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There's this man that usually begs in front of the young shall grow park close to Marian market at calabar (he's still does until today)
I recently found out that he's okay physically and can walk despite posing as a crippled.

As someone who has worked as a church security in a Catholic church, I know the things I have seen.... These reverend fathers especially the young ones are very Randy but on a coded level.
I no go lie, e get one reverend sister wey been enter me eye during the time I dey work for there.
The sister set die, if she been give me green light I for no refuse.

Scammer Religious CEO

I saw this on Facebook but refused to comment since it was on an international page and I no want anything wey go ruin my future chances to JAPA.
Thank God say EPL don finally get sense

Dear Op.... Sorry to say this but your wife has been away for 8 months, there's a possibility that some village man have been shining her congo, (body no be firewood and 8 months is a long time).
She might be pregnant outside and justs wants you to knack her so she can pin the pregnancy on you .
My advice is not to do anything, your d!ck not rising might actually be a good thing for you.

How can water support combustion ?

Host78:
There was no rape here. But white ass lickers won't see this.

Young black guys overseas please stay away from these women.

No one would believe anything you say once she use the word rape.

I agree, there's a high possibility that the guy is innocent.
The sex might be consensual, in the western part of the world (Europe and north America) a woman can willingly sleep with you sex and still wake up the next morning and accuse you if rape.... The fact here is that the police will believe her .

Na wah oh.

Pukkalolo:
@bolded. That's the problem with most guys. They treat the pussy like it's a big deal.

Men fail with women because they see pussy as a trophy instead of seeing it as a tool. Let me explain…

Back in school I was gisting with this young lecturer, and along the line, I told him, “I wish I could graduate with first class.”

He laughed and said, “Boy, stop chasing lower ground goals…. Go for the higher ground goal.”

He explained quickly and shallowly… and changed the topic immediately. I didn't seem to grasp it. But I later got what he was trying to say; but I had to learn it the hard way.


Lower ground goals are the normal goal we desire, and you can possibly achieve them if we try harder and work harder.

While Higher ground goals are goals that are almost impossible to achieve: and to achieve the higher goal, having the lower ground goal is almost a prerequisite.

For example, aiming for the moon is a lower ground goal, while aiming for the star is a higher goal.

Using that young lecturer as example. He graduated out of that university with first class. But according to him, he never aim to get first class. He believes First-class was a lower ground goal. Instead he aimed for a higher ground goal: being a Lecturer in the university.

The lower ground goal is only a prerequisite or by-product of going for higher ground goal.
When you are going for a lower ground goal, you simply do the regular activities to achieve it. But when you're going for a higher-ground goal, you are naturally forced to bring out the best behavior in you


For example, if he was aiming to get first class, then for the most part, all he needed to do was to study harder. But since he was aiming for a higher ground goal (being a lecturer in the school), studying harder was just a prerequisite, he also need to be pressing some other buttons and making some other moves. He's forced to behave differently.


Using money as an example:

Loser chase money because they treat money like a trophy. So they slave for it.

Winner view money as a tool, not trophy. To the winner, money is a tool, a prerequisite or by-product, not the goal. He only need money for the higher purpose.


Men fail with women because they see pussy as trophy instead of seeing as a tool.

Most times, when wooing a new girl, I'm not necessary aiming for her pussy. I'm aiming for her soul. (Not her soul literally. That's just a metaphor). Infant, In my mind, I'm very confident that I will Bleep her, so I'm not concerned about that.

Sometimes I tell ladies, “it's already a forgone conclusion that we are gonna Bleep later, so let's just focus on something else”

The ladies would give different reactions. Some would say, “in your dreams.” or “dey play.” Or other attitude response… But what will be will be.

You remember the crazy dramatic conversation I had with this light skinned beautiful nurse in this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/7835777/crazy-experience-two-beautiful-nurses

I told her, it's a forgone conclusion we are gonna date. That was because dating her wasn't my aim. But dating her was just prerequisite. We ended up dating tho.


When you focus on higher ground goal, achieving lower ground goal is something that naturally (has to) happen.


For example,

The typical guy is trying to get pussy from the girl. That's lower ground goal.

But the P!mp is trying to make money off the girl’s pussy. That's a higher ground goal.

For the typical guy, he might Bleep the pussy or he might not.

