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I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Funfair001: 7:48pm On Oct 31, 2016
Hello Nlanders, I need mature advice please. I'm a 29years old man....I dropped out of University for business and I'm making stable income but now, I want to go back to school (abroad) which I have started my admission processing. Next year, I will be 30years old and some guys are advising me to get married since I have the money to take care of my family and my studies.

I'm confused even though I wish to get married too but still, I don't know what to do. Please I need mature advise if I should just go ahead or shun marriage for now.

Thank you all

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by talk2alabama: 7:49pm On Oct 31, 2016
Pls get married..

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by ChemicalReaction(f): 8:03pm On Oct 31, 2016
You can kill two birds with a stone. Follow your heart. In this era, If I'm in your shoes, i'll choose education. You're still a young man, your time isn't ticking yet and you may likely change your mind when kids start coming.#my opinion tho. @Cornoil, say something!

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Oct 31, 2016
If u get married are u still travelling? Nah woman she be oo.. Were in the same situation bro.. But marriage now is not in my agenda.

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by bitchcrafts: 8:06pm On Oct 31, 2016
Well, Our maid here is 26 and she dey look for groom wey get money to take better care of her. If na loyalty u dey fear while away, I can keep an eye on her for you for free . She knows how to maximize stipends however small too no worry.... She no dey talk and she knows how to fukc well. This babe got maddening skills mehn!

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Nobody: 8:08pm On Oct 31, 2016
You're still very young op, give it another 5yrs...focus on getting the tertiary education then get married when you're 35.

It will save you a lot, don't run into it because your friends are advising.

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Funfair001: 8:27pm On Oct 31, 2016
ChemicalReaction:
You can kill two birds with a stone. Follow your heart. In this era, If I'm in your shoes, i'll choose education. You're still a young man, your time isn't ticking yet and you may likely change your mind when kids start coming.#my opinion tho. @Cornoil, say something!
Thanks and very helpful
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Funfair001: 8:27pm On Oct 31, 2016
Benita27:
You're still very young op, give it another 5yrs...focus on getting the tertiary education then get married when you're 35.

It will save you a lot, don't run into it because your friends are advising.
Thanks. I appreciate

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Young03(m): 8:32pm On Oct 31, 2016
ChemicalReaction:
You can kill two birds with a stone. Follow your heart. In this era, If I'm in your shoes, i'll choose education. You're still a young man, your time isn't ticking yet and you may likely change your mind when kids start coming.#my opinion tho. @Cornoil, say something!


see wetin u dey advise person


He is still young @ 30 to get married, u mean married man can't go to school, the way una dey hype school self tire me, whereas those that have graduated r yet to see work..


guy u better go marry n enter school

if u want to graduate before marriage, u may turn to Banky w

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by ucsparks: 8:45pm On Oct 31, 2016
marriage at 30? TUFIAKWA!!!!. You want to give yourself such burden at this young age
Go and get a degree jare, then in 5years time u think about marriage burden

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by vchykp(m): 8:51pm On Oct 31, 2016
if you dont have a serious relationship now, then go for your education..

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Viking007(m): 8:55pm On Oct 31, 2016
I dunno why You guys think 30 is "young".
Well, different strokes for different folks.

This is the fact some "adults" fail to grasp.

Coldfeet:
lolz exactly o! Smh at folks saying 30 is young for a guy.

Let's do the maths.. get married at 30 have a kid by 31( for instance) by the time that child is ready for secondary school the guy is around 42! Add 6 years to that and he is 48.
Uni starts for the child at age 18-19 add 4years uni and 1year NYSC the child is 23-24 ish and the father is 53-54 ish.

And yet some people want him to wait?

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by lovelygurl(f): 8:59pm On Oct 31, 2016
30 years is not 'young' shocked

Op a married man can also go to school

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by ChemicalReaction(f): 9:08pm On Oct 31, 2016
Young03:



see wetin u dey advise person


He is still young @ 30 to get married, u mean married man can't go to school, the way una dey hype school self tire me, whereas those that have graduated r yet to see work..


guy u better go marry n enter school

if u want to graduate before marriage, u may turn to Banky w
my opinion! you hear? And yes! 30 is young for a guy!

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by ChemicalReaction(f): 9:11pm On Oct 31, 2016
ucsparks:
marriage at 30? TUFIAKWA!!!!. You want to give yourself such burden at this young age
Go and get a degree jare, then in 5years time u think about marriage burden
Young03 na ur fellow guy be dis oo..
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by OlajumokeBread(f): 9:17pm On Oct 31, 2016
Don't get married now for only one reason if it must be to that particular girl

(Reason) you will leave your wife in Nigeria while you travel abroad

Long distance marriage or relationship doesn't work

You want someone to be chopping your wife Amala and Ewedu while you're abroad ??

