Family › Re: I Am Tired Of Being Kept Under Pressure From My Family by Villa12(m): 7:49am On Jun 15, 2025 |
Exgee: Villa, I'm already tired with everything. I'm tired. I'm tired I'm going through worse bro. It is what it is. I'll admonish you NEVER to do anything illegal because of BLACK TAX. Prioritize yourself first before anyone. Give from what you have don't give out everything. Don't listen to them telling you it's time to get married without money. Most of them don't really have sense, sorry to say. They still reason like they're still in 1960 during their time. Even when the country was still okay during their time we grew up to see NOTHING. You didn't asked to be born, they chose to. They had lived their lives. They can't dictate how you'd live your life. |
Family › Re: I Am Tired Of Being Kept Under Pressure From My Family by Villa12(m): 7:42am On Jun 15, 2025 |
Zaheertyler: Sorry sir God forbid but if you die tomorrow Them go use three days cry and life goes on
Whatever you want to do with that information you can do you're more than right. They'll move on with their life after his death. Black tax had sent so many youths into their early grave, prison and it's growing like wildfire |
Family › Re: I Am Tired Of Being Kept Under Pressure From My Family by Villa12(m): 7:34am On Jun 15, 2025 |
stanvesco: Bro, just use your situation as a motivation and keep pushing forward. Trust me,many youths are in your same situation. I have a good job,but I still dey your situation man! A dependent parent is one of the biggest setback a youth can have.
I want to believe many of our youths in crime today were pushed by highly demanding parents you're absolutely right. I have seen someone behind the bar today as a result of his parents and family burden. This guy had to venture into crime and he was making money from it until he was caught after some years. The sad part of it was that, the parents and siblings had moved on like he never existed. I heard from reliable source that the money being demanded before he can be released is out of their reach. Parents now encouraged their children to go into crime to make money. They compare their neighbour or family friends son making money through crime with their children. If you live together with them problems, if you live outside they'd use call and visit to finish someone. I'm sure their parents didn't make them go through all these they're subjecting their children to. So unfortunate |
Family › Re: I Am Tired Of Being Kept Under Pressure From My Family by Villa12(m): 6:35am On Jun 15, 2025*. Modified: 7:36am On Jun 15, 2025 |
stanvesco: I send my hugs. Just know that you are not alone on this. Unfortunately,many parents had the idea that dia kids would be the main retirement plan.
Trust me, just hang on and double your genuine hustle! No go do anything bad ohhhhh,bkos na dem go ask you who send you?
Also, occasionally say no and blank dem! They intentionally pressure you to squeeze what they can get off you falsely thinking that you have and you are hiding it from them.
My only problem with the current retiring parents and mine included is that the entitlement is becoming too much! .
Anyways keep being strong brother Mine will be telling me how he fed me from infant, i went to free public primary and secondary school in Lagos. I hawked with my siblings to feed while growing. I saw myself through university. I was born and nurtured in a single room apartment with 4 other siblings. Here i am still looking for how to survive. Yet, they'd be demanding like someone working in a good organisation. Anyway, I do tell him, I will never consider short cut because of you or any family members. He has done nothing for me. It's better he didn't give birth to me. Their entitlement is out of this world. |
Family › Re: I Am Tired Of Being Kept Under Pressure From My Family by Villa12(m): 6:22am On Jun 15, 2025 |
This is what most average family in Nigeria are going through. Parents give birth with nothing for the children and ended up relying on the children as their retirement plan.
A man came to check up on his son in my area, not knowing the young man has packed out to somewhere else since a month plus. The man said his son had stopped picking his calls. The man left unhappy. The guy friend came out after the father left, telling us how the family wants to kill the young man with bills.
