₦airaland Forum

Cuteobi:
[color=deeppink]Poster i will personally borrow one ninety's machete for her.i will even hold u down for her to hav a clean cut to chop off your head.how can u waste 9 years of someones life that.how are you sure the smallie wont gain weight with child bearing.[/color]

Are you freaking serious?  What has this man done to deserve someone cutting his head off?  He doesn't want to marry a FAT girl and I don't blame him.  FAT people smell and are so unattractive and I myself will divorce a million times if all the girls I marry keep getting FAT.  It is unhealthy and its a liability all because you cannot stay away from the Buffet table.

so he should go ahead an marry her and then start cheating on her almost immediately?  Do they even make wedding dresses for FAT people? Nigerian women have an habit of becoming very unattractive after marriage and wonder why MEN cheat on them.  Health is Wealth so she should have worked hard to stay slim for her man if she really loved him and respected him because he told her he hated FAT ppl.  

And to all who are spewing that nonsense about what if its his daughter or sister, I say to you SO what?  If any of my family member goes fat and their husband leaves them, I will be the first to tell them that they deserved it because they let themselves go.

My girlfriend already has a son and her stomach is flatter than an ironing board and I always tell her that she should start a class to train those stupid FAT girls on how to stay slim.  

WOMEN WHO LIKE FOOD TOO MUCH ARE SO IRRITATING, EWWWW

ronkebp:
Walala, Are you Bill Clinton or Tiger woods? if i marry Tiger woods and he cheats on me, i would divorce him and go with his money as his wife did, Hillary Clinton decided to stay with her hubby because they know what their arrangement is. So, those guys are loaded, to the core!!!!!

The Honorable Iron Mike Tyson once said what he admired in great men was their conquest of women and that made them great.  I agree that I am not Bill Clinton or Tiger woods but if the following great men could not make it, what the odds for a regular dude like me.

1. King Solomon (Wisest man probably in the history of the world)
2. Albert Einstein (Smartest man in the history of the world)
3. Martin Luther King
4. MKO Abiola (my personal Hero)
5. Pablo Picasso (greatest artist in History)
6. Bill Clinton
7. John Edwards
8. Charlie Chaplin
9. Jesse Jackson
10. Muhammed Ali

The list goes on, But you made the best point when you mentioned spirituality which is what I am working on but it is hard.  Without GOD, there is no way a man can resist temptation.

thegeorgy:
@Walala,AMERICA KOR LONDON NII as if u are the first guy to live there  ,i just pity the poor woman that will get married to u. . it's so unfortunate that u view women as toys.may God deliver u.my wish is that u attract a woman who would see u as toy to change u wheneva she feels like.lol
just because your wife turned 250 pounds doesn't warrant u to cheat on her.the last time i checked u dont expect a woman to remain the same after childbirth,if u want her to remain the same then dont get her pregnant.marriage is not for boys anyways but for [real]MEN
back to topic,not all men cheat only the monkeys who think there are smart do so, gaskiya!

I am not the first to live in America but what exactly does that mean; all I am saying here is that the temptation is way more here because the marriage ideology is slowing losing its relevance and you can easily get girls to do whatever you like.  If I married a skinny woman and she grew to be a heavy set woman like most 9ja women do, then she can't forget about that nonsense that you should love your woman regardless.  I will still love her but I have and will never sleep with a woman that is over 200 pounds so obviously i need to get my fix from somewhere else.

And all you girls or WOMEN need to stop with all that garbage that because you cheat on your wife means that you are a boy and not a man.

So Bill Clinton is a boy or Reverend Jesse Jackson or Tiger Woods or all those governors and senators in Nigerian and American  goverment are all boys.  These are powerful men so you can call me a boy all you want, it still won't change the fact that your husband has a 90% chance that he will cheat on you.   

LOl @ only Monkeys cheat, You sound angry,

armyofone:
Em Mr. dating 10 women at a time above me, are you looking for way to bash naija ladies here? so you are comparing the AA ladies with naijan? you must be dreaming. yeah holla at victorian secret like that will put fufu for our table   i am sure you are paying child support and going to court to sort out something with those 10 you are talking abt, so they have enough to buy lingerie to please you. is your 3 leg golden?
please no room for comparing here. just because your woman is not dressing up nicely does not gives anyone the right to go cheat.
don't compare nigerian to an AA who just work and go shopping at your favorite VS

I am not bashing 9ja ladies but i think it is a known fact that 9ja girls are in the lowest percentile when it comes to being sexy and sexuality.  I have dated girls from Asia, North America, South America, Middle East, the Islands, and Africa ( Tanzania, Nigeria, Ghana, Kenya, e.t.c) and I can tell you that most 9ja girls lack femininity and sexuality which is a must in a marriage.  

Per your assumption, I am not paying any child support and yes my 3rd leg feels like Gold to women because unlike you girls I work at it and make sure that my girls are satisfied and don't have to look elsewhere.

But you helped make my point exactly by saying that wearing Victoria secret for your man does not put "fufu" on your table, so you could care less but then you wonder why your man cheats on you because some one else is willing to do what you won't?

