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Travel › Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 17 by vicoloni(m): 12:48am On Aug 14, 2022
Nozino:
But you live in the US na. I know this moniker.



Edit: I just checked.
it was for my kid
Travel › Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 17 by vicoloni(m): 1:55am On Jul 15, 2022
Please house I’m new here I haven’t been able to get a visa interview date and resumption is in august please anyone with helpful update? Thanks
Politics › Re: Jide Adediran: My Combination With Funke Akindele Spells "Doom" For APC by vicoloni(m): 4:25pm On Jul 14, 2022
posty56:
it's the other way around undecided, someone that can maintain her home ,na Lagos State she go come maintain huh
Jonathan has one official wife he couldn’t fix Nigeria
Buhari has one wife he couldn’t fix Nigeria
TV/Movies › Re: Curtailing The Excess Of Prank Videos by vicoloni(m): 4:18pm On Jul 14, 2022
APC has been playing pranks with peoples lives since 2015
Phones › Please How Do I Get Rid Of Spam Calls Permanently by vicoloni(op): 1:05am On Jul 12, 2022
Can anyone kindly share how to get rid of and prevent spam calls?
I use an iPhone 12 Pro Max

Thanks

Music/Radio › Re: Tems Reacts To Winning BET Award For 'Best International Act' 2022 by vicoloni(m): 6:21pm On Jun 27, 2022
She try
Politics › Re: Ganduje: No State Fights Corruption In Nigeria More Than Kano by vicoloni(m): 3:57pm On Oct 09, 2020
That means the state is fighting the SI unit of corruption, Mr. Gandollar
Politics › Re: NAF Commissions New Residential Accommodation For Personnel In Lagos (photos) by vicoloni(m): 8:55pm On Oct 08, 2020
Since Tolulope Atotile's issue came out NAF have been trying to show themselves but kudos o at all at all naim bad cos i know that project be conduit for siphoning funds lol
Romance › Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by vicoloni(m): 10:03pm On Oct 04, 2020
Q
Romance › Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by vicoloni(m): 11:55pm On Oct 01, 2020
"In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women"

I used to belong to the school of thought that thinks in the direction quoted above until I moved to America. Omo if you don't unlearn those way of life and become open to modern social evolutions omo na oyo you dey O.

tobechi74:
Simp


When Nollywood actor Pet Edochie fumed at the young men kneeling before a woman, he was backlashed. Pet was comparing happenings in his youthful age against  the youth in this generation. The traditional Igbo man is highly placed in the society. During traditional wedding,the woman kneels down to propose to the man.The one who kneels begs the other for a favor.A typical Igbo man hardly kneels for his fellow man talkless of a woman . He only kneels for the gods who he recognizes as more powerful than he is.

Pet is  not alone. Many men have noticed a decline in the masculinity of men. The Alpha male movement and redpill movement are attempt to correct this imbalance.When did thngs change? When did man begin to loose his ego to stoop so low to kneel before a less powerful being. Was the change sudden or gradual?

Women were seen as irrational and emotional.Men were the rational and strong willed. Men were taught to act like men They had to suppress their emotion close to their heart. Men should never cry in public.  Expression of vulnerability  is a sign of a weak man.  Men are closed minded, rigid and structured. He should not seek fun .Men. Should always be in power, strive for control, compete.They lack empathy necessary for effective communication and connection.

In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women.Then came the industrial era. Lands meant for farming and hunting was taking over by the government to build factory. The owners of the land were jobless.To offer compensation, the men were integrated as workers in this factory. Their male children were not allowed to follow dad to work.son stays at home with the mum while Dad went to work. Father leaves home as early as eight and comes home by six. He is exhausted, he sleeps to get strength for the next day. Fathers became absent in their son’s life. The role of dad in son life began to reduce while the role of mum in son life began to rise. Mummy passes over her feminine qualities to growing son.

Then came education. Female involvement in  education at an early age especially science and  law improve her reasoning abilities (masculinity) . Female take part in competitive games like the male counterpart. This improves their aggression.These women ended up as heads of organization.They took  decision and gave instructions . These women began to have a thirst of power . Their masculine qualities were awoken.

Girls  who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to  the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .

Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.

