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CrimeRe: ‘Repentant’ Bandits Kill Eight Soldiers In Kaduna Ambush by vislabraye(m): 8:36am On Jun 10
The concept of repentant terrorists or bandits is a foolish concept. Those that initiated this e no go better for them.
RomanceRe: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by vislabraye(m): 2:51pm On Jun 05
ifinger:
So I dated this lady from Kogi I think she was igbira or so! As at them she was 28yrs of age.
She told me the reason she agreed to date me was because I was much older than her that she doesn't like dating her age mate or guys in her age bracket

One thing I noticed was that this lady she was very bossy, I mean if u miss her call she will be be like why did u miss my call or u chat with her mistakenly delete a test before she views it she will be like why are u always deleting text?

The funny thing was that this lady smokes and clubs like tomorrow no dey but looks very innocent unless she opens up to you!

At some point in the relationship was already getting fed up so I confided in one of my friends who told me that ladies from that region I mean are not homely and are very fetish! That even guys from their region normally does not like marrying their ladies

The character was very bad to the extent that I just started considering ending the relationship cos I never want to be involved with a controlling freak
There is one I am dating like that. She is from that side. SHe has beautiful shape and she can do the do very well. But I have not see any bossy behaviour in her. Rather, she is submissive and helps me do my laundry and cleans the house without me asking.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by vislabraye(m): 2:21pm On Jun 05
BlueRayDick:
AM is not a priority for now except we want to dispose Eze which is very much unlikely . I believe Arteta will have Eze improve on his work rate and tracking his man when off the ball. Once that is sorted, we shouldn't have much headache in that department.

The key areas we need urgent fixing is LW, RB, CF(With Jesus likely leaving ) and CM.
CM and AM are used interchangeably. Definitely we need a LW which is our priority. I wish we can get another striker cos Gyokeres isn't that clinical.
RomanceRe: Lady Sparks Debate On Abuja Relationships by vislabraye(m): 10:02am On Jun 05
Kalatium:
Source :
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1M4J4e74t7/

Cc seun nlfpmod mndd44 Dominique
As long as you make excuses for sleeping with married men and don't hold yourself accountable, it will continue. Most of you are too greedy.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by vislabraye(m): 9:20am On Jun 05
BlueRayDick:
You actually think Havertz will move away from Arsenal at this stage? Isn't it clear enough that he's one of Arteta's fave?

Also, I don't see Arteta moving away from Odegaard in that AM/CM role. Being the team's captain gives Odegaard some kind of insurance that will always guarantee his place in the team except he goes completely out of form and Eze is given chance. The fact that Odegaard has very good work rate while Eze is the exact opposite will always make Odegaard Arteta's preferred choice in that middle except we get another player which seem to be very unlikely.

I think Merino will most likely play more as a false 9 like he did last season when he was banging in goals. I just hope that will not stop Berta from getting a decent striker to fill the vaccum Gabriel Jesus' departure will create in our frontline.
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If Arsenal buys another attacking midfielder, than means we will have three of them. We though Eze would be a replacement or probably a better upgrade from Odegaard but that is not the case. Eze has had his moment. He is attacking minded, he knows how to shoot from range and give dangerous passes but his game off the ball is not impressive. Arsenal needs a ball carrier. Some one who can run with the ball from the midfield and create chances. Look at someone like Bruno Fernandez.
I don't know where Merino will fit in. He is one of Arsenal's best clutch players but he is not a top 9 and an attacking midfielder
FamilyRe: Mention Habits You Inherited From Your Dad Or Mum That You're Still with by vislabraye(m): 9:36am On Jun 04
dominique:
Very secretive, from dad embarassed
Generous to a fault, from mum sad


My husband don complain tire grin
I have similar traits. But I don learn not to be too generous. My eyes don open. But I may help in other areas.
PoliticsRe: ‘Tinubu’s Borrowing In 24 Months Surpasses 55 Years’ Debt Record’ - Dele Oye by vislabraye(m): 9:32am On Jun 04
helinues:
You are not talking to your village people. How you guys argue confidently on something you have little information about still dey baffle me

