₦airaland Forum

gidigbam1:
I agree with you that the situation in the country is quite sad and the government of the day doesn't seem to be on top of the game at all and is not seen to be serious about fixing things.

But the truth is PO, is definitely not the solution. He is a packaged fraud brother. We have way better options with proven track records and PO is a false messiah. It is high time we rally round and push such persons now so that we won't continue on trial and error. The names I am throwing up includes

1. Donald Duke
2. Sullivan Chime
3. Emmanuel Udom

You are all welcome to throw up your names lets review their track record and performances in office before choosing who we'll back up to save Nigeria from this drift.

I actually don't support PO but i know Tinubu has absolutely nothing to offer Nigerians. Look at what my fellow Yorubas are doing now, because Buhari destroyed Nigeria for good 8 years and the northerner region didn't complain, so no matter how bad Tinubu rules Nigeria they will also not complain. It is a pay back time to the north according to our people. You can imagine?

Nigerians should better use the last drop of their blood to ensure Tinubu didn't win 2027 election. The man is obviously evil and doesn't give a fvck about the masses.

allen113:
How can local rice in the North be 160k while in ph Bori camp market it is sold for 70-80k and they buy and transport it from the North to the South.

Someone is definitely lying.

are you okay upstairs?

Samtob90:
The lies they told you.
We are the victim of the era o boy, na lesson teacher I take pay my school fees then, na borrow I borrow to pay my final year.
Hunger almost made me lose focus in class, though narrowly missed first class but remember having to walk from ogba to Olambe

i graduated from university 2020 and all my tuition fee from year 1 till final year was 100k in total. I can afford 3 square meal as a Student. I do throwaway rice several times. 18k minimum wage then can buy almost 2 bags of rice. Exchange rate was around #600+. A paint of garri was 500 or thereabouts. Food wasn't a luxury then. My monthly allowance as a Student was 15k and this includes feeding, photocopy and handouts. Tinubu has destroyed Nigeria.

But today, reverse is everything. Tinubu has destroyed Nigeria. Stop supporting evil for whatever reason please. I'm also a yoruba guy from Osun state. Tinubu has failed Nigerians. Speak the truth.

fitinwell:
I don't want to believe President doesn't see ,feel the heat and pains the Nigerian people are going through daily....

Only an evil occultic man .... Would act like they don't care ...

It's a blank lie and format ... That Nigerians are paying back debt loans ...

And yet government are still planning to take more loans. ..

even if people are dropping dead daily, he won't give a fvck. I think it's one of the sacrifice they pay getting to the presidency. Their heart has gone.

cn401:
There are mistakes we make in life that we can move on from and remedy quickly. And there are mistakes that u make and it takes several years to remedy. My own single mistake I made as a young man was coming back to Nigeria to serve my fatherland after I was done with uni in the UK a few years ago. I was the valedictorian at uni and anytime I remember what my colleagues dey earn for abroad I go just dey shake my head dey vex.

Nigerians are going through a ton. With the advent of this regime, the middle class has been wiped clean, our money has been eroded. 100k is gone within 2 weeks or less. You ask yourself what did you spend on and you can't even say.

The other day fuel finished in my car as I was about leaving my apartment, so I went to buy fuel and on my way back after I alighted from the Keke, I saw an old woman and her son about to get on the Keke. I left, put fuel in my car and was driving out and saw the woman and her son walking, I asked them to jump in and she was thanking me profusely yet complaining bitterly about how things have become hard. How much was the transportation fare to her destination? Just 200#!!!!

Please if you are reading this and considering giving up, hang in there so far as you are alive there's hope. God willing, next year I'll be leaving the country to a better country. Stay blessed

I wish you can take me along while going, at least let me break the generational poverty in my lineage. I'm exhausted.

porthouse7:
only someone that eat amala will understand

I am yoruba from Osun state. My village is not far from Tinubu village.

CommonSense1967:
Your life and that of your unborn generations are already destroyed. Ameen..Now go and jump inside the Lagos lagoon.

BYE

I'm not supporting bad government against the masses. Na you dey support bad government so your curse no fit affect me.

Like i said earlier, your life will be completely destroy as Tinubu destroyed Nigeria. Amen 👏

Lithiumite:
So tinubu should lay eggs for you....or is anyone stopping you from starting your own poultry.....

Eranko. Omo irankiran

CommonSense1967:
Omo ale omo monkey. Baba n la baba e ni omo irankiran. Ode, ole, atole ,dindinrin

omo ofo masanfani. Your life will be destroy as Tinubu destroyed Nigeria. Amen 👏

porthouse7:
Obasanjo defeated Ojukwu in Biafra war

so? Does that stop obj from being bigger and respected than emilokan?

tete7000:
Tinubu has successfully bribed these ones. He doesn't even need any spoke person again, he should simply outsource the job to them, they will do him a good job. Awon agbaya, alatenuje. Na where belle face, na there, their mouth they face.

exactly. Their children will reap what they've sown.

CommonSense1967:
Your papa and your forefathers cannot smell 1% of what I have achieved in life.

You low IQ cretin.

omo irankiran.

