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Davidson and Lucy have been close friends for years. They are in love, but they could not express their feelings to each other.

Davidson realized that the reason he was afraid to be in a relationship was because he had no idea how to take care of himself around others. He was completely losing himself in an important relationship. He realized that if he could not speak up for himself with Lucy, how could he ever speak up and take loving action for himself with a woman he was in love with? He realized that he would continue to feel lonely, anxious, inadequate and depressed until he learned to take loving action for himself.

Many people suffer daily from anxiety, depression, stress, and anger as well as from feelings of guilt, shame and inadequacy. The major cause of these feelings is a lack of loving action in their own behalf.

LOVING ACTIONS

Loving actions are those actions that attend to your one’s needs. When you take loving action, you are letting yourself know that you matter, you are important, you count. When you fail to take loving actions, you give yourself the message that you are not important, which leads to feelings of depression and inadequacy.

Loving actions include:

· Eating nutritious foods, getting rid of junk foods and sugar, eating when hungry and quitting when full.

· Getting enough exercise.

· Keeping your work and home environments clean and organized.

· Getting enough sleep.

· Creating a balance between work and play. Making sure you have time to get your work done, as well as time to do nothing, reflect, learn, play and create.

· Creating a good support system of people who love and care about you.

· Being organized with your time, getting places on time, paying bills on time, and so on.

· Choosing to be compassionate with yourself rather than judgmental toward yourself.

· Creating a balance between time for yourself and time with others.

· Making sure you are physically safe by wearing a seat belt in a car, a helmet on a motorcycle, scooter, or bike, goggles when necessary, and so on.

As a result of learning to take better care of himself alone and with others, Davidson no longer felt depressed and inadequate. He gradually lost his fears of being in a relationship and is delighted to be meeting the available woman.

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Faith is one of the biggest assets. Most of us have faith in God. That means that we always believe that god will help us whenever we call on him. That God will be always support us. That god loves us and wants us to grow. God will never leave us alone. This faith is the greatest strengths of many of us. What about your partner? Do you have this kind of faith in him/her?

Many will answer that I have that faith in my partner. That is good. At least they have that faith. Many of you will not be sure about the answer and quite many know that they cannot have faith in their partner. Does your partner have faith in you? Why don't you ask this question and find out the answer? Please ask him/her - Darling, suppose I have someone else in my life for a short time and then come to you and confess will our relations remain the same? Will you forgive me and forget what I did and accept me? Will we be together as we are today? The answer may differ from person to person, but you will rarely find a partner who accepts this.

As you broke his/her faith, how can you expect that their faith will remain intact? That you can expect them to support you after you betray them? That sounds difficult. Faith does not work that simply. Faith works on commitment. If you are committed to your partner and if your partner is a reliable person of integrity, you may have faith in him/her to a certain extent. To say that my partner will always be with me under all circumstances is difficult to say. Only few are lucky to have such partners.

What should we do? Draw an agreement verbally. Commit yourself fully and ask your partner to have faith in you always. Ask him/her to commit that you can have the same faith in them. Give proofs from time to time and you will win unshakeable faith of your partner. Once you have that faith, you will feel a great sense of relief because you are sure that your partner will never leave you.



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What is love? What is attraction? Why do we love someone? Why do we say that we love someone? This is all because love is becoming a common word to be used for all kinds of attachments and relationships. Have you quizzed yourself about how much looks matter to you in love?

Will you love an ugly looking person even if she/he has every other quality in plenty? Or you will accept somebody better looking but missing in some qualities? What if you are told that the best looking person of the opposite sex has fallen for you and wants love in return? When you develop relationship, you find that person missing in many essential qualities and values that you respect. What will you do?

Quiz yourself about your relationships. Many of the relationships break because we are attracted by looks but as we get closer we find the other person difficult and break the relationship. It happens with most of us. We all go for looks in the beginning. Very rarely, we give points for other qualities in a logical manner. We look at a attractive person and say-I am in love. Quiz yourself and you will realize why many of your relationships broke? We may deny that. But the main attraction is always great looks. Quiz yourself about this and probably you will come to know more about what are your priorities in relationships and love.