For the p!mp, fucking the pussy is only a by-product or a prerequisite to his higher aim.


Here's the trick about this whole thing.

As a Man, Aiming at lower ground goal demand only little from you. This why the typical guy can freely act like a weak simp while trying to get the pussy.

But aiming at higher ground goal literally demand A LOT from you. It will force you to be an ALPHA whether you like it or not.

To the p!mp, seducing a girl and fucking her is easy. But what's really hard is: Seducing a girl—NOT to Bleep you—but to Bleep another Man—and collecting over 80% of the money she makes.

That's not an easy one. This is why most veterans Pimps have to have a very TIGHT ALPHA GAME. It's not an option: it's a MUST.

The typical guy can show weakness and may still get the pussy.

But the P!mp must show no weakness, or else he will lose the higher ground goal. The P!mp get massive shit test from women, because she want to make sure he's really the Boss. The woman must look up to him like her lord, so that he can get what he wants from her.


I laugh when guys complain about onlyFans girls. But what you guys don't realize is that over 70% of onlyFans or webcam accounts are being controlled by Men(p!mps). The girls just show in the video, but the P!mps are in the background doing the chatting and other ‘manager’ stuffs.


Infact if an onlyFan girl is struggling to get fans(simps), then its because she haven't yet higher a manager(Pimps) to help her out.


Note: I am in no way encouraging p!mping…. I am only using it as an example.


Anyways, in summary. Stop chasing lower ground goals. Instead focus on higher ground goals, because they force out the best in you.


Stay blessed brothers.

Damn bro... Are you a fire bender because you're spitting fire directly from your mouth.

You've literally said it all.

Sometimes dreams have special meanings, some are like an omen for the future ( which you can only understand after it has happened).....
Sometimes it's just our subconscious playing tricks on us due to our lifetime of memories and experiences.

Someone should please buy a special koboko and write Roberto Sanchez's names on it and give it to Maresca.... His errors are becoming too much

None of them are good options... I'd also choose the older lady only of she's rich.

I'd do most of the things on the left side but I'd definitely choose the ability to see the future.... Bet shops for suffer for my hand

Happy new year

Nigerian christians are the most guillible set of people in the world....
These are very credible questions we need to be asking because most pastors have now turned churches into business ventures that's why there are so many churches in this country, and the fact that religious organizations like church and mosques don't pay taxes like most countries do have caused the number of churches to increase .
As someone who hardly goes to church.... Wetin concern me.

immortalcrown:
YES

Let me use a road journey for the illustration.

True love is not just the car, it is a new car with good shock absorbes. Fake love is a very faulty car.

Financial status is the road condition. Poverty means a very bad road with potholes. Wealth means a standard tarred d road.

If the road is bad about the car is new, you will feel gallops but will manage to get to your destination. If the road is good and the car is new, the journey will be very smooth and you will get to your destination. The bad car has a very high tendency to stop you halfway when the road is bad. And as long as the car is bad, the journey will never be smooth even if the road is good.

True love survives without money because they love didn't start because of money and doesn't position itself to depend on money.

This should be voted as nairaland's best comment of the year...
The use of metaphors is so accurate.
The op doesn't need more comments because this one comment has summed it all up.

G0Oodharddick:
Damn!

Check her pussy when knacking her.

If she tells you she has a little sister or brother staying with her mom, she's a single mother

Check her breast, it must have fallen or becomes slippery slope. Single mothers are highly Manipulative, once a girl starts with fake emotional cocktails Story she's a single mother! Once she wants u to be committed to her especially when meeting the first time for a good fvck, she's a single mother!

Observe her character!
1. If she's highly Manipulative, single mother pro max!
2. If she tells you what do you want from me, esp when you're about to knack her.. bro she's likely a single mother
3. If you hear the background of a child or baby crying during call, no need to ask, she's a single mother
4. If she keeps posting the pictures of any child while claiming it's her auntie's, uncle's, or brother's child. It's her child bro, She's a single mother!
5. If you noticed she keeps calling you wanting your commitment, she's a single mother looking for who will take care of her and her child. Run bro

I agree with everything.

Na wah oh

Came across this in my many adventures across the "wilderness of the internet" and felt like sharing.

Gistmedia10:
Was the groom’s action justified, or was it too extreme?

Very justified.... Nothing you want tell me, na last knacking she go collect.