konklud22:

and who told. u I didn't work towards my faults??
I did
buh like I said
cheats will always be cheats

Do you even know the faults? By communicate, I don't mean

"Baby how are you? Have you eaten? How was yourday "

"How was the night? Did you like the sex?"

NO!

I mean crucial discussions. Even discussions that can shake the relationship the moment you are having the discussions. Have you ever cared to ask her if she likes your d!ck? A silly question yes, but have you asked? I guess no.

Have you cared to ask what she really wants in a man? No. You think you have it because she just said some things.

WackyJ1:
What kinda of rubbish talk is this Vinshu saying?

The girl cheated and it's the guy's fault for not doing something right?
That's the problem with majority of your females. There must always be one exact way to handle them to make sure they don't cheat.

Either you give them, just the right amount of attention, or you give them money, or good sex or whatever and if you don't do that, they will Cheat.

There is no perfect guy out there. Forget all that nonsense about striving to perfection. At the end of the day she will get married to someone that is no more perfect than he is.
If there are things he lacks, why didn't she bring it up with him? Discuss and them adjust knowing that she too isn't perfect.

What do you mean by you weren't romantic enough?
How old are you?

You want him to be laying our a red carpet with roses when she goes on dates with him eveey single time?
The girl will still cheat!

Calm down.

@embolden does he communicate with her? Before she discuss whatever thing with him?

You ask how old I am, I am old enough to be married with a child which I am. Thanks.

konklud22:

okay
so I have faults
and I ll always av emm
buh does it justify cheating
lemme ask u
if ur guy has his faults which u know of and still decide to love him
would u still consider cheating?

He works on them whenever they are identified. And they are identified because he communicates with me.

Do you communicate with your woman? If you don't communicate she won't tell you anything.

konklud22:

I said earlier DAT I was not perfect.
buh wat if I told u I was great for em
always choosing dem first ova friends ..
and d sex part
lol
it doesn't get better when u are wit me!!
and dey did Invite me ova to their families
the thing is, the way I find out always looks crazy,
d first one was weird
she Neva expected it
buh she told the guy she has someone she loves and wants to b wit, and d guy told my gee all DAT, she even told him my name
my question is if she loved me to DAT extent
why cheat??

Why did the guy go ahead after hearing all that from her?

Also, maybe you were not romantic enough. It's not like I'm justifying her actions but you faulted somewhere. No one is perfect but we work towards perfection. And working towards perfection means locating our faults and fixing things to be better next time.

The way you handled Girl A and she cheated, if you handle Girl B same way, she would cheat too. It's not a women thing. It's you. Did you bother asking her why she did that? I guess not. Instead you come to nairaland

I know a guy that used force on his girl. As much as she hated his strict nature(no Facebook, no party, bla bla), she loved him still and no room to cheat. They are married now. At least his own worked for him. He may have been Mr Nice guy before and when it didn't work, he changed gear.

BoiledHead:


Yes.



93


My gf. Notice I didn't call her ex. It's explanable. Though she may soon be ex.

What makes you rich? Your bank balance?

IQ of 93 is okay.. An average person should be 90. Less than 90 is uneducated and probably I.diot in nature. You see you are on the line? I had my reason for asking.

Your gf is about to be your ex? Why isn't she an ex already? You think there is hope? And you wana test? One more chance right? And your IQ is 93?

konklud22:

okay
buh we neva had any ish about material wateva
like i said, i was not perfect
but does it really justify d fact dat dey bleeped someone else?

No it doesn't. Cheating is bad.

However, you may not have been a man! You may have been a bf only available when you wana lay or when you want to be around.

Most men who dated one girl for long and ended in marriage, go check.. they ensured there was a difference between wife material and side chick. Yes she is a gf but If you held her like a wife, she won't do jack if she loves you truly. She won't have any reason to. At which you provide whatever anyone else may want to use. Especially good sex.

If you did that, she would be the one asking you to go see her dad. But if you didn't she would take you as just another guy. So it's your fault.

Period

Are your financially okay?

What is your IQ level?

Who broke your heart? Why?

Answer the above. . Let's move forward

konklud22:
.

Nope. It's not adequate and material enough.

Sorry it's your fault.

What is the meaning of your username?

First, who confirmed that you are the dream man?

Do you communicate with her?

How often do you see her? Only when you have money to take her out? Or when you want to fvck?

Do you ask her questions? Do you have your eyes on her? Can she see you anytime she wish? Without you making 3 days arrangement?

Who loved who first? Did she even tell you she loved you? How did you fall in love ? What did she have? What do you have she fell in love with? What is her IQ? What is your own IQ?

What does she do? Where does she live? Do you know? Even if she is a student, are you guys living together? DO you observe her phone communications and social media? Is she even available on social media?

Did you love her or you lusted after her?

Answer the above questions then we can move forward.

If you cannot answer all at which you get stuck or "hang" in between, then sorry it's your fault she cheated.

