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Let me contribute to this discuss...from some commenters above they are simply focusing the issue on belief (christianity) which may be a factor but a minor one at that because kissing your wife is not a sin., I am focusing on like and dislike using myself as a practical example.

I have never been a big fan of kissing ...I mean kissing from mouth to mouth or tongue to tongue tied up it's not really my thing, have I done it yea occasionally cos the babe wanted it but pull out early..I often do body kissing, neck, ear, forehead, cheeks, stomach, boobs etc but mouth to mouth sometimes irritate me.

Is it a bad thing NO, but not my thing and sometimes my woman think I dont love her enough that's why but that's not it I just cannot stand swallowing saliva of another person or stuff like that it's just a turn off for me except lips to lips touch but after that a NO , this has nothing to do with hygiene or how beautiful she is, I am just irritated by it to the point when I watch it in movies I fastforward it.

Truvelisback:
You guys should get him the players he want. Arteta has a good style football and a better way of managing players(including average players) unlike Man utd which i am supporting. To win major trophies the like Epl and champions league, you must have 1st and 2nd eleven players that are good, a good style of play, good selection of players and subtitutes. That's why teams like Man city, RealMadrid, PSG are doing well. And that's why they always subtitute for players. Arteta is only lack 2nd eleven and subtitutes.

I totally get your point but in modern day football how many good players want to stay on the bench, the likes of Real Madrid are backing on their names and the fact that they afford to pay certain players above £200K and still keep them on the bench which most club cannot afford.

Be that as it may, what Hansi Flick did last season with Barcelona open the eyes of everybody that is not just about getting big players with money but getting the needed talents needed to fit into your game plan, and we can also look inward, this team won a remarkable treble with mostly average players his tactics and techniques were second to none if not that luck ran out of Barca in champions league he would have made history.

The likes of Nwaneri can rival Saka and Odegaard in that position he has it ...if he didnt give Myles Lewis Kelly a chance ( infact he had no choice given the players playing that position were all unavailable) we wont know what he Carries. Odegaard time most time on the pitch is too long even saka sometimes give this young lads some minutes to prove themselves they are hungry instead he will bring him in 3mins to the end. Am sorry I know he is good but he is stubborn and prideful.

What stops the club for going after the Nigerian sensational striker osihmen to solve your striking problem but no you are looking a Sesko who is 21 and have not really proven himself in big stage..Abeg I need trophy oo I nu fit shout .

Truvelisback:
I'm not a fan of Arsenal but Arteta is doing his best considering Arsenal position in the EPL table since he became the coach. As far as i am concerned, Arsenal is doing well. You guys just have to give him time to win the trophies you desire. Epl is tougher than any league in the world. The last time Arsenal got to semi finals in Champions league was 2009 but Arteta broke the deadlock. Be patient with him.

And someone came and won it in his first season. He better sit up and he knows this is his last chance ...you check it if you son comes home from school at the end of the term all the time with 2nd position a time will you the father will get tired of it and ask him why is it so difficult to get over the line to get the Ist position. In 10years time nobody will remember 2nd position or that he tried by playing exciting football what will be remembered is who won the league that year how they did it not withstanding.

Arteta should sit up..we are tired of next season promises.

Truvelisback:
Benefit of doubt? Anyways, it is fine. However, they still need to get a replacement for him incase he gets injured as usual but that depends of the mgt. Clubs rarely keep injury prone players. As for Arteta, he is doing his best managing the average players he has. If the kind of money that was wasted on some Man utd players were given to Arteta to buy players, Arteta would have had the chance of winning the Champions league.

This is what i dont like to hear arsenal fans making excuses for arteta that he is doing his best managing with average players, how many players are /were world class known players in barcelona but see what Flick have made of them.

We keep making excuses for our coaches reason we dont move forward same excuses we made for Arsene wenger reason we got stuck for years .Arterta is one of the most highly payed coaches in England and europe in general and fans pay one of the highest in terms of match day ticket, so we deserve somthing at least... so he should do his Job properly.

If he is unable to get us over the line this time then he should leave for another manager, we cannot continue to nurse him as a baby. We just have to move forward enough is enough.

