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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Creating An Account On Npf Microfinance Bank by VVIP(m): 6:09pm On Jun 15, 2022
Anybody??
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Creating An Account On Npf Microfinance Bank by VVIP(m): 5:41pm On Jun 15, 2022
Yes...any idea on creating the account?
Jobs/Vacancies / Creating An Account On Npf Microfinance Bank by VVIP(m): 5:33pm On Jun 15, 2022
Pls who has any idea how to create the account for nyif loan on this website https://www.npfmicrofinancebank.com/savings-account-form.php
After filing all the necessary details, can't seem to proceed to the next page. Thanks
Phones / Re: Camon 12 Pro For Sale by VVIP(m): 10:03pm On Jun 19, 2021
Still up
Phones / Re: Camon 12 Pro For Sale by VVIP(m): 2:36pm On Jun 19, 2021
If interested...

Phones / Re: Camon 12 Pro For Sale by VVIP(m): 2:30pm On Jun 19, 2021
Ilorin Kwara State...but can way billed it to any state of preference
Phones / Re: Camon 12 Pro For Sale by VVIP(m): 7:27am On Jun 19, 2021
Anyone??
Phones / Camon 12 Pro For Sale by VVIP(m): 12:20am On Jun 19, 2021
Fairly used camon 12 Pro for sale....

6gb+64gb Neat and in good condition.

Price: 60k.... negotiable

Reason for sale: Wanna upgrade to Samsung A12...if available pls comment with price
NYSC / Re: If You're Between The Age Of 21 To 27years...this Is For You by VVIP(m): 5:12pm On Jun 11, 2021
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Romance / Re: My Three Girlfriends Gained Admission To The Same School, Pls Advise by VVIP(m): 3:31pm On May 19, 2021
seunsiju:
I think I finally got the advise

U connect... cool
Romance / Re: My Three Girlfriends Gained Admission To The Same School, Pls Advise by VVIP(m): 9:10am On May 19, 2021
It's quite easy...hint them on not using your pic as there dp...use social exposure as excuse...know there schedule, there timetable and there place of abode. Always meet them at diff timeline and diff location and if they ever come to know one day, just claim that the other ones are your ex...shikena
Literature / Re: The Bang Rule Pdf File Pls by VVIP(m): 2:31pm On Apr 30, 2021
kokakola:
Anyone interested should drop his email and mention me...

@kokakola

Please send to

legendjoecid@gmail.com
Romance / Re: Woman Enslavement by VVIP(m): 1:59am On Apr 30, 2021
brainmax2000:
if you insist this is 21st century and times are changing also be ready to face the ills that comes with it bcus feminism and Lgbt also follows your narrative so be careful what you wish for..
Noted
Romance / Re: Woman Enslavement by VVIP(m): 11:28am On Apr 29, 2021
We really need to move forward with our thinking in Africa
Romance / Re: Woman Enslavement by VVIP(m): 11:03pm On Apr 28, 2021
brainmax2000:
you can aswell accept 21st century change and permit gay marriage and bobrisky as your president then

odonyo
There is nothing in the write up supporting gay marriage...all what it is saying is that we shouldn't force things on a woman just because she's a female, it should be a matter of choice
Romance / Re: Woman Enslavement by VVIP(m): 10:05am On Apr 28, 2021
Walkee:
Except the primary duty that is expected of female homo sapiens is to at least tidy up and prepare food. Nobody on earth expect a woman to build a house, buy a car, assist the husband's family financially. The man's family observe if the woman has the potential to perform those her duty while the woman's family scan through the man to see if he has money, is well dressed, educated, has a house or has a business. No family wants their daughter to marry a man who pack plates after meal but is worthless financially.
No family judges daughter in law based on her financial worth and no family judges their son in law based on his homeliness.
Some family overdo things of course by either abdicating all the financial burden of the wife's siblings and parents to the son-in-law or dumping all the domestic chores on the head of the visiting daughters-in-law. The difference is that in the former, the man will likely complain about the family of his wife while in the latter, it will be termed "women enslavement".
The problem these days is that everybody wants to be an activist even without a single idea of the dynamics involved in what they're advocating against.
Care to pinpoint your above point...
Romance / Re: Woman Enslavement by VVIP(m): 10:04am On Apr 28, 2021
brainmax2000:
Culture is Culture

This no be obodo_the_abroad with feminist ideologies....

We are in africa and there are laid down Norms and values passed unto us overtime

if it doesnt sit well with you go slam your head for wall..

This is the 21st Century...things and times are changing, we really got to stop living in the past

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Romance / Re: Woman Enslavement by VVIP(m): 10:02am On Apr 28, 2021
HealerH:
This is a case of Reason being hypocritical because of her arrogance.

For you, man and woman are above other beings in the world. And it is wrong that woman be less valorised than man.
What about other animals that you dominate... Donkeys you make to carry your heavy loads, monkeys you put in cage in zoos, and other animals you kill and eat. You think only man and woman deserve to be respected? You think these animals don't have their right to be respected and valorised?
It's either we accept that we are condemned to live with the homocentrism of the planet or we radically destroy the planet's homocentrism.

To follow your word...we just submit ourselves to a wrong way of living and shallow thinking?
Romance / Re: Woman Enslavement by VVIP(m): 10:01am On Apr 28, 2021
Vision101:
The man paid for the woman. Did the woman pay for the man? Who is the customer among the two? The man. The customer is always the king. Period.



I know that I will be attacked.

Your way of thinking is really disappointing...Do u seriously think women are commodity to be bought?

