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CareerRe: ICAN release the result of Nov 2016 diet result by Vavana(f): 5:58pm On Dec 28, 2016
luvola:
Amen. I wrote only AAA which is the only outstanding paper I have. U ? check your p.m
I don't no what happened to my email, can't access it again. I have tried everything to no avail.

Waaoo your good already. I wrote CR,CS n TX. To write SFM n AAA by God's grace come May.
CareerRe: ICAN release the result of Nov 2016 diet result by Vavana(f): 4:44pm On Dec 28, 2016
luvola:
This is a live thread to discuss the result of 2016 nov diet exam..


Update : ***1. Sources revealed that result may be release on Thursday ( Dec 29 , 2016 )..



*****2. No info yet with respect to performance in various subjects. Palpable tension is high in relation to SFM performance
.
2015 Nov diet was released Jan 2nd week. I wish us all PASS ooooooo IJN. Amen.
CareerRe: ICAN release the result of Nov 2016 diet result by Vavana(f): 4:41pm On Dec 28, 2016
haibe:
Pls can u be more explicit. I don't think releasing it at this time is good. Perhaps second week of January.

@bolded the SFM questions were quite cheap so whats up with the tension.
Guy you solved with friends outside exam condition.

I didn't write sfm but not cheap ooooo.
RomanceRe: Dear Ladies: Bitter Truth You Must Swallow by Vavana(f): 1:40pm On Dec 28, 2016
misteryman:
This is it : cool


cc; Lalasticala
In a situation where a Lady possess all the above qualities yet she's treated badly or not loved n deceived.


Cheers
RomanceRe: For The Ladies: Be An Asset by Vavana(op): 10:11pm On Dec 27, 2016
dollyjoy:
undecided Op, just tell us you want praises and we would gladly give it to you,even more than you desire.

You ladies should better stop coming online to form nonsense ,if your mouth is itching you to advice go and advice your guilty friends. Rubbish!
My dear sister am not. Praise for what. If we begin to be supportive in our relationship am sure the world will make a U turn. The insults I see on this forum on women kept me away for long. I hate seeing us being insulted.

If most of us read proverb daily our mentality will surely change towards something's.

Do you know that the world is in women hand. No matter how hard a man is her woman knows his soft point.
RomanceFor The Ladies: Be An Asset by Vavana(op): 7:59pm On Dec 27, 2016
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

My fellow ladies. I have seen a lot of bashing on this forum from the opposite sex and it doesn't speak well of us in some cases. The best mirror is someone by your side. Though some guys are just CASE STUDY.

Bible said we are the Neck. It means we should play a supporting role in our relationships.

Ladies should strive to be independent while being submissive. A lady should not wait on her man to provide everything. We should partake in the responsibility as well.

This guys also have siblings, parents etc to care for as well.

Please let's stop lavishing finance on unproductive stuffs.

We should invest in our God given skills and also acquire more knowledge and live a responsible life.

I don't feel happy when I see men castigating women but I don't really blame them. Some ladies have made themselves worthless.

The stuff I see on the road every day really amaze me. I wonder how comfortable they are inside their heart. Please am not trying to judge anyone or forming a saint.

I know we are not perfect, sincerely we need to change our orientation towards relationship and life.

Though some guys like fake ladies oooo oooo. grin grin grin

One Love
RomanceRe: Is Anything Wrong With Me? Because I Don't Have Flare For SEX by Vavana(op): 2:12pm On Aug 10, 2016
numericalguy:
I clicked on your profile expecting to the see the picture of a young and innocent lady only to be shocked at what I saw. My dear, you don old jare. Go and marry and stop disturbing people with senseless posts. You are not even a virgin and you don't look like someone who is Innocent or naive.
My dear am really touched by your insults. Well is your opinion.
I don't need to be young, old vigin or not to express myself.