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keep on trying is the secret to achieve anything in life. Every successful person you know today has a painful story to share. They didn’t give up on their way up. They continue to work on their dream. There is probably no better example of persistence than the story of Abraham Lincoln.

He failed in business at 21, lost a legislative race at age 22, failed in business again at 24 and lost a congressional race when he was 34. At 45 he lost a senatorial race. And he failed in an attempt to become Vice President when he was 47. But he was finally elected President of the United States at age 52.

Lincoln never quit. He could have given up after several attempts but pursued his ambition to assume the highest office in America. There is no substitute for persistence. As long as you are still actively trying after every failure, you have not failed yet.

So dear friends and family, don’t give up on the way. If you give up, all your effort to achieve your dream will be wasted.

Your progress now depends on your decision to try knowing that you will overcome your failures and rise above them.

YOUR failure now; See it as a challenge, you have all it takes to win. You will surely win.

Hope to see you at the top soon. Thanks for reading

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there is no such thing as A) being lucky in marriage because marriage is not a gamble, it s a COMMITMENT! if you are not willing to commit and make sacrifices, then obviously marriage aint for you (and you should stay the hell out of it) or B) clicking on no damn link....both are nonsense!!!

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Nollywood A-list actress Faithia Williams, formerly addressed as Faithia Balogun, has revealed the reason her marriage with actor Saidi Balogun crashed.

The actress, whose marriage to the actor was her second, said she is unlucky with marriage.

In a latest interview with Broadway TV Africa, the mother of two said her failed marriage is the biggest ‘downs’ of her life.

Her words: “I’ve gone through a lot of downs but the biggest one i’ll say that took my feet will be when my marriage crashed.”

The actress, however, revealed that she is not officially divorced from her ex-husband as the case is still pending in court.

She also said she is still very good friends with him, since they have two wonderful children together.

Talking about the curious question of why she changed her name from the popular Balogun to Williams, the actress said it had to do with rebranding.

And on the possibility of reconciling with him, she said “I don’t know.”


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You can't stop loving or wanting to love because when its right it's the best thing in the world. When you're in a relationship and its good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete. -Keith Sweat

Type Yes if you agree

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You are a good friend and you enjoy your friendship. One day you find that you have begun having different feelings for your friend. You like him/her more than a friend and you are developing romantic love. What should you do?
You want to tell your friend about your feelings but you are scared of losing your friendship.
You continue thinking about that and the more you think the more you get confused. The facts is that, emotions are like that.
After lot of deliberation, you have decided that the feelings of love are true. Should you tell your friend? What if he/she does not reciprocate? What will happen to the friendship?
MY ADVICE
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World’s smallest and shortest woman according to the Guinness World Book of Records, Jyoti Amge is now finally married to the love of her life and the man she is willing to spend the rest of her life with in the holy matrimony.

Jyoti Amge born 16 December 1993 and she is an Indian woman notable for being the world’s smallest living woman according to Guinness World Records.

Following Amge’s 18th birthday on December 21, 2011, she was officially declared the world’s smallest woman by Guinness World Records with a height of 62.8 Centimeters (2 ft 0.6 in). Her restricted height is due to a growth abnormality called achondroplasia.

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Knowing what you want is as important as knowing how to get it and in what proportion.

100% true. Thanks for your comment

If you had heated argument with your partner and you are still feeling angry, You yourself know that if you could only apologize, things could move on, but you just can't let go of your anger. The fact remains that there should be love of attraction in your relation and your partner should be seen as someone who can reduce stress of life on you and be there to make you happy.
Remember, YOU are responsible for your own happiness.
Your partner doesn't have the power to MAKE you angry or sad-no one can MAKE you feel any way except Y-O-U!
You have a CHOICE about how you react to what your partner does, right?

Source:http://www.365inspirationfm.com/2017/08/say-no-to-anger-and-create-joy-in-your.html

Rationally, you know this to be true, but why is it that you cannot control your emotions? Why is that you are allowing sadness to rule over your relationship? You relationship should be a thing of joy, happiness and blessing.
If you feel YOU don’t want to be seen as someone who is defected by saying SORRY, a little touch on your partner can resolve all the whole issues. Please do that and let happiness reign in all your relation areas starting from your spouses, parents, children or friends-and create joy with fullness in your relationships.
Thanks for reading and please apply it today!

