All the state Governors be it West ,North,East, South o all unites in looting from the national Coffers without doing anything so all of us should come out and criticize out leaders be it Igbo Yoruba, Hausa,Ijaw,itsekiri,Edo or be it Christian,Muslims or Traditional worshippers should be in Unison to call out our leaders because Poverty,strife's and underdevelopment doesn't recognize tribes nor religious affiliation.

So I Pity People who constantly defends and supports their Leaders when they make life miserable for their followers because they are being paid peanuts of 30k
it isn't as if the Leaders discriminates tribes when they want to dip their fingers into our treasury this they understand that's why they Use religion and tribes to make us disunited so we can't remove the yoke of our sufferings!!

LegendHero:
See the state of primary schools in Anambra:

Obi can’t build new school, yet he still can’t renovate the others.

We need Reno to investigate this.

If an Igbo Man Chose to neglect His Home town development and focus on Lagos (by Criticizing the Lag state government) or any other western state shouldn't that Be a plus to Lagos government since it will create a wake up call for them to do more? I am not an Obedient nor do I imply Peter Obi is a Saint but what He said is the truth!!

Why waste meager national Funds to build more Schools when you can maintain by renovating the old ones what's the unecessary multiplication for? when Nigeria Govt at this stage needs to be prudent why the unecessary borrowing for white Elephant projects?so that half of the funds can be looted?!

My State Governor in Ekiti State is building a 2nd overheard Bridge in Ado to create an avenue for looting when the 1st is even under utilized what's the population of Ado resident and the Car owners to Ibadan residents talk more of Lagos that the governor feels it's a bridge that's the next project that should be embarked on when the People are hungry??this is the Bastard that Can't even pay 35k as Palliative not 50k minimum wage while His mates in Lagos ,Ogun,Ondo and other South South state does upon all the Huge allocation accrued to Him by Tinubu

So if a non indigene say an Igbo Man criticize my Governor BAO even if His own state Governor may not fare better shouldn't I be happy that will make my Governor perform more? If I am resident in Ibadan wouldn't it be Makinde I will Criticize more than my home state governor since that's where I earn my livelihood and pay my tax?

The funniest thing is be it Tinubu Sanwoolu and Obis Family will Converge and unite in the same association and ceremonies and yet exclude we Commoners since them no know if we dey exist so why we go carry their matter for Head like Gala??

StOla:
Imagine if it was the reverse?

There would have been thick smoke coming from Alaigbo.

Why their would have been thick smoke coming from alaigbo you will have to explain it here o is Portharcourt in Alaigbo or Ogalla Igbo?oh you have finally accepted Igbos are also in Rivers too?

Does it mean if you guys don't make tribalistic and divisive comments on Nairaland you can't breathe well? I am very Certain you aren't Yoruba because no true Yoruba with a good head on His/Her Shoulder will support the Crooks in the helm of affairs in this Tinubuconomy 24 7 while His mates are out their hustling only those sub humanoid frm the North side fit do that

Navy relocates base from Lag to Rivers and yet some never do wells are mentioning Igbo tribe that they would have Cried if it's the other way round is River State in Igbo Land or the Commander Ogalla Igbo?

Isn't Lagos too Congested because every Corporations and Government parastatals situates their H.Q their? So if the Govt tries to move some out to decongest it what is bad there? Moreso aren't Rivers and Lagos both Riverine areas bounded by the Atlantic? Which are viable for Naval base so what's the fuss??

Is it that Some People are always Jobless and miserable that they have nothing doing only to be creating divisive and insicive tribalistic Comment all day long? this Economic Calamity brunt is borne by all Nigerian ethnic groups it ain't as if because you are Yoruba as you are frm the President Ethnic group you will be exempted so I wonder how a sane Human can Still defend and support this administration??

I wonder why the Mods and Seun allow this wretched Tribalistic Cretins to disrupt this forum? I don't think they are either frm Yoruba or Igbo tribe because none of those tribes are that retarded to descend so low!!

Just so you know I am a Yoruba Lady frm Ekiti State and my fellow Yorubas You see how it is bad to vote along tribal lines just so you feel you can cut your Nose to Spite your face??