I thought this site is to help one gain insight.
RomanceRe: Is Anything Wrong With Me? Because I Don't Have Flare For SEX by Vavana(op): 6:27pm On Aug 09, 2016
Young03:
Observations:.. ur just trying to be noticed


experiment:..ur either a lesbian. or possessed


conclusion: From the look on ur face, ur above 35,
keep playing hard to get till u reach menopause


Advice:.. go and marry n stop posting rubbish
Thanks. That's your opinion.
RomanceRe: Is Anything Wrong With Me? Because I Don't Have Flare For SEX by Vavana(op): 6:25pm On Aug 09, 2016
donbenedict:
You don't have to let all these things bother you vavana... for Christ sake it's ur body, u do wateva u Wana do with it. Since you mentioned you don't have flare for sex and people make friends with you just to have sex with you, then it's a good thing cuz u now know their intentions at the onset.



How much more drastic will it be, dat u find a guy Dats trustworthy, to the extent u submit all your trust to him and he ends up tryn to _rape u in the long run? Think....


They say sex is overrated, they also say virginity is overrated. What do u say?


Keep to ur answer and hold on to it.
Thanks. I was scared maybe is a hormone issue.
RomanceRe: Is Anything Wrong With Me? Because I Don't Have Flare For SEX by Vavana(op): 6:19pm On Aug 09, 2016
Love Machine:
I don't believe you.
My dear am currently 3yrs without SEX. How about that.

I want to know if am normal as a woman. Sex don't move me. Am having serious issue with a guy friend just because am not sex driven.

Talk to me

Thanks
RomanceIs Anything Wrong With Me? Because I Don't Have Flare For SEX by Vavana(op): 5:35pm On Aug 09, 2016
Dear house,
I need mature advise on what could be my problem.

I don't play hard to get but indirectly am looking it.

I feel sex is not love. I walk away whenever a guy makes sexual request.

How do I kown a guy meant well for me. Things I see this days about (men n women) baffles me.

Cheers
RomanceRe: My Boss Want Intimacy With Me. by Vavana(op): 11:30am On Jun 30, 2016
Cutezt:
O.P Follow Your Heart, But Just Know That Once You Give In, It Will Become A Daily Routine.

Modified

O.P, From Your Previous Thread, I Can See That You Are Already Pondering On Being A Second Wife, Do Whatever Pleases You, But I Want To Beg You, Pls Dont Break Someones Home.
You really followed me.
i will never.
Am already looking out for jobs.
Thanks brother.
RomanceRe: My Boss Want Intimacy With Me. by Vavana(op): 11:21am On Jun 30, 2016
truthsayer007:
Well, if you say you have never collected any penny from him. Thats is good.

But the way you made the story sound, like he has been Financing you and Pushing your career all the way long.

You have to be explicit, so people don't get you wrong with the way you write !

If all he did was to give you career and savings advise. Then no problem.

You can move on without any doubt or guilt that you have done anything wrong.
Thanks. I have to say the truth. His professional n fatherly advise has helped me grow.

I took him as my MENTOR was speechless about his attempts. Men can be moved by anything but i don't want him. The last time he saw me he said am running away from him, i just smiled.
RomanceRe: My Boss Want Intimacy With Me. by Vavana(op): 11:13am On Jun 30, 2016
Feranchek:
Do you have a boyfriend? And does he know that? If you don't have one or you have buh he doesn't know, YOU'RE SAFE. Buh if you have and he knows that, then there are 2 things involved.

Answer this one first, then we can kontinu grin
Am a yound lady that made mistake in her early 20's. No pity pls. i made a wrong chioce n paid for it.

Am a divorcee n he got to know about it in 2013. since then i just wana be. All the men so far want sex in the relationship but i say NO. So i don't have bf. He even gave me counseling that all men are not same that i should engage in relationship.

But last year became close which i didn't emtertain.

Have i answered ur question?.
Thanks
RomanceRe: My Boss Want Intimacy With Me. by Vavana(op): 10:57am On Jun 30, 2016
[quote author=tritt post=47063832][/quote]Your really hash. well is ur opinion

Pls i have never taken a penny from him. he gives me advise n that's how he is to all of us.

