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alexistaiwo:
I actually cried

Shite happens bro. But dont be her bi.tch though cuz you dont to lose her.

SUGARBEE:
Sentiments apart, you need to ignore what she said if you really love her..

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Yes he should. But doubt he will, his insecurity level will be sky high right now.

That was a really mean thing to say. OP kpele

Why is 2007 camry not in the list or 2005 highlander. Juat asking

I doubt any car wash actually wax in naija. Where can i buy wax from?

LA CLICK LA JONSE

Elegantdiva:
very funny Vani. .if u ar a Nig, then u must b from the west

on the contrary i aint from the west, proudly from the east.

why do you think western dudes are very promiscuous?

PunkyVeer:
Lol. Personally, I find it too big. I'm not a fan. But I guess my opinion doesn't matter hey, since I don't see what the big deal with big butts is.

well different strokes for different folks, dont want to sound too sexual but hitting a big ass from the back, damn MA that is a sight to behold, 1 of the wonders of the world

la click la twerk

PunkyVeer:
I was wondering why I couldn't fit through the door, must be the swollen head caused by this thread Jokes aside, this is nothing because to be honest, most foreign ladies are threatened by South African ladies. I'm talking the ones that live in South Africa, btw. Not only Nigerians but Pakistanis, Indians, Ethiopians etc. Their ladies fear that South African females will take their men & in most cases, unfortunately, they do. Too many broken relationships I've seen & personally I blame the men.

I knew this beautiful Ethiopian lady that came with her husband here about 3 years ago. BEAUTIFUL girl. One day she told me about this affair her husband was refusing to end with this South African he was dating. In my mind I thought she must be breathtaking or something, but I was shocked to see that she was, imo, ugly, it's just that she had an amazing body. The Ethiopian lady has since moved to be with her brother in America. She gave up. I was really sad to hear about their breakup because she was a really nice person.

My point being, this is nothing to get big headed about, especially when it is hurtful to someone else. Only a psycho would find joy in the misery of others.

One of the Nigerian guys I know is crazy about the girl below. Men! Smh

Sweetheart that ass is what we are talking about .

Damn thats more like it

kennycanny:
SA babes on this Forum head go dey swell already.
But on a serious note, I have visited and hung out with friends in both SA and UK. If not for papers , Nigerian men ll generally prefer to come back home and pick a wife instead of marrying a British lady. But with SA ladies, you ll realised that love does not cost anything! Nigerian men usually don't even want to date Nigerian babes even residing in SA.

I never dated a nigerian girl in my 6 years in Manchester.

The ones i had something with were nigerian girla that grew up in england.

Elegantdiva:
@ Vani...funny... funny enuff i like men asking me out not boyz..D fact that he is a man makes me hapi.. U sure know abt first love?... He gves me attentionbut not as before .. I i rather brk up wif him than cheat on him.


U said willing man? what could they be after if not your body. God save ur soul if dont av a career. Recently i had a date with a client(office) , d whole discussion centred on clubbing ,partying, point and kill, listing all his cars and lands, etc


@ Sunshine i av never visited him but we planned smtin dis xmas either he visit or i visit

You see dat fish brain we are talking about. So by your thinking every guy that ask you out apart fro. Your south african bf wants your body. My dear keep d body, its not the only body out there.

You picked the wrong client to go on a date with and it centered on clubbing and parties, you therefore generalise that it is all naija MEN are good in.

Sweetheart open your eyes, for your mind your bf have not shagged to his heart content in d 2 years he is in SA.

Just understand the fact say the guy aint celibate, yes he may genuinely love you and what not. But once you understand that fact and have a blind eye to it when he ia back in naija with you.

Then all is well that ends well

andromida:
So for the last 2 yrs you've been crying all night and having sleepless nights because of a man who hardly gives you attention my darling there are so many good men who will be glad to give you attention why oh why have you chained yourself to this man believing you are still in a relationship with him? Leave this man and make yourself available to willing, able and happy men.

You have time to reply her. For 2 years, he is doing his thing rarely talks to her and she thinks she is still in a relationship hahahahahahha.

And to think there is someone who maybe genuine asking her to date but she wi refuse forming girls who their bf are abroad

passionate88:
I am a student of uniport, what those girls do is just heart wrenching. Thursdays and fridays night, you will see them in all shapes and sizes putting on cloths the size of handkerchief waiting for cars either in front of kilimanjaro or sammys... So also in alakahia area. Marriage dey fear me.

Are you for real. Waiting for someone to pick them up?

passionate88:
Have you been to Nigeria? Have you seen the way Nigerian girls treat boys?, the fronting, the greediness, the lies, etc?. 98.5% are just money conscious, very broke ass lazy bitches that can't work without opening their legs.