I have been observing this trend just had to voice out today!!

That's Hpv Herpes Simplex virus has no permanent Cure but it's Manageable that's doesn't look like Chicken Pox at all Chicken Pox Spreads out throughout the Body and Since You have had it before it is Supposed to give you immunity for life

Not Surprised didn't the Kwam 1 Sleep with Alabi Pasuma's daughter to the extent of impregnating Her? Someone He Could father same way He Slept with the Late Alaafins Wife Ajoke !!

How Can a Man be so brazenly Promiscuous and dog like? Except He is using it for Charms I don't understand it for Someone who has many Wives and arrays of Girlfriends He will Soon meet His Waterloo what am I even saying?? His downfall has already come self I don't know why He has never caught magun with all His Sleeping around like a Dog on Heat Shameless He Goat!!

iamoyindamola:

You skipped the part he confessed to killing her because he love her phone

So you don't know Nigerian Police Can torture a Suspect to the extent He will be Coerced into confessing to a Crime He didn't Commit? How foolish Can One be to Kill a Lady for an IPhone that Can be tracked and not lay low for like a Year before Using it so it won't be traceable to Him? Ain't saying the Olubodun Guy is Pure or not a Crook but He might Probably not be the Killer He Could have Picked it frm the floor I don't trust Nigerian Police they don't do forensic investigation!!

This is an Undergraduate for that matter who should be intelligent enough to know that Kind of Phone Could be tracked to Him! Or Probably He didn't think the Investigating Police Men would know the Victim Phone was missing at the Crime Scene??

All those Proteins you added in the Soup was even too much it may have led to it depreciating quickly also let Egusi Soup breathe!!

Abacha that overhyped tasteless trash to call it African salad is a disservice to the real vegetable Salad and to think it was even very expensive? Had to buy it the 2nd time thinking the first Seller wasn't good at making still the same trash I don't get the Hype!!

Hot Dog can't get over the rubber like elastic taste

Igbemo Ekiti local rice the Aroma supercedes the taste very Rice wey no dey sweet its just like the aroma from Bakery and the actual taste of Bread

Ewa agoyin upon all the hype I was disappointed with the taste withe the stew tasting like agbo(herbal liquid)

Finally Tapioca I couldn't understand the hype!!

Printme:
poverty contribute to it.

But a well trained child with morales will understand the difference between good and evil.

But more importantly, each side has consequences.

You equate money with turning out fine? Bros they may not turn out to be common thieves. But trust me, there are worst evil that men do that you can only imagine

Who is Bros??

Icesnow:
Exactly my thought. That's how they manipulate women to stay in bad marriages. The children turned out bad cos didn't have the finacial capability to take care of them.

My Dear they expect a low income Blue Collar Worker's 5 Kids like Jedidah's own to turn out good?? This was a Woman who Couldn't even afford a decent, Housing and meal let alone sending the Kids to top notch School how could they have fared better in the Society? If their was even a Father Figure in their lives they may have Stl not turned better because of Poverty!!

Tole Makinwa or Mercy Aigbe boys won't turn out that way!!

That they were raised by Single Mother ain't the reason the Kids turned out that way it's the Poverty of their Mother and their numbers (too many) who births 5 Kids in this inflation economy? The millionaires don't even have that much number of kids again Even if they had a Father in the Home to Support Funke So far He is a low income earner at the lowest ebb of the income Pyramid their lives go Stl turn out like that!!

Funke wasn't even that educated up to the extent of getting a Job to earn 6 Figure they live from pay check to pay check(hand to mouth) the Penury must rub off the Kids too!!
Are you saying Toke Makinwa or Tonto Dike Male Kids will turn out like that??

Only 2 of those Kids were not well behaved and those were the middle born that's to be expected frm Kids with different Fathers ,all their Fathers dont have the Same Characters,I don't See any Selfishness or Self Centeredness in them this were Kids who Risked their Lives to Rob a Showroom so they Could fund their Mums Medical treatment. One even died on the line what act of altruism Can One ask of again?