Its time we celebrate at the end of the season like every other big club with great fan base.

DarkJeddi:
Livrpool just won the league with a new DM in Gravenberch,we'll be just fine without Partey.

Without him in the squad we accumulated 17 more points in 23/24.

And how do you mean Norgaard hasn't played top flight football?

He's the Captain of Brentford FC ,an EPL Club and have been playing in the EPL for atleast 7 years.


The problem with many Arsenal Fans is impatience.

The Club has virtually sealed Kepa,Zubi and Norgaard deals.

Are in for Mosquera as cover for the right side of defence.

Whilst still actively looking for left wingers in Rodrygo and Eberechi Eze.

Eberechi Eze for one can play the Odegaard position too and would be a great addition to the team.

We need much more than Strikers and the Club is working to address that, if you care to be objective and not emotional in your assessment.

The only TIME you can objectively criticise Arteta and co is if we don't get deals done before the commencement of training.

Well am an arsenal Fan and certainly want the best for arsenal but am tired of this Arterta give me time rebuilding thing.

And i certainly hope the patience you are talking about will bring trophy to our trophy cabinet this season. We are certainly not going into this season with trial and error mentality or testing mic mentality.

The expectation is high we need to start bringing in the trophies..trophies is what makes a club thick.This should be arterta 6/7th season in charge and we all know he is one of the oldest manager in english top flight football.

Guardiorla had already achieved great feat before his 7th season at man city. All we want is trophy if he knows he cannot deliver this season he should leave for another manager.

When Klopp left everybody including liverpool fans thought they were finished but the new coach came amd delivered the premierleague in his first season ...dont tell me has more money to buy players because i will direct your attention to la liga were Barca coach made madrid to go tropheless using kids.

Guardiola said last season was suppose to be our season cos they didnt turn up and had injury worries but said Arteta made many tactical and mental mistakes..just hoping he is not making another.

The bottom line is we need trophy this season a major one at that and that cannot be overemphasis...otherwise he should use the exit door am tired of fancy football without trophy.

Zooposki:
Sir if he was of any value to his wife then her actions will reflect that. I repeat he is of no value, and the wife dont care if he leaves or stays. The truth they say is bitter and a hard pill to swallow.

someone that is not of value to you ...brought you to UK, even before that have been feeding her employed Ass, you gave him two children, you still think he is of no value from the wife point of view, No I disagree on the other way round she is the one that is of no value to the man, a selfish, stingy, self-centered, egoistic woman.

tempex88:
I ask you a question, do you want to be right or be happy?

someone can be right and be sad, if he was happy he wont be in an open forum pouring out his mind. Your question has no direct correlation..with what the op is looking for or what I ask..right as how or happy as how.. ?

Zooposki:
Seems you are of no value to your wife despite all you have said here about helping financially and domestically. Sir, might you just be stretching the truth and little bit?

What are you saying I have been reading your selfish reply and if you got nothing tangible to say why not keep shut cos is not force to say something. He told you he does help in home chores and even beg the wife for a financial contribution to a family they both took and oath to protect, preserve and provide for at least 20%, meaning he takes 80% which is far the lion share and all you could say that you think he is of no VALUE to the wife, kindly read what you wrote.

The way some you women reason is not far from children reasoning...you give a child a biscuit and politely ask for some in it and you will notice the child frowning his/her face.

Zooposki:
Even if she was not working, as a mom she is on duty 24/7, while your work does not take up 24/7 of your time. Even if you provide 100% financially, you still should help her in taking care of your children and house. There is also such a thing as invisible labour. Google what it means.

I Dont get you are deviating and changing the narrative..what is your stand that nothing should come from her financially in the running of the home. A home we took an oath to build together please throw more light with respect to what you wrote above. The man did not complain about taking care of the children or helping with house chores, he only made that information open so that commenters can make a clear and unbiased judgement.

But you not answered the main reason for the post ..pls kindly do.

tempex88:
you are being unreasonable...look away from her money.

You pay rent and feeding as well as support with the children and house chores, that's expected from any western man.