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Romance / Woman Enslavement by VVIP(m): 12:13am On Apr 28, 2021
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A married woman will go to her parent's home with her husband for a short visit, after exchanging pleasantries, everyone will start running around to make sure their son in-law is comfortable.

He will be well fed, well entertained and well taken care of.

No one expects him to lift a finger to do anything, because he is a special guest, their daughter's husband.

​Turn the table​...��

A married man goes to his parent's home with his wife for a short visit, immediately after exchanging pleasantries, everyone will start looking at their son's wife with corner eye to see if she'll go to the kitchen and join in cooking.���

She will sometimes be expected to take over the cooking and serve everyone, with a broad smile on her face.

After meal, they will be watching her to see if she will clear the table, wash the plates and clean the kitchen.

No one gives her any special treatment like the special guest she is.

Afterall who is she?

An ordinary married woman!

If she doesn't do any of the chores expected of her, her in-law will start 'beefing' her and may become hostile towards her.

Her sisters in-law will start grumbling and sometimes become outright rude to her.

She will be called for a meeting, her home training will be questioned and her wife material length measured.���

She will be berated, called lazy, mannerless and all sorts of derogatory names.

Her husband will even be chastised for not controlling and disciplining his wife enough.

She may most likely leave her in-law's home sad, physically and emotionally drained.

What was meant to be a short vacation or visit eventually turns out to be hard labour filled with misery, tears and regrets.

My annoyance is that it's always women making life uncomfortable and miserable for their fellow women in cases like this.

It's always women putting unnecessary pressure on their fellow women.

It's always women who are the gatekeepers of patriarchy.

.....Can't a woman visit her in-laws and be treated special for the few hours or days she will stay, just like we do to our sons in-law when they visit us?

Get me right o��, I'm not saying that she should relax and be sleeping.....NO...... But let it not look like she's trying to prove a point.

Allow her do it, because it's naturally in her and not because you want her to. A disciplined woman knows what to do, how to do it and when to do it..

Take it or leave it, most married women in our society would rather spend holidays with their own family than with their in-laws, because of the above reasons.

The other day, I read a lady complaining that her mother was sweeping and her brother's wife didn't go to take the broom from her and continue the sweeping.

Mind you, the complainant and her other siblings were there too, yet she felt it was her brother's wife's duty to go help her mum.

This morning again, I stumbled on a post where a lady was complaining that her sister in-law visited and didn't enter the kitchen to cook.

Who was cooking for them before her sister in-law came?

Would she have said so if it was her husband or her sister's husband that visited?

When I see such posts or hear people make such funny complaints, I get really funny too.

I hate double standards.
I hate it with passion!!

​It's about time we do away with the tradition that enslaves women...

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TV/Movies / Re: Post All TV/Movie Audition Notices Here by VVIP(m): 1:55pm On Feb 18, 2021
Hi, is there any movie audition in Ilorin Kwara State??

Please notify if you are aware of any.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Anybody With Virtual Examination Test Experience From Www.testmi.com by VVIP(m): 11:07am On Nov 14, 2020
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This is the question i saw...

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Anybody With Virtual Examination Test Experience From Www.testmi.com by VVIP(m): 11:06am On Nov 14, 2020
LammyBillionz:


Same

What type of question??

Moreover my time was running out as well
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Anybody With Virtual Examination Test Experience From Www.testmi.com by VVIP(m): 11:02am On Nov 14, 2020
Mine is bringing out only 1 question...anyone with similar experience??

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Romance / Re: Ask A Nigerian Man To Describe A Good Woman, He Will End Up Defining A Slave... by VVIP(m): 1:26pm On Jul 25, 2020
Tabasco23:
People supporting the man are disgusting and likely to kill their wives
hmmmm
Romance / Re: Ask A Nigerian Man To Describe A Good Woman, He Will End Up Defining A Slave... by VVIP(m): 5:21pm On Jul 12, 2020
ojuu4u:


Someone is a head yet he is not superior . ur head need reset, go to dictionary or Wikipedia pls,

You are free to allow ur wife to lord over you, it had been happened and it won't stop on u

I didn’t mean it dat way bruh...am sure u catch a glimpse of wat am trying to portray
Romance / Re: Ask A Nigerian Man To Describe A Good Woman, He Will End Up Defining A Slave... by VVIP(m): 3:34pm On Jul 12, 2020
Sparkyhayzee:
Ask a Nigerian woman to describe a good husband, she will definitely describe senseless old sugar daddy.

I didn't even bother reading the thread, but from the caption I know it's baseless.
undecided undecided
Romance / Re: Ask A Nigerian Man To Describe A Good Woman, He Will End Up Defining A Slave... by VVIP(m): 3:31pm On Jul 12, 2020
Demayour:


When an idea is being abused, we think it's the idea that is problematic when it's the people. As for me, I can't tolerate a docile woman who has to be told everything. A woman who doesn't have any idea to contribute to issues affecting the home. A woman who can't stand on my behalf when I'm not there. To me, that's the definition of a slave. This is why anyday anytime, I support what the bible says:

"Husbands love your wife like Christ love the church that he gave himself for it"
"Wives submit yourselves to your husbands..."

Nobody gives himself up for a slave. When a man loves his wife deeply, he will treat her with a high level of respect. When a woman trusts and submits to a husband who love her indeed, they're in for a long-term bliss. Both parties must ensure a balance.


Nice talk boss
Romance / Re: Ask A Nigerian Man To Describe A Good Woman, He Will End Up Defining A Slave... by VVIP(m): 3:29pm On Jul 12, 2020
ojuu4u:




OK ooo. Let woman be head of the family!

Equality doesn’t have to do with title and position, men is d head of the family but not far superior. Chikena

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