The worse part of it was that, the young man is into cyber crime, popularly known as Yahoo Yahoo
Most Nigerian parents are failure |
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Food › Re: See 2000 Naira Yam In Birnin Kebbi (photos) by Villa12(m): 7:58pm On May 20, 2025 |
Bluntemperor: How did you arrive at your ' 2k is the minimum pay per day for a minimum worker' ? Some of you talk loosely here, without justification and verification. I pay Labourers 5k here,for daily jobs. Stop hate and bitterness towards the govt,just to placate them. he's referring to government 70k minimum wage which if dividend by 30 days it's 2k+ truly |
Food › Re: How Many Times Do You Eat Meat In A Week? by Villa12(m): 6:30pm On May 20, 2025 |
Fekumzi123: Hungry man with N200, that same hungry man with N200 will enter betting house and play bets of N3000 or buy beer/ sachet alcohol with cigarettes. Go to ashawo joints you'll see young men that are complaining pay 2k to 5k to fkk. If they see woman money go come out. Ordinary car washer dey buy woman shawarma of 3k. Let's stop deceiving ourselves. I am not a baby, I remembered vividly how people were complaining during GEJ regime. As a corper, I survived on N9,700 monthly, I will still pay transport to go and collect it ooo because our bank is not even in the LGA we are serving. Now, it's N77,000, you still say you cannot eat meat. Well-done ooo. No jobs, but everyday you go out you must see vacancy. It is a must. Buhari sum it all, you're lazy.
Right now, I am ordinary pump attendant in a fuel station, but I don't beg, I eat meat as I like and still save. Some guys do come once in awhile to beg for N200 but they can't do the job I'm doing. It's below their standards. By month end my total hustle is over 150k. Very Small but I eat meat and I don't beg.
Keep complaining about meat. you're a big man then, you earn 150k monthly. Level 8 civil servant don't earn that amount. You're not doing badly. |
Education › Re: JAMB Approves Re-Sit For 379,997 Candidates by Villa12(m): 7:53pm On May 14, 2025 |
Luckysbab: Some of you are mentally slow.
A Federal University VC for several years is who you want to bring your gutter mouth to insult? he should resign |
Education › Re: JAMB Approves Re-Sit For 379,997 Candidates by Villa12(m): 7:50pm On May 14, 2025 |
G0odharddick: They said over 1.5m got below 200 and jamb approved just 300+ to resit for the exam?
This simple means only those affected by glitches and computer errors can resit for the exam, others should take their scores and prepare for next year jamb.
The senate should make JAMB results valid for 5 years every candidate that failed will resit. Jamb that couldn't conduct an examination will be the one telling us the affected candidate. Story |
Family › Re: Please I Need Your Advice. by Villa12(m): 9:11pm On May 09, 2025 |
Sunnyrado: There's this lady am in relationship with for more than a year now, we meet online and we have not seen for once due to the distance between us, the lady is physically challenge she's on wheelchair and and she can't walk but I lover her so much, she is is from Kogi state while am in Lagos and we have been talking about getting married and settling down, but when I told my siblings about they kicked against it, that how can I go and marry such a person like that and are there no other woman around, and that really discouraged me, they said how will she cooks, do house chores and stuffs like, although my parents are late so it's my eldest sister that said I shouldn't do it.. and the lady said I should come over to Kogi state to come and see her parents Wich am still considering, and another this is..even if I go ahead with her, I doubt if any of my family members will follow me to Kogi state, looking at the distance and all like that.. and she is a very nice person with a good heart. Honestly am confused at this point. Go ahead if truly you love her |
Family › Re: Please I Need Your Advice. by Villa12(m): 9:10pm On May 09, 2025 |
dahmie2013: Op, your siblings concerns are valid. You're only writing these because you're both far, by the time you live together, then your love will be tested. My advice is seek Godly counsel. If I were in your shoes, I'll talk to God about it. If I get the conviction of the Holy Spirit, I'll proceed & ask God to touch the hearts of my siblings so they agree. God will not come down from heaven to make decisions for you. It is your responsibility not God. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I'm Beginning To Think That My Family Was Scammed. by Villa12(m): 7:37am On May 09, 2025 |
franvincoop: Make sure to keep your affairs in order b4 escorting him to Kwara EFCC office. Walahi talahyi if you return back the same day, change my name.