The moment you delete thinking of how to spend/ she spends her money in your head.......you will experience peace.

By the way, i was once like you.

Please can you expantiate because I dont follow ..He should look away from his wife money and chest everything and still out house chores in a land were emphasis on Bill's is high.

I really dont get you...he never said the wife is a house wife she is a working class who earns and uses most of those things that also contributed to the bills..Are you saying the wife should not be responsible by committing her finances in the upbringing of the family. So were will her income be going to if her immediate family does not benefit from it.

Please I need you to clear the air?or maybe you made a mistake...

DarkJeddi:
So, Arsenal should increase the salary of an aging injury prone player?

A player who has missed more than 60 matches in 5 years Arsenal because he had one great season?

A player Arsenal have supported throughout his incessant non match injuries?

The last two times Arsenal did that it backfired spectacularly.

Mesut Ozil and Aubamayang had the same issue and we all saw how it turned out.

Let Partey go!

The best season of Arteta"s career at Arsenal 23/24 was achieved without him playing much.

Arsenal is going to be fine without him.📌

Let him go to Saudi and make the money he desires,we don't need to pay his retirement benefits..

There is what is known as chemistry in football, and the best place were that can play out is the midfield, the chemistry that existed in Barcelona midfield with the likes of Xavi, Busquet and iniesta that lasted over time is what gave Barcelona the force they had then no disrespect to messi...Zubi has never played in English top flight football, Norgaard have never played top flight football and both are just coming and you expect them to blend and just deliver in one season. Because no excuse for Arteta this season one of either UEFA champions league or the premier league or both or he is gone.

If he likes let go and take another second 4 in a row he is gone fans are tired and frustrated, last season it was lack of fire power in attack that cost or made us go trophyless not midfield even though odegaard was not at it's best we still muscled it out,. Arteta think he is too smart I see him fighting for champions league spot this time ..well I stand to be proven wrong.

Other fans are mocking us calling us next Season FC or Netflix season.

Truvelisback:
He is a good player but he is an injury prone. Arsenal can get a defensive midfielder as a replacement for him.

why not give him the benefit of doubt this season at least given his last season performance at least you have bought Zubimendi...Arsenal still needs him knowing fully well he will not be playing every match ...you need his quality as a standby. This will be a huge mistake .

Its going to take time for Zubimendi, Rice and Odegaard to blend and that's the time we dont have , arsenal fans are eager for a trophy ..I mean a trophy in the calibre of UEFA champions league or premier league any other trophy is a No No. I se Arterta getting fired soon.

Osanoghodua1:
He can be traced Shall, it's easy.

Go to his bank,
Let the branch manager call his phone number and if that doesn't go through, call his next of kin. If this fails use his KYC to trace him. The KYC at the bank. The money can be kept on fixed deposit for as long as he's been looked after.

who will divulge that information to you without police report or an officer in attendance or do do you think banking system is osusu that you can just come and request information as a 3rd party and it will be handed over to you on a platter of gold.

chipet67:
Many of you insulting Wike are worse. You will do worse if given the chance.

Stop saying what you dont know cos you can only speak for yourself...his Arrogancy is getting out of hand and needs to be nicked in the bud. This is democracy for God sake except otherwise

The Arrogance of this man is nauseating and unheardof and highly unbecoming . .,

Arsenal & Arterta have made the greatest mistake of their life...

Thomas Partey is not one of the players in Arsenal he is the Player..there are some people at a particular point in time that are indispensable at that moment. Thomas Partey no disrespect to any other arsenal midfielder is the heart of arsenal's midfield. What the heart is to the body is what Thomas is to Arsenals midfield and Arsenal in general. Letting thomas Partey go will cost arsenal and Arteta what they never dreamed of..

Thomas Partey according to Fabregas is the transition from Defence to Attack in Arsenal, He is the man that set the ball rolling, he is the link between the defence and attack in Arsenal, the one other players rely on to set the motion in play, the defenders believe in him to carry out that quick transition from defence going forward to attack. The degree of possession we had against top team in Europe and in the premier league he was highly instrumental to it, he was an ICON in midfield, one of the best defensive midfielder (DM ) in premier league and Europe in general, he destroyed Madrid's midfield the likes of calmavinga and Tchoumeni became second to every ball.

