PLEASE! STOP! PAYING THE BILLS IN THE HOUSE! If he brings 2k for the week, don't add anything on it, cook what it can reach and take your kids out to have a good meal. And DON'T GET PREGNANT for a 3rd child until you have a good plan on ground. He will not change until you let him feel the burden at home! BE WISE WOMAN! TAKE ACTION!!! SAVE YOUR MONEY! IF HE WANTS TO BE DOING BIG MAN OUTSIDE, LET HIM KNOW HE IS A POOR MAN INSIDE HIS OWN HOUSE!

Initially when I read the headline, I went WHAT?? But after reading the entire content, I said OK!

In my opinion, he did NOTHING WRONG! The neice was there with his other children and she PICKED HER OWN UNDERWEARS BY HERSELF. He simply PAID FOR ALL THEIR PURCHASES!

His wife is NOT A GOOD PERSON! PERIOD! I see her, as SELF- CENTETRED! SELFISH PERSON! She should be happy that she has a husband that goes shopping for his household.

If the neice parents are still alive, SEND HER BACK! Before your wife makes her life miserable! Then she will be left alone to do her chores and care for her own children. STUPID WOMAN! That is how they will use her hand to wreck her marriage and blame an innocent girl!

Oppy4God:


good day maa i would love to have some discussion with especially about ur experience.i have sent u an email.pls ma hope u will reply me.thanks

Hello, I just saw your comment, checked my mail, I told the Host to send you my email.

My heart is so heavy ever since I read about these attacks and saw corpses littering the streets, and the 3 year boy bleeding, left for dead!

Why South Africans? Why?
Killing the same Africans who joined you to fight against apartheid?
Are your citizens not in other African countries?
This is the second time you are shedding blood of the innocents.

ECOWAS should take a drastic action by , laying heavy sanctions, denying visas, and bycotting their products, to let them feel the impact of what they have done, or else, this incident might repeat itself in future.

I weep.
God of vengeance will fight the battle for the souls lost in this act of wickedness!

The world watched how Nigeria politics played out from start to finish. And realized that God indeed, showed His mercy upon us.

Interesting and controversial topic.
....again, please tell me when was slavery and racism abolished ?
And how old are the commenters?
Why so much pent up anger and bitterness after so many decades?
Why so un forgiving?

...but every race was involved in slavery! So much wickedness was done during the era of slave trade!
... but generations have passed...yet people refuse to let time heal the wounds...holding unto feudal words of past ancestors...So sad.

Whenever I hear news about the shooting of another black by white police, I truly sympathize with them, but with the kind of anger I am feeling From the comments here, it makes me question where my loyalty lies.

It is so disheartening to know that black Americans detest Africans this much.
It is well. No shaking! We dey kpame! We shall overcome someday.

Like the children of Israel cried unto God, asking: WHY SHOULD THEIR TEETH BE ON EDGE BECAUSE THEIR FOREFATHERS ATE SOUR GRAPES? (why should they suffer for sins they did not commit or know of?) I ask black Americans: WHY SHOULD THE NEW GENERATION OF AFRICANS SUFFER FOR THE ERRORS OF THE PAST?

Please LET GO of the past, and live in the present, embracing the future. Shalom

I just wonder who are the pot bellied men i see on the streets everyday and fb? Some needing brassiere, and some have all christian sister arms?

IT IS ALWAYS ABOUT THE MARRIED WOMEN MAKING AND TAKING EXTRA MEASURES TO LOOK GOOD ALWAYS WHILE THE MARRIED MEN LET GO!

Though, they shall gather, but, since the gathering is not unto the Lord, they shall surely stumble!

Every gathering that is being made to bring more unrest into this country it shall NEVER succeed!
Lord will send the spirit of contention and confusion into their midst, in Jesus name, amen!

ENOUGH OF THIS NIGERIANS!
LETS ACCEPT DEFEAT, AND WORK TOGETHER TO IMPROVE OUR COUNTRY'S GROWTH!
GEJ, HAS SHOWED HIMSELF THE STATE MAN AND GENTLEMAN HE IS, BY CONCEDING TO THE VICTOR.
PLEASE, I BEG OF YOU ALL, SHEATH YOUR ANGER, BITTERNESS, AND GRUDGES, AND LETS ALL STIR NIGERIA TO IT'S GREATNESS!