Lol...

How much do you have in your bank account? Make no mistake, I am not against keeping fit but what I believe is

"Be yourself".

You don't have to stretch your muscles and tendons because another person is doing it. There are people who have never visited the gym all fat and sluby and still live up till 80 years some 90 years. So do not paint it as a criteria for healthy living.

Regarding ladies, NOT ALL ladies fancy your chest. Yes it's cool but women love men for who they are. Go check many successful marriages, the husband has a pot belly or a flat chest. If you wish to be buff do it because you want to do it not to impress or "look good in the eyes of others".

As someone mentioned above,

Who ur chest help?

Perverts

modelmike7:
Holla Vinshu !! Ya tebe kaha yu !! Na dobranich ¡ Solodkikh sniv!!

For real? Do you know the meaning of what you wrote?

Sorry I am taken. My son is beside me. Good night though.

modelmike7:
. . . You should have simply said she modified her post in your 1st mention & that will be all. . . For you using the word 'F**L' shows you are nothing but a gutter/razz gal and FYI, i dont argue with pigs, cos i dont want to get dirty. Sweet snore and Goodbye Ms Razzo!!

You are shameless

modelmike7:
. . . . How can you be this rude to someone your elder's bro age or even older?! Well, i saw the part she wrote she is doing this for her male friend. . Stop being rude so life can be good and fair to you my dear. Sweet dreams!

Keep shut again.

She just modified her post before you arrived. She didn't state it before which is why she quoted me. Fool

Besides how old are you?

modelmike7:
. . . Try reading a post thoroughly before commenting sis, so you wont sound like a . . . .

Keep shut.

A female asking for a female for a relationship what else is there to read?

Are you a lesbian?

Someone call the cops.

iPrevail:
Vinshu.. Holla!

Holla Panoka

BoiledHead:
Thanks.

You are right it's too late. I was so angry I and the dad ended in a fight and I left with anger and heartbreak.

So its over.

I'm sorry

Too long but let me take my time to read since I have secured the FTC Spot. Would modify after reading and summarise for others.

Summary:-

Alright guys. Here is the summary. He found a first time potential Slut on the street on his usual street time outs. And fell in love with the little girl because she was young and he was her first client. She fell in love first and they have had a wonderful relationship thus far. He changed her life from a drug addicted hoe to a responsible woman. And he felt his days on the streets looking for sluts for a night stand are over.

Suddenly she leaves for Lagos to see her father without packing anything along with hope of coming back to him and she never comes back! He is heartbroken. That's the summary.

My Opinion:-

I feel your pain. what you mentioned you didn't provide full details. When she rejected your offer to take her back, did she give a reason? If she did, can you share? Who knows she may still love you but family stuff you know.

I'm a woman and I know women more than you do. If she intended to leave for good, she won't go without her things. She would take all. For her to leave without them means she actually intended to return.

The dad talking to you means the dad was involved. Maybe he brainwashed her or told her something or did something that made her stay. If he didn't, he won't talk to you. It's not his concern. I suspect the dad either held her down for one reason she may or may not have told you because you didn't care to ask maybe out of anger. I get it. Try to hear her out and give her time. If she is yours she would come back. And believe me, for a woman to fall in love with you FIRST, and have unprotected sex with you the first time meeting you. it's genuine. That's too much even for a player at that age. The love is real.

But I would say "move on"!. Because I can imagine what you would have done at her place when you delivered her things. Whatever you did if out of anger would have spoiled things. So no hope. Unless you stayed cool which I doubt you did. Coz if you're cool, you wont post this yet.

Adeinfo:


so are you trying to say when a guy has money, he should spend it without a sense of responsibility and accountability?

Please $10 is too much? How much is food? Please say something else

Broke guys everywhere.

You guys are just broke.

There is nothing wrong in taking desert or just water and biscuits during your date. Even business dates includes food let alone relationship. If you have money you won't be bothered about a $10 meal.

I wonder how you expect a lady to go into a relationship with a man who cannot even entertain her during their date with a short meal. It all boils down to brokeness. I repeat. If you like quote me, I've said it. U are broke.

Regarding a girl taking a friend along, it is simple, entertain both but let her know you don't like it and wouldn't want her to repeat such. Besides, if you pick a responsible girl, I don't think such would happen in the first place. So stop looking for the sexiest or the biggest boobs. Look out for the responsible and stop ranting

So my advice for you guys: Make money, stop ranting. When you have the money, you wont be so bothered.

lol

Lol

So because you sponsored his M.sc means he must get married you?

That lady must be daft

Synzu:


I'll like to see you try

So would I like to see you try yours

Synzu:


You can't prove that. But I can prove yours.

you cannot prove mine but i can prove yours.

Synzu:


I earn legally. We can't say that for you though..

Neither can we say that for you

As we both know you scam

Get a life... simple

McBrooklyn:


For Real??

Yes