He only requested for an increase from £200K at least to £220K so he can furthermore commit himself to what he knows how to do, He is the chemistry in that midfield, finally we had got the chemistry we were looking for we only needed to boost our attacking prowess by signing a world class striker and a potent left winger to compliment saka, signing Zubimendi was not bad but he has to come and acclimatise first and watch partey do his thing but trying to replace partey with Norgarrd is absolutely unbelievable. Bertha and Arteta failed woefully in this as I dont see this as tactical decision but emotional one that will not only hurt them but the club in general. The midfield is the fulcrum of any team.

A club that is paying Haverts £280K a week cannot increase Partey's wages by £20K a utility player that sometimes plays right full back and sometimes center back, what a shame. If it was easy to just turn off your emotions from supporting a club like pulling of a T-shirt I would have done that because they are never tired of making mistake becoming second fiddle to every other club. Sincerely am just down hearing and seeing this news all over YouTube.

If there was a way fans can contribute to pay the £20k I would have a been a partaker of that contribution so that we can retain such a remarkable player that plays football with such fluidity and dynamism in the midfield.

BlueRayDick:
From beginning to the end of Patey street on Lagos Island, na weed dem dey sell.

were is the location of this patey street on Lagos island?

Baba Davido thanks for the gift to Lati congratulations lati..enjoy

OMon make somebody holla at me gift this range I go happy swear down

They have used tribalism and religion to tame the voice of the masses ...we have been blinded by this two evil by the political class...

What a shame.

Birikiti:
If you don't know PBAT's achievements in 2 years, I think you're deliberately mischievous!

Most of his policies are things that should have been implemented years and decades ago. His bold reforms have repositioned Nigerian economy and have set us on the path of real growth where we aren't eating investments meant for future generations.

However, some of the immediate gains of PBAT's govt in 2 years are as follows:

1. Debt servicing to revenue ratio is down to ~60% from 98% under Buhari
2. Clearance of forex backlog of close to $7B including backlog owed foreign airlines
3. Data center by Interior Ministry that helps us monitor persons of interest entering or leaving Nigeria
4. Passport reforms plus airports reform
5. Removal from bad list of the aviation countries (Cape Town Convention)
6. Band A Electricity customers enjoy 20-24hours of power daily
7. Abuja rural township renewal by constructing new roads
8. Improved revenue and allocations to all tiers of govt
9. The new Tax reforms ready for Presidential assent
10. Improvement in security in States like Kaduna..., especially Kaduna
11. LGA Autonomy (right step towards restructuring)
12. Naira stability (no more arbitrage in forex market)

Let me know if you want more!!

Tinubu PR everything you mention there how can they immediately put food on the table of an average citizen without sweating to break his account or how does it benefit my grandmother in the village.

Una think say una wise...body go tell u soon. Reform my foot.

Ebubu:
I equally feel scared. Travelling to an unknown land in my mid 30s by then, knowing nobody, knowing no system.

No guardian who gives me the dos and donts to become successful in less than 10 years. While in Nigeria here i know the system, just don't have money to fully enjoy the Nigerian system.

In abroad you have to learn what works and what doesn't. And I don't want to learn them after years of failed experience. And no one will be there to issue me a manual on how to become successful in 3 years in the USA, or something.

I'm scared of leaving and failing in the very reason why i leave.

you still have to take certain risk sometimes to advance and move forward in life..

Ikumapkayi:
I expect Nairaland to be more circumspect. This pictures you showed is totally unacceptable. You need to consider national security before showing these pictures.

National security for what ..to hid the actual true so that they can come out and lie to us ..,the earlier you guys wake up from slumber the better.,circumspect my foot

Allthingswork:
. No, Tinubu should not!
The military chiefs should, not the president. Tinubu is contending with many ruthless evil northern cabals who want to destabilize his government to give him a bad reputation.

