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Few days ago,i sent a thread on "Wife Gets Free Ride to Work from Male Colleague"which is still in this thread.Many people said their views,however,just last night,i was discussing with my Wife and in the process she told me that the man(her colleague in the office),that do give her free ride to work has been disturbing her,that he love her and will like to have fun with her.That the man keep on toasting her,that he want her to be his girlfriend(a married woman).That since tuesday this week,she has stopped going with him to work by his car.Ladies and gentlemen,where are we heading to?.Lust?.For a man like me to be giving free ride to my wife claiming that its a good samaritan work,all in the name of trying to enjoy my wife and be having office romance with her?.Unbelievable!!.My fellow men,beware of a man giving free ride to your girlfriend or wife.Many things are happening.If you were in my shoe,what will you do? for i m suggesting that the man will still be disturbing her in office or start humiliating her.

Can women please comment on this,i think they are they one that can tell more on this,please dont shy away over this matter.say all you know about this please.

Please let mature people talk on this issue and if one does not know what to say,then let one no coment atall,for its for mature mind and not a joking matter.Many atimes i read in this thread and heard people saying,he cannot perform or he can perform,and i became scared atimes how to know that one is ok in bed,even in this thread peole will be advertising one to come and buy herb for performace.So i now ask, men,how do you know that you are ok in bed with your partner?, women,how do you rate men and know that he is strong in bed?.This question is necessary because many atimes,a man may think that he is doing his work well,not knowing that he is not,even though the woman may claim that He is strong while he is not,just to promote the man ego,and such can lead her going for outside match.Coment wisely pls!!.

Please my fellow NL,what shall i do.I have been working for fours now after my NYSC without any personal savings.It used to disturb me much,but i know i dont spend recklessly,its more of poor salary scale comparing with living standard in Lagos.I have been applying for change of job.Right now,i was considering weather to resign and look for any small thing i can embark on,and be on my own,but i have not gotten any idea on what i can start doing and leave the job.Please your advice is highly appreciated.