Mercury12:
okay😂 let's see how long she can go without the DNA test ... We will be watching in 3d. Nah here we dey😂

you go watch you go tire

She doesn't owe you nor me

imam07:
go to court and stop them from giving her order. U talked like an idiot. Even with this court order, wumi can't come out opening to say she will not do it like d way she used to say before. If she try it, it means she is telling d world she has something to hide. A controversy issue and u are saying nobody has d right to tell her to do DNA. If mohbad father is a millionaire and d baby has assets to inherent from his grandfather, nobody will tell wumi to do DNA. Stop disgracing yourself here just because of women supporting women agenda

let the grandfather keep his property. The grandson doesn't even have any right to the property. He only has right to his father assets which he'd rightly get.

Mercury12:
she go die if she do the test? The pressure is on wumi now anyway 😂

of course she won't die but she doesn't owe anyone obligation to carry-out DNA test. Very simple

imam07:
stupid ass licking man. Look around your life and find out if what is happening to u is okay or not. Because a man can't be talking like this and his life is okay. How on earth will this kind talk came out from your mouth. Nah men like u dey father bastard and will be too late for u. Woman don remove your brain and put her own inside. No wonder u dey talk upside down. Mumu

sadly, you can't even lace the shoe of women in my life. Women may not be physically strong but they're emotionally sound than men. Reason why men had been ruling Nigeria since 1914 what has become of the country? Check out countries rules by women then you'd understand.

Metrofox:


You can't claim to be a member of a family if you're not accepted by that family. This is common sense

the law supercede culture and tradition bro

imam07:
go to court and stop them from giving her order. U talked like an idiot. Even with this court order, wumi can't come out opening to say she will not do it like d way she used to say before. If she try it, it means she is telling d world she has something to hide. A controversy issue and u are saying nobody has d right to tell her to do DNA. If mohbad father is a millionaire and d baby has assets to inherent from his grandfather, nobody will tell wumi to do DNA. Stop disgracing yourself here just because of women supporting women agenda

old school watch out. The same court will be used to counter the order.

ivolt:

I realize many of you only know the imaginary America projected by online "red pillers" and other fringe groups.
The bold shows you know little to nothing about US laws.
You see paternity fraud is already a crime in the US on paper but guess how many
women have ever been convicted?
That is an assignment for you.


In the US, you can sue someone for saving you from drowning.
A thief can sue an home owner, if he gets injured while robbing a house.

In short, you can sue a person for any reason as long as you have about $50 for filing.
Nothing special about it.

It doesn't mean they have committed a crime or you will be compensated at the end of the day.
You may even be fined for starting the suit in the first place.

Now, to the issue at hand. If a child is born during a marriage, it legally belongs to the father regardless of who the actual father.
This is general knowlege. I know it doesn't feel right based on your Nigerian mentality, but the law is the law.
Even if you sue, that doesn't terminate your legal responsibilities until the child turns 18.

But if you are unmarried, you may fight being designated the father using DNA as your weapon.

i am a young guy in his mid 20s but i want you to understand that an average Nigerian man are way too emotional when it comes to issue partaining to the opposite sex. They don't reason with their common sense. All what you said is the norms even in Nigeria but their emotions had beclouded their sense of reasoning

Mercury12:
why not? The court can compel her to carry out the DNA test. That is if she wants her son to inherit mohbads property.
Failure to carry out the test means she has something to hide.
We had enough of her pathetic emotional blackmail. Nobody got time for that. She should go do the test. Simple.

Lol

The same court will be used to counter the order. Dey play

imam07:
This shows u no come from good home. Your parental background is faulty

Lol

I owe you no explanation if i come from good home or not. The world doesn't revolve around you neither is your view the norms or general standard.

imam07:
stop disgracing your family here. Olosho like u will always support wumi

dumb old man. I'm a full fletched man. I don't reason like you lots.

imam07:
You are dumb. U said nobody has d right to ask for DNA. That is when there is no any issue on ground like this. Only God knows what kind of people are u. Do u think d govt or d court doesn't know what they are doing. Wumi herself has let us know mohbad is not d father of d child d moment she has been running away from DNA. Abusing her father in law is also a sign mohbad is not d father. Evil women like u full nairaland. Even some of d women initially supporting wumi have withdrawn their support.

stop running your mouth like tap old man. If DSS pick you up now with your myopic accusations that the child doesn't belong to Mohbad you will start crying. Wunmi do not owe you any obligation to carry-out DNA test. You should get that into your cerebellum. She owe no one.

komzy589:

You’re actually the dumb one. A man is not mandated to care for even his own biological child. It’s a choice and there are consequences at both ends. If he chooses not to, he has no right to that child.
In divorce cases, the only reason why men pay child support money is to have a right to also own the child. No man anywhere in the world is mandated to own a child if they don’t want to.
Don’t make a stupid post next time.

a child born under a man's roof belong to the man. If the man raise the child to teenage age. No one can lay claim of the child. It belongs to the man.

imam07:
Why mumu con plenty for this nairaland. A case that involves serious controversy and u are saying nobody has d right to order for DNA. Where are u from sef. U are out of your mind

you're just being emotional. Wunmi owe no one any obligation to carry-out DNA test.

