Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,152,759 members, 7,817,095 topics. Date: Saturday, 04 May 2024 at 05:21 AM

Vikky014's Posts

Nairaland Forum / Vikky014's Profile / Vikky014's Posts

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (of 161 pages)

Religion / Re: Dominion City Airforce Mobile App Now Live! by Vikky014(f): 5:01pm On Feb 20, 2021
Screenshot

Religion / Re: Dominion City Airforce Mobile App Now Live! by Vikky014(f): 6:13pm On Feb 19, 2021
And much more
Religion / Re: Dominion City Airforce Mobile App Now Live! by Vikky014(f): 9:35am On Feb 19, 2021
App Features:
Audio Streaming/Download
Video Streaming/Download
Dominion Mandate Devotional
DCAirForce Posts
Live Broadcast
Like and Share action Buttons
Notifications

With the grouping of the audio and video messages into categories, your search for revelation has been made easy. As you can navigate to any category of choice, and view available messages under the category.
Religion / Dominion City Airforce Mobile App Now Live! by Vikky014(f): 10:51pm On Feb 18, 2021
If you ain't here yet
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.dcairforce
You are missing a lot.
Join DCAirForce.
You'll Testify

Religion / Re: Get Connected On Dominion City Airforce App by Vikky014(f): 12:11pm On Dec 27, 2020
mrdavid777:
Wow. Such an Awesome App. So motivational and inspiring. Spiritually uplifting.
Sure!
Religion / Get Connected On Dominion City Airforce App by Vikky014(f): 3:31pm On Dec 26, 2020
Season Greetings...
As you celebrate this season, Remember Dominion City, Prayer and Prophetic Conference with Dr. David Ogbueli. Holds on 28th to 31st December 2020. @Sisters Fellowship International Camp. Along Nkpor-Umoji, Nkpor, Anambra State, Nigeria.
You can't afford to miss it. Come and get direction for 2021.

Distance shouldn't keep you disconnected.
Get DCAirForce Mobile App through https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.dcairforce to get connected to all LIVE broadcast, through the App, with one click. All you need to get connected is just one click.

Celebrities / Dove Awards 2020 @USA: Sinach, First Nigerian To Win The Song Of The Year. by Vikky014(f): 1:22pm On Nov 03, 2020
Multiple award-winning gospel artist, Osinachi Egbu, also known as Sinach has emerged as the first artist from Nigeria to win the Song of the Year at the Dove Awards 2020 in the United States.

Her critically-acclaimed song Way Maker was adjudged the best Song of the Year, five years after it was first recorded by the writer.

Way Maker has been covered by a number of globally acclaimed Christian music artists such as Michael W. Smith, Leeland; Christafari; Passion Worship Bank; Maranda Curtis; and Bethel Music to mention a few.

Earlier in May 2020, two covers of ‘Way Maker’ by Michael W. Smith and Leeland were featured in the top 10 Hot Christian Songs chart.

According to Billboard, It was the first time in the history of the Hot Christian songs that two versions of the same song have resided simultaneously in the top 10. Leeland’s version reached ninth on the chart, while Michael W. Smith’s version hit the third position.

Way Maker was also nominated in two other categories including Spanish Language Recorded Song of the Year (as recorded by Priscilla Bueno), and Worship Recorded Song of the Year (as recorded by Leeland)

There were thirteen nominees for the 2020 Song of the Year category including Love Theory by Kirk Franklin; King of Kings by Brooke Ligertwood, Jason Ingram, and Scot Ligertwood; The God Who Stays by AJ Pruis, Jonathan Smith, and Matthew West, to mention a few.

Romance / Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Vikky014(f): 7:18am On Oct 26, 2020
Angelacruz:
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs. He cheated on me with another babe. It's hard to move on. I wrote this with a bleeding heart.

Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl. Y would he treat me like this? Am going insane.

What should i do nairalanders?
move on. its hard but do
Investment / Re: Fxtrading Review: Knowledge And Experience Based Review. by Vikky014(f): 10:12pm On Sep 24, 2020
SoftBillionaire:

Well said. Check my profile/signature.
Ok
Investment / Re: Fxtrading Review: Knowledge And Experience Based Review. by Vikky014(f): 7:50pm On Sep 23, 2020
narit:

I can't agree more. But still most people who preach this Forex are no different from scam. They are more interested in filling their own pocket.

Thinking everyone is the same will end up preventing you from partnering or working with the right persons.
There are genuine traders, who are making it big.

