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FarFromAverage:
Bro, I ain't wishing you harm or bad. But know that everything is turn by turn, and stage by stage. You'd get your share in painful way or in a soar way.

The truth is boko haram cant survive i. south south. south east and south west those people put humanity first before religion

please tell him to leave in peace before he puts you in trouble...

Na waoh o. some girls are mean o. Now this guy suicide shouldn't have been an option nah. a similar story happened in my villa the girl said the man that trained her isn't a graduate she went after a lecturer now she is a single mother while the man is happily married with 6 kids to a graduate. no matter what dont end your life.

dominique:
Let's not mince words, our security forces have failed woefully in securing lives and properties under this adminstration.

Join the security forces and help out too. Are they super humans? Do you know how they are brutally killed daily in those northern Areas? our security forces are peoples husband.,wife,.brothers .sisters and friends. we need them to be alive too

Foolish girl. were you told that every relationship must end up in marriage? so you drinking snipper will bring the guy back to you or what?

BAAKUS1447:
Awww this is beautiful
But, oyinbo ya were gan o

Hahahaha honestly. their way tire me.

Cant stop crying seriously. how i wish they can come back...the worst is Gigi was so determined to maintain the legacy of her dad.

till you contact STI or STD. that is when u will know what to do. for now kwantinue.

2buffagain:
That is disgusting. Whoever that guy is, he made a terrible choice.
She still lacks good judgement. This is not a wife.

the man has jilted her according to her.

Amakavula:
What sorta trash is this? Why do men insist on wasting their lives with some women? I have two brothers and I watch them like hawk, Godforbid they meet someone like her

same lady just tweeted that she has lost her husband that serves her foolishness right.

Charmingrascal:
It is so sad that many women don't know the value of good sex in a relationship.

Satisfying your patner's sexual desire will help you keep him.



Recently I started having issue with bae because she no longer satisfy my sexual desire and for the first time in almost a year that we started dating I have the urge of cheating on her because I know there are girls who are willing to do what she can't do.

Did you tell her to do it and she refused?

papaejima20199:
This is my first time posting NL , although I've been reading a lot in the last few months . I'll try to be as detailed as possible. I don't even know if I'm asking a question, or advice, or what. I just have to get some things out of my brain.

I’m 36 and my wife is 32. we've been married for 12 years and have two children, twins age 1. I would say happily married. As in, we don't fight, , never any abuse of any kind, no major life disagreements. I love my wife. She is a great mother, a great provider for the family, and we make a great team when it comes to raising our kids. However, she leaves me feeling undesired. Sexually, just intimacy in general, not feeling wanted or desired, missing that flirtatious quality that we all enjoy in a relationship. Our sex life has been on a steady decline, honestly since we got married. Less and less and less every year, and yes, kids make that even more difficult (and provide very easy excuses)

About 2 years ago, I was close to cheating. There was a girl at work that I flirted with often. We started hanging out , and we always seemed to end up talking, touching innocently, flirting, but nothing ever happened between us. The feeling this girl gave me inspired me to tell my wife how I was feeling, what I was missing, etc. I told her how important sex was to me, asked her what I could change, or if she needed to change something. Her response was that she "just didn't really think about it like you do" and that she would try to work on it. Well she didn't work on it, at all.

The flirty girl didn't work with me any more, and I lost that "flame" with her and let it go, and went about life as usual. I've been working a lot of hours over the last six months. I fell into this flirty relationship with one of my coworkers 22 and we just would have a lot of fun with one another. Mad sexual tension. A few months back things happen and she blows me. Its great. Best sex of my life. We set up plans to meet up off work hours and we do.

My coworker is in perfect shape. Its like my perfect woman. I love the way she loves me. She appreciates me, she satisfies me, she matches my sexual drive, and even exceeds it. She is everything I was missing in life, and I'm as happy as I've been in a long time. She is also crazy about me which feels unbelievable. Its been a while since someone has just wanted me to be happy and wanted to please me. I now consider her my girlfriend.

I don't wish to hurt my wife. But I do wish to be happy.

