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RollinTNDA:
I said it earlier in my post 👇

https://www.nairaland.com/8447643/how-bbl-exposed-women-hidden#135699638

Women live and breath to gain Men attention validation and commitment.

Women fight each other competition for men.

But the sad reality is that many men don't know that THEY ARE THE PRIZE.

A woman will do Surgery risk her life to get BBL because of man.

Have you ever seen pot belly man do surgery because of woman

Did Baba Chicago do plastic surgery for his face inorder to attract women?? NO And he has billions.

So until Men understand that they are the Prize. They will stop pursing women. Begging women for love.

Men you are the Prize
Women will kill themselves for you.
Infact women are always in competition with themselves just to get a man, steal a man

Mumu talk see as you dey whine talk, rich guys should be your starting phrase, broke guys can't do shit. Carry brokeness go lekki girls front if you know go chop slap.

bentenny:
The moment you get married and ur wife refuses to adopt your surname,just know that that is the beginning of your problems!

In a nutshell,she doesn't rate or respect you!

Respect shouldn't come in.you are not a demi God.

Vulcan24:
When they knack your wife n they tell u they don't know she's married ur eye go clear

Your wife na 2yr old baby ,she crave for the guy gbola and got served which she enjoyed,so wetin concern me surname.
The married women enjoying different gbola outside their marriage are they not bearing their husbands name ,dey play

Dogalmighty17:
Forget all this nonsense these supposed feminists are saying. Within them they envy any woman who has settled in marriage. I'll give you a real example.

In the house I stay, above me lives an established lawyer. She's very aggressive and carries the feminism movement on her head. She did her feminism so much that in the middle of the night, the guy she was supposed to marry, fled her home in the middle of the night wearing only his singlet and trousers. He left his car behind and has refused returning for it. That's the car she uses now. This happened 11 years ago. The man has married someone else.

Most times when we are gisting, this my feminist neighbour never fails to mention how much she desires to be married. But this is someone who never hesitates to advise other women to leave their marriages at the slightest. She quickly helps them file for divorce and sometimes she even makes her house available for these women and their children to stay pending when they get other accommodation.

Sometimes when the judge has advised the husband and wife to find a way to resolve their differences, this feminist lawyer will keep pressuring the wife not to agree. She will push the woman to stand her ground and quit the marriage.

One particular instance, a wealthy man, the CMD of the state specialist hospital, met her to help him resolve a matter. The CMDs wife had been pressuring him for a while that she wants to relocate outside the country with the kids. She is a doctor as well. Not been able to withstand the pressure anymore, the man agreed. He gave the woman money for everything she needed. Unknown to him, the wife was using the money to spend on her side dude. Husband wanted to raise hell, wife ran from home with the kids. That's when the CMD approached my lawyer neighbour so she can help him talk to his wife. He wasn't even interested in the money again. He just wanted his family back. Big mistake.

My neighbour got in contact with the wife and made sure she refused any form of settlement with the husband. That's how that marriage ended.

But even till today, my neighbour is still praying for God to give her a husband of her own. She tells me that women who are married don't know what God has done for them. But if you see where this woman is challenging men and advising women against men, you'd think she has no desire to be married one day.

Anyone who follows these feminists is unwise.

You are exaggerating, lmarriage is very nice and beautiful when you find a loving and respectful man,not an egoistic rude partner, in Africa submission means enslavement, this makes the instructions of marriage unattractive for the Gen Z.
If there was no hitch there won't be raise of feminist and mind you there are also male feminist.

cr7lomo:
U have Google to help u instead of allowing ur emotions to get a better of u like every typical woman when facts are thrown at them and they are loosing.... at 30 , women loose 90% of their eggs ....I never said they can't get pregnant again, but at 30 the chances reduces drastically.... at 35 , the pregnancy could become geriatric.... it becomes even more difficult to conceive....not like it will become impossible..... but for men , it doesn't slow down, its still same like their teen years and 20s ... it remains same uptil their 80s , as long as he's healthy.... my uncle lost his only son at 73 , his son was 38 when he died... he had to marry another woman to bare him a son as his wife was aboutv60 at that time ... the new wife that was 24 when she married him, conceived within 3 months of the marriage and still gave birth to a 2nd 2 yrs later.... so this ur a man's sperm declines is just in ur head .... Trump is 78 while his last kid Baron is 18.... do the maths .... I remember the late fatai rolling dollars impregnating his 26yr old girlfriend at the age of 82 many years ago....as long as a man is healthy, he can impregnate a woman ( depending on the health issues ) ...but for a woman , even if she's the healthiest person on earth., once she reaches 40.... e don be

Kai you truly mentally low

Serve the woman right, when a man raises his hands on you and you see it as nothing,be very careful it will never end well.from slap to fist , fist to weapon.
As a woman always know when to call it a day, you only live once.

ufotunang:
.. nawaoooo..that her thing don suffer in the other room because of patek and Lambo 🙄

E better pass to do rituals.

