reality of the world, ok? No one is justifying anything. And also, a point of note, even if a person wants to fight off wrong, evils, injustices, etcetera, one must first acknowledge its presence.

So, perhaps you're living under a rock or you're a monk in Tibetan, to let you get clarity, this is what happens in the world. Your complaining or whining doesn't change it. Demand for justice or actions towards justice could change it though, but you, you must acknowledge its presence first and realize no one is accommodating anything, but picking their battles wisely.

Psoul:
That is totally different from what is in the post. The post is saying instead of her sleeping over in your apartment, it's better the guy goes to her apartment and sleep over.

What breed of men do we have these days.
You'll feel comfortable going to sleep over in a woman's apartment. Tufiakwa

Tendd:
What of if it's a male friend or relative that came for a visit that later slumped and died in your house?A lady might come for a visit with the intention of leaving the very day but collapsed while sitting on your soffa.People slump and die eventually in different places every now and then.
The crux lies on us as a people.We believe so much on fetism and superstition.There are no natural occurrences anymore in our society, everything is cursed by somebody/enemy.

Vixenn:
Your comments used to be funny and cruise years ago.

…but it’s 2025 and you’re still stupid(?)🤦🏼‍♀️

cjudy:
AY na Delta man

frankson1:
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You're not a Yoruba and you're a bitter tribelist yourself so stop furkin lying

You were not smart enough to hide your identity.

Tranquill:
No need making everything tribal.

I think she’s from Delta. I remember one Eshalomi that was contesting to be governor of Delta in the 90s most likely her dad.

God bless Nigeria

Yorubasarecurse:
It is you and your entire lineage that is cursed.
Ewure pikin. Spits on your skull head.

Yorubasarecurse:
It is you and your entire lineage that is cursed.
Ewure pikin. Spits on your skull head.

Tobi2025:
Manipulation you say,the only thing I valued in any culture is respect!

If being Yoruba cannot solve the current myriad of problems or one cannot move forward or appeal to the current realities on ground then it's all empty !

What does being so culturally loyal solve in our current reality??
Let's be specific and you will understand what I am talking about.
Are Yoruba states moving forward with all you mention here or are we just static?
That's what you should be talking off.

Secondly, Christianity is not Idolatry but a revelation of the image of God ,Jesus Christ!
Show me where Christians bow dow to any image to worship it?
Any Yoruba name associated with idols are to be revoked and renounced because names spell people's destiny and dictate their lives direction.
Why did God change Abram to Abraham? Was it not because Abram was associated with Idolatry,murder and imperfections?
Abram was a cursed name and brought bad luck to him.
Abram was a father of terrorism and an adulterer,so you are saying he should remain that name as respect to culture abi?
Is that what is paramount back then to his cultural reality or the reality on ground!
So Abram should remain in bondage ?


The cross was not what God instituted as a sign of Christianity,it was the world that made it so and called Christianity a religion.
The cross is a sign of mockery of Christ,any one wearing that cross chain is mocking Christ Jesus.
You yourself know what the Bible says .Killing of animals form sacrifice is old testament religion under the dispensation of the law.
Any religion offering sacrifice now currently is doing so unto demons and not to God.

The Holy Communion is a command of the lord Tom remember his death and not a ritual as you claim.
The pass over is the last thing done before the Exodus of the children of Israel.
Is that not a good thing? Why calling it a ritual!

Yoruba are not part of pre Columbia,I don't know what you have read or where you got your information from.
Yoruba were only shipped to south America,Jamaica,America,Brazil,Britain,etc during the transatlantic trade
It doesn't mean they were from there.

It is good to speak Yoruba,but as I have said we are in a new generation and if speaking Yoruba doesn't change someone reality or doesn't spell any solution to current problems why speaking it ?
Let's be realistic,and tell ourselves the hard truth.
No 5 point is relevant,but as I have said if wearing or associating with culture doesn't change your current reality then don't even do so.
When Abram was in Syria ,it was not until God called him out of his family and culture that his life and reality changed!
Abram was a Syrian,he left his culture before his reality changed.
It's unfortunate today that Islam itself and some of their religious practices are not religion but culture of the Middle East.
Washing of feet and hands were the culture of those in the desert because of the dust that comes to their face and hands.
It's this nonsense that Muslims have made a law and imposed on hausa today
The Yoruba Muslims too foolishly think it's part of the religion not knowing it's culture.
See how they think by that traditional practice they are worshipping the true God,not knowing they worship a false god.
Any culture that mandates killing of human beings,sacrifice to idols,pouring of oblations,consulting witches wizards,familiar spirits,observing festivals and eating things sacrificed to idols and the dead is a false religion.
God is not the god of the dead but of the living!!!
God is not a god but the true GOD Jesus Christ!
So we call all Yoruba festivals demonic and a worship of the creature than the CREATOR .
So understand this before you carry culture for head thinking it will save you !
We may have many stories of God and Christ in our culture but knowing Jesus Christ is a thing of repentance and turning away from falsehood of our forefathers who served demons we called gods and goddesses the work of men's hands.
Orisha means what men gather with their own hands and now worship.
They make it with their hands and those who serve them are like them.
Those are what our culture imbibes and you are proud of it .
How can we be serving stones,wood,silver and gold or water,rocks ,fishes in the sea,birds in the air or animals and you claim to be proud of it?
Is that not foolishness and inconveniences?
That is what you want the coming generation to continue to be proud of right?
To be strangling fowls also and drinking their blood is barbaric but it's part of Yoruba festivals right?
God hates Idolatry!