Honest men of GOD are praying to avert disaster, that the Lord has revealed to them. IT SHALL NEVER COME TO PASS, NEVER! Because, God is ever faithful!

IS IT THE NIGERIAN MEN THAT ARE FAITHFUL? mschewww!

Come to think of it; Why will a young gal remain faithful to a man who has not yet paid her dowry? Then after been faithful for 10 years, she will get dumped! #not worth it#

IS IT NOT ABOUT TIME THIS OLX OF A THING SHOULD BE BANNED OR BLOCKED

NOTHING! GOOD EVER COMES OUT OF IT!

I pray they should be returned safely.

Congratulations to GMB.
I pray for you sir.

The same God of Moses that parted the red sea for the children of Israel to pass through, will also make a way for you to lead Nigeria into her promised blessings. In Jesus name, amen!

The same God of Prophet Isaiah, who was sent to king Hezekiah, to tell him he has added 15 years more to his life, when he cried unto God to have mercy upon him, He will do the same for you president Buhari, that you will have sound health and long life to fulfill all the good plans the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob have for Nigeria in Jesus name, Amen!

Let all the true believers say Amen!

We reject every false prophecy that is being projected into this new chapter in Nigeria history. In Jesus name!

God who started His work, will be faithful to complete it in Jesus name! His thoughts toward Nigeria are thoughts of prosperity and not disaster in Jesus name! His words can never return void unto Him, because they will fulfill what He has sent it out to do in Jesus, name. Amen!

I respect GEJ for congratulating GMB. He wants peace, let us all respect that, and shun every act of violence, please. Let us be magnimous in our victory. It was a well fought race. Remember, the Lord says the battle is not for the fast or swift, but to whom He gives His grace to. His grace is upon GMB. Amen.

Congratulation to our new president of Nigeria! Salute!

The suspense is much!
10am tomorrow again?
Lord take control!
The collation officers should be watched!
Some have sold their birthright for a bowl of porridge and for 30 pieces of silver.
Lord,your word never returns void. They shall fulfil what you have sent it out to do.
There shall be peace in Nigeria!
Anybody that wants to cause division in Nigeria, ancient of days, Lion of the tribe of Judah, send the spirit of confusion into their camp in Jesus name!

Anger surged through me as I read that she was beaten by her in-laws!
WHAT RIGHT DO THEY HAVE TO DO THAT?
IS SHE THEIR CHILD?
BECAUSE SHE IS MARRIED TO THEIR BROTHER?
WILL THEY BEAT THEIR OWN BROTHER WHEN CAUGHT?
OR THEY THINK THEIR BROTHER IS A SAINT?
NONSENSE!

I don't support what she did, but it should have been handled maturely than exposing her unclad picture to to world! For crying out loud! THIS IS SOMEBODY'S DAUGHTER,SISTER AND MOTHER!
IS THE SISTER-IN-LAW FREE OF SINS HERSELF?HAVE SHE INVESTIGATED HER OWN HUSBAND, AS SHE DID HER BROTHER'S WIFE? ABI, HER OWN HUSBAND DOES NOT CHEAT?
She has a personal vendetta against this woman, that was why she made all effort to catch her red handed!

Btw, which hotel breaks the privacy and confidentiality of it's guests? Did they break the door in? or bribed one of the staff? or the whistle blower is one of the staff? If it is that easy, many married men will be busted everyday!
BTW, WHERE IS HER CO-ADULTEROUS PARTNER?

When the pharisees wanted to stone the adulteress, Jesus asked; HE THAT IS WITHOUT SIN, LET HIM CAST THE FIRST STONE!
And He spoke to the woman; Where are your accusers? GO AND SIN NO MORE!

The accusers aka in-laws will be surprised IF their brother forgives her and still stayed married to her. The worst he will do is divorce her! But I ask, is he guiltless? Has he never slept with any other woman since he married her? Do the in-laws know whom their precious brother has slept with? Are the in-laws themselves morally upright?

If I was related to this woman, I will return the beating on the in-laws! She only sinned against God and did not commit any crime!

@Panaronma, am btw 40-50.
Yes, I have been through a lot and overcame all through the grace of God. Thanks.

