As a young lady, would you rather build with a man or marry an already made man?

Discuss and give your reasons.

Men are free to query you but do not insult any lady for her own opinion.

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A Nigerian lady build with a man? Hahahaha!!!

It's just like befriending a goat so it won't eat your yam.

South African ladies will answer it better

Many will wait for already made men. The wise ones will settle down with a decent hardworking gentle man with potentials

Nigeria girls want ready made men

I will gladly settle down with anyone God gives to me,but i will kind of prefer an already made man because me i can't come and start struggling for survival in my husband house and i won't want my unborn children to be into a life of struggle,i want the best for them,and pls when i mean an already made man i don't mean he must be wealthy like dangote and the rest but at least he should have a good source of income that can comfortably take care of i and our unborn kids,but if i see a man with a very bright future that is a man with a purpose,a man with potential not yet made,a man with big dreams not yet achieved,i will gladly marry him and help him discover those potentials.

I will like to believe that it's possible that a Nigerian girl can build with a man but that'll be wishful thinking. At least, not with what we have now. Time has changed and so is the popularity of the slang "I just want to relax and be taken care of" by girls in every corner of naija.

As a man, if you happen to find one, kudos to you. Do right by her and see that you two build a strong family because what you have on your hands is rare gold.

virginprincess:
I will gladly settle down with anyone God gives to me,but i will kind of prefer an already made man because me i can't come and start suffering in my husband house and i won't want my unborn children to be into poverty,i want the best for them,and pls when i mean an already made man i don't mean he must be wealthy like dangote and the rest but at least he should have a good source of income that can comfortably take care of i and our unborn kids,but if i see a man with a very bright future that is a man with a purpose,a man with potential not yet made,a man with big dreams not yet achieved,i will gladly marry him and help him discover those potentials.

This is the thinking of your average Nigerian girl. Hypergamy at it's full flow. Now, tell me how you want to build a family with someone whose perception of building is suffering? Never gonna work.

But I thought this is for the young ladies..Guys let the ladies talk nah. But if they don't, we guessed right then.

seniorgozman:
South African ladies will answer it better

What kind of daft answer is this ,How is south africa girls better than Nigeria girls .

virginprincess:
I will gladly settle down with anyone God gives to me,but i will kind of prefer an already made man because me i can't come and start suffering in my husband house and i won't want my unborn children to be into poverty,i want the best for them,and pls when i mean an already made man i don't mean he must be wealthy like dangote and the rest but at least he should have a good source of income that can comfortably take care of i and our unborn kids,but if i see a man with a very bright future that is a man with a purpose,a man with potential not yet made,a man with big dreams not yet achieved,i will gladly marry him and help him discover those potentials.

let me clear u on this.

Only a woman who cant build thinks of building as suffering TBH.

When they say build with a man, it doesnt mean suffer with him.
It means having a goal and working towards it while bringing ur individual inputs to the table which catapults u to the desired achievable heights.

The means justifies the end

I did prefer building with a man

This is thinking of your average Nigeria girl. Hypergamy at it's full flow. Now tell how you want to build a family with someone whose perception of building is suffering? Never gonna work.[/quote]Ok,mr man,pls tell me your own perception of building,maybe i can learn from you.

Michelle70:
let me clear u on this.

Only a woman who cant build thinks of building as suffering TBH.

When they say build with a man, it doesnt mean suffer with him.
It means having a goal and working towards it while bringing ur individual inputs to the table which catapults u to the desired achievable heights.

The means justifies the end

But that is what i said in my last statement na.

Emilia154:
I did prefer building with a man

COME LETS BUILD TOGETHER

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virginprincess:
I will gladly settle down with anyone God gives to me,but i will kind of prefer an already made man because me i can't come and start struggling for survival in my husband house and i won't want my unborn children to be into a life of struggle,i want the best for them,and pls when i mean an already made man i don't mean he must be wealthy like dangote and the rest but at least he should have a good source of income that can comfortably take care of i and our unborn kids,but if i see a man with a very bright future that is a man with a purpose,a man with potential not yet made,a man with big dreams not yet achieved,i will gladly marry him and help him discover those potentials.

Sometimes, U talk like an angel that just came down from heaven in a spotless white garment.

I'll rather marry an already made man, i deserve a soft life because i don't know how to grind and i don't have power.May God bless me with a very soft life that i truly deserve. Though a broke or hustling man has never approached me all my life, it's an indication that i'll live a very soft life.

Rozross:
I'll rather marry an already made man, i deserve a soft life because i don't know how to grind and i don't have power.May God bless me with a very soft life that i truly deserve

May your wish be granted.

This shouldn't even be a discussion we should be having OP ...

The average woman would rather be with a ready made man than "build" with a man ...

This is because the average woman sees "building" with a man as "suffering" ...

And it's so sad to say that almost every woman is average or below average and thus have this mentality ...

JasonScoolari:
May your wish be granted.

Amen amen and amen. May the unending blessings of God be showered upon you and your family.May all your heart desires be fulfilled in no distant time amen.

Stephen2324:
As a young lady, would you rather build with a man or marry an already made man?

Discuss and give your reasons.

Men are free to query you but do not insult any lady for her own opinion.

Only 2% of ladies would want to build with a man. And these ladies could be above 30/close or above 40, who are hopelessly tired of searching for already made men.

Rozross:
I'll rather marry an already made man, i deserve a soft life because i don't know how to grind and i don't have power.May God bless me with a very soft life that i truly deserve. Though a broke or hustling man has never approached me all my life, it's an indication that i'll live a very soft life.

Lol.. building with someone isn't suffering, poverty or lack. It's being actively involved from the onset with the ideas, plans, moves etc. It makes the bond even stronger. Not just to come from nowhere and want to live soft. Even living soft na work. Even if u be full time housewife u still get role to play

Killbillz:

Lol.. building with someone isn't suffering, poverty or lack. It's being actively involved from the onset with the ideas, plans, moves etc. It makes the bond even stronger. Not just to come from nowhere and want to live soft for nothing. I thought u were dependent. Even living soft na work. Even if u be full time housewife u still get role to play

I dont have problems playing my roles but i dont know how to grind,some men would want you to be out there making money like them and i dont have the power for such, God knows my weakness and will make up for me. The highest grind i can do is to get a very good FG job, i cant do more than that. Why are you trying to give another meaning to the word Dependent

This Op never know 9ja girls! All that matters to them is money and, jumping from one d!ck to the other.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Rozross:
I dont have problems playing my roles but i dont know how to grind,some men would want you to be out there making money like them and i dont have the power for such, God knows my weakness and will make up for me. The highest grind i can do is to get a very good FG job, i cant do more than that. Why are you trying to give another meaning to the word Dependent

Wasn't supposed to be there.. I removed it. How u

Killbillz:

Wasn't supposed to be there.. I removed it. How u

I'm good sir

Rozross:
Amen amen and amen. May the unending blessings of God be showered upon you and your family.May all your heart desires be fulfilled in no distant time amen.

Stay Blessed.

Truvelisback:
Sometimes, U talk like an angel that just came down from heaven in a spotless white garment.

Of course i'm ,An angel born in human form.

Rozross:
Amen amen and amen. May the unending blessings of God be showered upon you and your family.May all your heart desires be fulfilled in no distant time amen.

realest G on the app. I for marry you but..