People truly write rubbish online.Please do not believe all you read online. I live abroad and the biggest reason women leave men is because of:
1. Men still want to be cheating the same way as back home.
2. Men dont want to help out at home cause they still feel like alpha but they forget there is no house help.
3. The most common, is men leave women to pay all the bills at home as they are too proud to do small jobs before the big jobs cone.

I have lived in uk and now canada, the issue is Nigerian women have made it difficult for young eligible men to approach them. The solution is being more extroverted, i am sure your routine is home-work-church and mall. This doesnt help when trying to meet new people. even if you are abit introverted, try and create activities for yourself that promote interactions with others and do not limit yourself to only nigerians. Good luck n hope this helps.

I am happy you took out time to address this as many married n unmarried people dont understand what a man goes through before his decision.
I know you are justified at your actions but remember this woman still takes care of the children you love.
Just forgive and try to settle the matter for your childrens sake .

Please delete this thread it shows your immaturity.

Jesus Christ can save you.

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why the comparism, please show some respect.

hope this isnt late and u can read this: what you are going thru is normal in marriage. Love feels different from innitial lust when dating. As regards ur hormones, its also normal but I guess ur husband doesnt understand his responsibility to please his woman. I advice you get a vibrator and let him know u guys need to spice up ur sex llife cause its very important in marriage. if he refuse then go ahead and get one and hide it, better have a little secret than adultery. good luck.

Because of you I joined this forum, stop taking advice from single guys who don't know what life n marriage is all about.
That girl is Gold ,if you don't take her some other guy will. he without sin let them cast the first stone.

how many girls have u slept with.
without using condoms have many babies would you have had by now. and
how many abortions will u have had to do if not for condoms.
she ticks all the wife material boxes forget her past cos we all have one.
Go look for a married friend who has a happy home and ask for advice in confidence.