Contd2..
I became alert and tried to obey, but I found out it was only to these relatives I kneel down to! One day, I got angry and refused to kneel down for the elderly in-law, I warned and cursed her. She was surprised and looked downfallen! But her daughter still made me knelt down for her one day, a lady I am older than! She came to visit me, she covered her face with a lace shrawl, I knelt to greet her, while she sat in the parlor, I was tiding my house, then I realized something was not right! Why was I here and doing this, it felt so real, I began talking to myself, wake up! Wake up! Its a dream! Wake up! I immediately woke up and it took a while to focus where I was in my home It felt so real, as if I was lost in time

When we quarreled initially, I told my mum, this next day, my mum called and said, she saw me in the midst of people and they wanted to fight me, she came in to help me, and we were all fighting them...meanwhile, in my own dream, I saw my mum, on the ground tired, her clothes torn and too weak to stand up, I assisted her to walk, when I saw some people coming after us, the air was foggy and we could barely see, but we made it home...again, she saw an arrow that was shot towards the direction of my flat, she began running to tell me to get out of the house so that the arrow won't hit me, as she climbed the stairs, she found a very tall man on the stairs who blocked her way and told her to go back, then she saw the arrow pass me by without touching me before she felt calm and went back home.

This elderly inlaw and her daughter wanted to kill me initially, when they could not succeed, they wanted to break my marriage with their relative. But God saw me through. Since then, though I respect my husband, I am not too submissive again, because they can use him to get to me.

...cont:.
It is good to be humble and submissive in the physical realm, but to carry such attitude to the spiritual realm is not advisable, this my prayer mentor told me when I explained the dream I had; An elderly in-law came to my house to visit and I knelt down to greet her as our culture demands. My prayer mentor said it shows subordination and authority of me, that I should never kneel down for anybody in dreams.

I and this same person daughter quarreled and we made up, but didn't know it was a facade until I found myself on a boat in the middle of a vast ocean at night. She came out of the water and pushed me, we began fighting, her aim was to kill me by drowning, but I immediately saw a sword in my hands and I fought her with it until she went back into the water. Another dream, I saw myself walking on a path, it was dark but it looked familiar, I was wondering where I was going, until, I came to a junction, and realized where I was! It was this elderly in law's house! She and her daughter were waiting and calling me to come, I refused and ran back! Again, I was at home, and saw several arrows being shot at me into my home, I ran out through the back door, as I was running, I stopped and asked myself where was I going. I returned back to my home, the arrows I saw on the floor were so many. Then. One night, my husband was in my dream, he said I should follow him, I obeyed, I found myself in front of the beach and this elderly in-law and her daughter was there! They were grinning and greeted my husband. I knelt down to greet them, because they were his relatives! They ask me to lie on a white sheet and I did. When I woke up, I was angry at myself and husband . This happened twice! Why? Because I am very submissive to my husband in my marriage, so they used it against me!

voltron:
i once saw a man walk through a wall one evening as i was walking down a walled path in Zaria central market Sabon-gari.
I could not understand because i reached the end of the corridor and there were drums blocking it. it used to be a short-cut.. anywho. i looked around and the man was nowhere to be seen, he did not pass by me either. he just vanished into the wall. so i retraced my steps back

A relative of my mum came to visit from the village. I slept on my mother's bed while he slept on my bed.I woke suddenly and saw a tall figure coming out my room where he slept and the figure feet was not touching the ground, more like floating. A shiver of fear paralyzed my body, I could not speak, it came closer to me, I quickly shut my eyes because I was so scared, it took a glance at me and went through the wall into my parents room! It took a while for me to calm down. The next morning, I was just looking at him, and I didn't tell my mum, he left a day later.

Later, in my dream, I heard a voice telling me his mother is in egbe. I still didn't tell my mum. After a while, my mum traveled to the village. The morning she wanted to come back to Lagos, a neighbor, came in and told her not to pass the main entrance of the compound out, that she saw this relative's mother bathing as early as 4:00am in the morning when she came out to ease herself. My mum passed through the back yard to the motor park, she was advised to stay clear of the woman because she was out to destroy. This woman gave my mum so much trouble. My mum complained of the manner she sews her in her dream, calling her and wanting my mum to embark on a journey with her, but my mum will refuse and challenge her, sometimes struggle with her until she wakes up. Her pastor told her God was fighting for her.

