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willibounce1:
You don't like to spend your own money but I'm sure it is not the same when it comes to spending another person's money.

During my tertiary institution days I keep my friends money for them n nothing happen to it.

Am an accountant, I keep not only people money I ensure the going concern of the company.

slurryeye:
The attribute you are showing is not strange at all, as a matter of fact it is something that is lacking in western world these days. According to stat, annual household savings in most of these countries are below 5% of total income because almost everything is obtained on credit. Can you see that your saving habit is something many people will kill to have?
The only thing I think you need to work on is feeling bad when you spend your money. I believe a way to solve that problem is to change your outlook to life generally. You don't become rich by saving, you become rich by making the money you saved works for you.

Thank you sooo much.

Stupedinluv:
I think you are either stingy or too busy or just old school

Mostly grannies that have this problem

Your a bit right. Am not a fashion lady.

I have long hair so I hardly fix weavon. I only go to sallon weekly to wash n set my natural hair.

I don't fix nail let alone lip stick. Which kind woman abi self.

My power no dey pass 1000 n it will last for almost a year. I need deliverance ooooo.

When I want to buy things, I can go to marina with 100k n shop once or twice a year.

I derive joy in seeing my alert n money. It is well with me

Jiang:
Your exactly the kind wife I planned to marry, I wouldn't have to worry about designer bag or shoes every week.

If am ugly nko. Hahahaha

Opakan2:
@OP na you be our future Finance minister..

make sure you read your book well o. God has big plans for you

Who will carry me there. Funny you

joey150:
O.p as long as you think it is a problem it basically is...saving money in cash is not the best investment..money looses value. If you said you invested it, then i would understand. If you save more than 65% of your salary for no particular reason it begins to become a problem.

Loosen up a bit. I am quite like you but i invest my cash and not just save it in the bank and watch it depreciate daily. Dont go above 65%.. Spend the rest on yourslef. Obviously there are things you must need if you think deeply.

Am planning going for n biz.

Where will I invest it.

sugarbeesmith:
if you don't spend that money ...someone else will when you gone.

Never. I will reap the fruits of my labour, dear.

Take care.

Flowerlady01:
Pls dont marry a man that likes to spend anyhow o. Every other thing that wise poster up there said, I agree with.
If you marry your complete opposite in money issues, won't it be fight and quarrel everyday? I stand to be corrected.

And I love your saving habit. Highly commendable. Especially for marriage. Its your type that will help your husband build your first house quickly.

Have a plot of land already at ikorudu area. Don't want to work too long, sha.

oloriLFC:
Come to me for deliverance. your life will change

Lol

AkumahTalk:
You'er Frugal...and it's a good thing. I'm frugal as well, I derive Joy in growing money (Save & Invest).

Thanks

IbnIslam:
my question is that do derive joy helping the needy? Do u feel good sharing with others? If no then u r stingy

I do for my parents n siblings.

hazan041:
Just transfer it to someone like me I go spend am for u I think that's d solution

Hahaha, No oooo

lefulefu:
Abeg ladies honest answers

The worth of a man is not in his wealth But the strength of his character.

Qoute from what colour is my parachute.

Mzpurity:
Stingy to yourself

Really?

wiggle:
Hummmmm.. The fear of poverty is the beginning of wisdom

If you know me in person, dear you will respect yourself.

Am financially stable. Our last born now on his nysc have to post my picture on his fb account to appreciate me, even did mtn caller tune for me. I give out more than I give to myself.

I don't waste my hard earned salary.

Am an accounting graduate, currently in my ICAN final level. I work with my budget.

Remain Blessed.

greatnaija01:
wow you need a man whom you can help save his own cash too.... ladies like you can never be single for long. you are an asset auto programmed as a deliverer from this economic recession....

but seriously, you should not complain its a gift... just get married to a man who loves to spend anyhow and you will be a true HELP MEET
by curbing him and helping his spending habits then he also will influence you and you will be balanced and your wonderful kids will always have wisdom of saving that their peers may never have.

YOU ARE A GIFT and YOU HAVE A RARE GIFT to master control over the impulse of spending.... dont ever complain about it... rather use it to become richer... If you are not yet in university you may need to take an AUDITING COURSE that can help you help companies minimize their wasteful spendings Also you can be the financial secretary in your church. WOW SO MANY OPPORTUNITIES FOR YOU. bless you o

But someone have told me that is only men that should behave that way. That why am I behaving like a man.