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If you had heated argument with your partner and you are still feeling angry, You yourself know that if you could only apologize, things could move on, but you just can't let go of your anger. The fact remains that there should be love of attraction in your relation and your partner should be seen as someone who can reduce stress of life on you and be there to make you happy.
Remember, YOU are responsible for your own happiness.
Your partner doesn't have the power to MAKE you angry or sad-no one can MAKE you feel any way except Y-O-U!
You have a CHOICE about how you react to what your partner does, right?

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Rationally, you know this to be true, but why is it that you cannot control your emotions? Why is that you are allowing sadness to rule over your relationship? You relationship should be a thing of joy, happiness and blessing.
If you feel YOU don’t want to be seen as someone who is defected by saying SORRY, a little touch on your partner can resolve all the whole issues. Please do that and let happiness reign in all your relation areas starting from your spouses, parents, children or friends-and create joy with fullness in your relationships.
Thanks for reading and please apply it today!

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Some people believe that your destiny will bring you to your soul mate like a magnet pulls metal. Unfortunately, there is no formula for finding your soulmate. The most important things is preparation to recognize that special person when you meet him or her.

For this, you must prepare to trust within yourself so that you can accept everyone you meet without judgments or fear and treat every individual as a potential soul mate, by then you will eventually find the one that you are looking for.

If you can learn to love unconditionally and accept the people that God sends to you everyday, you will find your soul mate without any doubt.

But in my conclusion, you need to love yourself, love the life you are living, love everybody you meet everyday without fear and pray to God to connect you to the right person for you. Thanks for reading.

Wishing You Best Of Luck

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We all know that approaching woman isn't easy. It
can be embarrassing and downright difficult. But,
if you know what you are doing and have faith in
your own forces you can get the one you like.

Impressing a woman is not an easy task,
especially if you don’t have a lot of experience
with females. There are many components that go
into impressing a woman.

If you want to learn how to impress a girl, then
you should do your best to be positive. Keep in
mind that smiles and jokes are great bonding
mechanisms that you can use to impress a girl.

There is a charm and seductive attraction that
some guys have, so they have the girl they
want. This magnet is called charisma, and it is
very important if you want to attract the woman
of your life. But, if this is a problem for you,
you must try some tricks to pick-up the woman you

want.

Use some magic tricks to attract her. You are
seeing her every day and you don't have the
courage to talk to her. First of all, relax. One
of the biggest turnoffs for women is a guy who’s
uptight. Just relax and you’ll be fine. After you
start talking with her use some magic tricks to
impress her and attract her. You may say that you
are good at magick and you are offering to guess
her future by reading her hand. She'll definitely
laugh but if she's ok with this you may tell her
that she will have a glorious future.

Don't forget to make her laugh. Laughter is all
you need to attract women easily and quickly. If
you are able to make her laugh any time and any
places it will be easier to you to get the woman
you are looking after for some long time.

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I have discovered five major relationship killers:

CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR
Most people enter a relationship with a deep fear of rejection, and this fear motivates various forms of controlling behavior. Controlling behavior falls into two major categories – overt control and covert control.

Overt control includes many forms of attack, such as blaming anger, rage, violence, judgment, criticism and ridicule.

Covert control includes compliance, enabling, withdrawal, defending, explaining, lying and denying. Often a person at the other end of attack will respond with some form of covert control in an attempt to have control over not being attacked.

Controlling behavior always results in resentment and emotional distance, bringing about the very rejection that it is meant to avoid.

RESISTANCE
Many people enter a relationship with a deep fear of being engulfed and controlled – of losing themselves. The moment they experience their partner wanting control over them, they respond with resistance – withdrawal, unconsciousness, numbness, forgetfulness, and procrastination.

When one partner is controlling and the other is resistant – which is really an attempt to have control over not being controlled - the relationship becomes immobilized. Partners in this relationship system feel frustrated, stagnant, and resentful.