Tinubu wants these bandits flushed out totally but some internal sabotages won't give up trying to make the president fail in his plans to wipe them out.
Let's leave sentiments aside and call a spade a spade

who is the president or CnC of this nations the northern cabal or tinubu ...who swore to protect lives of citizens under oath ...so who is he going to direct his anger and frustration to ..some of una nu get sense.

Iconic messi....me and my family so blessed to be in this generation to witness football MESSIAH and legend happy birthday king

Adesina18111:
You got the point... Israel defence system was tested and proved impotent... And Iran has been given more morals against Israel. If the war was between Iran and Israel only... I doubt if Israel would be able to have victory over Iran... I am very sure Israel was not expecting what they experienced

guy as a guy you reason this thing logically commot emotion..,they claim iran has destroyed Israeli buildings and infrastructure ok agreed....somebody has taken over your airspace and has crippled you to the point that they can fly within your air space unhindered, unattacked, unchallenged, unchecked...is it ordinarily buildings and infrastructure they cannot destroy. Ok they even went as far as killing generals and scientists inside the buildings housing them...what is actually stopping them from dropping bombs in stadium, houses, city centres e.tc and turn the place to a dump site cos they are in charge of your air space and modern war is fought in the air or is air power. I bet you if it was iran that has taken over Israeli air space hmmm forget na dump site israel for be..

My guy just sit down reason am ..no beef.

uunwanaobong3:
EVEN TILL THE VERY LAST MOMENT OF THE CEASEFIRE, IRAN WAS STILL HITTING ISREAL INTO SUBMISSION. AND THEY ALSO DEMONSTRATE THEIR CAPACITY TO HIT AMERICAN BASES ACROSS MIDDLE EAST.

ISREAL WAS BEGGING IRAN FOR CEASEFIRE THROUGH OMAN AND QATAR.
THIS IS THE FIRST TIME ISREAL HAS BEEN HIT BACK HARD IN THEIR VARIOUS WARS ACROSS MIDDLE EAST.

THE AIM OF THIS WAR WAS REGIME CHANGE AND IT HAS FAILED SPECTACULARLY, UP TILL NOW IRAN IS STILL FIRING MISSILES AT ISREAL.

IRAN CAN ABSORBED DEVASTATION FROM ISREAL, BECAUSE IRAN IS 20X THE SIZE OF ISREAL AND IRAN HAS EXPERIENCE WAR PREVIOUSLY WITH IRAQ, BUT ISREAL CAN NOT ABSORB DEVASTATION FROM IRAN AS IT IS A SMALL DENSED COUNTRY AND HAVE ALREADY DEPLETED THEIR AIR DEFENSES.

NEVER START WAR WITH A COUNTRY THAT YOU CAN'T WIN, ALWAYS DEPENDING ON AMERICA TO HELP YOU ALL THE TIME IS NOT A STRATEGY.
MIND YOU, IRAN DID NOT NEED THE HELP OF THEIR ALLIES RUSSIA AND CHINA TO REPEL ISREAL AND AMERICA, THEY FOUGHT THE WAR ALONE.

AS FOR THE NUCLEAR PROGRAM AND MISSILES STOCKPILE THE ISREAL SEEKS TO DESTROY, THE WHOLE OPERATIONS HAS FAILED. IRAN STILL MAINTAIN THEIR HUGE STOCKPILE OF MISSILES AND STILL HITTING ISREAL AS I TYPED THIS. THE ENRICHED URANIUM WAS EVACUATED INTO A SECRET SAFE LOCATION BEFORE AMERICA AND ISREAL ATTACK, IRAN HAS ALSO TERMINATE THEIR CONTRACT WITH IAEA MEANING IRAN CAN BUILD THEIR NUKES IN SECRECY WITHOUT THE KNOWLEDGE OF USA OR ISREAL. SO THE AIM OF THE WAR WAS NOT ACHIEVE.


IRAN WILL NOW GO BACK AND REBUILD A STRONGER DEFENSES AND DETERRENTS AND A STRONGER AXIS OF RESISTANCE.


ISREAL WENT INTO THIS WAR WITHOUT ADEQUATE PLANNING AND STRATEGY, BECAUSE THEY HAVE NOT ACHIEVE ANYTHING.