So does it mean his sleeping with my other females colleagues?
RomanceRe: My Boss Want Intimacy With Me. by Vavana(op): 10:49am On Jun 30, 2016
truthsayer007:
Yea very true, But its very bad when you see a man helping you extra ordinarily and you never bothered to ask why. And he his even married for that matter.

If he was single, that is another story entirely.

Am sure she knew his intentions from onset, don't start what you can't finish.

1. He promotes you (Which means you don't deserve it)
2. I get whatever that is due to me (you can't even prove that it is due to you)
3. He encouraged me to enroll. He gave me 1month leave (meanwhile, am sure he declined leave for every other person in such a situation)

One month paid leave or Un-paid leave (Abeg lets be realistic here).

4. He helped to buy a land, invest my savings. (I'm sure he probably helped add extra money so you purchase the land and finish paying)

What pisses me off is Women start collecting all this things they know he his married, probably with Wife and Kids.

Stop collecting gifts or extra help from married men, so you will have a less dramatic life.

If he was single, its different..You can now make a choice of whether you like to go ahead in a Relationship or Backoff, But now you can't even make any choice. because you knew what was happening from On Set.

Lets not deceive ourselves here.
Dear am really disappointed in your comment n some others.

Pls note i joined the firm b4 him n i was even promoted along with others by our ex boss.

Am not a social type. i mind my biz. he started correcting me duing our dept quartely meeting that i should change my altitude as a control person. Am very strick on any regulatory violation n some hod's reported me to him.

He said am doing well but i should improve my communication skill.

Where have i gone wrong. Am hard working. i have never collected i penny from him.
RomanceRe: My Boss Want Intimacy With Me. by Vavana(op): 10:25am On Jun 30, 2016
iPopAlomo:
Quit your job now... how hard can it be...?!

There's no question of morality here... only God knows what you used on the man (maybe you cooked him vegetable or your jazz...) Aunty... we no say e no pure (I just poured out the mind of plenty nairalanders and your co-work) because most of this benefit... you didn't work for it... ask yourself... are you the most hard-working personnel in that office...? make I no digress...

there's no need for morality here... except you want the latest juju to clear for him eye... do the needful or proof everyone wrong and me included... QUIT THE DAMN JOB...

I'm willing to wager... you can't... grin
With all due respect i did nothing to him. Hard working I AM. My job is like FBI, okay. I have detected fraudulent move which the firm avioded n he commended me. I go extra mile on my job as is the only thing that puts food on my table.

Am dedicated to my work irrespective of my pay.

Thanks
RomanceRe: My Boss Want Intimacy With Me. by Vavana(op): 9:50am On Jun 30, 2016
nnamdiokere45:
ur funny op...ur nt a kid na. how can a man do all dis tinz n ur nt expecting dis kinda tin. haba, u wldnt tell me dt u didn't suspect it. my dear give hm wat he wants d man do try.
pesin wey no b ur blood relation dey do dis for u n u no tink. even if he didn't qv it in my, u shld qv jst some percentage of doubt cus dats so gud to b true.
pls giv hm d punny,plssds. cus if I b d man, I go sack u if I dnt gt it
Hahahahaha
Am a highly disciplined Lady. I noticed it but maintained distance. but he started using his wife to come close to me. his wife is from my tribe. i do help d wife to kids bags at yaba sometime ago.

He should let God bless him. Sleeping with me? What does it profit him.
RomanceRe: My Boss Want Intimacy With Me. by Vavana(op): 9:44am On Jun 30, 2016
foolinlove:
He tried to buy you. After he has paid for all this, he wants something in return.

He doesnt respect you and he thinks you can be bought like olosho.

Kindness is meant to be its own reward. Why do you have to pay for his kindness?

Say thanks, but you've lost all respect for him and his actions. That you're not a wh0re and you won't be treated like one. Say thanks, but no thanks.

Either that or lie... tell him you're a lesbian, you have HIV, you're pregnant, you're engaged, you're about to move to Bolivia, that you have a poo fetish, that you're haunted by juju... make it good. I don't think any man will jump into bed with any girl who says "oh wow, I love you too! Now we can poo on each other and have sex."