1 Like

Investment / Re: Fxtrading Review: Knowledge And Experience Based Review. by Vikky014(f): 1:40pm On Sep 22, 2020
The truth is one's mindset influences the results one gets. for those is not working for, if they carry such mindset and attitude into something else, it might still not work for them. One needs to develop the skill and the right mindset first.
Phones / Re: Why You Should Stop Using MTN Midnight Data by Vikky014(f): 3:57pm On Jun 17, 2020
Mtn are thieves. I knew of this since. But the problem is their network is more stable

1 Like

Family / Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Vikky014(f): 9:41pm On May 23, 2020
LinLinGentle:
Disclaimer: I AM NOT A SAINT AND MY WIFE IS NOT THE DEVIL. I HAVE JUST BEEN UNFORTUNATE TO BECOME A VICTIM OF MATRIARCHY WHICH MANY MEN SUFFER ABROAD...

I have been hustling abroad for a few years while wifey was working in Nigeria and living with children. Marriage has always been turbulent and we even almost got divorced after I travelled out. We somehow worked on our issues with the help of pastors, family and friends, and after a few years of ''roughing'' it abroad to pave way for them, I finally succeeded and my family arrived a few months ago.

I used to be hot tempered, but I have had enough time to gain insight into my inadequacies and reflect on them. I am now significantly calmer due to the determination to make my marriage better and as per ''abroad levels''. My wife on the other hand is fully taking advantage of me and the environment we find ourselves in. First thing she did on getting here was to cut of my entire family. She said she doesn't want to have anything to do with any of them anymore. She has also not been too keen to kickstart her career, as all she does is endless picture taking and editing for social media hyping. I know this might be due to the initial ''euphoria'' phase cos she is coming abroad to a big house, big car and having no limits on most things we used to manage back in Nigeria, and she thinks things are bread and butter. You would never think for a second that she is a married woman if you check her profiles on social media!

She has become even more toxic person than she ever was in Naija. Now very bossy, never backs down, always the attacker, ever ready for a fight, lazier, always on social media, communicates with me as little as possible, embarrasses me in the neighbourhood with the constant noises from our house, and finally her threats have now tripled! Madam is now so fierce that I have become the house chicken. Just within a few months of being here o! She tells me that she will show me for all the ''gra gra'' I used to do back in Nigeria. Friends advised me against bringing this woman here but I no wan hear word as per responsible family man wey I dey claim to be.

The popular threat is usually ''I will end your career''. I wasn't taking this too seriously initially, but she then started following through with the threats by constant calls to the police and other services, making spooky and baseless career ending accusations and allegations against me.

I have never been the one to first lay my hands on her, but I have spilled drinks on her before when she attacked me. My wife now gets very physical without having any element of self control, fear or restraint after the simplest argument and sometimes, she damages things out of anger. She does this so often and never hesitates to dare me to do my worst.

I discovered that she has signed up on dating sites and when I even caught her chatting about sex to a particular guy in our area, she said that it was all my fault. She did not apologise for this. She even referred to it one time after an argument that if I am convulsing like this over just a sex chat, she's waiting to see what I'd do when I see a man on top of her.

My productivity at work has declined significantly and I am now on the verge of depression. Neighbours called the police on us one time after a lot of noise from out house. She accused me of domestic violence. The police had to separate us and I was stuck at home for an extended period and could not go to work due to this. I am now being investigated for domestic violence, which is a serious crime as madam wants it and I have had to report the situation to my company! The whole thing is so messy that I am scared that I have not seen the worst yet.

I am so afraid of losing it all and returning to Nigeria broke cos I spent my last card and even racked credit card debt to bring them here hoping to pay off gradually. I still have a few years to get my citizenship and if I lose my job now, that is the end for all of us!

For now, I don't know what is going to happen to us, as this woman is so determined to cause great and irreparable damage that could ruin our lives, just to get back at me and she is being cheered on by her family and friends.

THE SITUATION IS SO MESSED UP!

UPDATE:

Divorce has now been filed. I also recently got lucky as I was able to secure a restraining order when she messed up again and hit me daring me to do my worst. I called the police and made a proper case and she was arrested. She has been banned from the house for a month. The police advised me to talk to my lawyer and extend indefinitely if I want to. I hope to get this done ASAP. The law here does not only protect women but also protects innocent men. All you need is patience and wisdom. Thank you all for your ideas. Still several hurdles to cross but I am on the winning side for now.
mehn this got me so Emotional right now. how i wish i can reach ur wife. she is under a spell.
Family / Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Vikky014(f): 4:41pm On May 20, 2020
DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.
That serves her right. Gods anger is upon her. she should better beg her ex to forgive her genuinely for open doors if not.