Yoruba music that worships God and Christ is not bad ,but orisha music is bad.what happens when people listen to demonic music and are entertained?
They become possessed by such evil spirits just like the loss who worshipped Baal.
They cut themselves and wounded themselves and cried unto a dead god who never answered until prophet Elijah cried unto the true God and he answered by fire!!
What happened when David played music of God with an instrument?
Saul the king who was possessed by demons was relieved and ok.
Yoruba drums are made with human skins,that is a ritual itself on its own.
Is that what you call cultural preservation?
What happens during music concerts that are idolatrous,eg king fela shrine!
Do they not fornicate and have sexual orgys and defile one another.
Do people not end up being corrupted!
Is that what you want to continue my brother?
Because you love culture the way of life that seemeth right but the end is destruction.
Culture without Jesus Christ is the destruction of souls.
We cannot obey culture and the word of God becomes non effective.
Yoruba Christians are rich in service to God because our language praises God and honours him.
Apart from this ,all other things point Tom worship of devils.
Our Proverbs and powers also in the light of Christ are a bit biblical but outside it's demonic.
No 7-8 ,it's omonoabi and not Omoluabi.We are descendants of ham the grandson of Noah

One of the bad things we inherited from Noah was curses.
Africa inherited curses of servants of servants form seeing our grandfathers unclothedness.
This is why Yoruba cannot do without cursing one another for any small provocation or mistake.
Are you proud of curses or being cursed?
Are we not suffering from curses from Yoruba ancestors and generations of disgruntled Yoruba leaders all cursing their own and others for ingratitude and despisement?
Is that what you are proud of?
Such curses only become broken when one comes to Jesus Christ and becomes a Christian and undergoes deliverance.
Yoruba parents understand only the language of curses in child discipline and it is wrong and entirely destructive!
Some uses curses to destroy their children's destiny.
Yoruba like too much pleasure (faaji) and we think it's normal not knowing it's a trait of our grandfather Noah.
In such pleasure,our shame(unclothedness) becomes exposed and we betray each other and sell our ourselves.
Is this what you are proud of or the cultural heritage you like sir!
9) I have explained this before ,as a man's name is so his life will be affected.
If a Yoruba boy is bearing Cain or achan for eg which kind of person will he be?
Yoruba bearing ojo are always fornicators
Those bearing IFA are always liars because IFA means ESU
Those bearing ogun are always stubborn and stiff-necked,they always get angry.
Ogun means ESU too and the god of iron
Those bearing names with streams and rivers or water bodies are always unstable ,angry and have rage.is that what you are proud of sir?
Have you not noticed all these bad things in our culture?
Does it mean there are no food names or surnames Yoruba bears? Certainly not but most are associates with demons!
Orunmila, sango,oya,Osun,olu,etc and all our gods and goddesses are demons that fell from heaven.
Oduduwa himself our progenitor is a fallen angel that fell with Lucifer from heaven when they rebelled against God the true God.
Is that the heritage we are proud of to be bear.
Oduduwa was a conspirator, a rebellious fallen angel,a divisive and one that turned his back on God,fell down with chains from above.
Go to the bible and read it ,you will understand where our culture source has been exposed and the negative effects of bearing Yoruba names with idols which are demons.
Isaiah 62 is clear and why God gives people new names ,it's because no idol name will enter the lambs book of life!
You are on point on number 11 but Yoruba is tripartite in meanings .
We must in embracing our culture seperate the evil from good .
We can only do that in Jesus Christ and nothing else.
We are told to stay away from things strangled (ritual practices and dark society doings ) ,pollution(demonic possession and consultations with dark powers) and from blood.

UncleAyo:
SMH

olaolaking:
They can afford to buy suits but not ASO OKE? Mental Slave

Tellmeastory:
YOU are cursed with your stupid, imbecilic comment.

Who told you we “want Nigeria to be like Dubai”?

Make your dirty village habitable before asking the ‘black race’ to build you Dubai.

Idiot with no sense.

Not a single care about the thousands of lives that will be saved in the new facility.

It’s all about image, appearance, and how “grand” it must look, in your shallow mind, even if the costs quadruples.

BloomingDale:
Those Tutsi’s are probably related to the Fulanis.