Look Aunty You hv been tricked,deceived and scammed!! Divorce or seperation isn't hard to finalize in Nigeria? If the Wife was that terrible He would have divorced Her since!; I almost fell into that trap too man Men are dubious and lies a lot I won't say it's Nigerian Men only since I haven't dated Men frm other Countries or other Race though Most Women too are unfaithful and liars.

Men if you are interested in Sex only declare it and if it's Marriage you want or can Stl lead to that after declare it frm this start stop leading People's daughters on and using Marriage as a pretest to Sleep with Ladies!!

And did He propose Marriage to you as in you should be His 2nd Wife? Because I didn't read that from your write up but if He did being a 3nd Wife shouldn't be a bad Idea Since you and the 1st Wife lives Countries apart.

Tap0lane:
This is why I ask hopeless igbos to show us what Abaribe that as spent 30 years in the Senate without a single project built

One perosn even asked the JB signage you igbos celebrated in Abia did Alex Otti put it there with his own personal money ?!

My Constituency Rep member and Senator don't even do anything yet who has ever held them accountable is it not Someone you See you go even hold accountable? Like the Yorubas will say Eni to woju Iyawo lo mo pe on sun ekun'

Yet Someone who chooses to do even if He looted they are Stl attacking Him

sulaak:


You do know that these are Federal Government funds that have been invested in Lagos state in his capacity as the speaker of the house, Where Gbaja was an inefficient speaker that rubber-stamped Buhari incompetent laws.

Are your Elected Officials forbidden frm influencing the President to invest Funds In their State for Constituency Projects too? Or na bench warmers them go do for Abuja? Abaribe has been in Abuja Federal House since the return of Democracy this mashanfani has never Commissioned any Projects in His Senatorial districts Yet His State Citizens keep returning Him there

If you Calculate all the allowances and Salaries this Rep and Senate Members earn in 3 months you will know it can fund all this project within a Year talk more of all they will be Paid for their 4 Years tenure Yet they won't do anything that is to show they are wealthy enough to do it but are just Callous and lack conscience Even in the Saner Climes they loot there but they still develop their Countries

I am not saying Gbaja is a Saint but granted is the same loot that Abaribe who has even been in Government Office and other elected officials before Gbaja has been looting why haven't they Used it to build meaningful projects In their States? If other Elected Officials have been emulating Gbaja maybe Nigeria would have been like the U.K we all love to Japa to

advanceDNA:


If y'all are claiming the fruit is sex...
So what type of sex is the other fruit they were permitted to eat??

U are trying to use the evil heart of cain to validate ur fallacious claim that the serpent slept with eve and must be the father of Cain

But the children Adam and Eve bore after Cain and Abel still committed sin generations later so the idea trying to link the evil heart of Cain to the serpent is flawed.....

The new testament(rom 5v12-19 already explained that the disobedience /sin of Adam/eve brought sin which made sin common to all men....and through one man sin will be taken cared of........ So why are y'all bringing this version that cain sinned because the devil slept with eve....??

It is what I read o

kotaru:
Please also note, the major reason God kicked out man from the garden is so that he'll not also take and eat of the fruit of the tree of Life and live forever. Gen.3:22

I don't really think so God never intended Human to die He wanted them to live forever wasn't He coming to the Garden to Seek Their (Eve and Adams Company) and Chat with them it was their eating of the forbidden fruit ( Fruit of knowledge and wisdom)that angered Jehovah and made Him drive them out of the Garden!!

theysg:


So if satan did not come around, Adam and eve will not eventually have sex? Or God will have to come one day and say "oya its time to have sex"?

Your propagation lacks merit and enough eveidence.

So after the sexual intercouse with satan, who happens to be a serpent, why is there no evidence of procreation?

As at that time, Adam and Eve were the only one with human form on earth, so how did the serpent got to sleep with a human being?

Your arguments has a very shallow base, and it is supported with zero concrete evidence.

The Serpent had human form at the creation as I read though

The Serpent was originally the Snake Sha Lucifer used it as a cover (like o gbe awo e wo) as Yoruba People says it had human form with legs eyes and head before the fall of Adam and Eve or was it it that it took the form of Human to come deceive Eve??I can't really recall clearly now!!

