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HellVictorinho6:
The worst u can do is attack me 4 making that statement

Demigod22:
The departure from poverty to wealth is not always pure, the man who desire to divorce poverty and embrace wealth, has to do so many things that the righteous man will consider unholy.

Game of Thrones.

Wealth comes with responsibilities, and responsibility comes with sacrifice. The wealthiest in the society doesn't prioritize heaven. They know they have to do impure sacrifices.


Government, Military, Monarch, Feudal. No part of the world that wealth accompany righteousness. Even Solomon have to abandon his God as the wealth came. You can't be righteous and be wealthy.

Even the Church have to sell propaganda in order to make money.

UniQue84:
@ the bolded exactly it will be a lifetime mistake that you cannot wake from....she was also staying in the house so paying the house rent is not a big deal..BTW have you ever thought were she got the money from ...if you hardnt caught her cheating she will still be doing it comedy.

Take my advice and send that woman packing and a break from the rls.from your age I am your senior and almost 40 I have seen life bro

Nwatulee:
Thanks y'all for your contribution really do appreciate .. Most time I feel guilty because 2 years i was down financially.... she held me real tight.. She paid almost all home expenses excluding my house rent (never by God's grace will my spouse pay rent) after I got scammed I was depressed almost 2 years she did everything even upkeep money and outings she sorted all bills.. Now am back on my feet I actually have done my best for her like I use to do... Her recent actions these days is what I don't understand.... Is it the outings night life? hell yes I can testify and beat my chest when I met her am not a night life person.. But when I actually saw maybe it's her kinda of life.. I did my best on all outings and vacations we go.. All trips and hotel food and everything on me.. Her personal monthly allowance na me.. Like wetin this girl still dey find outside.. At 26 years old? ... Is she not tired?.. [\b]God help me so I don't make a life time mistake that will lead me to early grave Amen.[b]. I think I will just move on it's hard but this will pass.. Thanks again y'all

donforeign:
I use livetv.ru/en but right now, am currently using an app on my PC ..

SmellySperm:
True love. I can do this for my Nigerian gf too. then another man will continue from where i stopped.

Edugist4u:
Now I see why Africa is still backward. Look at how citizen of Nigeria are typing rubbish. Busy saying what they don't know. Now I know why people always say most people here are children who don't know anything. I never knew politics section is worse than romance section here on nairaland. Most of you really need to educate yourself like seriously speaking.

KingSatan:
When I married my wife, there was nothing like "Sharing bills" but believe me she was also doing her own part to keep the family going.

Along the line, she adapted and started contributing financially too. Most especially when our children were to attend college.

Today we are retired but I still run some businesses to keep the family going and keep me busy.

As for the other lady in my post, she was telling me that "She won't kneel or change her husband's surname after marriage. She boldly called herself a feminist".

I laughed and schooled her on the contents of true Feminism.

This person doesn't know anything about our history as Africans.

The history behind African Traditional Marriage.

She doesn't even know that what we call "White wedding is not applicable to us as Africans as it is also a traditional marriage ceremony for Brits, Americans etc. It was adopted as part of the marriage rites by enthusiastic Africans who I believe lost their identity due to colonialism. So anything Western was best as it promotes class dichotomies etc.

She has no money to sponsor the wedding.

She still believes that a man should pay a "Bride Price" for her. That's against the values of true Feminism.

Because Europeans, Americans and Brits don't pay a Dowry for their spouses.

Ningen:
You pressured her to give you a reason for the break-up and she had no choice but to conjure something up to fill the gap. That's what I think.

If I am to guess why, I believe she is probably in love with another man and she wants to be with that person but cannot tell you this to your face.

bukatyne:
Nothing beats that silent operation ever.

Fountainofyouth:
What is the significance of changing to husband's name? Give a valid reason.

Offpoint:
How about I text you my whatsapp contact on the number in your signature?
I can't drop my number in this section, too many

MadeINchenzen2:
is that all?¿