The person you are escorting is as guilty as the person who collected the money. Bribe giver and bribe taker all na inside corruption swimming pool dem dey swim, same like thief wey thief okada and the Buyer of the okada. Without bribe giver, there will be no bribe taker. The worst part be say going by Nigeria cash and carry justice system, person wey take bribe na im hold money. Una no get shi shi and una no dey give shi shi like my beloved Peter Obi so the justice wey una dey find dey for Valhalla. Let Kwara EFCC cell as accomplice not be your portion over something on nairaland. When bail time reach, na to your tents O Isreal and everybody go answer im papa name. Try visit Kwara prison, u go hear cases of persons wey escort another person go Police station, case change like water to wine, police detain them, charge dem to court, court remand them for prison, them apply bail and the main accused bail imself comot, escort remain for prison till today. Cases like this dey plenty for Kano here wey I know. A word to the wise is Sophie e sense. the money can be recovered without the giver going to jail. Someone up there has requested op reached out to him as they have helped people recovered their money in similar situations through their radio station |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I'm Beginning To Think That My Family Was Scammed. by Villa12(m): 6:17pm On May 07, 2025 |
nwirinedu: If your father is paying 800k to secure a job whose monthly pay based on your level wont be more than 110k you re not from a poor family.
You re simply lazy and irresponsible. Federal civil service doesnt need your type, they have them in excess already.
Congrats you ve been scammed. Federal civil servant earn more than that for level 8 |
Education › Re: What Are The Factors Responsible For Mass Failure In 2025 UTME by Villa12(m): 1:01pm On May 07, 2025 |
Poor reading culture Social media Quest for quick money Poor logistic from Jamb |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Teachers Appreciation - I Want To Bless 40 Teachers With 50,000 Naira April 2025 by Villa12(m): 8:14pm On May 01, 2025 |
Happy workers day to all the teachers in here |
Business › Re: Banks’ Customers To Pay ₦6 Per SMS Transaction Alert Starting Today by Villa12(m): 5:18am On May 01, 2025 |
koladata: The country is so divided, if you form the party and the presidential candidate is Tribe A, Tribe B and C will claim it's not tribe A's turn. There's no hope for this country. Tinubu budgeting 10billion on solar for Villa but less than 5 billion for university development and he's still having lots of supporters, watch how they will attack this comment. He promised us he will use the subsidy money for development of the country, but development we no see, return fuel back to the way it was, he no gree. There's no hope my brother , there's no hope the bastard is enriching himself and governors with the subsidy money while those useless supporters are claiming he has increased monthly allocation to each state. |
Business › Re: Banks’ Customers To Pay ₦6 Per SMS Transaction Alert Starting Today by Villa12(m): 5:16am On May 01, 2025 |
Tinubu will kill Nigerians |
Education › Re: Is First Class Worth The Stress Or Overrated? Need Your Opinions And Experience by Villa12(m): 8:00pm On Apr 22, 2025 |
Acidosis: You've only reiterated my point. 70% talent; 30% hardwork.
There are people who are exceptionally sound and intelligent. The difference is that they learn and retain knowledge faster than majority. With just 12 hours of study, they will outshine everyone else who studied for weeks/months.
I've never been a fan of 2.1/2.2 classification though. It is trash. We should not be comparing a 4.49 with a 3.50.
I'm a fan of:
91-100 81-90 71-80 Etc. I think when it's come to scholarship, a 4.4 will be rated higher and above a 3.65. |
Family › Re: Men, Pay Close Attention To This. by Villa12(m): 7:21pm On Apr 19, 2025 |
InDiscov: Men, don't ever do court marriage; Do traditional marriage instead then after that, go to any customary court with your wife showing pictorial evidence of your traditional marriage
You will get customary marriage certificate from the customary court that is acceptable world wide and it doesn't change the fact that you can still go ahead and marry as many more wives you want.
Don't listen to ediorts telling you that it's only court marriage certificate that is acceptable anywhere especially abroad and don't ever take your wife abroad if you truly love her; those pôol ish men that rushed to ikoyi and Abuja marriage registry thinking it's the only place that issues marriage certificate that is acceptable in Embassies will cry.