Hmmmm I was tired with that statement. So I have to come on no to ask this question.

alexistaiwo:
Op. Nothing is wrong with you. You are just the same as me. I can save 40k out of 50k consistently for two years (and I will get by just fine). People don't usually realize how much can be saved by curbing unnecessary spending.
As I said earlier. Nothing do you

OK. Thanks. Even in our organization cooperative am one of the highest saver. I hate to borrow too. Shame
of calling me onigbese hahahaha.

[quote author=Udehpaschal1 post=53683436]Bring it. Lemme spend it on [/quot

Funny you.

xstry:
Good for you

Good bawo, I don't like it. Am siblings especially the guys are taking advantage of it, borrow n will delay in paying me back.

Parents have to come in n resolve money matter.

Good evening house,

Please talk to me. Please no INSULTS.

Is this a problem or obsession?

From my childhood I save money a lot, especially during those Xmas time when aunty n uncle give kids money.

Now am grown ooooo, people I still find it difficult to spend my money ooo oooo. My hard earned salary.

I drive joy in saving, saving n saving. In fact I shop for myself twice in a year. Though when am buying, I buy quality wears.

If I spend my own money, I will be angry. What sort of stupid life is this.

Even if someone gives me money, I still use it carefully.

Am not hear to earn online like.

Matured comments, please oooo.

Thanks.

*Who is an infidel❓*
Pls... Take your time to read all. God will help us❗
*Shocking confession by Musa Abdullah on Biafra, N'Delta*
*
Good Evening Biafrans,

My name is Musa Abdullah from Kano state. I studied at Lagos state University and presently working with Kano University of Science and Technology, Wudil.

Due to my education, I have been enlightened as to the happenings in Nigeria. We in the North voted for Buhari because he is our brother.

We wanted power to return to the North. We knew he cannot fix anything in Nigeria. In our mosques, they always taught us to make sure we remove that infidel call Jonathan.

We were meant to hate Jonathan with our spirit, soul and body. Infact, Igbos living in the North were very very lucky. They escaped death by the whiskers through the victory of Baba.

Had Baba lost, my brothers where already on standby waiting for instructions to lynch any pig from the South.

I was personally in the situation room as things unfold. I felt for the Igbos then. I really pitied them. I knew that my brothers in the North had been brain washed but I dare not speak.

I sighed in relief when Baba was declared the winner and my brothers where told to relax, that they should go to the streets and celebrate.

That was how the bloodshed was averted to the glory of Allah. I knew something was really wrong with my brothers.

Kano gave Buhari the highest vote. It was massively rigged in his favour. That was why the INEC officer in charge of Kano was burnt alive with his family after the election to cover up the rigging. I wept for my people.

Now what are we seeing? Baba has abandoned us. My brothers in the North are dying every day of hunger. Prices of things are so high, we can't even eat three square meal a day.

My Northern Elders are not worried. They are only after power remaining in the North. Not only that, my concern now is what is about to come. They have already planned on how to deal with the Niger Deltans.

Of course you are aware that all the military personnel and weapons have been deployed in Niger Delta.

They are planning to use the Leaders of MEND to penetrate the creeks. Their only fear now is that IRAN and Russia are behind the Niger Delta Avengers.

They have also contacted Jonathan trying to make him sign an agreement that will further enslave the Niger Deltans but Jonathan refused. So Baba is very angry with Jona and will do everything possible to silence the Niger Delta Avengers.

As am typing now, Niger Delta has been rounded up militarily. Magnus Abe, Rotimi Amaechi, APC chairman and the leaders of MEND are in the master plan.

As for Biafrans, you people are very lucky. Buhari and my Northern Elders knew that Nnamdi Kanu has already created the awareness for you people.

So they are planning now to cut South South out of Biafra so that only the five Eastern states can go with their Biafra. Nnamdi Kanu will soon be released but they want to perfect the exclusion of South South from your Biafra.

*We know that one Nigeria is just because of Oil.* Wallahi, had it been we were the ones with the oil, Nigeria would have divided since.

Please let your brothers not protest again because Baba will kill again. Nnamdi Kanu's release is very soon but they are just making sure Niger Delta is cut off from your proposed Biafra.