During my NYSC, I had a dream where I found myself in front of our compound in the village. As I was thinking why I was there, I saw a son of this woman coming out of the compound. I was happy to see a familiar face. As I moved forward to greet him, he turned to a raging cow and started chasing me. I ran and ran, and he nearly butted me from behind when I woke up. After service, I struggled to get a job and married. Many many years passéd away and I never heard or saw anything about her until recently, my mum had to travel for a family festival and I saw her picture. Within me, I said, she has not changed in appearance and forgot about her.

But, I was surprised, few days later, I found myself in a market at night. I then saw her selling tubers of yam. I asked her what she was doing here so far from the village. She just grinned and continued eating, and asked if I won't buy yam. I said I will and she told me the amount, which I said was too cost, and I refused to buy, meanwhile, I noticed there was a strong man standing by my side all along. Again, in another dream, my MIL was angry with me that I don't come to visit her often as she wanted, as I was trying to pacify my MIL, this same woman came out from a room and joined my MIL to be quarreling with me, putting more fuel to the fire, with annoyance, I turned to her and warned her seriously that she should never interfere in my business and every evil she has for me will go back to her own children and her only daughter. She then kept quiet. Since then, I have not heard or seen her!

The bible says our enemies are within our household. And to be too submissive in real life is not that good, because stubbornness in the spirit pays.....

gazilion:


@SavedbyYaweh, thanks for sharing. A member of my family had a similar dream last two weeks. The coming of Christ is Imminent and like the motto of the Boys Scout - Be prepared!

On November 1st 2014, I had a dream, where I Saw 2 men in a room that looked like an office setting. There was a board, like the type used for presentation in offices. Written in capital letters on it was CONFIRMED and underlined. I was told to read the book of Isaiah chapters 3 &5. When I woke up and read it, I went weak. We need to pray for Nigeria.

veave:



Thank you very much. Through God's help using someone here i've been able to start praying.... and i'm happier... i'll add this too...
Really appreciate...

To God be the Glory, and am happy for you and thank God for using Nmadiosu to be your prayer mentor. God is your strength

If I want to pray for help, I can combine psalms 140-143.
I call unto you Lord, help me.
Lord hear my prayer.
In your righteousness listen to my plea.
Receive my prayer as incense.
Lord, you are my protector, you are all I want in this life.
Protect me from the power of the wicked.
They are always plotting evil, always stirring up quarrels. Their tongues are deadly like snakes, their words are like cobra's poision.
Save me Lord! Don't let my enemies be victorious over me! Let red hot coals fall on them and thrown into a pit and never to get out.
I trust in you, don't let me die! Protect me from the traps they have set for me, like wood that is split and chopped into bits, so my enemies bones will be scattered at the edge of their grave!
Please, hear my prayer Lord!
Don't put me on trial, because no one is innocent in your sight.I bring all my complaints and troubles to you, because you are my father and protector, because of your love for me, destroy my enemies and oppressors, for I am your daughter and You are my God! Amen. ( I always call out the name of my enemies or people who trouble me)

Psalm 51 is prayer for forgiveness of sin:
Be merciful to me, O God, because of your constant love, because of your great mercy wipe away my sins. I recognize my faults and I am always aware of my sins, and against you only have I sinned.
Please, wash away all my evil and make me clean from my sin.Create in me a clean heart o Lord, and put a new and loyal spirit in me. Please give me the joy that comes from your salvation.
O God be kind to me and help me rebuild my life.You do not want animal sacrifices, neither are you pleased with burnt offerings. My sacrifice to you Lord, is my humble spirit, for you will not reject a humble and repentant heart my creator. Amen.

Cont'd: veave, with time, you will begin to paraphrase the words to suit your situation by inserting your name instead, and your problem. For example. I want to praise God with Psalms 150, 149 and 148. I paraphrase the words to suit my own manner of speaking and skip some verses. Ask for the help of the Holy Spirit:
Praise: Psalms 148-150.
I PRAISE YOU LORD, IN YOUR TEMPLE.
I PRAISE YOUR STRENGTH IN HEAVEN!
I PRAISE YOU, FOR THE MIGHTY THINGS YOU HAVE DONE.
I PRAISE YOUR SUPREME GREATNESS.
I AM GLAD, BECAUSE YOU ARE MY CREATOR.
LET THE SUN, MOON, SHINNING STARS, AND WATERS ABOVE THE SKY PRAISE HIM.
LET ALL THE ANGELS AND HEAVENLY ARMIES PRAISE HIM.
LET THEM ALL PRAISE THE NAME OF OUR LORD, HIS NAME IS GREATER THAN ALL OTHERS.
HIS GLORY IS ABOVE EARTH AND HEAVEN.
I PRAISE THE LORD OF ISRAEL!