Just because Kenya exchange rate is higher than Nigeria don't mean they are better than us

Infact, today Monday, the Kenyans still protested about their new finance bill. Last week Monday was about fuel increase
Data boy, is that you ? If Nigeria is managed like Kenya, Nigeria would be far better. For a country like Nigeria that imports, having a weak currency is bad for the economy. The weakness of our currency is as a result of inflation, poor management, lack of industry etc.
If a country like Kenya can protest, how much more Nigeria ?
HealthRe: “My Dad Died Because All The Qualified Doctors Were In Church” – Keji Giwa Recou by vislabraye(m): 2:20pm On Jun 02
Mathewrichard99:
Abeg which business this stooooopid dude get sef? Who made him billionaire abeg, probably self hail naira billionaire. He is used to speaking nonsense, said so many careless thing last week or so that he's happy that the government is showing nigeria pepper. [b]He said he's happy that every government policy is affecting Nigerians cos he. Is. making more money.in the suffering of Nigerians....[/b]To crown it all, he said he's never wished or pray for Nigeria to be good cos the goodness or progress of nigeria would affect his business......crazy guy....very stuuuuuuooopid......
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Na rich f00l him be.
HealthRe: “My Dad Died Because All The Qualified Doctors Were In Church” – Keji Giwa Recou by vislabraye(m): 2:17pm On Jun 02
Lithiumite:
This guy should quit capping abeg and go face his resort crap..... I have only but realised that being financially wealthy doesn't necessarily mean wisdom......which hospital was that? How can a sane person even open his mouth to say this.....same dude who said he was happy Nigeria was failing....... hearing him alone and how unintelligent he sounds has even dissuaded me from patronising his business.
No mind am. Make one of his staffs show am pepper. I hope he enjoys the failure in Nigeria. Maybe he doesn't know that failure covers every aspect. Make he pray say Nigeria no happen to am.
PoliticsRe: Akpabio Scores Tinubu High On Economic Reforms, Security by vislabraye(m): 9:17am On May 29
Akpabio na rubberstamp senate president. Nothing to offer. Nigeria is trouble.
PoliticsRe: Xenophobia: Many Nigerians Prefer To Die In South Africa Than Return Home — Obi by vislabraye(m): 1:46pm On May 26
RollinTNDA:
South Africa bury the dead in Cemetery
They don't do it like Nigeria where you bury the dead in his village compound.

I'm SA, as a Foreigner you pay 4.8 million naira (3500$) For a burial spot in cemetery.

Then if you want to send the body back to Nigeria via flight is 6.8 million (5000$)

Compared to Nigeria where 2 million is enough for a standard burial unless you want to show off that you be Odogwu.

My only issue is
It is not honourable to be buried in the land of strangers.
The most befitting burial is the one where they are buried in their ancestors land their fore father land.
Your Ancestors will gladly receive you

But getting buried in a foreign land
You are detached from your Ancestors
You are now bonded with a hostile ancestors of the strange land.

That is why all big men make sure their body is laid to rest in the same soil his ancestors were layed in. That is the perfect ending.
WHat your brothers are doing is shameful. Because the blacks in SA did not build South Africa. Nigeria and other African countries fought for your independence. In fact, Nigeria has given SA up to $61bn in total.
RomanceRe: “Before Dating Him, Make Sure He Can Feed Your Family” — Lady Sparks Debate by vislabraye(m): 11:19am On May 26
The problem is entitlement. If he is capable enough, and he chooses to, it is a privilege. All these bambi allah girls we have na God go help us.
PoliticsRe: ‘Tinubu’s Borrowing In 24 Months Surpasses 55 Years’ Debt Record’ - Dele Oye by vislabraye(m): 2:30pm On May 25
YesDaddyTill203:
Only a dunce or a semi-illiterate person will believe these figures.

The difference is that the exchange rate is the reason why it looks this way.