DeltaBachelor:
I quite agree with you on this but at least J have seen different cases like this both in real life and from TV. Just try to watch the episode " Paternity Court" on YouTube. I am sure you will stay glued.


.... JSYK, I know she's the wife and is entitled to what's left behind legally, but at least, we would like to know the outcome of the DNA result for posterity sake

who are the we? She owe no one any obligation to carry-out DNA test.

Mercury12:
all doubt are about to be laid to rest. DNA test is around the corner 😂

LoL

Who told you she'd go ahead with the court order?

Ashawoman82:
Oga paternity fraud wasn't as common during those days than what we have now.. Then it was a sacrilege for a woman to even commit adultery, in some culture, the woman can be killed.

you have been spoon-fed if you think women don't cheat during that period. technology only make it easier now. most of us don't know our biological father through DNA test but we will be talking when DNA test is being discuss. how many Nigerians can even afford the DNA test sef? Wunmi do not owe anyone DNA test.

LagosFirstSon:

It's a good thing to be old and I pray to be old in future ..

Guy, why are Yoruba girls so loose?

I am Yoruba and Yoruba girls are loose

i am Yoruba also and you're not lying in the aspect of Yoruba girls being loose but i don't think Wunmi owe us DNA test. her husband is late and he never questioned the parternity of the child.

LagosFirstSon:
Oloshos will come and defend her now but it's already too late

Good one court

old man you no still get sense. Ordinary charge and bail lawyer know say no one has any right to demand for DNA test for a child order than the father

WebSurfer:
she probably already did it and knows the result will expose her or know it already as a cheat that she is

most of you don't know your biological father proven by DNA test na to dey chook mouth for people matter una sabi.

casualobserver:


First of all our tax rates are one of the lowest in the world. Secondly even at this relatively modest level, most do not pay. Thirdly, you are not very bright. Fourth, you have a sense of entitlement. University education is not a right, it is a privilege…basic education is your right not university education.


I stoped reading your post after the 1st few sentences. I am done engaging you and have told you before to carry on advocating for your cheap education and let it take you where it takes you. The rest of us who know, understand and value good education will find the money to send our children to good schools whatever it takes because we know apart from a good name that is the only true legacy of a parent to a child. In Yoruba land we say “Abo oro l’on so fun omoluabi”. …..you only need to speak half a word to a reasonable and discerning person. I have explained and explained to you how just like fuel and electricity subsidies, cheap education is an illusion and penny wise, pound foolish but you are still there displaying the understanding of a jackass!!!

Back in the day pre independence people sold their properties to send their children to universities. It wasn’t free, many went to night school e.g Afe Babalola, many sold properties like Nwodo, others went into business to make money to go to school eg Abiola and Awolowo. It is only because of the skills shortage of independence that necessitated free/cheap University education. It is no longer sustainable. We have more graduates than we have jobs and the best jobs are not gained via a university degree. We have no business subsidizing universities.

Good bye and good riddance!

initially you claimed we don't pay tax. I burst your bubble then you shift to we pay little tax agenda must agend so i understand your defensive mechanism for your corrupt leaders. My father is in his 60s and he had free college education in Nigeria. Most of those corrupt leaders that you asslick and defend online had free education also. Although we know some of them did forged their results. Like i told you less than 5% of our population can boast of 500k in their bank account. If you can afford it or have property to sell doesn't mean others can afford it. You probably belong to the 5% Nigerians. Just pray they don't kidnap you or your Loved ones because that's one of the thriving business in Nigeria now.

casualobserver:


The countries you cite, how much tax do the citizens pay? You dont pay taxes and you want free university education?

I have already said, education is not free. You either pay in fees or you pay in taxes. But as you are a product of cheap education, you read but do not understand. I challenge you to name one country with a population higher than 30m with high quality free university education where the tax rates and compliance rates are as low as Nigeria’s. The countries you mention, examine their tax rates, they are as high as 50%.

You don’t pay taxes, you don’t pay fees but you want good free or cheap education? Where is the money for good quality lecturers and facilities going to come from?

who told you Nigerians don't pay tax? Like seriously we don't pay tax? How are they paying Tinubu and other political officers if not tax payers money? Are they not our employees? I don't understand the tax that Nigerians do not pay. We pay tax directly and indirectly and our corrupt leaders embezzled the money within themselves and families. Every working class Nigerians pay tax, every business person pay tax, drivers and conductors pay tax, we pay for electricity but we don't have light, we pay for transformer, we pay and hire security in our community, we dug our borehole ourselves. I don't understand the tax Nigerians aren't paying o.

