AtoningBlood:
I need your input people.

3 years ago, my dad sold our house without informing anyone of us. Meanwhile, we all had things left at home, including my mum's items. He never told us where some of those things are till date.

He sold that house and went to the village, he immediately started having issues with the village people. Fight today, fight tomorrow. Everyone in the village I heard now disrespect him due to how he reveal his secrets to anyone who cares to listen.

My dad wants to leave the village to go rent an apartment in another state. His financial responsibility has been on me alone. My siblings abandoned him.

He's being nursing the idea of leaving the village and never informed me. Last november I spent almost 2 million naira fixing solar power and inverter for him in his house at the village and immediately after that he started saying he wants to leave the village..

I told my dad never to relocate to the village yet, that he should wait till his is older as he is still agile and all his friends are in the state where we lived or around. He also gets contracts once in a while so I don't bear much financial burden. But no, he failed to listen and sold our house and left.

My dad wants me to cough out another 1M to rent a house, he wants it big, 3 bedroom. I told him to look for a 2 bedroom but he said where would visitors stay.

I am not even comfortable seeing him in a rented apartment, what would my cousins say, they would mock us. I have some of them who are very naughty. He is bringing shame in us.

We have two properties and my husband wants him to come and stay in one, I vehemently disagreed because he will be controlling us, some of my extended family members will come visiting him and carry the news to the village, as well as discussing my own family and I don't want that. They contributed to what is happening to him now. Through him, some of them will come to stay and I can not start what I can't continue with. So I told my husband to dead that idea fast.

He wants to leave the village latest by February. How do I convince him to get a 2 bedroom flat? 3 bedroom would mean 3 mattresses, and everything triple. My dad doesn't like anything less. All the expenses will be on me alone. My siblings don't care.

I can't turn deaf ears to his needs. I don't want him in the village and I hate to see him in a rented apartment but that is what it is now.

I need contructive advice especially those of us with retired parents, how do you relate with their needs? I told him to think of a small trade so he won't be idle like he's been since retirement and he is talking about setting up electrical pole business, I laughed. Sebi he wan rek me. Same way he did not manage hid wealth.

Your story reminds me of one of the reasons traveling out of one’s birth country at least for visits is important. Americans for instance don’t think this way. In America children start paying rent once they’re 18 and not willing to go to university. Most children will put their elderly parents in homes.

We go dey here when you bring your story of how your dad wrecked your marriage or finances.

This one enter. Diswan go vex Agbado camp no be small cos na uppercut lol

folake4u:
I always look forward to Obama's playlist because he's a versatile muisc listener.

So wetin u come gain after the waiting

The annoying thing is how to trace your company name among 91k names when they failed to publish the list in alphabetical order

To enjoy dis kin story light a blunt. My account hacked

1) Alive
2) Good health (very grateful for this cos No1 is useless without it)
3) Registered my Record Label in Yankee
4) Signed first artist in Naija by name M1lez
5) Dropped a motherfuckn banger Deny accompanied with a helluva video (Out on all platforms)
6) Changed cars
7) Kid got into college
Etc

Go stream the song Deny by M1lez e sweet die 🩷

To God be da glory

Deny by M1lez. Awesome song and video from a teenager!

You go know say dis wans no borrow money do politics so no worries

Exactly this kind of situation happened at Erunwen Agric area of Ikorodu about 8 years ago. A Bishop and founder of a church network was kidnapped alongside his adult oldest son. While in captivity the poor man died and they buried him in a shallow grave while still negotiating ransom. They also never explained the circumstance that surrounded his death.
The sad thing was that the son was not aware his father had died because they isolated them.

What’s really going on in Nigeria because all these societal problems did not just start today?

Why record the conversation? What’s the motive? Why were you the one his woman called? You of all people. Stop whining us and just come back first

Curse777:



I watched the video of Chief of Army Staff doing press up... That man is gallant and combat ready

Wishing them Goodluck


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Buhari’s COAS did more than that but nothing to show

Jestin:
His visit will favour me and my family 😂

This post dey always vex me 😎

udumosam23:
Very good. At least let us know what really happened. The girl sounded too innocent and wouldn't be protesting with a faked result.

How do you feel now after discovering her innocent face na scam 😀

IconicR:
She did the right thing

You must be a Nigerian 😎

It shows Femi Jalabia no dey work na ass he dey lick

Just shout woo woo

Nice moves. He can’t afford to make nonsense appointments all eyes on him

Abfinest007:
Who noticed ffk has been quiet for some time .maybe d food they gave him is finished

Na piddomnigeria and hundeyin finish my guy expose him yansh for Twitter

JIMMY1393:


Me

😂 Ole

BREAKING: Tucker Carlson don enter anoda wahala 😀

Jennyclay:
Whether husband or boyfriend, Biko you men should take good care of your wife and girlfriend. It’s your duty to provide for your wife and girlfriend. Don’t be stingy!! Don’t run away from your responsibilities!!

Even the Bible says any man that can’t take good of his wife/girlfriend is more worse than an infidel.

See diswan 😂

obiekunie01:
all these oni, obas, emirs and chiefs na only to pack toto full house dey fuk be their job

This really cracked me up 😂

Buhari is a great enabler of corruption!

One thing I’ve observed on this Nairaland is that there are so many people who hasn’t travelled out of Nigeria once who think they understand foreign politics better than even the citizens of those countries lol.

Jonathan with him multiple degrees wetin him do

rtdCivilservant:
Am I the only person with a different opinion? Nigeria has really descended into a level that can only be comparable to hell. Where is our humanity? See people rejoicing that somebody was gunned down cos of election, why couldn't those soldiers shoot the culprit any other place (like his legs) that will not result to his death? In sane countries, those soldiers are supposed to be arrested, but here in Nigeria (Hell) they are being celebrated. If only we know how sacred a soul is.

You forgot Buhari instructed to shoot at sight!

LegendHero:
Nice. One of the best performing governor in Nigeria.

He should make sure he got succession plan so that another party won’t just come in to destroy his 8 years of hard work and legacy.

Because you can build for 100 years and one person can just come in and destroy all what you did in just 1 year.

Like what Trump did to Obama

FAKE STORY or someone using this newly created Facebook profile to express a concern unanimously check the pic attached

Nozino:



But you live in the US na. I know this moniker.



Edit: I just checked.

it was for my kid

Please house I’m new here I haven’t been able to get a visa interview date and resumption is in august please anyone with helpful update? Thanks

posty56:
it's the other way around , someone that can maintain her home ,na Lagos State she go come maintain

Jonathan has one official wife he couldn’t fix Nigeria
Buhari has one wife he couldn’t fix Nigeria

APC has been playing pranks with peoples lives since 2015