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Kingsley1000:
hope u weren't disappointed

nah punna been dey my mind

everyone ranting...! were you expecting pple to come and start clapping for him for stealing aluminium, do you know how thiefs and robbers terrorize njoaba?..


police are meant to secure lifes and property of innocent citizens, buh since they are not working well, citizens can do it thier own way..

this is becoming a thread, food poisoning.. Rip dead

If only you wont counter my advice, i have adviced someone in your shoes before, and now he is not regretting, in his case, the guy is a chain smoker(weed) and not working, her parents declined just because the guy is not wealthy, they finally aborted the baby and now the girl has turned to a LovePeddler and a torn in thier flesh

In your own case i dont care to know about your financial status, i will tell you thesame thing i told him, firstly, pls forget running away with her, its too childish and you will never enjoy rest of mind, because d lady in question will turn against you if you fail to meet up to her all day needs.

My advice to you is to tell the parents to thier face not to abort the child, that you will accept responsibility, dont go further than that and dont pressire them, so its left for them to decide. If they remove it, let it be.. but if they decide to leave it, then start praying and working hard for money because the journey you are planning to embark on is not a boy thing, i have been there twice


meanwhile dont leave ur parents out, they have a vital role to play in this.

Kingsley1000:
no na coke

chai.. dis OP na fanta oh..!

fatile land for sale... i got 4 lands already.

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the guys above me tho.. busy buying land for cucumber plantation...

5 stages of love...

1. Love
2. Hang out
3. Sex
4. Avoiding
5. Break up..


People marry for thier selfish reasons this days not for love..

lolx... nigeria sha, thier must be bad news always.

Haba.. OP should better stop smoking bfore things gets out hand.

sure.. the need of Barrister is to have a professional around to guide your words, because sometimes you could implicate yourself with your word as everything you say counts.

Am not supriced, this is what happens when they get low or no salary, well.. i believe he will be dealth with accordingly, #scapeGOAT

God will surely save his pple because dis world has turned to something else

if you dont have a serious relationship now, then go for your education..

i have always never been able to coop with girls dat have male as friends so my advice is.. do your own turn and leave her, never take her serious because u will end up heart broken

this raid thing sef, just catching innocent pple for no reason, Rip dead

Talk2Bella:
How did you let yours go?

she was nice to me so it made the whole thing so so difficult, but trust IGBO boy nah, i came up with long story..

lemme just brief it.. it took me like 4 months but i used my brain, i started with lieing to her that dier is a girl called precious who helped me so much who has been begging me to dis-flower her but i dont want to, i told her howmuch i loved the precious and how kind precious is,definetely she became jealous and demanded to know the precious, i declined and told her i dont want issues because precious is a calm girl, i told her about precious always but insisted i dont have anything with the precious, that precious is just crushing hard on me, SO on the other hand i told her friend that i have promised precious marriage and my family is aware of precious but we've not had sex, that its not like i dont love her friend, but i hav gone a bit far with precious before i met her, i still had to tell the friend i loved her friend who spends on me but am confused and needed her advice, after the discussion, i told her not to tell her friend, i knew fully well that girls gossip a lot,definitely shes gonna tell her friend,she told her and she comfronted me, i did not deny it so her temper could not allow her wait to hear the rest, that was how i discharged her 3mnths ago till date,she just walked away without giving me rat poison, all thanks to God, i believe she has moved on tho..

its a long story sha.. but i thank the Lord almighty for giving me the wisdom, shes just 25 buh rich, her offers where tempting tho, buh i had to leave because she wanted us to marry this december, i almost collected 200k to deposite for a car, and by now i for dey on the run because she go dey hunt me from every angle.. i pray she sees someone that will reciprocate her love.

Geraldyne:
Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my bf..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.
He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.
I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.
Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks

my dear sister you both have equal right in that relationship, i will advice you to get wise, you are a woman and you are volurable to worn out, woman sex life is different from a mans own, if you continue letting yourself used, he will get tired of you too soon, morover.. you aint married yet, dont let someone to enjoy the best part of you and leave chaff for your husband, he will kill you sex drive... BE WISE..!

if you dont intend keeping her, you can continue collecing but if you intend keeping her as a wife, pls tell her to stop stealing to sustain you.. EOD

i once had a girl like that, she bought this phone am using presently for #45k.. the sincere truth is that i dont love her for one second yet she spends lot on me even tho she knows i could afford it,she went to the extend of wanting to sponcor our marriage, it was very difficult for her to free me, she was allover me, i bet you..! leaving this kind of people is the most difficult task ever, but the advice i will give you is to try your best to allow her go bfore its too late for you, its for your own good my brother, if you are not inlove, please dont risk it, let her go because she can kill to have you, make her see resons because those kind of ladies can hurt you if they feel betrayed.

egobetatoday:
you may have to wait till eternity to get his ROBUST reply as it is with the 'men of gods'

just quit,you both a wasting your procious time, pls just allow her focus on her life, when she know what she reealy want u guys can come back together, i know it may be impossible to cum bak togeda, but for now, be a real man, quit bfore its late

this all ends with the song 2face sang, "if dem no talk about you, that means you are nobody".. pple must have something to say,good/bad, am fron ihiala and my people are accused of blood money and drug money, funny enough i have not seen drugs before or visited any altar before for money, but am comfortable, my people dispice mbaise people but yet my bestfriend is from there, if i had met mbaise woman for relationship and she seems to be my taste, boom..! i will marry her no matter what it costs me, falacy of aphasculacy is too achaic to believe, mbaise are great people, the individuals are nice, lets stop blamming ones fault on others just like the way foreigners blames nigeria faults on the whole of africa.

DAramis:
True, but that does not mean that there are not people whose words are their bond.

One bad experience does not mean that everyone is bad.

i base profound more on the majority folks, i agree with you, but majority says yea when they mean nil

if Rita Dominic proposes to me at this point



i will drop my lighter



trow away the wrap in my hand



and decline smoking weed for thr rest of my life...!
iranu..!

fabuu

Get a cucumber and stop disturbing our peace.!

the silent treatment is my brothers way of life and i have observed closely its not helping him at all, when you are holding someone down to the ground, you are holding yourself too because you two goes nowhere, it does not help or improve anything, rather it destroys things,i dispice that attitude, i tackle issues with my partner immidiately and dont keep mute to spoil things...

tnks