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5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Ishilove: 6:56pm On Apr 05, 2015
Human habits can exert a big negative influence on the quality of life and make us stray from the right path. It usually happens when people refuse to be awake of their faults and continue sticking to their guns. Unfortunately, they tend to blame others for their unhappiness. This approach will never help you break the vicious circle and overcome your laziness, because bad habits gradually become a significant part of your lifestyle.

Marriage is an extremely important decision in the life of every person. Even highly successful and healthy people often cannot find a real love and get married, because it’s hard to make a right decision in this complicated and artificial world. If absolutely no one wants to get married with you, then the root of the problem lies in the depth of your subconsciousness. It’s high time to plunge into your subconscious mind to find the reasons that poison your love relationship and make you ‘forever alone.’ It’s necessary to grasp the importance of this issue and dedicate enough time to self-improvement.

At first, you should discover the nature of your inner world and weigh all pros and cons of your character. If negative traits and habits are predominant, you shouldn’t surrender to despair, because human mind is powerful and limitless. I’m sure that everyone can break harmless habits and change their private life for the better. The main thing is to be open to change and don’t fear to fight your inner demons. I hope this article will open your eyes to common habits that make people ‘forever alone.’
1. They’re afraid of reality

I think that people who’re afraid of reality will never get married if they do nothing to overcome this fear. It’s been proved that every human being is afraid of reality in a varying degree and it’s absolutely normal, because fear is a natural response to danger. But when these fears and deep-seated phobias take over, people become unable to take risks and responsibilities. A bit later these too sensitive and emotional personalities become the victims of their active imagination. I think that this weakness should be eliminated at earliest convenience. Every woman yearns to get married with emotionally strong and self-confident man.

Diffident personalities should once and for all realize that life is a constant struggle. If you want to reach success in either marriage or career, you should be ready to take up the running and face harsh realities of life with you head held high.


2. They prefer to be passive lazybones

In most cases lonely people are passive lazybones. The pursuit of happiness and self-cultivation aren’t their pair of shoes. They don’t try to take the initiative, but want to take the best things from life. If they believe that they’ll eventually get married, then their chances are limited. Nothing in this life happens eventually.

Life is a dynamic thing that requires people to be extremely active and productive. If you want other successful people to notice your talents, beauty and the depth of your rich inner world, you should open up and do your best to express yourself. But how can you meet a wonderful partner if you enjoy aimless passive pastime cooped up in your house? I’m sure that every lazybones can become an interesting and attractive person, if they finally get involved in different activities and find friends with common interests.

3. They’re too judgmental

Nowadays many people have incredibly high standards, especially when it comes to personal life and marriage. Sometimes human principles don’t let people think rationally, but provoke them to judge others for their failures and weaknesses. People who don’t take any effort to find a compromise will never get married, because a healthy marriage is always based on mutual understanding and respect. Wise people say that sometimes it’s necessary to keep silent if you’re at odds with your partner. It will help you keep your love relationship healthy and strong.

Furthermore, women should keep in mind that their habit of blaming their partners for low incomes can seriously damage man’s self-esteem. As a result, deep-seated contentment in man’s heart can gradually chill the ardor of his love. By all means, try not to offend people around you and you’ll be able to get married in a quite short period of time.

4. They dedicate their life to career

Workaholism has become one of the most difficult and actual problems of a modern world. This problem has a lot of advantages and disadvantages. Do you believe that workaholism can make you a happy person? If a successful career is the top priority in your life, then sooner or later, you’ll achieve a desirable result. All you have to do is throw yourself into this work and live for it.

Unfortunately, between two stools you fall to the ground. If you choose career, then you should be ready to sacrifice your health and love. Almost all workaholics find it difficult to build and maintain happy relationships, because they work and think only about their projects 24 hours a day. They have no time for love and romance.

5. They cry for the moon

Today both men and women have blurred vision of reality. It seems to me that ladies still believe that one day a wonderful knight in shining armor will appear and win their hearts. Men waste valuable time looking for a bachelor’s wife. It’s high time to get rid of this pointless habit and finally realize that perfect people do exist only in your imagination. The only way to find a suitable partner is to set realistic goals. You need to be sure that your dreams and desires coincide with reality. If you’re dreaming to get married with Johnny Depp by all means, then your private life is in danger.

I think that these annoying habits may prevent people from getting married and steal their happiness. There’s no need to become panic-stricken and worry about it. I have good news as well. All these harmful habits can be easily broken and replaced with good ones. I believe that pure love will help people close their eyes to each other’s shortcomings. But it doesn’t mean that you can relax and stop improving yourself. What other habits can prevent us from getting married? We’d like to know your point of view!
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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by ggrin(f): 6:59pm On Apr 05, 2015
undecided

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Cutehector(m): 7:00pm On Apr 05, 2015
Spreads mat
Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Youngsage: 7:00pm On Apr 05, 2015
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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Nobody: 7:01pm On Apr 05, 2015
If i talk again now, lala247 and others will start sayin I'm mad cry

Anyway, I still can't see that reason that will convince me to get married! I will always stand on my words. . .

when everything seems cool, you have rest of mind, and you feel as if you have the world in your hands, the devil will jez come and give you a girlfriend/wife, then everything runs >;(

#tEaMbAnGbAbYmAmAs cool

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Vivly(f): 7:04pm On Apr 05, 2015
I swear to Drunk I'm not God.
Okay.