Some people will throw figures around to confuse the gullible.
Tinubu has borrowed $40bn so far. This figure is more than what Buhari borrowed. Stop trying to be silly. Look at figures.
PoliticsRe: ‘Tinubu’s Borrowing In 24 Months Surpasses 55 Years’ Debt Record’ - Dele Oye by vislabraye(m): 2:16pm On May 25
They are standing on his mandate. Nigeria is crashing under the master strategist. Let them keep praising him. This is what tribalism has brought to us.
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Remains World Bank’s Third-largest Borrower With $18.5bn by vislabraye(m): 1:33pm On May 25
Nothing to show for all the debts.
CelebritiesRe: Frank Edoho Beat Me, Slept With Married Women - Wife, Sandra by vislabraye(m): 4:00pm On May 19
ultraviolet27:
But that's what she did yet frank couldn't stomach it typical of Nigerian men who derives pleasure from seeing women miserable,abused and unhappy in marriages they don't want you to leave them and move on yet can't treat you well 'won ni ki o je o ni eegun ni won ni ki o ju danu o ni eran die wa ni ibe'

If not that frank was tarnishing her image she wouldn't have spoken out frank should just keep shut and stop crying all about it isn't as if he is blameless and straight as rain too!
It is better to just leave than to be called an adulteress. Divorce him and change her surname to her father's name. I know women who got divorced and they are happy. No one cared who the dated. But as they have see her as an adulteress or ashawo na shame.
RomanceRe: Why Do African Women Have Big Yansh by vislabraye(m): 1:28pm On May 19
brownwindow:
The size and shape of a woman's buttocks are primarily determined by genetics, hormones (like estrogen), and fat distribution. While body types vary widely across Africa, a curvier silhouette is common in many African populations due to natural biological and cultural factors.

Wikipedia
+4
1. Genetics and Ancestry
Body fat distribution is highly genetic. Many populations indigenous to Sub-Saharan Africa have a genetic predisposition to store subcutaneous fat (the healthy fat just under the skin) in the lower body—specifically the hips, thighs, and buttocks.

Wikipedia
+1
2. Hormonal Fat Distribution
Estrogen naturally directs the female body to store adipose tissue (fat) in the gluteal and femoral regions. In many African women, this hormonal pattern is pronounced, prioritizing fat storage in the buttocks rather than the abdomen. This is a normal physiological trait.

Wikipedia
+1
3. Evolutionary Adaptation
From an evolutionary biology perspective, storing fat in the lower body is beneficial. Historically, this stored energy served as a reserve for periods of food scarcity or to support the high caloric demands of pregnancy and lactation, ensuring survival.
4. Cultural Beauty Standards
Curves have historically been celebrated as a sign of beauty, health, and prosperity in many African cultures. Because being well-endowed is appreciated as a traditional sign of femininity, these features are highly valued within these societies.

Reddit
·r/blackladies
+2
5. Diet and Active Lifestyles
Traditional African diets, often rich in complex carbohydrates and healthy natural fats, combined with active lifestyles, contribute to muscle development (like the gluteus maximus) and healthy body composition
There is a primal reason(s). Big butts is usually a sign of total well being and good health. As a result of draught due to hot climate , women with bigger butts tend to store more nutrients and fats. So the men in such areas are programmed to be attracted to such ladies.
CelebritiesRe: Frank Edoho Beat Me, Slept With Married Women - Wife, Sandra by vislabraye(m): 1:22pm On May 19
Why didn't you just leave ??
CelebritiesRe: Tioruju Mondusi: 3 Nurses Fought Over Me In Hospital After Having Sex With Them by vislabraye(m): 3:52pm On May 18
SmartPolician:
Men are free to talk about their escapades

But when women do the same, people start calling them names.

He's old yet irresponsible, shameless and thoughtless
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Let her do the same.
RomanceRe: Chike: My Friend About To Call Off His Wedding Because Of Fiancée's Comment by vislabraye(m): 3:10pm On May 15
FreeNaijaII:
So my friend proposed to his longtime girlfriend of 3 years this month.

They are already planning to go and see her parents later next month and to also get a date for the wedding sometime in December this year.

They don't always have issues, and anytime they do, they will resolve it within a day or so.