2 Likes 1 Share

Romance / Re: I Have A Serious Problem Concerning My Relationship With Women. by Vikky014(f): 7:08pm On May 15, 2020
Monfeels:
I want to share my problem with you guys in the hopes that maybe I'll get some good advice or at least some insight into my problem.

When people first meet me their impression of me is that I'm good looking, cool and intelligent. Most girls usually assume that I have a girlfriend or a legion of side chicks that I Bleep whenever I want to.

The truth about me is that I've never been in a proper relationship with another woman before. All I've had is sexual partners that I stop talking to after I have sex with them, and girls I get intimate with just to control them and get them to fulfil my desire of having a female to own, please me and do my biding, and then I get bored of them and cease contact and move on like I never knew them.

The reason for this behavior is that I don't possess the emotional resources needed to engage in a healthy relationship with another human being. I have no empathy and I usually feel no guilt or remorse for my actions. It's impossible for me to care genuinely for another person. I don't feel people's pain or suffering and I'm not moved by the death of family members or friends. I simply do not care for any other person but myself. I've been this way for a very long time. I lack the ability to maintain relationships with people hence why I lose friends often. Relationships are usually a means to an end for me and when that end is met, I become irritated by the person I've gotten close to.

Despite the fact that I don't see the point in relationships, I still find that I get jealous of couples in healthy relationships. It's not like I want to experience what they experience, just that I am envious of the fact that they are participating in something I can't participate in.

When I find a girl that I want to get close to, I'm usually consumed with jealousy over her previous relationships, and over any current relationship she has with any member of the opposite sex, even if it's merely platonic. All I want is for her to devote all her time to me and shower me with attention and love. The problem with all this is that I don't want to reciprocate this behavior. In fact the idea of devoting attention to, and showering affection on someone else irritates me. It's all pointless, but I enjoy when it's done to me.

Another weird side to all this is that I don't just want to control the girl, I also enjoy making her feel bad, but in a way that makes her crave for me more. I enjoy poking holes in herself esteem, making her second guess the presumably good qualities she thought she possesed, making her not feel wanted by me, and making her do more to please me.

I don't love women, I only become obsessed with them. Obsessed to the point that I'm constantly tortured by thoughts of them being sexual with another guy especially when it's someone she has dated before. I want her all to myself and even if she had sex with someone before I met her or before we became close, I am filled with anger and jealousy whenever the thought crosses my mind, and I want to punish her for that. It's like I want to erase her past and replace it with me. I want to be all she's ever had. I don't want anyone else in her life and I don't want anyone else in her past.

All this must sound crazy to you guys but this is my reality and it's eating me up. I need advice.
..You are a bully simple.
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Vikky014(f): 1:34pm On May 15, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!
hmmmm. if you like don't. run for your dear life. be playing with fire. such girl is possessed and can stab you to death..
Religion / Re: Share Your Experience(s) Of God's Miracles & Wonderful Acts by Vikky014(f): 12:24pm On May 10, 2020
LegalIcon:
Mine was on August 1, 2015. I was traveling from Ilorin to Oyo town to see the parents of my ex then. I was driving and I had a friend also seated beside me on the front seat beside the driver. I wanted to stylishly convey my serious intention to her parents, so I bought different kinds of fruits and wrapped them like engagement items and kept them inside the boot.

Mind you I was supposed to attend a vigil on the eve of that day (Friday, 31st July), but I chose not too, because I would be traveling the following morning.

So, on getting to Alata area, before Deeper Life Camp (on the Ilorin-Ogbomosho expressway), I was not really overspeeding, but my car suddenly started swerving. By that time, I had lost control of the wheels, so, the car was just swerving on the road while on speed. My friend kept calling me and asking me about what was going on, and suddenly, the car hit one of these road dividers made of concrete and then summersaulted thrice and then faced the direction I was coming from (Ilorin). Now, the last thing I still remember was that when the car hit the road divider. I was GONE! It was as if there was a total blackout.

This was around 12pm. I remember seeing myself in a place where I met an old man. The old man asked me what I was doing there, I didn't utter a word. So, he told me to go back to where I was coming from, that I had not even done the work he gave me. At that time, I started hearing faintly the cry of people, and then after about 3 to 4 hours, I opened my eyes and I saw about four Doctors and Nurses doing suitures on my head and ear. I had memory loss and was just looking at everyone in the Theater. After some time, I asked where I was and I was told Lautech Teaching Hospital in Ogbomoso. I then began to ask them what had happened. They tried to ask me information about my family but I remembered none until after about an hour again.