IRANIAN REGIME IS STILL INTACT, THE SUPREME LEADER IS STILL ALIVE. THE FEW GENERALS AND SCIENTIST KILLED CAN BE REPLACED.
ISREAL CITIES HAS BEEN DESTROYED, ISREAL ECONOMY IS IN RUINS ALL BECAUSE OF A GENOCIDAL PRESIDENT.

clap for yourself Aljazeera reporter ...you even have to use CAPS to drive home your emotional biased point. I will only ask you one question given a country has taken over your air defenses system and modern war is air based what stops them from dropping series of bombs unhindered on your citizens and infrastructure using F-22; F-35 raptor...in just one night there will be no space in the mortuary to contain dead bodies not to talk the damage wreck on infrastructure and building. Sometimes I just laugh when you people talk.

dapadawee:
Not only obidient even we the batism disagree with you.
No force can unseat Tinubu

That force can threaten Tinubu and push him off in a free and fair election except otherwise but Obi will not want to come 2nd,that's the problem, he would have used the vice president position to gather and gain momentum for the future president he seeks.

lailo:
Why not since 1960 abi na 1999 dem create Nigeria? Dem think say dem clever. Iboes have produced presidents two times and vice president once. No region lagging behind.
Kiss the banga

That's how you people fail exam ....INSTRUCTION: Answer question ONE and and any other 3 ....and you have 6 questions in total ..you went ahead ignoring question one and Answered 4 from the remaining 5 thinking you are smart cos they are all questions.

They said SINCE 1999..stick to the narrative stop the confusion.

Lovenorth:
All the prophets of God had beards including Jesus

Not really about a Christian or beards ,but a liberal leader..some who is liberal in thoughts...freedom in dressing, Association, marriage e.t.c not coerced or someone who wants to cage her citizens dictating every move they make from Islamist/ religious point of view.

udemzyudex:
In the end,only the people of Iran can decide that.
If they really want a regime change or not .

They Do want a regime change just that they are too afraid to voice it out especially their women for fear of been killed. Most of thier women want to be like western women having some degree of freedom. They cant even go to the bitch like down facing the sun wearing bikini.

In this 21st century everyone wants freedom .

Gerrard59:
I am genuinely curious, what do you have against financially struggling men? We know the state of the Nigerian economy for the past decade, and also the level of insecurity. Why antagonise these men simply because of their economic conditions? No one likes being poor or broke or struggling financially. Most men don't like it. So why deride and mock them with that?

let me tell you Gerrard..She came from a broke home and got a well to do man through social media/Rls whatever and felt the world is now beneath her feet now, not all broke girls reason like that though I must confess but most, they think men owe them or are designed to make their lives better. It's a cancer eating most broke girls. This is the reason why most of them LovePeddler around in a bid to attract well to do men.

Furthermore, given their wrapped mindset they see life as competition, her earlier write up gave her out talking down on other women who didnt follow her way of loving men by marrying "church brothers" seeing them as failures..to her abundancy of money is the only definition of success and since those women dont have it in abundance with their marriage to one "kunle church brother" they are failures cos they ask her for loan and their children wishing her happy new month a decoy for begging. I bet i can see the picture were she will be sitting down with her same fellow thinking cohorts laughing at them when such message hit her phone ...,not knowing life is never linear...Not knowing life is in phases men are in sizes..forgetting change is the only constant thing in life,..if you are sharp you will notice in her write up harsh tone and bragging.

Most Humble women are rich mens daughters ( even though not all ),they may be spoilt brat but deep down they are humble ... I have met many, A former Nigerian football star who played alongside Mikel obi ( wont mention names here) younger sister was my girlfriend humble to the bone even though wealth surrounded her. That's why men are afraid to empower women from broke homes, cos once they rise that hidden demon inside them comes out and they forget their brothers were once among the struggling men,and all they do everyday is hurl insult on struggling men forgetting the fact that who nu get today fit get tomorrow and vice versa na God get life.

In conclusion if Men were God, hmmmm enough said.