OboOlora: Had a similar experience when I was in Nigeria. The boss that time just came to relieve my main boss and for no reason didn't like me. He then gave me 74.9 in full year appraisal knowing fully well I would need 75 to get a promotion and the company will never round up.
He begged him, cried and did everything but he left it that way.
When the guy dies a few months after, I was happy and murmured 'good for him'
Took my mum's intervention to explain life to me and then pray for forgiveness for me to move past this.
Life!
That boss was actually ev8l. Can't blame you for being happy that he died. But for your good, just don't think about him.
I’ve collected the numbers of more than 12 girls in my church — and every single one rejected me. Not even friendship, just straight rejection.
I know I’m not bad-looking — I’d rate myself above 7/10, no exaggeration. I dress well, I keep myself neat, I have curly hair and a good physique. I also earn over ₦500k monthly, so money is not my problem.
I don’t even live in the city — just a town here in the Southwest — by local standards, I know I’m doing well for my age.
I’ll be 30 next month, and honestly, I’m mentally tired. I’ve never even had a serious relationship — marriage talk is far.
The funny part is, I don’t even talk too much in church. I’m not loud, but when I try to approach someone, it never works out.
Please, I really want to know — what could be my problem?
I’ll appreciate real advice, please no insults. 🙏
Thank you all.
CAN I BE TOO INTIMIDATING?
There could be a plethora of reasons. All the ladies are in the same Church. That looks like its not going to work cos they may have heard about you, in one way or the other. It could be your body language, the way you approach or what you say. Probably the ladies feel they are out of your league. Ladies feel this way sometimes. I guess you should try else where.
A viral statement by Prophet Jeremiah Omoto claims that paying your first fruit can wipe away sins and secure divine backing—even for those involved in 419.
The message has ignited debate online and in religious communities.
Normally, I for think say na AI. But since its prophet Jeremaiah, anything is possible. This man should go to jail. In fact, I don't know why people are not calling him out.
Sirchiboy: I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business. Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop. Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this. Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt. You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl
DOes she do business or you want her to start one ?
The is pure èvíl. He should be sentenced to dè@th. I can't imagine the weekedness. You went to a country that accommodated you and pains them such. It's this kind of behaviour that will make people turn against us.
A very bad sign. That is to say, that she was never loyal to her doctor bf. That's why you should not let your gf have a male friend. Male friends are always waiting for an opportunity to smash your girl.
kingzjay: In as much as I blame Carragher for his big mouth and baseless comments....
I still blame the organizers of AFCON. How can a major tournament like this be scheduled in the middle of the season when major leagues are ongoing, every two years? In some cases, players would choose to stay back with their clubs instead of playing at the AFCON.
I also blame our politicians that have refused to develop our homelands. With the enormous resources that abound in Africa, there's nothing we can't achieve here; functional leagues, good stadium and all... Where would that big mouth Carragher see the chance to talk trash!
tojahh: Now that he didn't score 22 goals for Napoli. Where is Napoli?
Like I said, Blacks are too quick to cry Racism when no one is pursuing them. Again, Napoli are doing fantastically well without Osimehn's goals as we all can see. I will like to see where Napoli made a racial statement towards Osimehn. No be to dey cry wolf, accept it. If na black person be Ronaldo or Ramos wey Madrid sell even after all they've done for Madrid, we for no hear word till today.
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Football doesn't work like that. Even then, Osimhen would have made Napoli better than where they are today. Zidane was said to be one of the greatest midfielders and footballers of all time. He played for France and won a World Cup and Euro Cup. AFter he left, France still won the World Cup. He won CL for Madrid but after he left, Madrid still won it severally. But that doesn't take anything from his performance. You purposely refuse to say anything about how Osimhen was mocked because he missed a penalty, comparing him to a monkey. Ronaldo was sold from Real Madrid to Juve for é100m. Have that in mind. It was clear business. I want to speculate that a bl@ck man won't be sold for that amount.
tojahh: Nothing like racist in Gasperini comment about lukman. Say his choice of words were harsh (That's unfortunate) but terming it racist is a big flop for any football mind.
Using Osimehn as a case study. Napoli is doing fantastically well at the top of the table without him, so there's nothing special he would have done either.
Once a black man has an issue with a white man, Una go run term am Racism. Taribo West George Weah Nwakwo Kanu Samuel Eto
All these guys made great exploits and won numerous trophies with Italian teams and una no remember Racism.