But it was the Spirit of Lucifer in it and He Convinced Eve to lie with Him if it Came in the form of the Snake we have today would Eve had lied with Him??and the Seed He made with Eve became Cain that's why He was very Evil and moreover Jehovah hated Him(Cain) because He was the Devil's Son so nothing good He would have done could have pleased God

Later on Adam lied with Eve and bore Abel who was of a kind temperament.thats why Cain always envied Abel,God Cursed the Serpent to move on it's belly because His form was used to Cause the fall of Man Sha.

I will advise you Separate frm Him for a while With the Kids and See if He changes that is if this is not a fable You shouldn't have married Him in the 1st place when you saw the Red flag of gambling gamblers don't change easily!! If He was gambling when He was Stl single when He had no responsibility is it now when married with kids and bills to pay He will Change??

Your situation reminds me of a story of a Family in the U.S whereby the Husby a blue Collar employee was drinking His pay Check and keeping His Families (a wife and a Son) in rags,Hunger and penury only the Wife was bringing money home when She saw the adverse effect on Her Son She took Him along fled the House and trained the Boy on Her own to cut the long story short the Boy became a Petroleum Engineer who worked at an oil Field in the Gulf!!.

The Man Stl didn't Change o He retired in Penury had She endured and lingered with Her Husby would the Son have or wouldnt have made something worthwhile of His life?? That leaves to be told!!

Felix6:

Exactly. All I read is a woman whose husband is currently facing challenges, must have lost his job or business is bad for a while.
She didn't tell us how things were, when she was busy opening legs for the man to produce the boys, and how things were growing to the stage they are now. Suddenly he has become irresponsible, because he now eats from what she provides.
The man didn't run to nairaland.com to narrate how she was eating what he provides when the going was good for him.
Woman you are only looking for the final nail in the coffin for him, which you have deceptively come to seek through public opinion on a faceless forum.
What ever backing you get from here will never stop your conscience from pricking you.
Because you have done him dirty already with these rubbish you spewed here.

Naira land misogynist are at it again Very Hateful, lacks empathy with no Conscience when it Comes to Women!! How does loosing a Job or a Buisness translates to gambling?? the Country ain't smiling yet all the Men around me don't gamble even I face Challenges too yet I have never stepped my feet in a betting Shop.

Though I don't believe the story as it may be one of those tales concocted by one of the mods to generate traffic if not which Woman will open Her eyes to marry a Gambler believing He will Change after Wedding? when She wasn't hypnotized??It's just like marrying a drunkard who drinks all His pay Check believing He will Change in the marriage it easy like that??

Even if the story is true and He had lost His Job it's Stl not the Woman's fault He gambles as a result of Greed and lack of Contentment (that's what leads to gambling in the first place),So far the Wife Can go out to hustle Him too should fold His Sleeves and get to work and stop Plying Short route to Success!!

lordnkem000:

U must be mad to come in my mentions are be insulting me, who is 25? U are a big fool and a broke ass prostitute. You are angry because I didn't side with the op for spoiling her man in public abi? It's you who must be the underage smelly cu*t spitting nonsense. I have no issues with women because I'm inlove with one and I'm above 35 so why should I gaslight a small girl of under 24 like the op? Go and read well and you would see I gave her my advice. No relationship is perfect, she loves him and I guess he loves her too so as long as he's not beating her, comparison can be settled, whick is clearly her issues with her man. Is your own relationship perfect? We all make mistakes and she should call her man and fix things. That was my advice

Oloriibu Omo irankiran!!! See the Juvenile delinquent talking rubbish? which 35 years are you above??late 30 years Man reasoning like an slowpoke!! You Can't even be up to 30 yrs because only underaged Guys insults Women with their Body counts and your Mum must be the LovePeddler you called yourself up there Sha

You hateful frustrated Bloody Proverty stricken misogynist!! You couldn't even mask your hatred for Women behind the unsolicited advice you thought you were dishing Her.

lordnkem000:

What are the issues she created that he told her he doesn't like? Is she toxic?