His kindness will stop as soon as you say no, so make sure you have enough to get by while you look for another job. And prepare for the possibility if rape, as well. Some guys, no matter how nice they seem, will just take what they think is owed to them.

It's up to your judgement on his character.
Thanks. Your very right. he should let God reward him not my body.
I even threatend to wait my job. he stopped for a while n started again.
He doesn't feel guity at all.
RomanceRe: My Boss Want Intimacy With Me. by Vavana(op): 9:30am On Jun 30, 2016
gsparks01:
I dunno o...is he married?
Yes ooooo.
RomanceMy Boss Want Intimacy With Me. by Vavana(op): 9:20am On Jun 30, 2016
Dear house i need matured advise.

My boss has been so wonderful to me. I mean his God's sent. from the day i was employed till today he has helped me so much. i can't quantify his kindness. if am to list it is unending.
He helped me to grow career wise.
He promotes me, i get whatever that is due yo me. he sometimes fight for me.

When mgt said our dept must ICAN/ACCA only. He encouraged me to enroll. He gave me 1month leave, now am in final level.
He recently gave my cousin job.

He helped to buy a land, invest my savings etc, what he helped me to achieve is uncountable my people.

I took him as my MENTOR but now he wants me, though i noticed the signs last year. I told me NO he said why do i hate him.

Am very close to his family. Am just confused.
How do i aviod him without hurting him.

Please matured comments.
One Love
RomanceRe: Is It Right For A Lady To Be Second Wife by Vavana(op): 9:58pm On Mar 04, 2016
ipledge10:
So na man suppose be 2nd wife..wife na wife 1st or 2nd
Hahaha, your just funny. pls is just a question.
RomanceIs It Right For A Lady To Be Second Wife by Vavana(op): 9:46pm On Mar 04, 2016
Matured comments please.

should a lady marry to as second wife, while The first Lady is still a life with children or a child.

If yes give your reasons. If No give your reasons.

Thanks
EducationRe: 7-Year-Old Son Demands Iphone From His Father, And His Father Demands This. by Vavana(f): 5:17pm On Mar 04, 2016
delonz:
A man whose 7 years old son needs a smartphone (iPhone) and the man, demanded 10 excellent grade from him is his new school report card. Attached is what the boy got in his new school report card, and the man is asking if he should buy his 7 years old son the iPhone he had promised.
Is good to fulfill a promise. it will motivate him.
Cheers
BusinessRe: Many Companies Will Start Closing Shop Due To CBN Forex Policy – MAN by Vavana(f): 6:56pm On Feb 20, 2016
LRNZH:
What are these items that are essential raw materials? Let's hear what they are.
These are the lists:
Specifically, the following goods have been restricted by CBN for foreign
exchange transaction. The CBN importation restricted products are;
1. Rice
2. Cement
3. Margarine
4. Palm kernel/Palm oil products/vegetables oils
5. Meat and processed meat products
6. Vegetables and processed vegetable products
7. Poultry chicken, eggs, turkey
8. Private airplanes/jets
9. Indian incense
10. Tinned fish in sauce (Geisha)/sardines
11. Cold rolled steel sheets
12. Galvanized steel sheets
13. Roofing sheets
14. Wheelbarrows
15. Head pans
16. Metal boxes and containers
17. Enamelware
18. Steel drums
19. Steel pipes
20. Wire rods (deformed and not deformed)
21. Iron rods and reinforcing bard
22. Wire mesh
23. Steel nails
24. Security and razor wine
25. Wood particle boards and panels
26. Wood Fibre Boards and Panels
27. Plywood boards and panels
28. Wooden doors
29. Toothpicks
30. Glass and Glassware
31. Kitchen utensils
32. Tableware
33. Tiles-vitrified and ceramic
34. Textiles
35. Woven fabrics
36. Clothes
37. Plastic and rubber products, polypropylene granules, cellophane wrappers
38. Soap and cosmetics
39. Tomatoes/tomato pastes
40. Eurobond/foreign currency bond/ share purchases.
CelebritiesRe: Davido Reveals How His Father Arrested Him [PICS] by Vavana(f): 4:03pm On Feb 19, 2016
Smellymouth:
" he decided to drop out of school, and ran away from home, leaving the country for several months after he had broken his sim card.