You can continue to praise HIM for every single thing HE has done for you. It could be for safe journey. I PRAISE YOU FOR GIVING ME SAFE JOURNEY TO Bleep AND BACK HOME.I PRAISE YOU FOR LETTING ME FIND FAVOR IN THE EYES OF MY EMPLOYER. Just like that Veave, gradually you will build your own way of expressing yourself to God.

@Veave,
Remember, a thousand mile began with a step. Start small, with the Lord's prayer, then get a bible that is translated in simple English, especially the type that puts subheadings on each chapter. Then go the book of psalms. On each chapter, it will say of it is a prayer of Thanksgiving, or forgiveness, or sickness. Pick the chapter that is suitable for your need and read it as prayer. When you start this everyday, little by little, you will develop your own way of prayer. Simply be yourself. This is an example:

@Ebuetor, I understand very well what you are talking about...I speak to GOD as if He is sitting beside me as I kneel or prostrate down to pray or worship. My prayer styles are never the same. Some days am quiet and calm, some days am loud and forceful, some days, am in tears...all depending on what I am feeling and asking GOD.

Welfare prayers is different from thanksgiving prayers and devotional prayers.
I was in the prayer band and realized that we can repeat a prayer point in different way, all in a bid to tarry. Like the bible says, GOD knows our thoughts and motive behind every action and words spoken... And Angels also listen to our prayers ... Whenever I invite the Holy Spirit of GOD to take control and pray for me, HE goes straight to the point... Likewise when I invite my Personal Angel to pray with me, He also go straight to the point... I began to learn how to pray targeted and precise prayers while expressing myself and opening my heart completely to His presence, avoiding repetition of words often. Like father I want a book. Book I want. Book I ask. I ask for book. I wish for a book. I desire a book. ...hope you get my drift...rather I will say, father, please, I have an exam to write and I don't have the text book, please make a way for me to have the text book, so that I can read for my exams...I will mention the book and author, and thanking Him ahead for making it possible.

Some days, I just sit down on the floor and speak to GOD, as I will respectly speak to my earthly father when am troubled over an issue, and believe me when I say that, I get quicker result. Because, I am always overwhelmed with His presence, that I will be crying in my room.

Like I said earlier Ebuetor, everybody should work out his or her own personal relationship with GOD, thanks you Ebuetor

There is power in prayers. The point is know HOW TO PRAY! The disciples asked Jesus to teach them how to pray. That was when the Lord's prayer came up. Following the principles of the Lord's prayer, you should first praise God, ask for forgiveness, qnd make your request.

Now, the bible says we should not be like the heathens who think the longer their prayers, then for sure their prayers will be answered, avoid repetitive words, go straight to your request after praise and forgiveness because the Lord of Israel already knows what you want to ask, and while you are still asking, He has answered! But He still said you should ask!

Learn to quote the scriptures to remind God of His words, because the bible says, He honors His words more than His name. I learned this after years of praying, and getting words of revelation from God. He always speak with His words, by giving a chapter and verse.

Develop your own pattern of prayers, don't copy Labaja who prays for hours or minutes. Develop your own relationship with God.

@gazillion,
You are right about repercussions when seers or spiritualist are visited. When I got pregnant for the first time, I was having horrible dreams that my mum took me to prophetess for prayers. I truly never liked it! But I had to because I was seeing death!

I was not happy in my marriage then because my husband was treating me shabbily. I wept several times and cried to God one midnight, standing naked. I then saw myself crying and complaining to elderly men with white beards, with , one of them was holding a staff, how my husband and in-law treat me. They nodded their heads and told me not to worry, they will look into it.