So, my friend saw his fiancée's comment on Instagram validating Frank Edoho's ex-wife opening her legs to Chike (another man) while married to Mr. Edoho.

In her argument, she said that she was right to open her legs to another man because Frank confessed that he keeps malice as a form of punishment.

For the sake of anonymity, I can't share the screenshot here.

He (my guy) has already made up his mind to quit the relationship because he sees her comment as a red flag that should not be ignored.

I tried to talk him out of it, but it seems his mind is made up.

What can I do to help?
If he truly wants to leave the girl, I would encourage him. That's what you get when you just open your mouth without thinking. WHo in his or her right mind will encourage such a shameful behaviour ?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Dangote Explains Why $20bn Refinery Stopped Arsenal Takeover Dream by vislabraye(m): 2:57pm On May 15
Will Dangote be willing to dole out cash like these owners ? The fans want an owner that is willing to splash cash without thinking just like Man. City owners and Abrahamovic.
Car TalkRe: Why Is My Car Faster Than The Speedometer by vislabraye(m): 11:35am On May 14
Dododudu:
Hello everyone,

I bought a 2008 Toyota Prius late last year. Because of insurance, tax, and other things, I left it parked for a few weeks. After about 3 weeks I began to use it, but every time I switched off the engine, I had to jump-start it to get it going again even after a 1-hour drive. At first I thought it was the cold weather.

I took it to the mechanic and it turned out the 12V battery was small and old. I got a new battery, and everything went back to normal. But now the car feels faster than before.

When I was driving at 70 km/h before, it felt like I was crawling. Now it's faster than before.

Recently, I used Google Maps to go somewhere I didn’t know. My speedometer showed 40 km/h in a 50 km/h zone, but Google Maps showed 60+ km/h with the red warning that I’d exceeded the limit.

With daily monitoring, I noticed when my speedometer shows 60 km/h, Maps shows 90+ km/h, and when it shows 70 km/h, Maps also shows 100+ km/h.

Is there a way to fix this without spending much as I don’t want to be a victim of speed cameras.
There is a difference between miles per hour (mph) and Kilometres per hour (kmph).
CareerRe: Tosin Eniolorunda, CEO Moniepoint & The Unemployability Of Nigerians By Adetula by vislabraye(m): 9:22am On May 13
KobolanderSegun:
Too Big a Blunder. That is like giving Mbappe the ball on the line in an empty post and he kicks the ball back to his own goal keeper. How now ? ?? Me im not surprised all these NIgerian companies once they get small money they get carried away. I'm very sure so many people have sent CV's to work there but they do not understand the employment game. Anyone who can help your business is not going to be too polite and he will show he doesn't really send you all he sends is getting the job done. Most CEO's like Elon Musk and Mark Zuckerberg are always looking for people they can control but a real G cannot be controlled . It's like Victor Osimhen dat guy no send anybody na to win be him own trying to control people like Osimhen is a waste of time they will always rebel.