He however returned to Nigeria in 2011 and his father had him arrested immediately at the airport...."


cheesy the life of a rich kid...

Try this same stunt with my father, he will happily congratulate u, afterall he nor go pay sch fees again undecided
grin
Smellymouth:
" he decided to drop out of school, and ran away from home, leaving the country for several months after he had broken his sim card.

He however returned to Nigeria in 2011 and his father had him arrested immediately at the airport...."


cheesy the life of a rich kid...

Try this same stunt with my father, he will happily congratulate u, afterall he nor go pay sch fees again undecided
RomanceRe: My Boss's Wife Is Calling Me Pet Names!! Should I Be Worried? by Vavana(f): 5:45pm On Feb 17, 2016
Jadonjack:
I know this may sound crazy buh I just don't know what to call it.

My boss's wife do call me pet names when commending me, like "thank you sweedie", "welldone love", "thanks dear"

Initially, I thought its something normal since she's older than I do(like 8yrs older), buh what bothers me now is that, she always call me those names only when no one else is dere with us(her husband xpecially). She will say " thank you" whenever she wanna commend me in her husbands' presence buh a pet name will be included when the husband is not dere.

Please guys, do I have any reason to be worried? Or I'm just being too over conscious?
guy be wise always put your phone on record while with her only as u claimed oooo. it will save u.
RomanceRe: Why Do Men Love Harassing Women by Vavana(op): 5:28pm On Feb 17, 2016
Elosky20:
neighter is it his fault, He was admiring God's handwork
pls pause, why should he torch me and even blocked my way.
Why are men defending fellow men in doing wrongs.
RomanceRe: Why Do Men Love Harassing Women by Vavana(op): 5:11pm On Feb 17, 2016
Elosky20:
why did u harrass him sexually with ur UKWU
God gave it to me, how is that my fault.
RomanceWhy Do Men Love Harassing Women by Vavana(op): 4:59pm On Feb 17, 2016
This happened to me.

why do men drive joy in harassing women.

I jog every Saturday, I left my street trekking to gain fitness before I start to run, never knew a guy was at my back, though am blessed at the back lol.

he taped my hand and said ibolo ilaje. I looked at him knowing he does not look like someone that miss road i replied him I don't know.
I cross to the other side of the road he said am not chasing u ooooo, I ignored him.

lol n behold never knew he was serious with his madness, this guy followed me as I was jogging. there was a packed vehicle in front of me as I want to avoid the car this guy pushed me off road, whattttt I raised my hand to slap him without looking back he ran aside quickly.

what could have prompted his reaction.
RomanceWomen And Money by Vavana(op): 3:34pm On Feb 17, 2016
I think our men are being unfair to us. It really baffles me the sort of comment I see on this N/L towards Nigerian women and Money. Majority of Nigeria guys look down on their women. WHY

Women all over the world love,I mean love money.

Have guys ever wondered why oyibo women divorce their hubby like changing used clothes n take almost half of the man's fortune.

OK, fabregas wife was a divorcee, and the ex hubby lost his mansion to this woman. This is the reason their celebrity prefer contract marriage.

A lot of Nigerian guys have been deported via their Oyibo wife plan with police all to own their fortune.

If u love your woman she worth you spending on her.

Men are two types the Gardner and a hunter. the Gardner nurtures u to become what he desire while a hunter is waiting to shoot his target.

Though I realised that me from polygamous family don't have regards for women.

positive criticism are welcomed.

Cheers
EducationRe: UNN Produces 85 First Class Out Of 13,554 Graduates In 45th Convocation by Vavana(f): 3:14pm On Feb 16, 2016
Young03:
its a lie, i know unn more dan u

i grew up inside unn, had my nursery, primary, sec. Der

nothing special abt unn
It's a very big lie. UNN is special don't be jealous because u were not given admission.
Cheers

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