From Her write up here I never read of any where She is toxic though She is only saying Her side of the story but why implying She is toxic since the 1st page? you are gaslighter and a Conclusionist!! See you saying you have a Woman you love Women blah blah

You can't be more than 25 years as You are a frustrated broke misogynist idiot and you are the toxic one here portraying your character on Her which Woman dey date you? This is why I rarely comment on this forum since most Guys here are underaged

If you can't console Her don't add to Her woes since on this forum everything must always be the Woman's fault let Her be!! Se Ori e o buru mo ti Ile?

Kobojunkie:
Oboy, come on!! this your tale no get sense! So, you wanted her to leave her own marriage and children to come to cater to your own marriage just like that, all because you used to help them with their needs? Na wa ooo!!!

This Idiot is a real Junkie I swear always talking off point, unrealistic and unreasonable So that Shim can be viewed as a Deviant/non conformist or be seeing as Woke!!this is an Idiot who may have never giving 500 to a needy Person before in His/Her life!!Shim too dey come online to Spew Garbage!!

So it's only the Rich that must help the Less privileged at all times they can't also repay by helping when they can?? Or you think giving aid is only financially? Your time and energy can also be used to render help So her staying with His Wife just for 2 days to assist is bad but She can dump Her lives Problems with this Man and He wouldn't hesitate

You are nuisance and you make me angry I swear na your type the Yorubas call asodi always facing the left if others face right like a Psycho

Even the very wealthy requires even little gifts as appreciation for what they do for you too it doesn't have to be eqiuavalent of what was gifted you though!! If not it will look one sided and ripped off and they may stop doing

Why does even God require us to show appreciations by thanking Him giving our lives in service to Him giving 10 percent to Him as tithe?? Even though He is an all provider ? It is to show that their should be reciprocity in relationships

Only Moronic leeches take and take without reciprocating!!

Abeg I beg all those spewing trash that She can't Send Her Friends kids on errands are just unreasonable it isn't as if She sends them to cross over the road and these are ingredients She will Use to cook the Food they will eat out of too!!.She cooks for them give them material things so what's bad there??

Don't their Mum send them on errands and they go too? Even in my compound my Neighbour do send my Son on errand at times though to my knowing before hand this is Someone my Son has never entered Her House to eat before

This will serve as Lessons to Nigerians who love breeding like Rabbits and they won't be able to cater for all their Kids if any of Her Kids end up as a help to any Family too He/She will be Sent on many errands if She was able to fend well for Her kids will they be frequenting the Op House to eat often??

Why should a Woman who ain't or Her Husband a Billionaire even give birth to 6 Kids in this Nigeria inflated economy??

Nigerian we like saying what we can't even take!!

But why Women for that USA be oloriburuku,gold digging, greedy,Lazy Bitches that cant hustle and work for their wealth but prey on Hardworking, successful mostly African American Men?

This Feminism law is aimed at African American Family Yet the Useless Akata Women don't know this and continue to make their Men fall victim, there by eroding the African American Family institutions imagine the Population of Black Men in the U.S prison being there for lesser offences their White counterpart wouldn't have even be arrested for let alone Jailed for in the 1st place?

Of which many are even innocent of the crime in the 1st place that's why Single Parenthood issues abound amongst Black Americans In the U.S the Demonic White knows that Family is the Bedrock of any Society,so they target Black American Families to remove the Father who is the Head, enabling the Circle of Baby mamarism,absentee Dads ,Boys with lack of good upbringing and finally ending in the U.S Prisons they were earlier doomed for!!

I am no Muslim but I think this their laws of not giving Women too much upper hand is best here do you hear this kind of false accusations in Islamic Nations? When you give Women your hands they will demand for your neck later!! I am a Woman too but I detest leeches

Their Men over their don dey wise up self many avoid their Women like Fleas they end up unwed and fall preys to internet Fraudster in their claim for seeking for love
Make Dem continue it go reach everyone of them!!

From this famous Boxer,to Bill Cosby to p.Diddy to this Rapper who rapped Up in here can't recall His name they kept accusing Him falsely till He ended up doing drugs and His body Caved in He died 2021 or so,to R.kelly now Jamie Foxx.those whores will never learn!!

