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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Vikky014(f): 9:01pm On May 07, 2020
Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.

I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless
. Me i am even looking for that 45k salary work. pls how can i forward my CV.
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by toyosiabayomi96: 9:50pm On May 07, 2020
Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.

I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless
.

Congratulations bro.. that shows that she is only interested in your money and what you can offer her today not considering the future with you. However, please I am open for better opportunities in your organization. I studied accounting sir. Thank you so much
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by CuteYvonne777: 10:48pm On May 07, 2020
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by TodayNAlways: 10:51pm On May 07, 2020
900warriorz:
this person is a man using a woman's moniker tongue

How? What proofs do you have?
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Briller: 11:41pm On May 07, 2020
bestabigaelever:

You are right
One of my ex was earning 137k as an intern, he is a pharmacist, he has these characters that I was after his money even though I had to send him 2k sometimes whenever he is broke
One day I said to him, I will rather date a bricklayer than date you even if you use your room to store money

Lol.
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by smiliyB(f): 12:45am On May 08, 2020
Sailorsoldier1:
it was...you will u date a guy earning 50k?..Even ur name sounds as if ur hair alone costs 45k
Hahahahaha kukuma kee me with laff grin grin grin
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by smiliyB(f): 12:50am On May 08, 2020
Michelle55:
She no try jare but talking about it seems like you ain't over her yet..
I'm telling you, it's possible if she comes back begging, he'll still accept her...some guys ehhh undecided He even started the whole thing doing more than his pocket.
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by hardon1(m): 12:56am On May 08, 2020
wany:

Bleeping ba,hmmmm why not first ask of the size of his D,small,short,weak or noodles, to know if he can drive it to the cervix,and I can see you really missed out in elementary biology(sad) undecided

for you that didn't miss, what is the average length of a womans vagina orifice in comparison to the average length of an erect male penis
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by smiliyB(f): 1:02am On May 08, 2020
Evercurious:


You knew she was a money monger ,yet you continued. God saved you the day she saw your payment voucher ..if not that your 360k won't have even been enough for upkeep in the house. I dont still understand why you guys kill yourself just to impress someone. Is it inferiority complex or what?

It took the lady leaving for the scales in your eyes to fall off. It's well with you.. Bragging about spending or should I say wasting money on someone just to be her 'slave'.
Well said...you deserve high five
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by hekkyboi: 1:55am On May 08, 2020
xendra:
don't mind these type of people, women are still leaving rich men, but if he is broke he will use that as an excuse to mask his defect so he can get sympathy.
u r the type that doesn't last in a relationship rather u jump from one dick to another looking for who will pay ur bills. mumu slut relying on her borehole pussy to feed
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by ike6: 1:57am On May 08, 2020
hekkyboi:

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by hekkyboi: 2:04am On May 08, 2020
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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Chukapage(m): 2:18am On May 08, 2020
[quote author=Evercurious post=89269272][/quote]it's funny how you didn't say "Do you even know if she has become more successful or gotten a higher paying job" but Focused on saying " do you even know if she's gotten a bigger CATCH" meaning you ladies Don't even believe in yourselves ,You don't even believe in relationships ,you just see men as utilities for "social upgrade".. grin

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Goovo(m): 10:11am On May 08, 2020
helinues:
Are you pained just cos someone moved on?

How are you sure she left you cos of the salary voucher she saw?

High or low salary, someone that will leave you will still do. So?

most sensible comments here
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by ayanbaba2(m): 10:41am On May 08, 2020
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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by remigreat(f): 2:39pm On May 08, 2020
Hummmm, I smell jealousy here, Bad Belle people. Call a spade a spade, she left her because of the paltry sum he was earning.
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by TruthSpeaker: 6:00pm On May 08, 2020
kokoboy4life:


How many salary workers earn 360k in a month in Nigeria. A civil servant in Lago State Civil Commission will spend 35 years for him/her to earn such amount of cash as a basic salary.