We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side.  we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/
Celebrities › Re: Tochi Okechukwu Celebrates His Birthday With Nice Pictures by vicoloni(m): 3:47pm On Sep 27, 2020
Hbd
Politics › Re: Bayelsa: Furoebi Akene Named In ₦2 Billion Contract Fraud by vicoloni(m): 11:09pm On Sep 24, 2020
Not surprised. Furoebi in Yoruba means family's asshole ��
Crime › Re: Man Shares Sex Video Of A Sokoto Bride Days To Her Wedding, Fiancé Cancels Event by vicoloni(m): 10:03pm On Sep 23, 2020
who want to see the video?
Politics › Re: Edo Election: Oshiomhole Reacts To APC's Loss, Says 'You Win Some & Lose Some' by vicoloni(m): 10:00pm On Sep 23, 2020
Baring all the silly stunts he had performed pre election this is a good crisis management effort from Oshopikin. It is way better than the rubbish spewed by BAT in his pre election video
Travel › Re: What The Lagos/Ibadan Expressway Looks Like (Photos, Video) by vicoloni(m): 5:45pm On Sep 16, 2020
Good effort but these pics does not depict even up to 5% of the entire road stretch so it's not sufficient to judge the state of the road generally
Politics › Re: Hanan Buhari: Man Attempts Suicide For Inability To Marry PMB's Daughter In Kano by vicoloni(m): 10:28pm On Sep 04, 2020
SmartProf:
It will be easier for one naira to equal one dollar than for this man to marry Hanan Buhari, even in a drama. With a face that looks like someone who is dizzy, this man decided to develop appetite for a big fish when he himself looks like crayfish. This is someone who should be waiting to benefit from Kano mass wedding, but he may have listened to a motivational speaker and suddenly thought he can dream of Hanan Buhari shocked...I blame those who stopped one idiot from exiting the world.
Savagery at its finest �
Properties › Re: From Foundation To Completion, Pictures Of What We Built For A UK Based Client by vicoloni(op): 5:55am On Sep 03, 2020
Contact me on 08065344562 (whatsapp messages and calls only)
Romance › Guys It's No Simp September by vicoloni(op): 2:55am On Sep 02, 2020
Hey guys it's No Simp September. This is the time guys are expected to shun actions that rewards or glorify the female gender especially on the internet.

For instance throughout this month you will not like or comment on any post or picture that has a woman or women in it.

You will not also patronize 'oloshos' or give monies or gifts to any woman except she's your wife or daughter.

You will not also doodle around females like Laycon of BBN.

If you do any of the aforementioned you're a SIMP and boys will call you out!

Mods push to front page if you ain't simps

Celebrities › Re: Monalisa Chinda & Husband, Tonye Coker Celebrate 4th Wedding Anniversary by vicoloni(m): 3:18pm On Sep 01, 2020
Congratulations Mona
Politics › Re: President Buhari Calls For Immediate Release Of Malian President Keita by vicoloni(m): 5:11am On Aug 21, 2020
Hearing this from a President whose government is intolerant of the voice of opposition is very laughable.

Let him instruct Buratai to release the soldier clamped into detention for the past 3 months without access to his lawyer or family despite a court order for his release. Until then he has no moral right to advise any other country on constitutional democracy.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Coup In Mali: President And Prime Minister Arrested By The Army by vicoloni(m): 7:47pm On Aug 18, 2020
Meaning that Jonathan's diplomatic intervention was fruitless omase o
Crime › Re: Tolulope Arotile: Police Arraign Brothers Over Death Of Flying Officer (photo) by vicoloni(m): 4:34pm On Aug 13, 2020
Akoba adaba Olorun maje kari....
TV/Movies › Re: Netflix Gives Ikorodu Bois Movie Making Equipment. by vicoloni(m): 6:43pm On Aug 12, 2020
sodiqapril:
Price for consistency and hardwork... remember when they first started, most Nigerian celebs didn't really support them . I remember Davido ( though as controversial as he may be) donated a sum of 1m to them. Now they got the attention of the production crew of Extraction. A lesson to anyone out there keep pushing and support it with prayers, you're one content away from big break.

Omo..see all the things wey dy dash these boys while me wey b dn old never see money buy camera.. abeg if you have a camera you are not using.. please help me regardless of condition I go manage am like dt.i don tire to dy sleep dy wake up
I have one small rechargeable camera I can give you but the problem is how to send it to you I live in Yankee. +2348065344562 (WhatsApp only)
Education › Re: 12 Animals That Can Stay Without Food For A Long Time by vicoloni(m): 5:01am On Aug 12, 2020
Enjoyable and informative post. Thanks for sharing
Celebrities › Re: Vivian Lam Celebrates Her Birthday With Stunning Pictures by vicoloni(m): 7:29pm On Aug 10, 2020
Boto
Celebrities › Re: Ufuoma Mcdermott Celebrates Her Daughter, Kesiena's 5th Birthday by vicoloni(m): 9:46pm On Aug 08, 2020
See Ufu's backside chai
Crime › Re: Gunmen Attack Church In Bayelsa, Kill Pregnant Woman, 3 Others by vicoloni(m): 4:20pm On Aug 06, 2020
In jj
Health › Re: Taraba Yet To Report Death From COVID-19 – NCDC by vicoloni(m): 10:02pm On Aug 02, 2020
Something is fishy
Politics › Re: Emeka Ihedioha And His Convoy Arrive Owerri In Style (Video) by vicoloni(m): 3:22pm On Jul 31, 2020
This almost moved me to tears....
Music/Radio › Re: 5 Proven Formulas To Making A Hit Song by vicoloni(m): 7:38pm On Jul 29, 2020
Omo grace and divine providence should be no 1 factor. for instance starboy and davido no sabi dance!

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