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Mynd44: 7:05pm On Apr 05, 2015
Yup...I will die single.

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by TR0UBLeMaKeR(f): 7:05pm On Apr 05, 2015
Why is everyone posting dots undecided

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by jmoore(m): 7:07pm On Apr 05, 2015
Paul, the apostle and Mary Slessor never gained admission into the institution called Marriage

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by jmoore(m): 7:07pm On Apr 05, 2015
TR0UBLeMaKeR:
Why is everyone posting dots undecided
Because they are robots.

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Tallesty1(m): 7:08pm On Apr 05, 2015
Who will never get married?
Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Nobody: 7:10pm On Apr 05, 2015
Yeah....I'm never gon' get married. cheesy

And I'm cool with that. cool

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by jmoore(m): 7:10pm On Apr 05, 2015
Tallesty1:
Who will never get married?
Mynd44:
Yup...I will die single.


Him ^^

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by jmoore(m): 7:12pm On Apr 05, 2015
MzNelly:
Yeah....I'm never gon' get married. cheesy

And I'm cool with that. cool
Should I say Amen to that?

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Nobody: 7:16pm On Apr 05, 2015
jmoore:

Should I say Amen to that?

Sure thing.

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Nobody: 7:17pm On Apr 05, 2015
Vivly:
I swear to Drunk I'm not God.
Okay.

Ok i'm basically following you around. You though angry
Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by chimerase2: 7:17pm On Apr 05, 2015
Wen in her twenties, keke and bus drivers cums she would cast and bind them
Fastward to her middle/late thirties she will be like oh God man na man oh ooooo biko angry
If she get luck she fit end up marrying a handicap husband

Lesson gals stop looking at de present see true de needle and use ua opolo eyes and see de future of dat guy way neva hold way still de manage
Dis is a revelation from de man of god rev dr biochemist apkajiyomi chimerase aka de enzymatic eluelury osusu mins3 angry

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Nobody: 7:18pm On Apr 05, 2015
MzNelly:


Sure thing.

Why?

Oh ok but atleast do you like men? I mean do you like to do the do? grin
Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Nobody: 7:19pm On Apr 05, 2015
Headlamp1:


Why?

Oh ok but atleast do you like men? I mean do you like to do the do? grin

Lmao

Get lost, jare
Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by zyzxx(m): 7:35pm On Apr 05, 2015
MzNelly:
Yeah....I'm never gon' get married. cheesy

And I'm cool with that. cool
pls Y?

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Mutuwa(m): 7:37pm On Apr 05, 2015
They are easily pissed by men.
Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Nobody: 7:37pm On Apr 05, 2015
zyzxx:
pls Y?

Why won't I get married?

Or why am I cool with it?
Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Nobody: 7:43pm On Apr 05, 2015
Vivly:
I swear to Drunk I'm not God.
Okay.
we can only be high but we can never be the most high cool

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by zyzxx(m): 7:43pm On Apr 05, 2015
MzNelly:


Why won't I get married?

Or why am I cool with it?
both
Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Nobody: 7:49pm On Apr 05, 2015
zyzxx:
both

I don't like men. undecided

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by zyzxx(m): 7:54pm On Apr 05, 2015
MzNelly:


I don't like men. undecided
aww
But men are not d same
did u hate men base on past experience?
Am sorry for d question
Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by vhickky(f): 7:56pm On Apr 05, 2015
marriage is not for everyone, But our culture forces us...

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Nobody: 7:59pm On Apr 05, 2015
zyzxx:
aww
But men are not d same
did u hate men base on past experience?
Am sorry for d question

Lol

I don't hate men.

I just haven't seen THE ONE.

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by UjSizzle(f): 8:06pm On Apr 05, 2015
Being afraid you'll never get married is a good way to never get married.
People should work on personal development and having an actual life--family time, friends, and the occasional bump-in with nice strangers. Maybe, just maybe they will end up with their 'perfect' match.

What's the brouhaha with the marriage talk anyway? undecided

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by zyzxx(m): 8:10pm On Apr 05, 2015
MzNelly:


Lol

I don't hate men.

I just haven't seen THE ONE.
ok
u are funny ma'am
Don't worry, God's time is d best.

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Odunharry(m): 8:12pm On Apr 05, 2015
vhickky:
marriage is not for everyone...
true

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Re: 5 Habits Of People Who’ll Never Get Married by Nobody: 11:36pm On Apr 05, 2015
Orijin101:
If i talk again now, lala247 and others will start sayin I'm mad cry

Anyway, I still can't see that reason that will convince me to get married! I will always stand on my words. . .

when everything seems cool, you have rest of mind, and you feel as if you have the world in your hands, the devil will jez come and give you a girlfriend/wife, then everything runs >;(

#tEaMbAnGbAbYmAmAs cool

Lol i will never say that

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