You know girls of nowadays, they love sex like food

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Lovelynature(m): 9:17pm On Oct 31, 2016
cool
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by ucsparks: 9:17pm On Oct 31, 2016
ChemicalReaction:
Young03 na ur fellow guy be dis oo..
undecided
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by OlajumokeBread(f): 9:17pm On Oct 31, 2016
ucsparks:
marriage at 30? TUFIAKWA!!!!. You want to give yourself such burden at this young age
Go and get a degree jare, then in 5years time u think about marriage burden

What a Nigerian mentality

30 is a young age ??

Go tell that to Anthony Martial who got married at the age of 18

I got married at the age of 20

So your smoke filled brain told you that marriage is a burden ??

*Spits

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by McBrooklyn(m): 9:18pm On Oct 31, 2016
undecided
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by tosyne2much(m): 9:18pm On Oct 31, 2016
Let's be frank here,, what's the primary motive for being educated if not to become rich? (Forget those ones wey go dey deceive themselves say dem wan dey educated so dem go fit speak fluent English in the society... I laf grin ) . Now that you're at least financially capable to settle down, I believe that starting your family should your priority rather than taking a degree as a priority. Who education don help for this ugly state of the nation wey companies dey lay off their staff?

I was brought up with mentality that a degree is all you need to live a luxurious and fulfilled life, but I have grown to see that it is a mere myopic assertion. Even if you get PhD and you no sharp or fit apply your sense right, hunger is always there to make your life miserable in this nation cheesy

Sir, I will advise your family and then opt for online programs? And if u no get woman to marry, kindly place yourself on OLX cheesy

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by femi4: 9:19pm On Oct 31, 2016
Funfair001:
Hello Nlanders, I need mature advice please. I'm a 29years old man....I dropped out of University for business and I'm making stable income but now, I want to go back to school (abroad) which I have started my admission processing. Next year, I will be 30years old and some guys are advising me to get married since I have the money to take care of my family and my studies.

I'm confused even though I wish to get married too but still, I don't know what to do. Please I need mature advise if I should just go ahead or shun marriage for now.

Thank you all


You can do both.....Get married and let your wife come over

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by freeman95(m): 9:19pm On Oct 31, 2016
don't know why it hurts a lot when we bite our tongue accidentally. But It doesn't hurt when we bite it intentionally. The thing I can't understand is why are you biting your tongue now.

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by fuckboy1831: 9:19pm On Oct 31, 2016
grin grin

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by whytevardy(m): 9:19pm On Oct 31, 2016
it is not the way you think
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by buffalowings4: 9:19pm On Oct 31, 2016
Funfair001:
Hello Nlanders, I need mature advice please. I'm a 29years old man....I dropped out of University for business and I'm making stable income but now, I want to go back to school (abroad) which I have started my admission processing. Next year, I will be 30years old and some guys are advising me to get married since I have the money to take care of my family and my studies.

I'm confused even though I wish to get married too but still, I don't know what to do. Please I need mature advise if I should just go ahead or shun marriage for now.

Thank you all



Is there a girlfriend or are you just about to look for one to marry?

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by ucsparks: 9:19pm On Oct 31, 2016
OlajumokeBread:


Jjhh
back to sender undecided

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by stainlex(m): 9:19pm On Oct 31, 2016
Funfair001:
Hello Nlanders, I need mature advice please. I'm a 29years old man....I dropped out of University for business and I'm making stable income but now, I want to go back to school (abroad) which I have started my admission processing. Next year, I will be 30years old and some guys are advising me to get married since I have the money to take care of my family and my studies.

I'm confused even though I wish to get married too but still, I don't know what to do. Please I need mature advise if I should just go ahead or shun marriage for now.

Thank you all



Since you're asking, you may not be ready yet.

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Nienie(f): 9:19pm On Oct 31, 2016
Don't get married
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by femi4: 9:20pm On Oct 31, 2016
ucsparks:
marriage at 30? TUFIAKWA!!!!. You want to give yourself such burden at this young age
Go and get a degree jare, then in 5years time u think about marriage burden
Na your type dey pay children school fees at age 70 when you should be enjoying your pension

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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by jeeqaa7(m): 9:20pm On Oct 31, 2016
ok
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Leobrain(m): 9:21pm On Oct 31, 2016
here to read comments

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