Ok noted, that is Nigeria though. Now that naira has been devalued, that amount of money can’t even cover my monthly house rent in the country where I live.
No wonder receiving $100 as a gift dey really make sense for people back home in Nigeria
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by TruthSpeaker: 6:11pm On May 08, 2020
Uwaiwe:

Wherever you live in Nigeria what's the percentage of employees with monthly salary above 360K? 360k is impressive anywhere Nigeria. We are not talking of middle East ,Europe or other developed nations.

Sorry I don’t live in Nigeria, so I have no real clue of the regular salary structure. I have a friend that studied with me and returned back to Nigeria to work. As a specialist doctor he earns 750K monthly. So when I read of someone feeling really proud because of 360K it called my attention. Where I live, that amount of money will not even handle my monthly house rent most of all now that Naira has been devalued.
At Lekki where I stay when I visit Nigeria a 3 bedroom duplex goes for as much as 3.5M per annum.

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Dantepet3000: 9:15pm On May 08, 2020
Its very sad u stay in the u.s. u no still get sense. No matter what u earn or how expensive your rent is, its still someone else's chicken change. A simple story of moving from point A to B and u want to show yourself. Must I earn the whole world to impress you. I was contented with the 45k, I was unconsciously motivated and now am yet again contented with my darling 360k not to mention my 75k allowance. Bro if u like own lekki matter of fact take it to your grave. Peace.
quote author=TruthSpeaker post=89330372]

Sorry I don’t live in Nigeria, so I have no real clue of the regular salary structure. I have a friend that studied with me and returned back to Nigeria to work. As a specialist doctor he earns 750K monthly. So when I read of someone feeling really proud because of 360K it called my attention. Where I live, that amount of money will not even handle my monthly house rent most of all now that Naira has been devalued.
At Lekki where I stay when I visit Nigeria a 3 bedroom duplex goes for as much as 3.5M per annum.
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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by TruthSpeaker: 9:38pm On May 08, 2020
Dantepet3000:
Its very sad u stay in the u.s. u no still get sense. No matter what u earn or how expensive your rent is, its still someone else's chicken change[i]. A simple story of moving from point A to B and u want to show yourself.[/i][/b] [b]Must I earn the whole world to impress you[i][/i]. I was contented with the 45k, I was unconsciously motivated and now am yet again contented with my darling 360k not to mention my 75k allowance. Bro if u like own lekki matter of fact take it to your grave. Peace.
quote author=TruthSpeaker post=89330372]

Sorry I don’t live in Nigeria, so I have no real clue of the regular salary structure. I have a friend that studied with me and returned back to Nigeria to work. As a specialist doctor he earns 750K monthly. So when I read of someone feeling really proud because of 360K it called my attention. Where I live, that amount of money will not even handle my monthly house rent most of all now that Naira has been devalued.
At Lekki where I stay when I visit Nigeria a 3 bedroom duplex goes for as much as 3.5M per annum.

Congratulations, the most important thing is that you are at least a local champion. You earn far more than most a sizable Population of workers in Nigeria. I didn’t disclose where I live, neither did I go ahead to reveal my salary which defeats your claim that I’m showing myself.
No need to be aggressive or abusive because I will not demand money from you, neither will I send you money.
Don’t you think you are rather the one showing yourself by stating your your salary? You don’t need to impress me, after all we don’t know each other.
I wish you a dream & loyal girl now you are a locally a big man. Girls like dating men that are financially comfortable, so they can live a more relaxed life.

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Dantepet3000: 12:06am On May 09, 2020
That's the problem with u idiots who live abroad. U think its everybody that fancies such nonsense. I love the fact that am a local champion, atleast hunger no make me go hustle abroad. I can travel to anywhere in the world coz I can afford it but I love naija too much. Black slave in foreign land calling a real ma in his backyard local champion. Husle finish atleast your corps will be sent home last last. About finding a loyal girl bros am married now. Reminiscing is allowed. I feel to big to impress anyone. Small story I wrote n your quote is where I live sdfu. ote author=TruthSpeaker post=89337381]