BABE!:
Who's this bush man? So America is making you cheat? Better come back home before rapture comes.

@Topic: Well, if cheating in this context means "sleeping with another person", male or female--then the obvious answer is "NO".

Just for the fact that your screen name is "BABE", i reserve my comment for you.  My dear this is 2011 and you are still using the word babe, SMH 

ronkebp:
^^^^^Walala, well, i do not agree with you, just because you live in America does not warrant your cheating, i have been married for couple of years now, and my hubby and i live here in the States, he does not have anybody's number that i don't know of on his phone, he is that disciplined, infact, i am the one that used to give people my number, until we had a row about that and i stopped, moreover when we were dating it was just me, me and only me, So it depends on your discipline level, whether your wife is a fat pig or a kpanla, i can tell gfrom your level of discipline, (dating 10 gals @once). someone like you, after you get married would get bored just living with one woman and would definitley cheat on your wife, whether you marry a model or not.

Because your husband does not have anybody's phone number in his phone does not mean that he hasn't cheated on you my dear.  So if he goes to a strip club or massage parlor and gets his ice cream cone licked, and comes back home all smiling and says I love you and all that jargon, would you know what he had just done? If only you women knew the half of what men do behind your backs.

"The only Man that is not cheating is the one that has not been caught yet"

I haven't met my wife and I already KNOW that I will cheat on her to keep my sanity.  As a kid, did you have the same toy for 30 years or did you drive the same car for that long?  Women are like toys and need to be changed to make us men feel better and function better.

As a Nigerian good looking young man living in AMERICA, I can honestly say that about 90% of men will cheat on their wives if they live in USA.  There are so many beautiful women out here that you just cannot help it.  I am 30 years old and not yet married but I am dating 10 beautiful women at the same time  .

If I married an Akata girl, I may not cheat because they keep themselves sexy for a very long time and still look good in their fifties but Nigerian women on the other hand are just terrible at keeping themselves sexy for their man.  This is a fact and anyone that states otherwise is just in denial.  Naija girls need to loosen up and keep the bedroom interesting for a very long time so that their man does not go astray but Noooo, they just get fat and start wearing "Iro ati Buba" like that is supposed to turn me on.  Wear some nice dress for your man and tease him very often, be creative and holla at "VICTORIA" if you know what i mean.

Even pastors (so called Men of God) cheat on their wives because when they married her, she was skinny and sexy but now she weighs 250 pounds.  Marriage is a challenge and just as Men have to work hard to keep food on the table and pay the bills, women need to cook, take care of the kids and satisfy the man and hold nothing back.

This is 2011 and things are not the same and sexuality especially for us that have lived in USA is at an all time high.  What used to be taboo is now the norm and these girls out here have taken me to planet Mars or something.  Nothing is new under the sun when it comes to sex, so Naija girls should stop being prudish.  Learn from the internet, porn, music videos or something; take a stripper lesson on you tube and just be creative and then if your man cheats, you can at least say you tried your best and leave the bastard alone.

My new blog will deal with issues like this and will also show my exploits as a single man looking for Nigerian love in America (Land of Milk and Honey).  Watch out for NaijaAmericanboy..com

hannie:
u are still a doofus of unquantifiable proportions . . .

only a r.etard will compare GOS with Ashafa . . .

GOS is someone I know even more than Ashafa and yet I can boldly say Ashafa is more astute than GOS, is he a better politrickian? NO

but ediots like u will be on the payroll of GOS that has hardly made his impact felt at the Senate . . .

what bills has GOS sponspored . . .Mamora I know, but GOS and Muniru Muse were just useless at the Senate, SIMPLES!!!

You are a nincompoop if u think an elected official is the highest ranking official in his party, u be proper m.u.m.u 

What is up with you Nigerians and the word "Nincompoop"?  I was watching a movie the other day and the word was used like 20 times so i guess you all are just hearing it for the first time and probably don't know the meaning.

GOS was senator of the year 2010 but yet no bills sponsored. He is the senate minority whip but yet no bills sponsored.  You need to do your research and think before you post, you Nincompoop.   

I just found out that you worked under Ashafa over at the Lands Bureau and that's why you think he would be a great governor, you bloody thief,
I will expose you for the fraudster that you are. 

Go and do some research on what GOS has done for the SEC as the Chairman on the senate committee for Capital Markets and you will see what this man is doing for the financial markets in Nigeria.

hannie:
u are f.ucking drunk!

u got 1 post and that post is to extol G.O.Solomon and you even said he  is the highest ranking ACN official?

how much have u been paid for this job? 

First of all I was not paid for this job and I'm just a concerned Lagos resident who wants the best for the state unlike you.

Below is an excerpt from an article about the ongoing situation with Solomon and Akume over who should be the Senate minority leader and if you read it, you will see my point about GOS being the highest ranking ACN official in the senate which in turn makes him the highest ranking ACN official in the country since they have no one in the Federal government and the senate leader and speaker of the house are from PDP.  So get some facts before you say rubbish.