You people should not think that there will be anything like 2019 election, Baba will use Biafra issue as an excuse to postpone the election.

South East has already been declared as Biafra, so don't expect any federal government project in your region. You have been written off already.

My advice is that you should continue to create awareness both nationally and internationally. Don't relent even though Biafra is very close.

You will get BIAFRA INSHA ALLAH
As it stands today, the Islamic religion is the fastest
growing religion per capita in the United States, especially amongst the minority races!!

Last month I attended my annual training session that's required for maintaining my state prison security clearance. During the training session, there was presentations by three speakers representing the Roman Catholic, Protestant and Muslim who each explained their beliefs.

I was particularly interested in what the Islamic had to say. So, the Muslim gave a great presentation of the basics of Islam, complete with a video. After the presentations, time was provided for questions and answers.
When it was my turn, I directed my question to the Muslim and asked:

'Please, correct me if I'm wrong, but I understand that most Imams and clerics of Islam have declared a holy jihad [Holy war] against the
infidels of the world and, that by killing an infidel, (which is a command to all Muslims) they are assured of a place in heaven. If that's the case, can you give me the definition of an infidel?'

There was no disagreement with my statements and, without hesitation,
he replied, 'Non-believers!'

I then responded. So, let me make sure I have this straight ie. All followers of Allah have been commanded to kill everyone who is not of your faith so they can have a place in heaven. Is that correct?'

The expression on his face changed from one of authority and command to that of a little boy who had just been caught with his hand in the cookie jar. 'He sheepishly replied, 'Yes.'

I then stated, 'Well, sir, I have a real problem trying to imagine the Pope can command all Catholics to kill those of your faith or in addition, Dr Stanley ordering all Protestants to do the same in order to guarantee them a place in heaven!'

The Muslim was speechless!

I continued, 'I also have a problem with being your friend when you and your
brother clerics are telling your followers to kill me!

Let me ask you a question:

Would you rather have your Allah, who tells you to kill me in order for you to go to
heaven, or my Jesus who tells me to love you because I am going to heaven and He wants you to be there with me too?'
You could have heard a pin drop as the Imam hung his head in shame.

Needless to say, the organizers or promoters of the 'Diversification' training seminar were not happy with my way of dealing with the Islamic Imam, and exposing the naked truth about the evil in Muslims' beliefs.

Therefore, the way things are going now in the next 10 years there will be enough Muslim voters in the U.S. to elect the President!
Enough Muslim voters in the UK to vote in the Prime Minister. In fact, by 2019 when Boko Haram had finished their depopulation of Christians in Nigeria, there may be no Christian candidates to stand for elective post in the next 5 years.
Think about your children's world. I think everyone in the WORLD!!! should be required to read this, but with the careless attitude of most believers, there is no way this will be widely publicized, unless each of us sends it to relations and friends! This is your chance to make a difference...

Please, for Christ's sake, pass it on! Thanks.
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truthsayer007:
Hehehe, boyalomo ! Did your parents tell you where they met ! Who says its a taboo to date where you work?

Every memorable relationship I had were people I dated where I work. Its awesome to say the least.

fUNNY yOU.

truthsayer007:
Hehehe, boyalomo ! Did your parents tell you where they met ! Who says its a taboo to date where you work?

Every memorable relationship I had were people I dated where I work. Its awesome to say the least.

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I have seen alot that backfired, so i decided not to date where i work OR date a married man.

Is not easy being a woman. You will jejelly be on your own temptation will be coming left and right. If you say NO problem( they will say what is she feeling like), if you say YES will be called OLOSHO. KILODE

Cheers

NwamaziNwaAro:
It hurts when humans are very hyprocritical and portray themselves as holy.

A review of your posts reveal you are compromising, you read a deeper meaning to even innocent actions.

You aren't as naive as you portray yourself to be and

YES....

It is you making the moves on your boss!!

No sane girl who does not want to send wrong signals to a boss will visit him, give him gifts and let him drop her off... that's the best Green Light possible and your boss is either a good man or retarrded if he doesn't play ball.


Then you come on Nairaland; alter the story, cut out a few parts, play victim and garner sympathy and attention.

This is 2017.

See your threads so far...already wanting to be his second wife.