Germany with over 90million population has free education for all and sundry including international students. India, Argentina, Kenya an African nation all had free education for their citizens. Norway had free education but recently stopped it for international students except those going for PhD.

I am not justifying paying peanuts for tuition fee with dilapidated and outdated syllabus. I am only concern at your manner of approach. Why must you exonerate the corrupt leaders God has bestowed with us at the detriment of the masses? I'm sure you know most Nigerian parents cannot afford 500k tuition fee and that isn't far-fetched from the corrupt leaders we have. Imagine ordinary food is now a luxury in Nigeria where APC labrat are always praising their paymaster for taking bag of rice to 50k that is how low Nigerians had degenerated. Your leaders cannot be living large with tax payers money while the masses find the difficult to feed.

Students loan obviously will not go round and those who are lucky to have it might find it difficult to pay back because of unemployment rate in the country.

helinues:


There is nothing your likes can appreciate.

Na oath swearing things

they no give you your own 50k?

I

casualobserver:


You are deflecting from the point. How many of the 400,000 graduates that we produce every year do you know, talk less of how many do you know that have decent jobs? The majority are drivers, sales girls and boys, receptionists, bank tellers or unemployed because they are graduates with degrees that have no value in the market place.


Continue with your emotional arguments just like you did with fuel subsidy and electricity subsidy. Fuel subsidy gave you bad roads, electricity subsidy gave you no electricity and university subsidy has given you bad unemployable graduates.

FACT:
1) you pay peanuts, you get peanuts.
2) Education is not free. You either pay in form of taxes or you pay in form of fees. The more taxes or fees you pay the better your education and the less the poorer your education.


You want to go to Lagos from Abuja and you get on a bus to Kano and we are telling you this bus will never take you to Lagos. Instead you start to argue and curse. When you finish arguing and cursing everybody. Your situation and the fact stil remains the same….the bus you entered is going to Kano not Lagos! If you like you get off the bus now, if you like you wait till you get to Kano. Abuse everybody and their father, Either way that bus is not taking you to Lagos!! So if you like think those who are paying huge fees are fools, after 4 years in University you will realize all your 45k university tuition can get you is a 45k job, if you are lucky.

Keep arguing with yourself.

There are countries that has free education upto PhD level with robust economy, where all and sundry are gainfully employed with descent take home . Those countries do they originate from the Mars? Who told you paying millions in Nigeria tertiary institution will automatically translate to jobs creation and end unemployment with good pay? Have you asked yourself where would Nigerian parents get these money? The same country that top the ladder of poverty? A country with over 230 million population but less than 5% of the population can boast of 500k. A country with 30k minimum wage while some state government are still paying 18k minimum wage in 2024. Nigeria doesn't come close to top 10 country in Africa with reasonable minimum wage. You can't compare US, Canada, UK, Australia to Nigeria because they pay high tuition fee. These same countries pay over #2.5 million as minimum wage equivalent to our currency. What is the take home of their leaders compare to yours? How is their standard of living, healthcare, education, infrastructure, welfare et al compare to yours?

I hope you know not all students will have access to the so called loan? What would be the fate of others? Dropout? Those that have access to the loan how would they pay back? We all know there's no job in Nigeria.

casualobserver:


Nigeria produces 100,000 graduates every year. How many do you know that got good jobs?

Look my friend continue to pay N45k. I don’t have time to argue with dimwits.

Whatever you see you see.

direct that question to your corrupt leaders that has stolen the future of Nigerians up to their unborn kids. They're in the better position to answer that question not you and i.

A dimwits is better than a Nitwits and a fool that always asslick and exonerate corrupt leaders thereby, putting all blames on the masses.

bentenny:

From your latest comments,it's obvious you don't really know what an alpha male is or their attributes!

Bitterness and constant bashing of women are not traits of an alpha male!
Try to know the attributes of an alpha male before you tag someone with that title!

they do call themselves alpha male i understand some might be mysogynist but they do refer to themselves as alpha male and they're broke nigga

Propaganda government

emmaodet:




That statement...the children are now the fathers while fathers children cracked me up

That's the truth. Some parents will even justify it by saying afterall our leaders are criminals, stealing our Commonwealth resources to buy properties and dual citizenship for themselves and families in different parts of the world.

There are many factors that led to this mess we found ourselves. It's not entirely the fault of this generation.

bentenny:

I have never seen a broke alpha male!

LoL


They plenty for nairaland . Any guy who dedicate his time bashing women is obviously a broke nigga. I personally know some of them in real life. They're bitter because they're broke. Rich or comfortable guys don't have time for that rubbish.