I do not wish for my children to grow up in a home with divorce. I want them to grow up with myself and my wife still being the team we've been so far, doing equal parts to take care of them, and always be there for them.

I realize a lot of what I'm saying are things that can't go together. I want to be with my girlfriend, I don't want to hurt my wife, and I don't want my kids to suffer . I can't have it all. Now I feel stuck

I need help because I can't seem to go through with this alone, and I have no one close enough with the time and level of trust that I can confide in, so I would really appreciate it if you'd offer me some advice.

Thanks for reading

lol. confused fellow. so you cant teach your wife what you want in terms of sex lol. go and marry the 22 yrs old girl nah and leave your wife. why are you stuck? since you love sex more than your life go for sex nah�������

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COWBOYFAN:
Hello Ladies and Gentlemen

I just had a traditional wedding earlier this month. I'm not based in Nigeria. I provided all the finances for the wedding before I arrived Lagos. Everything listed to be bought for the wedding I provided all. To my surprise wedding that was suppose to take place in a hall had to take place in a cramped sitting room. No food, no drinks, no DJ etc. What did they use the funds for? I don't know. I asked questions and no answers given. To be fair to her family members, I didn't give money directly to her parents or siblings. I gave the funds to my wife to be.

Surprisingly on the day of the small wedding, her uncle was accusing me of not providing money to organize the wedding properly. My heart sank. I look in the direction of my wife to be and couldn't believe what just came out of her uncle's mouth. Whereas I provided money for everything. The wedding prayers went ahead and we were joined together.

After the dry wedding ceremony I began to ask questions but my new wife couldn't give me explanation. Fast forward to last week I was looking for money I kept in my drawer and couldn't find it. I decided to just keep quiet and watch. I set another trap. I had some US Dollars in my wallet and exposed the money for her to see. I went to the shower and lo and behold my new wife removed the dollars from my wallet. I got dressed after shower and we went outside to go somewhere together as my driver was in the car waiting. As we were going, I opened my wallet and saw the dollars gone. I blew a whistle right there and she denied it. I asked driver to return home. I had my parent and siblings at home on that day but I can bet my life on them. I told them what's going on. My new wife was all over the place and shaken. I refused to talk to her. I confided in my mother and explained how I set the trap for my wife. Surprisingly my wife started making moves. She planted the money all over the place which I saw as she was doing. I pretended I didn't see her. I refused to talk to her. All of a sudden she confronted me and attacked me that I suspected her to be the one who stole my money. She started saying she stoop so low to allow herself to be ridiculed in the presence of my family. I confronted her with evidence and she began crying and blaming devil. She has done series of money infractions that I couldn't list here. She fights me for money on daily basis since we got married. No money ever enough.

This is a woman that I gave a car to already and spent so much on to be comfortable. I just bought her another car to be given to her on her birthday. On the day she stole the dollars I had just given her 100,000 naira pocket money for the week. She's been crying and begging for two days saying it won't happen again. She has refused to eat.

Here is the bombshell I just confirmed she's now three weeks pregnant. I can't trust my life with her at this juncture. I'm leaning towards divorce. I'm too scared to be with her. She's too greedy.

slay queens never disappoints
Mehn this matter right here is bigger than me.

Biodun556:
Nigerians should stop playing politics with insecurity. Whether is a christian or muslim, a criminal is a criminal.

https://m.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100027360245537

this face is different t from the bombers face

Phenomenal16:
Did any part read The part on the picture abt the gal saving her virgnity for marriage.
Hmmmm
Really niggar
Wow!
Lie with sense abeg

What make you think its a lie Or you think the Ned can just love her like that? or you think Somadina got her disvirgined or what pls it is 100% possible that she was a virgin. how old do you even think she is? a girl that isn't even up to 20 yrs.

uncastableodd:
Not vagina tightening cream. I opened the puss.. y. So if it is wide, I do the digging for six years

wait u were the one that even got her disvirgined and yet u don't trust her

Greystone:
I swear...
U took the words out of my mouth.
I read his rant for 1 minute and ordinary me is already tired of the marriage.
6 yrs of this everyday?
Your wife don try...