I got pregnant again, a man appeared to me in my dream, asked me to follow him to my bedroom, I saw my husband sitting, backing us, staring at our closed wardrobe. The tall man went behind his head and removed an object, then went under my matrimonial bed and removed a calabah pot. He then warned me never to visit any seers or spiritualist or prophetess again! If not, the demon attached to my husbands head will return back 10x worst! It was a relative of my husband who wants my husband to neglect me and face them only that did it to me! My husband changed for good and I never visited any seer again!

My cousin once asked his uncle who is a seer how he knows people problems and solution to give. He said, he speaks to the spirit of the individual who will tell him secrets and the solution. That as a person, he did not know anything about another individual. But it always comes at a price! Something must give! The devil never gives anything free!

Joel3:
another life story.

There is a saying that words travels and yes it travels. Many still do not know this.

Its doesn't matter if you says it in the secret or not, spiritual Ear might just be at the well next to you. And they can also assign spirit that monitored and follow someone all around without them even knowing so be careful.

This spirit can transmit or report any thing they sees one doing or heard to who even assign them.

That why the spiritual is more powerful. They can even uncovered someone plans even before someone plans it.

This type of spiritual intelligence is usually conducted at the beginning of the year. literally they can consult what will happens this year for that person, the travels he will make where he will go and The success he will achieves at the year.

From there they will start to plan on how to avert or terminate them.

true story from a witch woman that confess

There is this area. The youth in that area do not progress. The witch woman who confess said the witches in that area are responsible.

They take strong control of the area. They drive away good things from the zone.

Their is one old electric pole on the ground boys in the area use to gather there. They sit and gist every night. unknowingly for them their is ear place there. Anything they discuss their is transmited.

witches know their plans before they even think of it.

Sometimes the person you are suspecting might have canal knowledge unknowing for you that some unseen spirits are present there.

will update later.

You are so right! I learnt to keep my plans and good dreams to myself. I don't like people asking my plan for the next year or month, I like living a day at a time! I speak out bad dreams and reject them loudly. I only speak about good things when it has manifested. Evil abound everywhere! Like the book of Proverbs says: Walls have ears! I have told a story here how a witch came to fight me in my home, wanting to tear my mouth apart, I remembered I said something about that person in the privacy of my room, it got her mad, that was why she came to fight me! Sometimes, I don't like saying my prayers out, except binding and casting.

It is advisable to always command all spiritual eyes to go blind, spiritual ears to go deaf! Spiritual mouth to go dumb, never to utter a word of what they hear or proclaim curses! Command all monitoring objects like mirrors to be destroyed! I asked a lady why she did not hang any framed pictures on her wall. She said because, spirits can attach themselves to such object and be monitoring their lives. Her husband is like an Alfa. I believed her. When I moved into our new house, I didn't hang any picture on the wall! Not even calendar or wall clock!

Dec 2014, I slept on the floor in my room, then, a voice was speaking to me telepathically that there are 2 worlds living in my house, that I should be mindful of what I do and say,because everything we do, they also do it. I opened my eyes then to look into my sitting room, but saw nothing, the voice continued to speak to me, in summary, advising me to be positive with my words and actions and avoid negativity, and controversy, because the second world will act on it. I was not afraid, just curious to know if i can see them. Since then, I am very cautious of my utterances. And things I do.

I fell asleep on a chair in my sitting room. Then I felt a presence and a gentle touch on my arm, and a voice saying, come back daughter, wake -up, nudging me gently until I gently opened my eyes, still oblivious to my surroundings, until I remembered where I was. What happened was that, my spirit embarked on a journey and was probably involved in a battle I cannot remember up till today and it happened in early 2014.All I know was that, I was weak when I eventually woke up.

During my prayer one morning, I was about to pray for a relative, but stopped and prayed for myself and family only because, I didn't want to fight a battle that was no mine. That night, as I slept, a young man came into my room, instantly I knew he was an angel! I squealed out of excitement, held his hands and said 'I know you!' I know you!,' He was grinning and laughing with me. He was the angel that visited me when pregnant. He said he came to tell me to always pray for my relative, that the devil wants to use her, and God wants to help, so I should remember her in my prayers. I felt so bad, and promised him I will. Then, we noticed there was a fellowship going on by the side of the room and a chorister was singing, but she was wearing trouser, which surprised the young angel, who said, women should not wear trousers. Again, I felt guilty, because I do wear trousers. I escorted him out.

Happy year to every Nairalander