With all due respect i come here to gain knowledge and inquire about things am not too clear with.

Yes my previous posts, is better to seek clarification on sensitive matters instead making mistake.

Sometimes things come our way which seems right, but when you share it people will give various reason why is good or bad.

AM NOT HERE TO IMPRESS ANYONE.

The stast thing I will do is take go online to faking myself. Who do I want to deceive?

Let me tell you if I want to BED that man it will not take me less than 24hrs.

I have ONE principle about my work life. NEVER TO DATE WHERE I WORK.
Even when I was in 7up Ijora. I went through hell in the hand of one mgt staff. May his soul rest in peace. He die in motor accident some years back.

One Love.

Happy new all.

Sure you all remembered my previous post about my boss kindness towards me.

I bought him Xmas gift and took it to his house. When leaving he decided to drop me off, on our way he said so i hate him this much. I was silent. He said alright But if I hear or see you dating a married man I won't forgive you.

I said, Sir I promise. I will never date a married man is against my believe. When he got to the bus stop he held my right hand, prayed and blessed me. I couldn't believe myself as I was initially scared.

I still respect him. We ladies should try and say NO even when under pressure. Though I know is not easy.
Cheers

walebizz:
Take a look @ this wonderful sexy creatures

Dear please I will run away ooooo if they come my way. I prefer moderate.

I do avoid them in real life as I do meet them in gym during workout.

sweetprick:
most guys would be wondering if actually they go down with a lady they will be able to satisfy her and make her cum as much as she wants with the size of their penis, some people will say size doesnt matter, but trust me size is as important as the Q in queue when it comes to satisfying a lady. so over to you ladies whats your take on size and how big can a guy be to get you squirming and cuming and getting satisfied

I don't want anything that will make me shout ooooo.

Moderate is OK.

Please does the size put food on the table?. It is well.

Esdb3:
No pity for this fool. She is ibo. So she probably followed him for the goodies. Ibo are bitches like Dah.

Dear it is well with u oooooo if you hate a tribe take it easy. I don't know your tribe, but let me ask you. How many of huasa/Fulani rich men kids marry the poor ones in the North. None.

Money is not prerequisite for marriage. Though is needed. Even Bible said money is a defense but the love is the root of all evil.

You talk as if all Igbo men are rich. A man should not beat his wife or better send her packing.

goingape:
true talk bro!

true talk!

I'm 100% sure that woman started it and she deserve what came her way.

I wonder the kind of husband some people will be. I hope if they beat your sister like this you will congratulate the man.

Let's call evil evil, whether is done by a woman or man. I don't take side. Its a reflection of our personality. Cheers

austin2all:
THIS DOESNT LOOK REAL TO ME, THE MAKE UP ARTIST IS SURELY VERY TALENTED AND IS NEEDED IN NOLLYWOOD.

You see your fellow human beaten to this extent and you call it make up. I wonder if we still have conscience in us.

I remembered when my elder sister was beaten by her husband because she questioned his infidelity. Well unfortunately for him the news got to my brothers and he was given the last warning of his life and since then he has never tried it.

I have realized that those men that cheat always think their wife cheat on them too. That's why any little thing is seen and classified as cheating. Please I don't support cheating by both sex.

kogistar:
i blame on this woman, because of her too much immorality on christmas day.

Dear please don't support evil. A woman beater don't need anything to happen before he beats oooo.

My dear in as much some ladies mess up.
some men are beast I tell you. Though some of us women just because we want to be married we will see the sign yet marry the man in faith he will change by living in pain.

Some men are just insecure.

Let me tell you my story. A guy met me one time introduced himself, requested for me contact I gave him. One day he called and our last born picked my call, told him I went to the street to get some stuff.

A guy I have not even said yes to. When I came back, I returned the call, hmmmm hell let loose. I was like kilode. He said he will beat me for deceiving him that I was living with a man yet gave him my contact. I was speechless. I even put the phone on speaker, my mom could not hold herself. She was like who is that man. When he heard female voice from background he asked me who is that, I said my mom. He kept silent.

Since then I fear to give my contact oooo.

luvola:
You should have write all the 5 papers and try your luck

I can't write the 5 papers ooooo. Leave for work 5am n gets home BTW 8-9pm. How am I gonna pass.

I do use my annual leave though, yet not enough.