Sermons over! I will do court marriage |
Politics › Re: PDP Needs Miracle, Southerner Won’t Be President After Tinubu – Fayose by Villa12(m): 7:09pm On Apr 19, 2025 |
chidiokay: All pdp just have to do is bring back Jonathan just like the republican brought Trump
Jonathan still has the coverage and popularity, SS/SE locked down even 60% of SW will queue accept jonathan
As for North, GEJ was more fair to them than a Tinubu
Will Atiku put aside is ego and self centeredness who will deputise Jonathan? |
Politics › Re: Rivers Crisis: I’m Open To Forgiveness – Wike Gives Fubara Condition For Peace by Villa12(m): 7:05pm On Apr 19, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Rivers Crisis: I’m Open To Forgiveness – Wike Gives Fubara Condition For Peace by Villa12(m): 5:47am On Apr 19, 2025 |
papiwyte: So that's why you are shouting obi up and down you have failed already. Don't worry 2027 will retire you and obi back to your sad East finally. JAGABAN till #2031 Tinubu is a goner. Tinubu is a one time president |
Politics › Re: Rivers Crisis: I’m Open To Forgiveness – Wike Gives Fubara Condition For Peace by Villa12(m): 5:46am On Apr 19, 2025 |
Hmm |
Education › Re: 8 Shortlisted Teachers Fail Drug Test In Kwara by Villa12(m): 5:36am On Apr 19, 2025 |
Lanre1st: Government niece won't go for 50k job.
I think they can also extend the drug test to appointment of commissioners and Ministers Can your so called president pass the drug test? |
Politics › Re: They’re Preparing Ground For 2027, Adopt Trump’s Approach – FFK Urges FG by Villa12(m): 5:34am On Apr 19, 2025 |
LordBiden: Me I am suspecting el rufai,man is capable of anything.
NSA office should beam their surveillance on him.
His call logs and phone calls should be wiretapped,his accounts with banks should also be monitored.
Other terrorist apologist that needs monitoring are Ndume,Sheik gumi,miyetti allah chairman and those yeye NEF elders. Tell FFK to mention name na  |
Politics › Re: They’re Preparing Ground For 2027, Adopt Trump’s Approach – FFK Urges FG by Villa12(m): 5:29am On Apr 19, 2025 |
Lanre1st: No be government impoverished you! It's your dependent mindset, learn how to make money from legit source and stop blamng government your poverty. No be government make you not to be safe and secure in your house, pay for security guards and fence your house with gate |
Politics › Re: They’re Preparing Ground For 2027, Adopt Trump’s Approach – FFK Urges FG by Villa12(m): 11:06pm On Apr 18, 2025 |
Lanre1st: Wake up from your slumber!!!
Tinubu no be Jonathan .
Insecurity under Jonathan na hell! May Nigeria never witness that poverty under Tinubu na 🔥 Nigeria will definitely not experience it again as someone else will unseat Tinubu |
Politics › Re: They’re Preparing Ground For 2027, Adopt Trump’s Approach – FFK Urges FG by Villa12(m): 11:02pm On Apr 18, 2025 |
TimeManager: I heard they are now blowing up bridges in the North east. These guys are funny, you think this same tactics you used in the past and worked will work again this time, especially with a President that's always ahead of your game. You all have failed already. Everybody is now aware of your plan.
-Kiss the truth! karma is a bitch |
Crime › Re: 37-year-old Nigerian Arrested With Cocaine in India; Fake Passport Seized by Villa12(m): 10:50pm On Apr 18, 2025 |
Fearurcreeator: Yes e show for your body  and you no fit write and speak fluently  |
Politics › Re: Poverty And Insecurity Still High In Nigeria- IMF by Villa12(m): 8:27pm On Apr 18, 2025 |
lightwind: Where are those APC Robots ? Fearyourcreator is one of them, the old agege tribal bigot |
Politics › Re: Poverty And Insecurity Still High In Nigeria- IMF by Villa12(m): 8:22pm On Apr 18, 2025 |
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