NEEDINESS
Many people enter a relationship believing that it is their partner’s job to fill their emptiness, take away their aloneness, and make them feel good about themselves. When people have not learned how to take responsibility for their own feelings and needs, and to define their own self-worth, they may pull on their partner and others to fill them with the love they need.

SUBSTANCE AND PROCESS ADDICTIONS
Most people who feel empty inside turn to substance and process addictions in an attempt to fill their emptiness and take away the pain of their aloneness and loneliness. Alcohol and drug abuse, food, spending, gambling, busyness, Internet sex and pornography, affairs, work, TV, accumulating things, beautifying, and so on, can all be used as ways to fill emptiness and avoid fears of failure, inadequacy, rejection and engulfment. And they are all ways of shutting out your partner.

EYES ON PARTNER'S PLATE
Many people are acutely aware of what their partner is doing that is causing relationship problems, but completely unaware of what they are doing. For example, you might be very aware of your partner’s resistance or withdrawal, but totally unaware of your own judgmental behavior. You might be very aware of your partner’s anger, but completely unaware of your own compliance. You might be very aware of your partner’s addictive behavior, but very unaware of your own enabling. As long as your eyes are on your partner instead of on yourself, you will continue to believe that if only your partner changed, everything would be okay.

RESOLVING RELATIONSHIP KILLERS
All relationship killers come from fear – of inadequacy, of failure, of rejection and of engulfment. As long as you are coming from any of these fears, you will be behaving in one or more of the above ways.

The way out is to develop a loving adult self who knows how to take full responsibility for your own feelings and needs. You will move beyond controlling, needy and addictive behavior only when you learn how to fill your self with love and define your own inner worth. When you are willing to take your eyes off your partner’s plate and turn your eyes fully on yourself, you can begin to do the inner healing work necessary to heal yourself and your relationship.


A good place to start is to download our free Inner Bonding course and begin to practice the Six Steps of Inner Bonding. The daily practice of these steps will move you out of your addictive and controlling behavior and into the personal responsibility necessary to heal your relationship.

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Most people understand how difficult it can be to balance their work and home lives once they get married and have children. Somehow it seems that work life or home life is always encroaching on the other and causing problems at work, at home, and many times both. However the following five tips are great options to help with balancing work and home.

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It a choice, every message is for someone out there, not for everybody in life

A person’s wedding is one of the most memorable, important, and high points in an individual’s life. At a time when a man and a woman want to make the ultimate commitment to spend the rest of their lives together, the desire to have personalized vows is certainly understandable. This is one of the most unique and special days in a person’s life, so if you want to speak your own personal wedding vows, than by all means, you should go for it!

Writing your own vows can be intimidating. Wedding days always add pressure to even the most mundane of tasks, and certainly writing the vows you want to say to your significant other in front of all your friends and family is no small matter! Still, don’t let fear cause you to go along with some basic commonly used wedding vows if you really want that personalized touch. Just follow a few basic tips, and this will help you be on your way to writing the tips your future spouse deserves!

1. Write from the heart. Your wedding day represents the epitome of love between you and your future spouse. The two of you are together for a reason. Anything you write should be honest and from your heart, because that is what will really make your words special.

2. You don’t have to be Robert Frost or Emily Dickinson. If you are a poet, great. Keep in mind, though, that in the end words are just words. Your wedding vows do not have to be an amazing classic piece of literature—they need to be an honest display of your feelings for the other person. Don’t use long poetical words if all it does is put distance between your words and your feelings.

3. It’s okay to brainstorm. Before you set down to write everything, make a list of the things about your spouse that you absolutely love about your spouse, then make a list of the commitments you want to make. Figure out what parts of those lists you really want to include (keep in mind the vows are read in front of families and friends) and keep those.

4. Short and Sweet. It doesn’t take many words or a lot of time to make your heart known to everyone present. A lot can be said in a really short time, so don’t feel like you have to make the vows any longer than they naturally come out.

Follow these four tips, and you’ll find yourself getting over your worries to write some great wedding vows that your spouse will love!

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