₦airaland Forum

heysquare:
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You people need to understand the science of politics because politics especially in this part of the world has no permanent friends or brothers in fact doesn't know father. This reminds me the case of Bukola Saraki family, If you can remember what Bukola Saraki did to his father and sister because of politics. Nigeria politics is all about what have to offer. The politics is if you can't get it you gerraout!

Where is Saraki today?

Use your head.

lionphil:
Caption is misleading, she isn't your wife yet. If someone else comes to marry her with that pregnancy, the baby becomes his. You better go and pay her dowry

Imagine his confidence to feel bad even after getting someone's child pregnant. The only thing which concerns him is his knacking rights.

Baronthecelebri:
God punish you,is she a virgin

Probably another yoruba person. We know them by the unprovoked insults they throw.

stainzvill:
You dey call person wey u never marry ur WIFE? You dey OK so?

It's shocking really. Someone that should be praying for forgiveness because he has got the girl, her family and friends in a situation of confusion is here asking of his conjugal rights on a girl he has not even paid her bride price?

What's this world turning to?

Nonexisting:
Two people had sex and it resulted in pregnancy is totally different from getting a girl pregnant. No girl today gets pregnant without wanting to. Please stop the blame game already.

Oga you didn't answer my question.

Do you support girls getting pregnant before marriage?

Wole is right on this one, have you ever seen natives worshipping Amadioha, Kamanu or Ozuzu before. They really rend their hearts and enjoy the worship of their ancestors.

angelboy01:
The pregnancy is probably not yours. See women give men signs, that's what we call the red flag. As an OT man and an intelligent man you should always use your 36 and not let love or any women becloud your sense.

I think you have a point there with the pregnancy not being his. It's possible.

But the right way to marry is to see a girl you like, prepare yourself to marry her, marry her and take her to your house. Full stop.

Any other waiting game is allowing the devil to step in between you and her, and this kind of thread will happen and people will start advising you and here from different quarters.

Nonexisting:
Guy, stop capping rubbish here. Did she not enjoy the sex? Why must you say he just got her pregnant like there was no consent? Nigga has done introduction and was doing everything to complete the process but life happened. Everyone knows how this country is now. What has she done to support the marriage process or she is just waiting for the guy to steal from bank to marry her. This is 2024, everyone should wake. If their plans failed due to unforseen circumstances, life must go on. If her man makes advances, she should at least give him reason for turning him down, not giving him cold treatment. Stop supporting nonsense

So you support getting a girl pregnant before marrying her?

Starboytwo:
Omo me I no fit gree oooo...

It's not like the pregnancy will turn twins if I enter again.

Honestly, I will start thinking this babe na bad market...

You too the husband. You nor get work, still give am belle, still Wan Top-up. Wahrah ni eeh.


God will provide a good paying work, I want you to marry that girl and live happily ever after.. We need healthy kids for this our country.

Couldn't stop laughing at the bold.

MightySparrow:
After impregnating her, what else do you want?

You wanna dig borehole in her hmmm?ou


Jokes apart, the family could be responsible for that.
If to say you have the finances, you should convince her and take her to your house.

Very reasonable comnent.

What do you expect before, if the people in Abuja doesn't destroy Rivers state and make it worse than Imo which they destroyed too, wike will not rest.

Force every market woman to pay #5,000 per day to the iyaloja general of the federation, whether she sold anything or not.

Place a toll on every road and street, and forcefully collect #3,000 from every driver, #1,000 from every pedestrian whenever they pass, no matter how many times a day.

advanceDNA:
The question u should always ask is what if a man loses his job inside the marriage?? Is this not the same thing that will happen??.

Out of all the places you quoted, this is the only place that makes a little sense.

My response?

You cannot compare a marriage to a boyfriend /girlfriend situation, especially where the interest of the girl has been placed on hold after pregnancy without any definite timeliness of when to make things right.

A Lagos without these new influx of neighboring states people who invaded it and introduced tribalism as a means to getting money in Lagos.

Cruzmaster:
You lie bro. Am in that place too. As an Igbo man, they sold 1450 to me and few other Igbos there. Mama Rasheedet bought her own 250 😆 she was even given one gallon for free. She didn't trek nor cry. Tinubu sent special jet to pick her up and gave her presidential treatment for voting him 😆😆😆 Igbos and b
Peter Obi is learning in hard way

We will teach Shinedu a political lesson, see where it has landed us

advanceDNA:
There is no issue here other than the lady is weaponizing sex......if I were him I won't get married to such lady.....any lady that can stay without sex for months is going to problem in marriage.......