GO0DHardDick:


Women supporting women in the mud.

I'm surprised this is coming from you. Thought you would start lamenting and pouring out your frustration on the man as usual while leaving the broke frustrated Parasite and liability who was uncomfortable going to his house but because extremely comfortable going to eat what her father and brothers cannot afford for her

What would you have Her say?? She berated the Hungry leech because that's the right thing to do as Her Conscience won't allow Her Support Shamelessness and Evil.You Stl lambast Her as if She had Supported Her you wont Stl have insulted Her?

You are the frustrated Mumuish Simp here because I can See how you have been gallivanting all over the thread, berating the Man that He is fake,He doesn't work in Chevron because He couldn't let go of 30k as if you Can send 2k to your Guy talk more of a Female leech Broke Nigger forming Billionaire online even if it's 5k the Guy worked for His money
You think wealthy People keep their wealth stable by spending aimlessly without being accountable for it??

Fountainofyouth:



You are daft

Just because I choose not to respond you think you've won? You think I don't have better things to do with my time? If not that you are ignorant or choose to be blind, 99% of threads on this forum are created by males for the sole purpose of insulting females and supporting themselves any which way they can especially on gender based issues yet you have the effontery to say nl females are biased? Comprehension skills must have jumped over you when God was distributing it.

If you that all of you and the guy in the Op have a small pea size brain, what stops him from directly asking the lady for a refund of the money he sent to her for transportation? Why being deceitful by luring her to a restaurant, eating same food, and leaving her stranded to pay, or did you not see where she said she took the money out of her school fees? Such childishness and thoughtlessness is very common with so called adults males these days you have to wonder how their upbringing was, you all think getting back at females is some sort of achievement? Like you've made it in life or what? No wonder the country is so messed up today, from the old to the young, most Nigerian men are slow in mind, thoughts, and innovation, they lack the wisdom, knowledge, and understanding to improve the country and better the lives of their citizens, instead they prefer to keep yapping spittle about everyday when it comes to anything female.

And you think that kind of greedy long throat poverty stricken mentality lady will refund the 1st T.fare ?? I don't know why many Ladies aren't Contented and learn to live with within their means any outing, Shopping or T.fare that I Can't afford myself and a Guy wants to foot it wl mk me fidgety because I won't know what is Coming after

I am no Saint but any other Man apart from my Dad,Brother or to be Husband money should mk me uncomfortable to spend anyhow because anything can be demanded after!!

And I also blame the Fool You sent T.fare the 1st time She didn't Come and You still Sent the 2nd time Men should learn to mk the Ladies pay their T.fare their selves when coming to visit then they can they refund or split it if they wish if not things like this go Stl dey happen!!

Fountainofyouth:



If not that the guy has an ulterior motive due to "horniness", which right thinking guy will send money to a lady the second time after she didn't show up the first time? Is he not a compound fool? The lady was smart for not showing up because she knew what he wanted, but no, because you all are naturally slow in understanding, your brain did not think of that, a normal sane guy would have simply demanded for a refund instead of going through all the trouble of inviting her to a restaurant of which I'm sure he paid for the transport the third time just to prove a baseless point, but as usual, reason is far from you.

Should She have even asked for T.fare when She knows She won't Show up?? Why Can't She even foot Her T.fare Herself Ladies learn to have shame You also earn incomes learn to foot or split Some bills at times you won't die!!

If She had even gone to visit the Guy who will e njoy the Sex more?? whether She is a Student or a worker She is Stl being Sent Pocket money too She could have paid for Her coming
T. fare then let the Guy pay for Her going T.fare,and when She knew She didn't want Sex She should have refunded the Guys T fare

I am a Lady too but I don't just feel comfortable eating off anyone's Sweats without reciprocating be it Male or Female Ciao!!!

But which Kind Food People dey Chop at a sitting wey they reach 70k? equivalent of 2 and half month worth of foodstuffs Price.When it isn't as if you haven't eaten for 3 days

Ugly gold digging Greedy leech a Shameless bitch eni to won fi n Se epe fun obirin She fit Use Her money Chop 70k food?? And She is even dumb on top!!