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Toks2008:
Just tell him to use protection and do it far far away from you.

Please whatever i post on nairaland concerning relationships are unbiased facts and if the reader can try to consider my assertions,it will be of great advantage.

A lady should not even have that bother her even when we know how difficult it may be and its like a reasonable man knowing that he has to fend for his family so in same manner every married lady should zero her mind that that man will and i Mean WILL CHEAT ON HER and if he never does,all well and good.

This is how to be happy in marriage.

BE submissive

Be romantic

Be an excellent cook

Be financially independent

Be happy with yourself

Love your husband and care for him.

Expect him to cheat on you but tell him that incase he ever decides to be crazy with his dick, he should do it far away from you and be sensible enough to use condom

Then don't bother your head about his fidelity but live your life and dedicate you love to your children or something productive.

in other words,I should give my all to my husband, and be cool if he doesn't do the same?....I should keep being the good wife while he continuously fvcks round?...and what if he doesn't listen to me if I tell him to use protection, or I should always be at his cheating venue to actually ascertain he is using protection?........ since he is a man.....

Toks2008:
Guys are simply polygamous by nature and i really can't stress this enough.

so how many times do you advice a woman to forgive a non repentant cheating husband?

Youngpo413:
date a shy and an introvert guy,they are the good guys...but they are very boring and will never ever cheat on you.

been there,done that ......he changed.....

malele:
I know distant relationship anit easy, that's why I travel every month end to see her, call almost twice a day.
I have even told her to come meet ma people, so that we gradually startup marriage rites.
Anyway God knows why it went that way.
The only thing is that it affects me badly, that I don't concentrate on my automation training again.
Anyway I can't give my heart out again till am married.

I am sorry about that......some women would give anything to have a guy like u that would love them sincerely like that.....she doesn't worth it man.....let it go....I just don't know why people who are sincere ends up with people like that...life is really not fair...a woman would be praying to meet someone like u and she wouldn't, and someone who doesn't deserve u would do......such is life

crowns2:
True Love doesn't exist? But when the emotional feeling starts building up and you can't control it what then do we do? I hate to fall in love...I hate hate it. It only rewards with unimaginable pain in the heart at the end of the day. Worse thing is that there is no pill to take that can cure this indescribable pain What is love if someone who claims to love is not ready to stick the whole none yards, through thick and thin, through pain, through hurt only to remain when there is laughter?! And run off when there is a challenge or misunderstanding? Not ready to work it through to see that the relationship works out all cost? Not ready to put pride and ego aside for what you believed in from the very beginning? Tell me isn't true love supposed to remain even when we are hurt? Must it only exist when we are laughing and making love. Do long lasting relationships which have lasted for many years remain so because they were happy everyday?
WHAT IS THE SECRET OF LONG LASTING RELATIONSHIPS?

too many questions....... but the best answer to all is to love yourself very well and not believe anyone can love you the way you love yourself or God does.....no man can love truly, its not their fault they just can't..... know this and no one would ever hurt u again

moski5:
its not all tru

prove me wrong.....tell me u are innocent of all this charges....then I would ask u your age and if someone has ever fallen in love with u...

I have learnt to understand that people change, so it doesn't matter if he appears perfect at first, he can always change for d worst....I have learnt not to take relationship matters too seriously , it is a waste of time, no matter how much love,time,gifts ,care or attention u shower a guy d mofo, would still cheat.....I have learnt that there is no good guy out there, all every guy wants is sex......I also know the best way to die quickly is to love someone truly and sincerely.

Ogatitus:
Yea,finally i think the movie is coming alive. Nemesis surely catching up with someone in Kingslanding. But walahi this king too weak. Imagine say na Jeffrey make i hear say person wan lock up im wife.

Theon is rily a lost cause, but am still anticipating a radical twist in the prognostic outcome of his story line.

I still think Lord Commander Snow is wrong going for the wildlings. I wonder what will have become of castle black upon his return.

Stannis is surely heading for another defeat unless he stops listening to that evil woman. Imagine asking him to kill his daughter.. for wetin na.

Tyrion Lannister & Khalesi.. what a sumptuous combination.

But hold on, i thought Ser Jorah had that terrible skin disease?

the daughter has a bright future, she is so knowledgeable..... I am surprised no one sees her as a threat....

oloyolo:
I didn't let her go actually she past away

sorry to hear that..

oloyolo:
Sia my love

Titanic

Av not been able to replace her
Had many relationship after though. But the space is still empty
*sobs* Sia my love

Titanic

Av not been able to replace her
Had many relationship after though. But the space is still empty
*sobs*

why did u let her go then?......I hate it when people let the love of their life go, only to regret it later...

business is business

serty1:
1 million paco
Rabanne

how much is it?

Gbola5:
I thought the man that shows up first to open the door was the kindly man, till Jaqen H'ghar filled that role, even though he had changed his face in s2. It just didnt make sense. But i hope we get some warging from her and Jon, they only show Bran warging.

Please what's warging? is it the ability to possess another animal /person's body?

kinda true.....

Jkvivi2020:
@ op u are a confuse felow. Judge urself before u judge those brothel girls. Why do u use d word unkept. They are neater and cleaner. That is d real truth. What is the diffrence between a girl that stays in hotel to prostitute and that mummys girl that goes about to prostitute. They are d same. The mummys girl have not had opportunity to stay in hotel to prostitutes. A girl that haves so many boyfriends and collect money from them, open her legs for them what is she a prostitutes. The day they dont give to her she will not open her legs. So it is pay and Bleep that is what girls do. Except the one that dont have time for men. That is d real truth take it or you leave it.

So You patronize them, do they allow You kiss them?

welcome to the club op.... there is no fast way,this I can tell u from experience, I have tried everything possible except weed and alcohol, But there is no perfect solution than that You would heal up with time,talk to someone, let it out,cry If You must.....don't contact her,try and live without her and try to be open to meeting more friends, and focus on your future, forgive yourself and forgive her......with time the pain would lessen and You would meet someone else.......I am sorry But It's gonna hurt,no shortcut...

na wa......

just finished seeing draft day and I enjoyed it.....I even re-watched some scenes like 3 times over.....I really love it....

AdeLaNa1:
Azzin ehn.....not sad she's leaving. Hope they wrap up the show quickly too

Lol.....like they are forcing You to watch it.....

armadeo:
Any other reviews on this. I really want to see it.

there were lots of singing in the movie.... But If u can just calm down the movie is pretty deep.....I love movies like that.....

marriage is not for everyone, But our culture forces us...

Maybe she just discovered something evil about the fiance