That's your conclusion, I can also conclude that the guy weaponized ma rriage. Why must he wait to get her pregnant before making attempt to marry her?

Haven't you heard of guys who married their fiancées without needing to get them pregnant?

advanceDNA:
That's what will happen.... She's already doing it now.....

This is not right guys, the way we make a demon out our women is not good enough. This is a guy that picked a girl and got her pregnant. Am sure no decent girl will allow that if she is not expecting to be married off properly.

Now the story changed, work no dey again and it's not this girls direct fault. We don't know what she is going through with her family, and the priority of my guy is to knack her because she visited. Girls take too much rubbish from us o.

My guy should man up and get something doing, even if its enough to pay only the bride price, take her home and then take care of the new family, with her help of course.

advanceDNA:
Nor be penis she collect carry the belle?? She ddnt know she was not married before??

The guy is in for a bad ride....that's how she will be weaponizing sex after marriage... If u check well now... somebody else fit they enter the place....

Yes she collect to get the belle, and she said she no dey collect again, end of story.

You are not seeing this with the real issue it is. The OP didn't plan well, he gave her the belle, and should take up the responsibility immediately. Romance na kick and follow football game, that gap he gave have started causing problems, and that's why I advised him not to prioritise knacking, but doing the needful to take her home permanently. If he has to borrow, or change work, or anything, don't leave your woman outside and still hope to retain your control.

No, it's Peter Obi

Imagine my disappointment when he didn't blame Peter Obi as the cause of his mental illness. 😳

Bottom line is, fuel is selling for #1450, no motorist will ask you who increased it, no filling station will answer you even if you ask.

Reno O'monkey is just distracting the masses as usual, even at #7,500 per litre, pay reno omonkey a few change and he will write an article to support that price, even as people are falling and dying of hunger in his village. A very heartless person.

theophorus:
Zeal0000007
Are you sure that Pregnancy is 3Months or More?

I will encourage you check your time line with her and be sure that you're the real Father of that Baby.

Someone who really Love you cannot be doing like that and asking if she is... But sha I pray make your Hustle Pay so that you can Prepare adequately for the Baby's arrival but Abeg, check your Timeline with Her and do scan to calculate say you be the legit Father ooo.

Cos this wen una never enter Marriage wen she don dey Bulaba so ehn.

Nice point.

PerfectStranger:
Are you in her mind to know its coz of present circumstances?

Are you in her mind to know its NOT present circumstances?

PerfectStranger:
No problems, until after full marital rites she still remains adamant.

The OP never said she was refusing initially, this is as a result of present circumstances.

This political ignoramus should shut his dirty trap.

Was it not your irresponsibility that made you accept to be instigated by the old druggie in 2014 and cause a fight between you and then president Jonathan, your brother, your neighbour, your regional man and you were used to destroy your zone.

Was it not your financial backing that was used to finance the election because the daura drunk and his Lagos sniffer needed you to provide the funds for the elections.

They promised you presidency after the Dundee tenure, and rewarded you with a common transport minister, and then denied your presidential ambition because the bulaba has to take his turn first, now you have been humbled, you are here talking like a mad man.

Enter house o, you are the cause of all these trouble in Rivers state.

The fuel hike is okay, NLC, please don't interfere

Nukilia:
Are you asking about the criminal organization that only organize protest whenever it pleases them.

Now that you are asking about NLC, do not be surprised that 'Protest Merchants' will plan a fake protest in order to quench the fury of the masses

Na them, the paid online miscreants laughing at your hardship because a bulaba is paying them peanuts.

When they were tormenting the NLC chairman, chasing him around, beating him and giving him black eye, arresting him with DSS, seizing his international passport, where you dey?

Henryfocoyo:
That lady fit go starve you sex for marriage o

That's an unfair statement. The girl is reacting to the present situation where the OP has probably not kept his own side of the bargain.

Zeal0000007:
I didn't say I won't pay, it happened d way it happened and I told her to keep it. Afterall na marry we want marry . Paying the dowry and doing d marriage isn't the problem infact it's my topmost priority as soon as I get another contract. Make God help me cos is too early, I can't afford scandals in marriage. This is too early.

Until then, learn how to endure konji, it's a sacrifice. Allow the poor girl bear the shame of carrying belle without a proper marriage in peace.

GOFRONT:
Please where is Tinubu, Come and Increase the fuel price further.

We need d price fixed to N4,500 per Litre. We can still afford it

So much traffic jams in my state capital, we need a higher fuel pump price so that all these miscreants will drop their cars so we can drive in peace. Fuel is still too cheap.

Shinedu has not learnt some political lessons, maybe when fuel reaches #7,500 per litre, he will pass the course