" Order 3(2) "b" of the Senate rules states: In determining ranking, the following order shall apply: (i) senators returning based on number of times re_elected, (ii) senators who had been members of the House of Representatives, (iii) senators who have been members of a State House of Assembly or any other Legislative House; (iv) senators elected as senators for the first time.

While some within the minority caucus claimed ignorance over the choice of Akume, outside the minority benches, the choice is being met with incredulity. Akume joined the ACN from the PDP few weeks to the April National Assembly elections and was picked ahead of Senator Ganiyu Solomon, the most ranking senator in the ACN who was earlier endorsed in a straw poll by senators-elect from the minority parties. "

hannie:
only 1 and that one person is GBENGA ASHAFA. Simples!

Banire is tired of public office and he has gladly stepped aside, he is touted for a Senatorial seat alongside BRF and REMI in the next dispensation, barring unforeseen circumstances.

Agbaje in 2015? lailai . . .

Mamora ke? he doesnt enjoy as much goodwill but he is not free-ly giving . . .

Solomon is a major power broker but thats because he holds his zone tight, Tinubu and himself have gotten into too may roforofos already and I doubt Tinubu will allow him have his way this time, plus WHAT DOES GOS have to offer Lagosians that will better what BRF would have done?

The major issue is: will BRF survive the impending impeachment saga that is bound to rock Lagos? well . . .the reason why Kolawole Taiwo was made Deputy Speaker is quite obvious, u can imagine prior to the inauguration Tejuosho was touted to become the 1st female Lagos speaker, but things move at frenetic pace in Lagos politics these days . . .

Your lack of intelligence is astounding and I don't blame you; i blame the education system in Lagos state.  You are wrong on so many points that I don't even know where to begin with you.

1.  So the man for the job is Ashafa, a man that has only been in the senate for 20 days and had never held any political post whatsoever?  You are so stupid that you can't even wait for him to prove himself as a first term senator.

2.  Then you ask what Solomon has to offer Lagosians that BRF does not already have?  So because Solomon cannot be better than BRF although he stands the best chance, we should choose a guy who hasn't even been in power of any kind for more than a month. 

3. Solomon was the senator of the year in 2010 and the post is below before you open your stupid mouth. 

"THE Chairman, Senate Committee on Capital Market, Senator Ganiyu Olanrewaju Solomon, has earned himself another laurel that speaks of his activities as a politician.
The witty lawmaker, whose achievements as the Chairman of Mushin Local Government sailed his ambition to become a House of Representatives member and a Senator, has been honoured in a Celebrities Nite-out  award,  with the Senator of the year 2010 award.
The recognition award, which is the concept of some influential organisations to reward and identify with people and corporate entities that have contributed to social and economic development in Nigeria, has achieved fame with the standard by which they choose the recipients of the awards.
Senator Ganiyu Solomon was awarded for his successful representation of the largest Senatorial district, Lagos West, in Nigeria.
The Lagos lawmaker is a grass roots politician and a socialite. "

Please explain to this post why Ashafa is better qualified than GOS and try to do that without making yourself sound stupid.

You are probably working for Ashafa and could care less about the welfare of the state if he does become elected (HE WON"T).

You Lagosians are poor for a reason and will remain poor because your brains have been fried by the Lagos heat. 

You are saying Ashafa should be the next governor even though you have no insight into the guy's brain, Well let me school you on his history.

My mum used to work in the budget ministry in Lagos state and she tells me of how Ashafa used to come and beg just to have his proposals approved and he was basically a poor man.  Then all of a sudden when Tinubu became the governor in 1999. he was appointed as the Permanent secretary of the Land Bureau and the looting began.  How many stories have you read about how he and Tinubu looted the Lands bureaus and stole all your money together.  On this same site, it was detailed exactly how those guys robbed Lagos and even Ashafa threw a 50 million naira wedding for his son Tosin, who is a friend of mine and I was at the wedding.  The Ashafa  that used to beg to get minor proposals signed is now a multimillionaire over night because of Asiwaju. LAGOS WAS ROBBED BY THESE GUYS but yet Ashafa is being mentioned as the next governor candidate.   

Also Tinubu gave Ashafa a senate seat so that he can groom him for the 2015 seat and in doing that, he made a well renowned senator Mamora give up the senate seat.  Even opposition parties cried foul because Mamora was well respected in the National Assembly.  This is what Tinubu is cooking and Ashafa is a puppet to him because he made Ashafa rich and gave him a name and they are even friends, so Lagosians ask yourself do you want another Tinubu puppet in the governor's seat after all the good work that Fashola has done?  Tinubu will run Ashafa like a remote control and change will stop in Lagos.

The man for the job is GOS (Ganiyu Olanrewaju Solomon) who is the highest ranking ACN party member in the whole of Nigeria.  Tinubu doesn't want this guy to be the Senate Minority leader because he knows how powerful Solomon can become so he chooses Akume and says its because he doesn't want ACN to be  a regional party (Bullshit).  Solomon has been local government chairman, house of reps, and is a two time senator who favors the nation over himself.  Tinubu even said it himself that GOS is more concerned about the people's welfare than any personal gratification. 

I end with my favorite quote "My people perish because of their lack of knowledge".