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iFlare:
....but at least he should have a good source of income that can comfortably take care of i and our unborn kids....

Take care of you and unborn kids? as in you'll be idle and he'll be providing all alone. Some girls are really nuts. SMH

If you like don't work on yourself, be expecting one son of Adam to come take care of you.

You are the one who has gone nuts,is he not supposed to take care of me before,or did he marry me so that i can become the breadwinner,so you guys are not even ashamed of yourselves,a woman should provide for your kids when you their so called father is alive,then why are you a man,and the fact that i said he would take care of me doesn't mean i would remain idle,get that into your brain ,continue looking for a woman that would share responisibilities with you,shameless man.

Tradepunter2:
Help him discover it with pusssyyyy? very narrow school of thought

when asked what do you bring to the table? are enterprising? how have you developed yourself skill-wise? or digitally skilled or hand-work skilled? do you have any skills that can be invested in to convert to money making? una go just dey deceive una selves with baseless talks.

Most of you guys are fools,you think all girls are like your girlfriends that doesn't have vision and amibition,infact why am i even replying you,all you know in your head is sex,continue thinking life is all about.

Plonzy:
Why can't be that person with potential, with a very bright future, a woman with purpose. Must you depends on man while your fellow women are making it in life.Ngozi, Lare Dora, Achimanda etc are your fellow women

What are you people even saying,this thread is talking about men not women,and who told you i don't have a vision and purpose in life,i'm not thinking of depending on any man if i was i wouldn't have bother furthering my education,i'm just commenting according to the topic.

Petdagr8t:
You want the best for your kids from another man's pocket when you haven't made any impact to be the best yourself , no be juju be that?.

Oga,what are you saying,isn't he their father or won't he take care of his children.

DaddyCK:
so u a gold diggger asking men to put there wife thru women...correct?..shame on u..and them u complain u can't find mans on nairaland..SMH!(no oofencse)

You this mentally deranged human,get off my mentions .

Truvelisback:
Sometimes, U talk like an angel that just came down from heaven in a spotless white garment.

Of course i'm ,An angel born in human form.

So true ,though not all women put their man first likewise not all men put themselves first but most men usually do.

4Humanity4All:
You've changed it from Nigerian men to African men just because TWO South African men decided to display their butts in public.
When will this generalizations stop?

When you guys stop your own generalisations about Nigeria girls then i will stop.

Michelle70:
let me clear u on this.

Only a woman who cant build thinks of building as suffering TBH.

When they say build with a man, it doesnt mean suffer with him.
It means having a goal and working towards it while bringing ur individual inputs to the table which catapults u to the desired achievable heights.

The means justifies the end

But that is what i said in my last statement na.

This is thinking of your average Nigeria girl. Hypergamy at it's full flow. Now tell how you want to build a family with someone whose perception of building is suffering? Never gonna work.[/quote]Ok,mr man,pls tell me your own perception of building,maybe i can learn from you.

seniorgozman:
South African ladies will answer it better

What kind of daft answer is this ,How is south africa girls better than Nigeria girls .

I will gladly settle down with anyone God gives to me,but i will kind of prefer an already made man because me i can't come and start struggling for survival in my husband house and i won't want my unborn children to be into a life of struggle,i want the best for them,and pls when i mean an already made man i don't mean he must be wealthy like dangote and the rest but at least he should have a good source of income that can comfortably take care of i and our unborn kids,but if i see a man with a very bright future that is a man with a purpose,a man with potential not yet made,a man with big dreams not yet achieved,i will gladly marry him and help him discover those potentials.

Zonefree:
Short people on their own are dangerous and demonic. You will agree with me if you've ever dated a short Nigerian girl with lime bress.

Is that what the thread is talking about,stop deviating from the topic,anyways i don't blame you i blame the op that mention you thinking that he is quoting a sensible person.

Your marrying her depends on what you see in her and the kind of person she is,and pls don't forget to ask her about the child father,like what happened between her and the guy and why did she did leave him.

Savedday:
Fools SIMP that doesn't know 9ja girls.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Shut up and read before commenting so that your hate for nigeria girls won't kill you.

Africa men no longer have shame,they keep disgracing themselves,looks at what these idiots are doing in the name of break up.

DaddyCK:

What's funny (no offiences)

DaddyCK:
kaiiiii so u like people hittin u had ..abi?..truss me, i can nak so had..in fat if i nak u, I can nak like volvo..i beg can we link?(no ofeinse)

Yes we can link,drop your nomba.

advanceDNA:
No vex... I forgot as long as i dont suport you i'm also an enemy

,it not like that but you hit me a little hard at first that why i became a bit upset.

Vlrginprincess:
Ok, have you taken my number?

Yes,i will message you later.

advanceDNA:
Thats his view....let him have his view....

his father might be more precious to him ....why is that upsetting you...why do u see that as an attack against women....

Ive seen this art before and many people on instagram including wome said they will save the old man first becos it was clear the man couldnt swim and was alsmot gone..the woman looks like she can still handle her self for a few minites as she was already holding a tree branch and can still be reacedh after saving the father .... thats another perspective


Everything isnt women bashimg and hating

But i also didn't insult anyone,i said what i said from my own view,so what your problem?

Vlrginprincess:
Maybe they are sending to me thinking it's you. I might have to drop this monika to create another.

Possible but pls don't drop it,let start sharing the dm's because i'm tired of their unending messages even though i don't reply them.

Zonefree:
The man can have another wife and son tomorrow but he will never have another father tomorrow hence he's trying to save his father.

advanceDNA and phelonrays,Hope you can see why i mentioned nairaland men.