True true. But when you want to date, go for a working class girl, i am done with students and jobless girls from now on. My ex was a student in uniport, the one before her was working, very comfortable by her own right. Back to d student, one day i sat down and calculated how much i spend on her each month then calculated for the 4 months we have been together . My eyes opened quickly. I have not yet bought a 2nd AC for my flat or a 2nd home theater or water dispencer. Plus her student thinking was getting on my nerves, can you imagine someone using a galaxy S5 just cuz her friend got an iphone 6 she was pestering me to sow a seed of 40k in her life to get an iphone . Me a working dude, saving up to settle down, using an S5 never even think of spending 150k on an iPhone. FOR WHAT.

Nna men, i broke up and went back to my working class matured gf. Who actually tells me off when i spend stupidly

These babes have never been loyal since 1878

[quote author=scribble post=37487740][/quote]Lol. Men have their priorities, girls have theirs.

Win win

QueenEdna:
Getting worried wunt stop him frm STRAYING dear, a Man who wants to cheat wud cheat regardless of how good U̶̲̥̅̊ are in bed, smart or even pretty . Ur concern should be that he returns home in one piece(disease free)

Pull your self together okay n focus on other outlets, be happy aΩ̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ love your man as long as he loves aΩ̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ respects you.


I have come to realise that CHEATING is synonymous to being a Man, sometimes they just wanna be 'adventourous' or its just so complicated U̶̲̥̅̊ gotta keep a level head if U̶̲̥̅̊ wanna mk any progress in d relationship. it doesnt mean they stop loving you but your nagging aΩ̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅ excessive complaints could extinguish the Love. Just avoid gettn confrontational with a man over his philandering ways, rather PRAY about it, im sure twill work. *cheers*

I agree with some of what you said but keeping quiet when your man is after every skirt will merely make things worse. I actually like it when my gf calls me to order when i misbehave, cuz if she dont, i will turn her into a rag and will take her for granted.

Yes we hate unnecessary nagging but if the nagging has a point we actually listen and if we love d girl we do change.

Sunshine2016:
@ Vani and Cassidy, contrary to your insinuations, I'm actually not using sex as a manipulative tool. I have sexual urges myself you know? I'm simply taking my time. I'm not a self righteous, sanctimonious person, I'm simply trying to avoid mistakes of the past and I want to be certain he's the right person for me before taking the next step. Admittedly, the last time we saw which was the day he travelled, he physically tried to have sex but I refused and he asked me why I was withholding sex from him- I explained that I wanted to take things slow. He wasn't angry and has still remained caring but he complained that I gave him " Blueballs" and that he was in pain. For the record, I'm not even sure I believe Blueballs exists. We engage in heavy petting but no intercourse yet so it's not like I'm leaving him hung out and dry.

In any case, having sex with a guy is no guarantee that he will not mess around. I'm sure I'd still have posted this thread even if we had had sex. After all I don't know all the acrobatics in bed and I don't even know how to perform good oral s*x.

Blueballs do exist and it hurts like mad. Witholding sex or having sex do not guarantee a guy or girl wont cheat. But to be honest i dont think witholding sex until you are sure he is d one for you will mean you guys will live happily ever after. At the same time i am not saying you should shag him every chance you get.

Dudes can seriously pretend to be in love for 3 4 5 months just cuz he wants to have sex.

I just dont think you are waiting until you are sure he is d one for you before you have sex is a valid reason. 6 months down the line you give in and he did not enjoy the experience at all, what happens then?

Cassidy9:
now you don't have to shift the blame on the lady..


#'nuff said.

The dude is right, be honest and leave all these self righteous crap.

They have been dating for monthsssss haba now.

Some guys will say she is wicked sef.

I am sure when he comes back, she will wellcome him back with just a thong

Some girls think putting off having sex with guys will make them look wife material to d guy, i laugh in cantonese.

Yes being cheap will make a guy not take you serious, but come on you have been dating for months and not giving your bf some honey. My dear i may love you with all my heart o, but the body is weak and if i am him i will prob get some sugar while in SA to cure my konji, when i come back we will continue with the sex strike.

That is d plain truth. Not trying to give you heart attack but the probability of your bf having casual sex that you said he actually enjoys is 80%

modelmike7:
Where are all these guys selling/advertising cars all over Nairaland when a young lady needs help?!

Camry 2.2. Easily maintained. Plus it is a toyota

valdes00:
In d same situation wif u, bro.... mine is 5yrs, n she dreamt abt d future wif me... hmmmm

Lol bruv. I don't envy you one bit. Be careful if she is planning a future with you when you see non with her.

It will be very messy