LegacyB:
You can disagree with them but when your call people of your grandfather’s age “fool” it just shows your parents did a terrible job raising you. Apart from the curse you attract to yourself. We know ure frustration but u can still be sensible. And,yes I may not agree totally with most of this groups Afenifere, Massob, Arewa Etc. but I don’t have to act like an animal when disagreeing.

a fool also grow old. Age doesn't make one sensible or intelligent. Get that

garykoeman:
Obasanjo na yeye man.

Na only ibo people take am serious because they share the Same lineage.

Only a bas-tard will use the left hand to describe the road leading to his father house.

does this mean you will continue to support someone because he's from your tribe even at the detriment of the general public?

adexpa:
Thank you for been polite with your questions because I know how some people can be, but I wouldn't be able to answer them.

I wish you the best in your endeavors.....no government can help us except we find means to help ourselves.
No matter how good the government, some people will lament and some will experience breakthrough.

you have been defeated.

Linkzlikz:
Even OBJ no fit talk this rubbish wey you write for here! Even in OBJs era he admitted the only person qualified to be referred to as a politician lives in bourdillon and his name is TINUBU!

Tinubu is a politician but obj is greater than him and well respected in the world

blacknp:
Jagaban of Africa is a self made man, he has already surpassed, way greater than opportunist Obasanjo the product of the Hausa Fulani Military.

Like Obasanjo, & Abiola, International Thief Thief (I.T.T.). International Rogue, We must fight them very well, well well.

Obj is mile ahead Tinubu 💯

porthouse7:
obadanjo want to be the only relevant yoruba man, he want yorubas to worship him, but tinubu is the getting the glory of true yoruba man, that alone is making obasanjo envy our president

Obasanjo is bigger and much more respected than Tinubu

Samtob90:
Just to ask ni oo, when it was biggest economy in sub wahala as claimed, how many houses, cars, industries did your father build?
What was your achievement please? I lived in those era of phony achievement and I can tell you better

during those times, even a jobless person can afford 3 square meal daily as food wasn't luxury then. The poorest of the poorest can afford to send their children to university. Exchange rate wasn't beyond #500. Minimum wage earner then can feed well.

Oya defend am again

goslowgoslow:
They already listed for you Tinubu 's economy agenda as contained in his manifesto contrary to Obsanjo saying he didn't have any.

what does Tinubu have? Hunger, poverty, insecurity, inflation, increasing tax, unemployment and many more

Tonnyray:
Spot on.

Eranko

stacyadams:
365 days a year,toto no dey rest,toto dey work pass industrial machine .till owner of toto die,before toto go rest
rest in peace toto

You be Animal.

QuinQ:
100%.
And even 2031 is not sure. Tinubu is NOT Buhari nor GEJ. After 2031, very likely (if still alive) he'd put his stooge there and still be the real President, and whoever he puts there will be just a ceremonial figurehead. The man is a GENIUS in such moves.
Buhari tried to prevent him, even to the extent of changing Naira to make his stockpile useless. But destiny wouldn’t allow

if truly you believe in destiny, then God wouldn't watch or allow Tinubu win 2027 election considering the hardship Nigerians are going through. God will shame anyone over rating him.

ebukal67x:
Asari Dokubo is a small player in the grand political game. His comments can be safely ignored.

even if governor come out to speak against T-pain, you and your likes will still say the same thing that the governor is a small player in the grand political game. 2027 go come na

UltraSolid:
Lol. Go and spit on your father who failed you to the extent you are now such a bitter and frustrated failure wanting to spit on those you have never met merely because they have opinions, they are entitled to, that upset you.

omo irankiran

UltraSolid:
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Emotional and myopic as to be expected from you people. You've just revealed yourself ranting about OBJ utilised the turn of the Yorubas. This is why you will always be negative and toxic, in advance, about anything concerning his Presidency as all your people are.

Tinubu is not leaving the Presidency tomorrow and has time to achieve a lot. Only biased haters like you, never wishing to give the man a chance, would conclude otherwise.

If Tinubu cannot restructure Nigeria by 2027 then no one can. You should watch out for judging Tinubu negatively, and making redundant conclusion, because you see issues through biased and ethnocentric eyes.

you're truly dumb. Extremely dumb saying if Tinubu can't restructure Nigeria by 2027 then no one can. Very dumb statement. You think the world revolve around just a particular person? I spit on you bro. You guys really rate this Tinubu too much and he has failed woeful so far.

isan:
Eranko baba e

omo irankiran. Tinubu no know your miserable papa continue to dey support rubbish. Esan a ke le o lori. Omo ofo

isan:
Useless obasanjo , we all know your origin ... you're the most corrupt African leader...

Tinubu is doing the needful for Nigeria and he will succeed

eranko ni e.. hand go soon touch you

Capernum:
My sisters are very submissiveness to their husbands.. It's not rossy anywhere.

Any good marriage you see out there are product of several endurance, wise actions and patience.

Mumu. You think everyone gives up quickly on marriage like you? OYO is your case.


