Synzu:


Not when its directed at you. Cos we both know you make a living defrauding innocent people.

Synzu:


Have I defrauded anyone?

Synzu:


So why have you invested so much time in it

Synzu:


Like online fraud?

eitsei:
by single mom it means she has separated from her husband,through divorce or maybe they never got married because the pregnancy might be a mistake

Kaycee7:
Where do you stand really? You act like you are advocating for gender equality and yet you post this. Why should the girl have to move in with him? What if she loves her apartment? Why can't the guy move in with her?

You really are confused.

2dice01:
so she shouldnt have friends male/female cos you guys are dating...or she dont have them before she met her boyfriend...pls biko think before you type..thanks

schumastic:


well I said so cus I thought you are a guy, well since you are a lady are you saying you don't keep male friends? if no, you are a liar n if yes, you are just contradicting yourself.

saintfellow:
hmm dats a relief to my heart.

finalboss1:
why she telling us she will unfollow the thread.... who she elp... yo spoilt it all with this... spits on thread...

schumastic:


what are you saying, are you telling me that you don't have female friends who are in a serious relationship..

just incase you don't know who ever that wants to cheat will cheat irrespective of what their spouse or partner do to prevent it and that's just the reality of life.

we just have to learn, understand and accept it, so we don't feel to hurt when it happens.

saintfellow:
Are u really married.

It has been a while since I created a thread.

Today, I would be explaining simple ways at which a man can prevent his woman from cheating or doing anything nasty that touch.


Disclaimer:- I do not guarantee that this would work for you but based on survey and testimonies of many* men around me and away, it have been proven to work . This only applies where you do not have 100% trust in your partner. If you have full trust in your partner at which you can bet your head she won't cheat on you, fine, press the back button in your browser. Don't bother reading.

Warning:- This is not feminists friendly. Neither is this what you want to read as a female. Neither is this encouraging misogyny.

Viewer discretion is advised!!!

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Please don't quote or mention! I won't reply. A simple comment is ok but quoting the whole post is kinda annoying.


First of all, what is 'cheating'? 'Cheating' is not a noun actually. It's a verb. It's that moment when your partner gets involved with another person beyond the platonic level. Cheating doesn't happen over night. It starts somewhere. It starts as 'we are just old friends'.. 'he was asking me for directions'.. 'he is my brother's old friend's cousin'.. 'I'm only replying his nairaland pm'.. bla bla bla

How can cheating be 'curbed'? Or 'controlled'? Or 'prevented'?

Avoid Hypocrisy

Sir, don't be a hypocrite. Don't cheat! Don't involve yourself with other women in any way. You won't do that and expect her not to do the same.


Does she even love you at all?

Many men don't know if a woman loves them or likes them. They fail to tell the difference. I hate to say that ladies are not like men who have a higher control and will power over emotions. An averge lady is capable of dating a guy because she likes his hair.

Don't be surprised, she might cheat on her current bf with the other guy with cute ponytail hair because she likes both men. She doesnt love any.

So you have to ensure that what she has for you is not 'like' but 'love'. True love precisely. Don't believe the 'I love you' line. O crap! That line is stale. Action speaks louder than words. Her actions would tell how much she loves you. Ensure its love not like.

In as much as a woman loves a man she is capable of cheating. So don't even bank on the love instead exploit the love.

Exploit the Love

As much as I hate to say this, exploit that love. Take full advantage of it. Love is truly blind. The love she has for you would drive her to do anything no matter how crazy to please you and keep you around. So how do you exploit the love?

1. Be the man:- Don't be a sissy. If you see her giving a man directions on the road. Change it. Yell at her. Put her on the brink of break up for that tiny innocent act of hers. Anything she does that makes her loose, change it. Tighten her.

2. Insert the fear of God:- Believe me, this works. Just give it a try. Anytime you see her with any man even if the man is a taxI driver she is paying for the ride back home, put the fear in her that if you see her with any man this is what would happen even if you can't do jack. Don't let her know it is just a bluff. Believe me,

Fear + Love = Respect

Some people are slow so for their sake, the taxI stuff is just an example unless you have a car and you are willing to drive her around no problem.

3. Disconnect her from friends:- If she loves and respects you, she would choose you over friends. So Make her choose. Tell her to leave her friends and go back to a place you know you have eyes on. Let her know the consequences shall you see her with a friend BOTH MALE AND FEMALE except it's a female friend you know. Like I said, some people are slow so for their sake, let me elucidate. . Disconnect her from friends YOU DON'T KNOW! Friends WHO HAVE NO POSITIVE POTENTIAL. Friends WHO HAVE NO IMPACT. Unless you are willing to make her live with you 100% and don't go anywhere which is kinda harsh.

4. Disconnect her from social media:- If she loves you, she would choose you over Facebook and nairaland. So make her choose. Tell her you want her off social media. And tell her the consequences shall you see her pictures online or even as small as a status update or nairaland comment at which her picture is on her profile. She would be like those NL ladies that has never uploaded their photo or those NL ladies in the politics section. Those ladies guys call fake. It's ok that way.. let her be fake online. It's better than being real and ending up in the bed of one of those jobless guys

5. Disconnect her from clubs, party and restaurants unless you are there. Let her choose between you and the club or the party. Let her choose between you and the food in the restaurant she cannot cook at home. Tell her how quick you are to end the relationship shall you see her in such places.

It's a partial democracy. Freedom isn't absolute

Yes. If you are giving her a democratic relationship, it invalidates the above exploits as they won't work. Since she knows you can't do jack. Make her understand its not a full democracy but a partial one at which freedom isn't absolute. Let her choose between her freedom and her love for you.

Don't be gentle. Be mean and strict.

You need this to backup the exploits else the exploits won't work. If she arrives home 8:05pm when the deadline you gave her to be home is 8:00pm as small as 5 minutes is, lock her outside. Let her stay in the cold for some time before you open. If she leaves, consider her gone and move on. She would loose in the end not you. So if she has love for you, she would still stay and plead your forgiveness. Next time she would be home 7:00pm not even 8.

Conclusion

This is brutal, mean, and unfair. I know but you won't do this forever. You would only do this for a while. During this time, her psychological approach towards the relationship would change. It would be on a foundation of fear. That fear would then grow into respect.

Respect + Love = Faithfulness

She would no longer have male friends neither would she even chat or speak with other men. She would cut her self off from all sorts of distractions focusing only on you. Believe me, year after year, she would remain loyal.

It goes back to my first point, don't be a hypocrite. You don't expect her to do all these and yet you remain a fling. No. Be loyal too. Let her see it in you too.

In all, if she becomes your wife, then you can loosen up those strict rules and increase her freedom. Her mindset has already adapted to the earlier rules. So even if you provide absolute freedom, she would still act like the freedom isn't absolute. What else are you looking for?

P.s I am unfollowing the thread.

falconey:


LWKM .............who gets to marry the girl won't find out, I am certain she won't disclose it before marriage.

RadicallyBlunt:

No wonder

RadicallyBlunt:

Would you stay glued to ur boifriend in fire and brimstone?

firstking01:
Where have you been woman

fraustratedfowl:
hmm... so one can't fall in love without sex