R@cism comes in different shades and a lot of the time it's subtle. It's not only when you call someone a niga or a bl@ck monkey. STop trying to be too woke. Saying Napoli did well without Osimhen is trying to diminish his performance. SO scoring 22 goals in the league didn't help Napoli. I guess that's how you understand football.
OneOnland: Really? Busy hallway? There's video evidence that the hallway wasn't busy, and the school didn't outlaw recording video in any of its publicly available facilities.
You are shameful person? You're a lawless person and you're justifying the abuse of the lecturer.
And the lady, inasmuch recording video is hallway isn't prohibited, she is correct to make her tiktok videos, build her creativity and intellectual capacity to creativity now (theatre arts, right?), and also engage in entrepreneurial endeavor that isn't prohibited by the institution. Making Tiktok videos, a lady once claimed she makes more that $40,000 per month from it.
So, the abusive lecturer tells her to destroy her intellectual property that she worked hard for, under threat using 'hes a lecturer' and destroy her entrepreneurial spirit, and especially when universities encourage creativity and entrepreneurship.
All of you extremely opposing the lady, are the types that'd tell a person to turn their left cheeks when slapped at the right, but would hardly take such themselves.
Tell a movie producer to delete their videos, threaten them to, and not get sued with heavy penalty.
Arrant people with cavemen non forward looking perspective. Some are even saying in their days in university. Arrant!
hahhaha. WHen you mentioned a movie producer, i just laughed. Have you seen any movie producer just go into an office or class and start shooting video ? Before anything, a movie producer will take permission, and they will shoot at an appropriate time. I have seen movies being shot before. Your intellectual property should not infringe on my right as a person.
OneOnland: Expelling the lady? Trying to say that the lecturer's behavior is justified. I mean, how would Nigeria not have politicians flexing powers on their electorates.
What a perversion of justice on the abused lady.
Cases of abuse: 1. Tapped her to shove her aside (let's assume this is excuseable) 2. Demanding that her intellectual property (her recorded video) be deleted 3. Abusing his office of being a lecturer to demand the no. (2). 4. Forcefully taking possession of the lady's property (her phone) without any police or court order. // In which the lady reacted by defending/fighting him. 5. Clutching the lady's wrists and with the intent to cause the physical danger of breaking her wrists.
The lady's only offence : defending herself from people like the lecturer who ride on the sentiments of others and abuse their office of being lecturer to act unjustly against students who are largely humans, and also lawful residents of Nigeria.
Edited: Shoving people aside is actually what lead to deaths in stampedes and crowded areas. People need to stop shoving people and let the party see you, and actually pave way while you say the "excuse me", not shove people, disorderliness.
Slapping the lecturer and tearing is clothes is self defense ? You are a shameful person. WHy should she make a tik tok video on a busy hallway during school hours and expect not to be interrupted ? In case you don't know, there are some places where you shouldn't make videos. Shame on your level of thinking.
CountinBlessins: No such thing as almost raped you were raped. Just like how Nigerians always lie that when they are extradited to American prison they dont get raped.
i only laugh. Let me tell you as a yahoo boy PRY, PRAY Never to be arrested by FBI and taken to American prison, i have been there and witnessed first hand what happens to Nigeria yahoo boys in American prison Its so horrofic you cant imagine.
No one tells you, they are all pretending, see have you ever wondered why since Dammy Krane served his prison sentence abroad and returned to Nigeria he has never been the same?
All these yahoo boys you see FBI come here to arrest just say good bye to their anus. Hush puppy will never be the same when he comes out. they all lie and pretend and claim i will rather die than allow them take my yansh!! bros na lie, what will you do when 5 huge gaint american thugs round you biting their lips with hard dicks coming to rape you? nothin!!!
it is the constant raping Dammie krane suffered in prison that affected his brains. i have seen yahoo boys turn gay in there. listen dont get deceived by movies, you are better off serving your prison sentence in Nigeria!!