Hahahaha

Miradamian:
From looking for duvet,u enter ur wife bag as if na there d duvet dey,u should thank her for trying to use the cream to be clean for u.from the way u sound I think u don't really show her care and love. After checking it out online an found out it could be she was having scratches,u should have showed her more care by dropping some cash for her to go for better checkup if she was scared she could have some infections,or buy her more toiletries on your way back home. But no.u went nagging asking her if she was cheating on u,u will kill her and bla bla bla.if na who wey no go loose am for u? Men u guys could be so annoying sometimes. House owner

As in eh so annoying.

Shibaraba:
You nag a lot!!

Abeg respect that lady na. Even if you think you are anonymous talking about your wife's "vagina odour" in a public forum Is lack of respect for that lady. No matter what. Because if e set now you will still say the same in public.

Oga go home, withdraw small money from your account buy her perfumes and a nice dress. Add flower join. And apologise. Tell her you're sorry and your love got the better of you. If possible take her out. And don't nag anymore. You have a good thing going. Don't ruin it. Not all ladies are Oloshos. Some very good ones dey out there. Apologise ooooooo. I Don talk my own. Because if a woman turns rogue and she start to revenge you're on your own. PS. It's not a sign of weakness.

Thanks for this.

DropsMic:
Remember the four "criminals/murderers" in this thread (https://www.nairaland.com/5656447/abia-police-arrest-killers-husband) ...

They've all been killed.

Source: https://www./igboist/permalink/4133941516681317/?app=fbl

they harvested their organs too. hmmmm

Oh my God this is heart breaking. May their soul Rip.

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

If u have the wives contact. call her and record the call as regards the incident so that it will serve as ur own evidence while telling him. BC the whole thing might turn against you. u can use proverb and communicate with ur friend. u can tell him a story as regards the incidence and ask him how he will feel if it happened to him. infact just use wisdom

Unique357:
In brief, I am a male married with 2 children, my daughter is 8 and son is 5. I also have my niece 11 and a house help 15 staying with us.

On Monday I gave my wife Christmas shopping money to get foodstuffs, hers and children clothing including our house help.

Yesterday my wife went shopping, she bought clothes for herself, our children and nothing for the house help. She claimed that the girl doesn’t need any clothes for Christmas as long we feed and send her to school, the rest is her parents' duties. The girl in question is my wife's relative from the same village. This girl is so nice to our children, she is like a second mother to them despite her being just 15, I have never had any problem with her.

I was mad at her that I told her, if she cannot treat another woman's child well then she doesn’t deserve to be a mother, yes I did said some harsh words to her because of anger. She accused me of sleeping with the little girl which I told her she is mad and she couldn’t stop crying the whole night. This morning she didn’t make my breakfast and refused greeting me back.

Please house let me know if I overreacted

. My own is pls go get clothes the the girl make her feel special as for your wife tell her to stop sewing evil seeds BC no one knows tomorrow

MISTAICEY02288:
SMH! So a foreign Artist coming to your Country has become a problem to the both of you. Are you both listening to yourselves at all? What is she doing here? Is she the 1st American Pop Artist to visit Nigeria? Don't Nigerian Artistes visit the US and other countries too? Why not appreciate her good gesture and move on..

i wanted to say something but since u have said my mind no need

johnmartus:
Very good

lol. i found this comment funny though

BluntBoy:
I am curious.

So, what are your hobbies?

Watching of football.watching of wrestling and Reading . be it news or any thing readable

Philistine:
What sort of flimsy excuse is these? The reason those students that did very well in Waec can no longer defend it is because they got it through miracle centres.

so art students dont use miracle centres . i dont know of any miracle center could u pls forward the names of the centres?

The truth is that you have spiritual wife

BluntBoy:
That was bad.

Parents need to understand that mass media is one of the agents of socialization.

TV ordinarily is not bad, and a child can learn a lot from watching some educative TV programs like quizzes, and highly educative and entertaining animations.

I grew up watching many science genre movies that shaped my understanding of the world around me.

Thank God for your life. me i dont watch any.