TONYE001:
It's true that some online stories are just false....and this, here, may just be a marketing strategy...but despite this, if this really happened, I see nothing wrong with it.

I can't cast blames on the lady. She has done no wrong...even if she had decided to leave the marriage, she would still be in her right. Maybe the only wrong she did was to wait for this kind of scenario before diving into person growth and development.

This thing called "full-time housewife" should not be in existence today. There's absolutely no sense in it. "Sustaining the family and training/caring for the kids" are not valid reasons for a female to decide to be a full-time housewife. In fact, no husband should encourage his wife to do this. I remember when I and wifie started. I ensured we both enrolled for MSc together...and she even finished before me. When I went back to study medicine as a third degree, I told her to map out a career-advancement path for her as I would want her to take one or two steps further after my medical training. Today, there are considerations of furthering to a PhD in public health or nursing. And she'll be fully supported.

It's wicked for a man to continue to grow while his wife remains as she was met. Evil. This doesn't define a good wife. I mean, how can there be a life without ambition? If I be woman, I no go ever gree to this thing. In fact, if a husband persistently refuses to allow his wife grow, I will not blame such a wife if she leaves the marriage.

It's women that are not empowered or independent that'll continue to depend on their husbands' permissions before consenting to a medical care like CS. I've seen instances where a woman needed URGENT operation to save her life but would not give consent until her husband permits. It's women that are not empowered that'll continue to take rubbish from their husbands (serial cheating, domestic violence, manipulations, etc)... because they know they can't survive alone. Because my wife is empowered, she was able to support me significantly in the 7 years I trained in medical school. I wasn't doing any full-time job, I was only freelancing. Every month, my wife would send me money...may not be enough to fund all my needs, but was HELPFUL.

Please, women, EMPOWER YOURSELVES. Grow as your husband grows...you can even grow higher sef, no law limiting you. Go to school, do postgraduate training, learn a skill, establish a business. EVERYONE in the home MUST GROW together...the wife, the husband, the kids.

This is my 11th year in marriage. While I have 3 degrees, my wife has 2 currently. My wife is also making great progress in career. Our 4 children are growing and they are doing fine. As I continue to grow, my wife would too.

Women, don't be deceived by the so-called African tradition...or by some people's interpretation of the Bible. I beg, grow yourself and be independent. Don't depend on any man, he may disappoint you.

Beautiful write up but just so you know the liberation of a woman is a man night mare.
Glad you think different

nero2face:
He is a yahoo boy who have *picked* some money and now feeling like a man, meanwhile the 25yrd old lady dating a 23yrs boy, am sure it's for his money, am sure a 23yrs old undergraduate cant stop the said lady on the road let alone date her, grown ladies really enduring abuse in the hands of these small boys all for money...pity

No be lie

JohnNgene:
Boy kwa? Lol.

The only place that men of 18 years and above are called BOYS is in football or other sports o!

Meanwhile, I've always said that a man need to learn how to insult any woman who insults him instead of beating her. We should only reply verbal with verbal not verbal with physical.

Biko watch my video to understand my point: https://www.facebook.com/share/r/15gt2TqyjE/

How do you show her say God give you strength.

Spacless:
Women these days think beauty is about exposing themselves, Putting on bum shorts,and wearing tight clothes to expose their sexual features publicly,

but they don’t realize that in mens eyes, true beauty comes from dignity, purity, and self-respect. A truly beautiful woman carries herself with grace and dresses modestly.

Speak for yourself,if they were not admired by the so call men ,there won't be continuity.
So generalize.

essentialone:
A sincere reminder to all ladies forming classy now, that when the chips are down, you all are nothing more than a pvssy to be fvcked.

And not will you subdue some will definitely take you out before you take them,so even in dire situations you are still not their class

G0Oodharddick:
You're a very fuuulish man

Oga, men do not the cheat. It is the nature of a man to have as many women as he wants and sleep with them all , and heaven will not fail. David, Solomon, Abraham, etc all had numerous women in their lives and heaven didn't fall.

What you call cheating in a man is completely different from women's cheating. Once a woman cheats, the family is completely destroy

Clap to your stupidity, and when he infect the mum with a deadly disease, the family will not scatter right.

purples25:
See what men are saying about a cheating man, unlike what they want for a cheating woman in the other thread.

Somebody even said men's cheating does not destroy the family unlike women's 😂

Same people wey attack me die because I said the man in the other thread should handle the female cheat calmly.

Men are selfish and self centered.

BewareOf419:
UCH will reject her if I'm your daughter's husband and she retaliate after slapping her!