You need to know that in USA as a Nigerian Yahoo boy you are hated!!! dem hate you pass rapist and child molesters because you have scammed their mothers fathers and siblings so every gang will come for you inside prison
what saved me i was not arrested for fraud or as a Nigerian. i witnessed Nigerian yahoo boys raped every day. infact some of your friends who are yahoo boys serving prison sentence in America give up the anus willingly so they dont get killed. forget all the hard man they form when they come out of yankie prison,
My final advise to you as a yahoo boy, when caught just di whatever you can never to be taken abroad to serve your prison sntence,
hush puppy will have learned the different styles of sucking dick all this years. infact . in yankie prison they will change you, all those your yahoo friends serving prison sentence forming gangsta say prison in yankie better pass your freedom in naija dey lie to you . i been there lived and did my 10 year time now i am here in Nigeria . your friend is someone's girlfriend in prison .
and to you reading this and laughing say omo i will rather die. You will. infact those yankie thugs want you to fight, they ddont want you to give up the anus, they get turned on when you fight them for it, guy they will rape you to death with force turn by turn every day till you are released years after if you survive, see how feminie all Nigerians become when they are released from yankie prison, e get why.
sauce kid, dammy krane, hakeemo, so many
So you wey dem arrest, dem no rape you because say you no enter as Naija scammer? Is it only Naija prisoners they rape ?
Sonnobax15: Everything for this life na truly vanity upon vanity....
See as the same cars wey Yahoo boys for here dey use oppress us just burn to ashes for there
But you see this life en,we all need each other,one another......The same Mexicans wey USA dey close their border against don turn to the same people wey wan help dem . Is life not really funny?
Ironfaceman: Bloody bastard Muslim terrorist. A land that has accommodated you for 42 years this is how you show appreciation. Where ever you go Allah will still punish you.
I really don't understand them. When they are in need or displaced, they run to the West for support. They don't go to Saudi Arabia, Qatar, Oman, UAE or Kuwait . But they later turn around to bite the fingers that feed them. One should be mindful of them.
A pastor wen Dey enter Ifitness gym......is that one a pastor??
See pastor, see fresh and soft yanshes parading d gym with skin tight panties.......boobs dangling......Pastor shouldnt be found anywhere around the gym cos his eyes must see things and its very Unbiblical.....
Now, see a Soldier man kneel to receive prayers from a Conman.......The soldierman's wife might even be calling the pastor "Daddy Daddy daddy wa!!!
Stop being hypocritical. I'm sure you go to gym yourself. Where is it written that pastors should not go to gym ?
gaby: So, because he heads a federal agency overseeing the pool of tax contributed by citizens, that automatically confers on him the sole powers to unilaterally increase his agency's workers salaries and benefits without any recourse to relevant bodies?
A country where any and everything goes.
Don't be a kill joy. You sound envious. If you find out what other parastatals pay their staffs, FIRS is not the highest. Stop sounding ignorant. You don't know the role of a chairman.
Kukutente23: She did nothing wrong She simply practiced taqiyya like a good Muslim should The jihadist also did well by protecting the honour of a young Muslim female from an unbeliever The failure lies with France that chose to mix sheep with goats and even gave goats more protection than the sheep When did islamophobia even become a thing Who has ever heard of christophobia France will definitely become a preserve of Allah and his prophet soon Allahu akbar
I wonder what the West are so f00leesh. Saudi Arabi, UAE and Qatar will never open their doors to extremists but the West did. Let the m continue to be f00leesh.
Dammycouch: As I was coming back late in the night along Berger in Lagos, a boy was trying to help me get a vehicle and he later stop a personal car but the driver said the car is his personal car and within 2 minutes, 2 young guys wearing black shirts with rough hair entered as passengers. Within some minutes, another 2 guys squeezed themselves inside and they are all young with rough dressing.
I was at the front and I jumped down immediately before it moved but they were persuading me to enter but I refuse and entered the next car.
How can 4 young guys on black shirts with rough tattered clothes entered same bus. One was with a school bag and I suspected them.
There supposed to be at least, a woman and old person.
I hope I did the right thing guys by jumping down from the car?
Learn to trust your guts. You had nothing to lose even if your suspicion was wrong. But to always be on the safe side, trust your gut instincts.
Dogalmighty17: Nigerian soldiers are useless. Look at what thier mates in the Israeli army are doing bringing down two of the most dreaded terror organisations on earth in short order. You will never see where an Israeli soldier attacks a civilian.
Here in Nigeria, the bastards we call military men that can't secure the territorial integrity of the country, that are engaged in all manner of economic sabotage, crude oil bunkering and all manner of illegalities can only show strength against civilians. If the Nigerian army was even half a decent organisation, it would have won the war on terror to an extent. But no, the incompetent dullards and misfits can only be good in oppressing the people of the country.
What you should ask yourself is whether the introduction KAI is legal or not. This is a state that empowers agberos to harass innocent citizens. I have no pity for hoodlums.
Education › Re: This Grudge Is Till We Face God:lady Shares Sad Experience With Sec.school Bully by vislabraye(m): 9:26am On Jul 09, 2025