Congratulations, the most important thing is that you are at least a local champion. You earn far more than most a sizable Population of workers in Nigeria. I didn’t disclose where I live, neither did I go ahead to reveal my salary which defeats your claim that I’m showing myself.
No need to be aggressive or abusive because I will not demand money from you, neither will I send you money.
Don’t you think you are rather the one showing yourself by stating your your salary? You don’t need to impress me, after all we don’t know each other.
I wish you a dream & loyal girl now you are a locally a big man. Girls like dating men that are financially comfortable, so they can live a more relaxed life.
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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by DoctorK2020: 3:02am On May 09, 2020
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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by TheBusinessHub: 5:12am On May 09, 2020
DoctorK2020:
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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by BluntNigerian: 9:42am On May 09, 2020
helinues:
Are you pained just cos someone moved on?
How are you sure she left you cos of the salary voucher she saw?
High or low salary, someone that will leave you will still do. So?
So you can actually think with your human brain??
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Uwaiwe: 10:53am On May 09, 2020
TruthSpeaker:


Sorry I don’t live in Nigeria, so I have no real clue of the regular salary structure. I have a friend that studied with me and returned back to Nigeria to work. As a specialist doctor he earns 750K monthly. So when I read of someone feeling really proud because of 360K it called my attention. Where I live, that amount of money will not even handle my monthly house rent most of all now that Naira has been devalued.
At Lekki where I stay when I visit Nigeria a 3 bedroom duplex goes for as much as 3.5M per annum.
More than 82 million Nigerians live on less than $1 a day, according to the National Bureau of Statistics. Forty percent of people in Nigeria live inpoverty, figures published by the statistics office. Where I work, feeding allowance presently for two weeks is more than N360k equivalent. But how many employees in Nigeria are earning 360k and above? What's the percentage? Even my closest relative working in Nigeria earns more than N1.5M monthly. It doesn't mean alot of Nigerians earn same. He is just part of a negligible percentage. N360k is a decent salary in Nigeria today

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Pwetty2(f): 11:03am On May 09, 2020
Holla @me
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by TruthSpeaker: 7:36pm On May 09, 2020
Uwaiwe:

More than 82 million Nigerians live on less than $1 a day, according to the National Bureau of Statistics. Forty percent of people in Nigeria live inpoverty, figures published by the statistics office. Where I work, feeding allowance presently for two weeks is more than N360k equivalent. But how many employees in Nigeria are earning 360k and above? What's the percentage? Even my closest relative working in Nigeria earns more than N1.5M monthly. It doesn't mean alot of Nigerians earn same. He is just part of a negligible percentage. N360k is a decent salary in Nigeria today

Nice one, I’m happy for him if that is the case. N.1.5M monthly is a figure that makes more sense to be really proud of.
I don’t know why the dude is boiling. I only express my surprise because N360K didn’t sound fabulous to me. That was why I was wondering in what state he lives. At Etiki, that might sound like even blood money but at Lagos Islands maybe not even enough for a regular guy that doesn’t live in a slum.
where one lives determines the cost of living and the financial capability of his salary.

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Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Youngpo413: 8:03pm On May 09, 2020
xendra:
don't mind these type of people, women are still leaving rich men, but if he is broke he will use that as an excuse to mask his defect so he can get sympathy.
maybe in other countries because in naija,no matter how 'defective' a man is,if he is rich,bîtches will stick around...even the so-called working class hœs.
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Youngpo413: 8:45pm On May 09, 2020
Evercurious:


Why blame the girl? Blame Op that was ready to be her SLAVE.
Maybe her ass was big and soft,that can make most men not to think straight.
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by kokoboy4life(m): 9:33pm On May 09, 2020
TruthSpeaker:


Ok noted, that is Nigeria though. Now that naira has been devalued, that amount of money can’t even cover my monthly house rent in the country where I live.
No wonder receiving $100 as a gift dey really make sense for people back home in Nigeria

But Dollar is not Nigeria official currency, and we all know that American dollar is valuable than Naira. So my take is there’s no need of bringing comparison of Dollar and Naira, A basic salary of 360k in Nigeria is consider a good one. It’s like saying a job that pays 5000 dollars in a month after tax in the USA is not a good one.
Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Youngpo413: 9:56pm On May 09, 2020
Ikpongiton:
All the graduates in her family .combined .do not earned #360,000.can you listen to yourself?i have nothing to say,apart from calling you an eduaated illiterate
Ikpongiton! Nkpo abadie?

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