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1) He’s always happy to see you.

No matter how hard his day has been or the fact that he may be super tired from work, but he gets a smile on his face when he sees you. You’re the light of his life and be proud of it.
2) He patiently listens to you.

It’s true when we say that girls can keep talking endlessly, but if a guy is truly interested in you, he will listen to anything you have to say patiently. He won’t complain that you talk too much because he knows you look lovely when you speak your heart out.
3) He respects your opinions.

If you have something to say about his haircut, clothes, or randomly something related to worldly affairs as well, he will take your opinion into consideration. If your opinions matter to him, so do you.
4) He doesn’t mind you taking up most of the bed.

Even though you’re a tiny person, he still lets you take up most of the space on the bed just to squeeze in a tiny spot himself. Now that’s a keeper!

5) He’s always there to help.

Whether you’re sick, or you need help with groceries, or you’ve only had a hard day at work, your boyfriend is there to look after you no matter what...........................

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An inquiry is underway into the disappearance of newly printed bills worth nearly $100 million destined for Liberia’s central bank, the government of the impoverished west African country said Tuesday.

“This government will leave no stone unturned to find those responsible for the act,” Information Minister Lenn Eugene Nagbe told AFP.

“It is confirmed by the investigation that the amount of the total money is 15 billion,” Liberian dollars ($97 million), he said.

The investigation was launched August 8, the justice ministry said, following “information surrounding the arrival of containers and bags of moneys” at the port and the international airport of the capital Monrovia.

The government said initial findings indicate the cash arrived between November 2017, when Ellen Johnson Sirleaf was still president, and August this year. The current government led by President George Weah took over in January.

“The current administration was not informed about the arrival of the containers and bags of moneys into the country,” the ministry statement said.

Online daily Frontpage Africa reported that the containers were taken from the port around the end of March by central bank staff but never arrived at their destination.

The ministry said that apart from tracing the money, investigators are also are trying to work out how many Liberian dollars the previous administration had printed overseas and how much was injected into the economy where both US and Liberian dollars are in circulation.

Former football star Weah has vowed to crack down on corruption and unveiled in July a series of monetary and fiscal measures to prop up the local currency and tackle inflation.

He announced the central bank was injecting $25 million into the economy to mop excessive liquidity of Liberian dollars.

In March, Weah said he had “inherited a country that is very broke, depleted by political malfeasance”.

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1. Control your anger

Find a healthy way to release your anger. Take a kickboxing class or go for a run each morning.
If you get rid of your pent up energy early in the day, you’ll be less likely to fight later on.

2. Always be willing to make compromises with your partner.

Compromise is the name of the game. When you get into a relationship with someone, you lose all sense of complete independence. You have to understand that you are sharing huge parts of yourself with another person. You are choosing to open yourself up and to let someone else inside of your heart. You might not necessarily be okay with everything that your partner is bringing to the table, but you always have to be willing to make some compromises here and there. Be mature enough to talk things out and find a middle ground where both of you can be happy with the choices you make in the relationship.

3. Swallow your pride and always apologize whenever you realize that you’ve screwed up.

Be the better person. Take the high road. Always apologize whenever you find yourself making a mistake. Don’t be a brat about it. Apologies might make it seem like a blow to your character, but the truth is that your partner will always love you more for being able to swallow your pride. Being willing to make apologies is a sign that you have a developed sense of maturity. The best kinds of relationships thrive on mature couples who are able to put the needs of the relationship above their own.

4. Don’t bring up the past

This is a huge step that I need to learn. I would say, one of the key ways to stop fighting in a relationship is to stop bringing up the past.
The past is the past and the more that you bring it up, the worse the fight can actually be.
Bringing up the past can also bring up a lot of old emotions, which is never good.............


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Some good relationship advice before considering marriage is to take the time to ask questions that plumb the inner depths of your partner’s personality and psychology. Here are eleven questions you can ask to his or her suitability for a marriage partner:


1 – Why do you love me? – This is a questions that lovers have asked each other from the beginning of time, but it does provide real information about their psychological and social needs in a mate. If the focus seems to be on what you have or what you can provide materially in the marriage, you might need to look elsewhere for an authentic commitment.

2 – What are you goals and are you willing to adjust them for the relationship? – This question can reveal what priority the relationship has in the overall life plan. If the individual is more to achieve life goals and expects you to do all the adjusting, it could be an unfavorable sign.

3 – Do you know how to compromise? – Compromise is the essence of a good marriage. A person who shows an inclination to feel “it’s my way or the highway” is not a good candidate for the negotiations and compromises that marriage requires.

4 – What’s your relationship with your family? – A bad relationship with family can indicate issues that could affect the marriage. Similarly, someone is too close to his or her family may be so enmeshed that the marriage may not come first. Relationship counseling can help to resolve these issues.

5 – Why do you want to spend your life’s journey with me? – This answer can tell you about the expectations of your partner and whether relationship therapy might be needed to create healthier expectations about your role in the marriage.


6 – Can you keep the romance alive? – Someone who understands the value of keeping romance alive will actively work to invigorate the relationship over time...............

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“In Life, The Priority We Set Determines Our Choice”- Timi Dakolo Wife Says

The Singer Timi Dakolo wife, Busola Dakolo took to her page and express the Joy of a motherhood.

She also said she doesn’t know the circumstances that surround your functionality and work it out. Don’t compare yourself with anyone. You might not get away with what they can get away with
May God’s Grace be our strength always. Build your capacity and as you build keep stretching.
https://yelakem.com/in-life-the-priority-we-set-determines-our-choice-timi-dakolo-wife-says/13077/

See her post below;

“I had to step out of a career progression workshop yesterday to attend to my unique son.

In life, the priority we set determines our choices. As a mum, I have struggled and keep struggling to be there for my children and also be relevant as a woman. As a wife, it’s not easy responding to the needs of my energetic husband @timidakolo
All these contributed to why I started @skillskitchen to enable myself and others learn regardless of where we are.

I don’t know how I live each day, all I know to do is wake up and ask God to give me His abundant Grace for the day. Know the circumstances that surround your functionality and work it out. Don’t compare yourself with anyone. You might not get away with what they can get away with.

May God’s Grace be our strength always. Build your capacity and as you build keep stretching.”

Do you agree with her?