Loaned 2.5 billion to ShopRite the guy is a novice. They loaned the money at a time when ShopRite was already doing poorly when people had stopped going to ShopRite. They then will say they cannot find competent staff, when you yourself are not competent.
That's a strong word. There's a difference between being intelligent and being street smart. This guy has book intelligence. But the street smartness of an Alaba International trader he doesn't have.
Saying Nigerians youths are unemployable will beam the searchlight on him. Some times, people have to mind what we say. WHat has he given back to the society ? Has he ever volunteered to award the best graduating student of his school and offer to sponsor him abroad ?
CareerRe: Tosin Eniolorunda, CEO Moniepoint & The Unemployability Of Nigerians By Adetula by vislabraye(m): 1:26pm On May 11
KobolanderSegun:
The CEO is a novice. Moniepoint loaned ShopRite N2.4 billion naira. And ShopRite cannot pay back. So here he is talking about poor quality NIgerians. How can anyone loan that amount out ? And then start going to court over the matter ? Try collecting that amount from the Chinese owner of OPAY and you will know that the Chinese owner knows Nigerians very well.
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That was a blunder.. Apart from that i heard he sponsored Big Brother Nigeria. Misplaced priority.
CareerRe: Tosin Eniolorunda, CEO Moniepoint & The Unemployability Of Nigerians By Adetula by vislabraye(m): 1:47pm On May 08
RHCM:
Before you crucify the CEO
Ask yourself this simple question
How many young Nigerians are ready to work?
Also what certification do you have to take up those required openings?
Finally what's the pay for the respective jobs that are open?
Once we get these right we would be putting right cubes in right holes and not otherwise
Let's not bring emotions to this
If you're qualified apply and work
Don't follow the unqualified to accuse someone whom may be your destiny helper
The CEO is not absolutely right though he raised some important points. Our school syllabus needs to be reviewed. Our youths also needs better exposure. But let us cut the youths some slack. There are brilliant Nigerian youths doing well home and abroad.
When Shell, Chevron and oil companies came to Nigeria, they established training schools where graduates were trained. These people never complained about incompetence. Same thing with banks. Graduates are usually trained for months. These companies have training schools to bridge the gap.
Moniepoint as a company would need system engineers, etc. These skillsets are rare. How can you get these people ? You will need to train them. How many graduates has he trained ? In fact, those who meet the criteria, how many will he be willing to pay their worth ?
CareerRe: Dying On The Job by vislabraye(m): 1:08pm On May 08
Magnetic010:
This is why I say- don’t start a family until you are financially capable, don’t marry one wife unless you can comfortably take care of two, don’t even think of raising one child unless you have the financial capacity to raise 3.
TRue. On the flip side if you marry late because of money, you will retire and still have children in school. Men, any how you see it, it is not funny.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal: Title Contenders Or Just ‘almost’ FC Again? by vislabraye(m): 8:54am On May 07
SportConn:
Let’s be honest.

1️⃣ Under Mikel Arteta, Arsenal have clearly improved. The football is more organized, the mentality looks stronger, and they’re no longer pushovers against big teams.

2️⃣ Players like Bukayo Saka and Martin Ødegaard are carrying serious responsibility and delivering. Young core, big potential.

3️⃣ But here’s the issue… when pressure hits, Arsenal still wobble. We saw it last season, leading the table for long, then falling short when it mattered most.

4️⃣ Is it a mentality problem or just lack of squad depth compared to teams like Manchester City?

5️⃣ Another angle: recruitment. Arsenal have spent big, but are all signings actually improving the squad or just adding numbers?

6️⃣ Defensively, they look better, but one injury to a key player and everything starts shaking. That’s not title-winning stability.
So the big question:

Can Arsenal actually win the Premier League soon, or are they stuck in the “almost” phase?

Be honest, no bias.

Are Arsenal genuine title challengers or just overhyped?
Arsenal can win and hopefully, they will. The attention for now should be on the EP league. WHen they win the Premier league, it will boost their confidence for CL finals. At least they should win one league.
You mentioned injury. I agree with you on that. Injury has been one of Arsenal's biggest headaches. I also believe that Arsenal's medical teams and trainers should do better. The reason Arsenal was where they were last season was as a result of injuries. Squad depth has helped to reduce this injury because it would have been worse than what it is. Look at Man. City for instance. One of their key players got injured and they are struggling. WHat will happen if Doku or Halaand gets injured ? Winning the EPL is not impossible for Arsenal.
RomanceRe: Man Dump Lady After Her Family Gave Him Ridiculous Marriage List by vislabraye(m): 11:54am On Apr 28
Its just a joke. Nothing is real
CelebritiesRe: My Mother Doesn’t Want Me To Give My Father Money - Peller by vislabraye(m): 10:41am On Apr 24
IamAtAnger:
Una dey see how mean that gender can be?...

But come to think of it nor be this same peller buy benz for girl wey him never even marry still carry am go Maldives and spent almost 30milliin Naira on the trip? Hmmmm... abi na content? 🤔


Man to Man as u dey hustle to keep up ur responsibilities make u dey save for ur old age o
I tell you. I see no reason why a billionaire can comfortably spend millions in clubs or for women but find it difficult to assist his family.

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