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ambivert27:
How do you intend to do this?

Orgasmgiver123:
Hehehe
Same thing raymond itebori aka instagage told me before he scammed me of my previous 800 naira

Peter532:
I fit do am #1800...
Please come buy quote me if needed

Tokskob2008:
Lol....
You shouldn't have gone too far by asking where will our ancestors go to rather ask where will the other people practicing other religions go to. A lot of religion are scattered around and they all belief theirs is the only true way so what will happen to the other supposed "wrong belief's "

Just last week a pastor asked all the youths in his church to fast,pray and must also be indoors for a day because he "saw something bad" happening to the youths of this country and I ask myself what happens to the almost 100million youths left in this country that aren't his members? Does that mean it's only the barely over 100 youths in his congregation that will be saved while the rest face the "something bad" he foresaw

advanceDNA:
U go like vawulence....lol...
The person u mentioned is trying to explain to you bur its like u have you own violence narative

uthlaw:
Every century with is prophet, the like of Noah, Moses,Abraham and others are all prophets that was sent to there disciples!

tomtomastom4:
E no easy brotherly. But am happy I have an understanding wife. She always tell me not to bow to pressure from anything or any one. If na one cloth I dey wear go wrk, as long as the cloth is neat, make I no send anybody.

I believe after birth, once shes up and doing, she will get a job to do to support our finance.

tomtomastom4:
I created this thread in response to the post on front page about ladies that date men who earn less than 100k. Below is the link.

https://www.nairaland.com/7292274/ladies-relationship-men-earns-100k

Of a truth, its not easy to manage such amount, but when one is already in such situation, you just have to manage and improvise.
Now like the OP of the above thread requested, here is the break down of how we make our expenses.

To start with, I was earning about 130k previously before we got married by March this year, but I changed job and the pay of the new job is 95k. STarted the new job around Feb this year, even though there was a loan I was paying off.. Need I add that my wife was working in a firm where shes paid 45K, but two months after our married, she quit the job due to pregnancy stress. Am sure ladies will understand.

This is our break down.
Monthly salary 95k
I remove 40k first from the salary and transfer it to 3 different acct.
The first acct receives 20k. This acct is not touchable except on extreme emergency. Its our main savings acct.
The second acct gets 10k and its for our rent, also non touchable. Rent is 150k per year. Before u say my rent is high compared to my salary, I like my privacy very well. and the cost of rent isnt friendly in my state.
The third acct also gets 10k. This one is for semi savings. This acct is touchable when cash at hand have been exhausted before the next month salary.

From the remaining 50k,
I send 10k to my family acct. I and my brothers do contribute 10k+ every month and its been used to run expenses WRT our parents and last born.
I gv my wife 10k for her monthly up keep. Its small. But its the sacrifice we all have to make for the good of the family.
I hold 10k myself for logistics and transport. I must confess, is not enough. But One have to strive. My wrk place isnt far. SO transport is N100 to and fro, thats approximately 3k per month. The remaining money i use it for other logistics. 4k out of this money goes for gas wch last for abt 2 weeks. And when we want to refill and there is no other money left, we fall back to the 3rd acct.
The remaining 20k is strictly for food ( On this food issue is where I "duff my hart" cos shes really managing things well and trying.
Sometimes, I really feel for her, cos this her pregnancy makes her to crave for things that is not on our food menu, but then when the money is not there, she just surpress the cravings. At times I feel bad.

The remaining 5k, for now is used to pay back a tailor who sewed multiple pregnancy gowns for my wife.

Its good to add that any small money I make like 1k or 2k on side hustle, I directly buy mudu of rice, beans or flour for swallow.

Its not easy at all. But there are families with kids leaving below that.

My wife is abt 5mnths pregnant, we plan to divert the 20k savings to buying baby things in preparation for child birth.


The truth is that the economic situation in this country is bad and so cost of leaving is very high. But then one have to survive.
But then in Nigeria now, how many percentage of the population earn above 100k. In fact how many jobs out there pays such as amount.

The only advice I have for ladies is that if you are not working and you parent family is the type need financial help from your husband after marriage, or you are the type of lady that is high class and wont settle for less or manage with your man. Plz kindly wait and take your time to look for a man that is RICH or financially capable of taken care of you and maybe your family. Please dont hide under the cover of you want to marry quick and then accept a struggling man only to start putting pressure on his head. Plz wait and marry a rich man.

Most responsible men wont really appreciate it if you are always demanding for things you knw fully well that he can not afford.


It is also good to note that no condition is permanent, things will definitely get better. A better job might come or my wife might get a job after her maternity which will increase our income.

The bottom line is, as a couple, but of you will have to work things out to improve your finances.

Unyimekelvin:
I have calculated My losts on betting starting from 2016 till dates...

It's something I'm not proud to say but hmmm
Just speechless on this ...

I have lost a total some of five million eight hundred thousand!!..in they space of those years,now my very own question is has anyone ever made out through betting,or is that I'm not destined to get Rich through this??

I was introduced into this by friend when I was financially incapable of paying for My exam..

He won 500k,and gave me 200k to sorts out Myself fast forward when I was done sortin out my problem.
I asked him to show me, how its been done;he did and I won 50k at first then boom i started loosing .....
.

Sometimes i always think of going to the army barracks and tell one of the soldier to beat till i bleed to check if I stopped could betting...i go into virtual games and sport betting, advice need on you all,get off this shit.,.. already posted this some hours ago somewhere but cos it's disturbing that's why I decided to open thi thread again..

So if you have an ideas on how to stop this, go ahead and tell me And also recommend a good paying skills for me that i can learn that's pays very well...cos I'm Lost..
...

Betting kills,wreck, suffocate, frustrate,sabotage, licked someone's future without any compassion...

Thanks for your opinions..

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Bankright:
I want to join you in making the money. Show me the way.

macphilip:
Is there a way you can buy your canada property, move with your family, while still being able to rely on your employees
to run your business in Nigeria. while you monitor them from abroad

Haakeem:
Let us know the type of business first.

Saintdan0421:
Have 2 facebook accounts for sale but I aren't doing no Nin shit. U in?

Hacks4dummies:
nai good for you :Dwhen you were doing the guy who trusts so much.. at the detriment of your sim you didn't inform us.


Ogbeni enjoy the attention jare. Next time you go get sense. Upon everything she still cheated on you. The irony.

ChukyT:
Good evening nairalanders, sorry to bother you but I really need your kind suggestions

I am a sickle cell patient in my mid twenties, I studied accounting , I haven't been able to secure a job and have been teaching after my NYSC in 2020,the salary barely feeds, I don't see a future in that profession and I need a change.

I need suggestions on a skill I can acquire that wouldn't require much energy exertion and physical strength that is quite lucrative and can make me financially independent.

Your kind suggestions would be much appreciated

ecomalchemist:
Powerbank business