Op's marriage will work out, she'll pay the price while you continue to stay out of marriage with your deformed toxic children you're raising alone.

you're sick upstairs. The woman has taken up the man's responsibility (Financially) and you are expecting submission? Lol, you want her to pay the price while the idiot man pays what? A man wey get liver dey insult him wife parents? You must be insane telling her not to divorce the animal.

jify:
I need matured advice. (Long read)

My husband has become like a thorn in my flesh.

When we got married, we were sharing responsibilities and financial contribution like 60:40; I take the bulk because I earn more. The goal was that I would support until it gets to a point where he was earning more to take up more responsibility. I don’t complain about money, if I asks and he says he doesn’t have, I don’t ask again. Over time, I don’t ask, he just uses his initiative to drop whatever he has. Whether its N60k or 90k per 3 months as income increases, I don’t bother.

He gives me issues on money problem, he wants us to save jointly, I refused. The reason for this is because in the course of this marriage journey, we have both really hurt each other. I am not the type that talks too much, but when he gets me angry, I would vomit words that is unpalatable as a result of piled up anger. When he starts with his arguments, most times I go silent. But he starts poking me to talk. In some cases, I tell him that if I open my mouth to talk, he would not like what would come out of it, but then he starts dragging me on the cloth, leg or anywhere he can grab me saying I must say what is on my mind, just so I would respond. Sometimes he starts to insult my parents, siblings, etc.

He looks for every reason to quarrel. If I tell him that I am very tired and not in the mood for sex, the next day, he would wait till 6.25am and tell me that henceforth I have to start prepping the children for school, I leave for work by 6.30am. Meanwhile I have been up since 4am, cooking and arranging the children’s things. My kids stay for afterschool and so I have to cook what they would eat till evening. Then later in the evening, he would tell me he wants sex. Truth be told and I think he also knows that sex is more of a moral obligation for me, so that he won’t have something to accuse me of. During sex, I remember all the hurtful words and messages he has sent to me while in the office, and I just can’t wait for it to end.

In May this year, he told me that because my brother told him 3 years ago, that he doesn’t know why I am still with him, that I should have left as I can take care of myself and don’t need him, therefore he would no longer contribute money for food. I said nothing. Since that time I have been taking care of feeding. Before now I do part feeding, children’s school, children’s lesson, children transport to school, cleaner, hospital bills, etc. He takes care of rent and electricity. At some point, I was doing electricity and lawma but I had to stylishly push that to him.

I don’t have a problem if we share these things with mutual agreement, but each time we have an argument, he reneges and uses the kids to start punishing me, putting my job in jeopardy, insulting my parents as much as picking up the phone to insult my mother just to make me react, locks me outside when I tell him that the decision he took on something has caused an issue. These days I don’t express my feelings about anything, whether I like it or not, because if I say I am not happy with how things are, I would most likely get a call in the office and if I don’t respond because I know it is to harass me and mess up with my mental state, when I get back from work, the doors would be locked since he comes before me.

I have begged to hire a nanny (I would pay for it and he knows that); all I need was approval, but it has been denied. I begged for 3 years to have someone come in to clean the house on weekends. He is the one doing it but the complaint was too much. Eventually he agreed to have someone come in on weekends, but if we have disagreements (not quarrel o), he would stop the person from coming, so that I would do it myself.

My family don’t like him, I have been told several times to leave him. But he is an amazing father, my children adore their dad and love him. Leaving him would also affect them, but my mental state is in tatters.

I am a very private person but since I married him, he has reported me to every pastor I know, and when I am asked and I lay my own side of the story, he quarrels with the pastors for not taking sides with him and we have to change church. I have told him that if he reports me to anyone, I won’t honour it because it’s become one too many. Are we the only ones who cannot seem to manage our problems? And I am done hopping from one church to the other.

His family members have waded in, and he gives me like one month and we are back to square one. I am tired and frustrated. I told him all I wanted from him was peace of mind. My mother’s mantra raising us was if your husband does not do it, then you do it. Don’t wait for any man to do anything for you. As girls, we were not raised to be dependent. My mother hates it. So we don’t usually ask husbands for money, we expect that husbands would do what is right and if they don’t, we take it up and do it.

So I don’t wait for him to do anything, I do it or provide the money to do it, and I have told him I won’t enter into a joint savings with him where he has the full control. This year alone, I have been locked out of the house up to 6 times, if I save money with him, it means when he locks the door, I would be stranded.

Please how do I navigate this? When he locked me out of the house 3 years ago, I had to rent a place to stay. Mind you, the house we live in now, was the house I rented when I left because it was far better than our previous accommodation. For almost one year I was away with the children, he didn’t pay them any visits, didn’t ask to see them, occasionally he calls to talk to them, but he didn’t see them, and my kids were broken. They need that stability and I am so afraid of denying them that fatherly love (maybe because I lacked it in my childhood and it affected me badly). The only thing holding me here is my children. But God knows I am tired, frustrated, bitterness is growing in me at a rapid rate.

leave that marriage now and look for means to carry your children. Lock him up whenever he calls your mum/parents to abuse them. But make sure you have evidence to back it up

helinues:
You can't feel threatened if the jokes didn't touch you somewhere that's not good

hand go soon touch you