I then saw my friend who by God's grace didn't sustain any serious injury. He then narrated the story: After my car (Honda bulldog) summersaulted thrice and stopped, the car bonnet flew to the other devide of the expressway. The car became a write off and to bring me out was a task. While my friend was brought out through the side window, the people who rushed to the scene had to use Cutlass and some metals to further break the car into pieces and then brought out my dead body. People were already wailing when a Pastor driving in his church bus offered to carry my body and my friend to the Teaching Hospital. As the man was driving, he was crying and praying that God should prove himself. That was on Saturday.

On Monday, my elder sister was returning from Lagos and when she got to the spot where the accident occurred, the driver of the commercial bus she boarded was showing the passengers that that was where a serious accident occurred on Saturday and a young guy died. Then, my sister told the guy that the guy came back to life, but the guy disbelieved. When it became an argument, my elder sister called me and I spoke to her while in the commercial bus. Could you believe that nothing happened to the fruits in the booth, including the wine I bought? Funningly too, myself and the girl didn't eventually marry.

WHAT CAN GOD NOT Do? Pls, share your own experience of God's Miracles and wonderful Acts. PLEASE, Let this testimony make the from page (to the glory of God) abeg!
. I thank God for your life. That old man is ur angel may you live to fulfill your life purpose IJN Amen. pls continue to hold God tight.
Romance / Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Vikky014(f): 9:01pm On May 07, 2020
Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.

I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless
. Me i am even looking for that 45k salary work. pls how can i forward my CV.
Politics / Re: How Abba Kyari Died Of Coronavirus Disease In Lagos - By LASG by Vikky014(f): 11:41am On Apr 19, 2020
SouthNigerian:


Science & Religion proved this world is ruled & controlled by unseen Powers.
The Spiritual Engineers of Life are the ones who pulled the plug.
Exactly

3 Likes

Crime / Re: Policeman Kills Man In Ohafia, Abia State (Graphic Photo, Video) by Vikky014(f): 1:06pm On Apr 18, 2020
Hoodbilonia:
No one prays to get shat.
U cant stay indoors forever.
Man gat daily insatiable needs
True. He can still come in the night. Instead of broad day light
Crime / Re: Policeman Kills Man In Ohafia, Abia State (Graphic Photo, Video) by Vikky014(f): 11:54am On Apr 18, 2020
Hoodbilonia:
Once u are shot. Pls act like everything ja normal
Pls .
Dont go into panic and shock
If u survive the ak47 bullet at close range
Once u reciver fully
Trace the officee who shat ya.
If he stays in a face me i face u
Or compound
Flat
Monitor him
Then wipe off the whole residence
Spare no one
Not even his flat mates,dogs innocent persons.
The best is not to be shot at all. I prefer to be a living coward than to be a dead lion. Now tell me if he had pleaded with the police man if he wont still be alive? I am not supporting this anyway but we have to be careful with how we handle life.
Politics / Re: Abba Kyari: Was Kemi Olunloyo Right About Death In Aso Rock? by Vikky014(f): 10:55am On Apr 18, 2020
WORDWORLD:


What do you think may be the wisdom behind concealing Abba Kyari's death?!
see it

Politics / Re: Abba Kyari: Was Kemi Olunloyo Right About Death In Aso Rock? by Vikky014(f): 10:40am On Apr 18, 2020
Provost01:
Oga if he was truly dead then, there wont be any wisdom behind concealing the news,again remember he is a muslim,muslims bury their dead immediately. the man just died this night.pray for him if you can instead of all this post that isn't adding up.life goes on.
Yaradau was a Christian right They probably fixed oxygen hoping that he will come back. Rip to him
Romance / Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Vikky014(f): 6:38pm On Apr 08, 2020
mehn the tears just keep flowing. i really learnt alot from this and i pray that God almighty will send your destiny helper . stop hurting bc of how shola ended it wasnt ur fault to me she didnt do well despite how you treated her. other guys would hv used her for ritual but u held urslf

10 Likes 1 Share

Romance / Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Vikky014(f): 6:52am On Apr 08, 2020
Toks2008:


Hahahaha! See me see trouble o...

We no dey date Nah! So why I no go give if I get and even if we dey date I go still give as long as I fit afford am.

How you dey Barbie?
Lol. okay o. i am fine o how is the lockdown over there?
Romance / Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Vikky014(f): 10:07pm On Apr 07, 2020
Is that why you dont want to give me money_? okay thankioToks2008
Crime / Re: Coronavirus Lockdown Bank Scam Alert: Warn Your Loved Ones For Their Safety by Vikky014(f): 1:04pm On Mar 31, 2020
I know how to waste their airtime. they should call me.

18 Likes

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (of 161 pages)

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 98
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.