Some of them will be capping rubbish saying they cannot do this for woman, they cannot do that for woman . Baba wey never see house rent pay

casualobserver:


Like I said it is too cheap. You are straying off topic making emotional arguments. That’s why we are producing graduates are unemployable. No point going to university to get a degree that has no value. If you cannot afford it, go and learn a vocation.

You may not like what I am saying but I am speaking the truth. Most of the students with degrees from 50k -100k universities will never ever get a job with those degrees because most are worthless.

If your university charges cheap fees, they can’t afford the best or even good lecturers, if they can’t employ the best lecturers, they cannot give the best teaching to the students l. If students are not taught by good lecturers, they can’t get good degrees.

If you want to discuss how someone on 30k can afford university fees in the millions, that is a seperate subject. But if you are playing cheap fees you are getting worthless degrees. Some universities charge N50m a year or more for tuition and you think you are getting the same quality of education for your N100k? You think the people paying N50m a year abroad are fools? You are the same ones that will complain that they get the best jobs. I am not saying fees in public universities should be N50m but ideally no good university in Nigeria private or public should charge less that 2-5m.

you're not only being emotional but hyperventilating. You're absolutely wrong @bolded. There are tons of graduates that paid much more ess than that amount that i personally know and heard series of stories and today, they're working in good places in Nigeria and outside the country. Those with good solid results got full/partial funding scholarship to US, Canada, UK, Australia et al for their masters and PhD and today they're all doing pretty fine helping their families and loved ones. Yes, the same cheap or almost free education that you claimed is worthless. Mind you, all these are not only attributed to medical field, they cut across all fields. If you know where that cheap education had taken Nigerians to in life, you wouldn't put up that statements. There are countries with free tuition fee. What about that?

You cannot put the blame on the masses and exonerate your corrupt leaders. Like i told you what is the minimum wage of those countries paying huge compare to ours? Even a toddler in Nigeria knows that they don't have leaders. When Nigerians are ready they will do the needful starting from that outdated Constitution we're using. You see those political offices starting from the presidency to the least will be on part time basis and will attract peanut pay just like they place Nigerians on meagre minimum wage. Let those who truly want to serve get there and they can only do one term. Any political office holder found wanting of stealing will be killed immediately. Do this for just ten years and watch if sanity will not be restored back to Nigeria.

emmaodet:


We always come down to this line..... If the government.......
Funny enough, the generation that raised us never depended on government.
Government was none existent then yet they trained us to where we are today just for us to have failed them with government should ....

i think our fathers and forefathers generation enjoyed the government more than this generation. They had access to free and quality education. They got job immediately after graduation. Those who didn't go to school but learn a skill or trade were doing fine. Insecurity was very minimal or inexistence. There's nothing like Hunger. Food is never a problem then. I am not justifying this present generation. I understand this generation is nothing to write home about but when it comes to government i think our parents generation enjoyed government a bit compare to this generation.

My dad told me the enjoyment they had during their own generation only the Rich or very comfortable children had it now. Nigeria was still good then. Dollar and naira was equal. But now an average Nigerian guys are into cyber fraud popularly known as Yahoo. They now see anyone not venturing into Yahoo as a fool who will die poor. Some if not most of these guys are graduate but couldn't get a job as a result of the situation in the country. While some of them don't want to start from little. I know one that dumped a 70k job for Yahoo. A single guy in his mid 20s. Another angle you should look at this matter is that parents are in support of these guys doing Yahoo. What will you say about secondary School students already doing Yahoo and supporting the family with money? These guys had taken up responsibility in their various homes. They're now the fathers while their fathers had become children as a result of the responsibility they shoulder in their respective home.

I think this generation are not to be blame entirely. Government also had their fair share likewise their parents.

MEGAWATCH:



My brother, women most times doesn't know the way.....God has given the man the sense, power and ability to have understanding on how his family and generation will look like.

So please don't allow any woman be her your wife, sister or mother to derail you.

Be a man and do what you feel will be good for your children and their future.

Don't be that Man that will regret in future for not teaching your children to be strong and do what is right.

A word is enough.....

In Nigeria today, men are more irresponsible than women. Is it not Men that has been ruling Nigeria since 1914? What has become Nigeria today if not underdeveloped. If you think your wife do not have a say in her home then I'm sorry to say that's the beginning of failure in your home. There are lots of home that i know, if not for their mothers in their lives the children would have become useless. If you don't know most married women stay put in their marriage because of their children. Even Bible and quoran do not joke with mothers.

babajero:
So what you are saying is that prostitution is justified?

Yes. Prostitution is not criminal. And they're not the only one involve in prostitution. Guys are into it together with them. Unlike guys that are into Yahoo Yahoo, armed robbery, kidnapping, drugs trafficking, human trafficking, pick pocket, streets urchins, hooliganism, rapist etc.