UCH will reject your over burnt body from boiled oil after slapping her.you think everything is by strength.you will learn.

incogni2o:
you tend to look up to someone as an intellectual,

The person will just suddenly fall your hand with one school of thought.

Look up to God alone for Wisdom.

Why will you ask a lady to retalliate when a Man lays His hands on Her, Does that make any sense?

Firstly, 2 wrongs dont make a right.
Secondly, The Woman likely wouldnt be as strong as the Man
Also, Doesnt it seem right for a Woman to try to quench a fire of anger rather than fanning it ?

In the name of equality, Women are exponentially loosing it.

Men are also becoming more and more weak

So she should collect the slap and move on Right.

bitbillionaire:
Imagine Remi slapping Tinubu just because Tinubu slapped her first. This Sanusi don dey mad

And who is tinubu to slap first.
Do any how see any how.

condralbedez:


Pray they don't meet a lunatic as a husband, if not nah thier bodybags you go carry go house.

It's takes a lunatic to be with a lunatic.
So you can never tell who might end up in the body bag

etrange:
The day you allow? So you think you're in a position to stop a woman from going to the gym and staying healthy just because she's dating you? I don't know how some of these men think. Since it's men they do it with, should woman also stop their men from working out? Nawa o. People be growing backwards

Hmmmmm surprise how an adult will want to control another adult ,God help Nigerian men in thinking right.

Hambivert:
I see his life changing soon.
Republicans would soon open a go-fund-me page for him. He would become a millionaire. His wife would come back begging. If he doesn't accept her back, she would file to collect his new found wealth.

Women are sparogatively the same everywhere. If Nigerian women had the same powers over their husband's properties as their Occidental neighbours do, many marriages in Nigeria would only last for 1week.

Am glad you know.

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spiSeyi:
SA blacks are not free from the colonial enslavement in reality. The SA blacks are just bunch of well fed slaves the best places in SA are being occupied by the whites don't fall for the media stunt most of the black SA live in slumps the only few who live in a better apartment are serving in their white supremacists mansion. SA is not an independent nation as it's portrayed bcs the whites run its economy and dictate the fate of black SA

It's still better than Nigeria.

lonelydora:
UK is one place I won't like to live, even if they dash me visa with housing and job.

They complain about almost everything.

I pity men that go to UK without any second plan.

See, any day my wife calls police on me, no matter the issue, I will marry second wife that day.

Certainly not in the uk

spiSeyi:
Nah person wey wan die early, the golden rule for all men is to marry their helper just like Adam did to Eve. Never marry a woman who can't willingly contribute to your life

Then you don't deserve to be respected.

GOFRONT:
Blame Tinubu

you still dey struggle wetin remain to meet 40yrs hmmm
Go to lapo.

ravensckar:
Dear OP, I have a lawyer that can help you reclaim your father's property. His name is Barr. Sope Otilor.

PM me and I'll give you his details.

Nairaland is a place you come even if you can't laugh you will certainly smile.

sylve11:
Be like this marriage matter fit give person brain tumor o.

You hardly see a happy couple these days. If you see the couple that are happy in their marriage, it's either they are pretending or they just got married.

It seems the older generations had it better than what we are seeing now.

May God help humanity. 🙏

They weren't better but suffering and smiling

DaddyCoool:
There are more men than women in the world

Why trying so had to school a brain dead human.

001Lagos:
No woman wants to remain lonely

See pretty lady who probably chased away her suitors thinking that she will be young forever but age no be anybody mate

It is thread like this you see men jumping up and down like little toads, watch the video closely , the lady is only catching cruise and making her money the same time, by clicking and watching she is gaining

Gadafii:
Women are all the same, irrespective of age, ethnicity or background.. the eve traits is in them all

You need to watch the video and see how the werey woman was shedding crocodile tears, like say she no know right from time.

The man kept saying I knew they looked like the plumber and carpenter 😂😂😂


Imagine you go out to hustle your ass out and feed, clothes and house your wife and she returned the favour by sleeping with a plumber, women are genetically evil

But when oga sleep with maid he is not evil

travelzcruix:
Gibberish! Fighting for which child? when it was my case, the lady made all sort of troubles. Naturally I don't talk much. I made it clear that my son barely 1years wasn't stepping an inch out of my door. The rest was history, boy is grown up, 3years this month and relationship with moma cordial. My God Sha no dey sleep. Lessons learnt, we move! For Africa.. mtcheew.

Depends on the woman you had to deal with.with another woman one person will go 6feet for piece to rain.

jubrilELsudan:
YOU NIGERIANS LIKE CELEBRATING NONESENSE LIKE HOW DO YOU LEAVE ALL YOUR PROBLEMS AND YOUR HUNGER THEN CARRY DAVIDO AND CHIOMA WEDDING ON YOUR HEADS

David na man .