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OlaOfLagos:
Why should you be bothered if someone is doing better than you? Na una dey put una sef for depression and unnecessary competition. If someone is doing better than you, you’re also doing better than someone else.

Stupid talk na wetin they keep una for one position be this , poor man consolation.

If you warn a man to be careful of his friends,he will tell you, nothing na my blood see as blood don drop am 6feet.

princepee:
There woman no get sense ...
Why tracing your man to a hotel..
To embarrass him or what

When she loose her Man to the side chick her eyes go clear.
He didn't bring the woman home, he went to a hotel, give him a space

Eye go clear the man na God, very stupid of you,as if the woman is broke.

D

Omoawoke:
25 years age difference… leave am if you no want am, make another girl carry am sharp sharp

Se him Sha dey loaded na money woman need no be prick.

Kimo21:
She’s just looking for attention….you won’t give me children yet you won’t cook and clean…na you Dey find husband yet you think you are summoning men like you can summon your dog at home.

Akuya🐐

Men wey they think with their penis.

Kobojunkie:
I am not certain what your rambling is intended to mean. 🥱🥱🥱

Yes, some women would not evacuate a pregnancy even after a man has left them because they are OK with having and raising the baby all by themselves. And that is nothing new. (Children are raised more than 98% of the time by the woman alone, whether she is married or not, so it should not come as a shock to anyone that there are women out there who would choose to be single mothers even outside of marriage, as it is no different from being a single married woman.) However, for those who are not OK with it, they are very much able to get rid of it and move on with their lives after that. 🥱🥱🥱

And for the umpteenth time, feminism does not imply women do not want to marry men or have children. Instead, what you should already know by now, that we are in 2026, is that feminists are women looking for equal partnerships instead of the old ball-and-chains model of marriage.

Please educate yourself so you stop coming at me with these brain-damaging levels of reasoning! It f-king hurts the brain! 🥱🥱🥱

You are top notch.

ceejay80s:
It's not about her getting applicants,
In the ed let's see if she won't be a baby mama in the next few years,
Even a very ugly girl will come online and say this and get so much applicants, no be the beginning of the story na him matter, na the end matter

Even normal correct marriage no dey see better 6yrs how much more.
Rest

Coder2Client:
Good for her. With all these rules of her one man go still apply like that

Normal.

emperor4love:
I don't like giving response to cL0wn with so much deficiency from brain to cells and other functioning systems that made there being,but it seems am gonna giv such opportunity to one now,to assimilate and comprehend might take u a decade to decode my opinion, now how do you get over ur kids like,how do the understand you because some comprehension skill is lacking behind here,I do say what I say, most women don't do much on there kids,is more of living all responsibility to a man just because he is the head of the house,we need some system mostly in africa which father and wife input when it comes to there household,raising a kid should be a two ways thing between a mother and a father,not some kind of street ghetto mama get pregnat at 12 in the street nd dad run away,i mean a home with happy married couples,ooh what am even saying mayb I should not go this lowest quoting someone who don't want to get over with peoples opinion ,a married happy home should share responsibilities,letting the kids to know that both are contributing ,not just only letting one partner feel superior and most hardworking to the kid just because the providing at that moment

The trash you just vomited is how an African man wants his home to be run even , feeling that will acord him much respect from the children and wife then the society. And when the woman says no ,hell let loose she is not sumissive.both genders need a lot of orientation on home building.

OBTMOS:
Ladies marry when you are young to avoid all these desperation.

None is better.

Mattswaggz:
Damn.... imagine been beaten by a woman as a man.....what disgrace. .

No be every woman you go fit beat.

TheKINGofKings:
Exercise and eat healthy. Understand what ambition is and understand what priority means. Those 2 words will guide you in making great decisions.

If you don't take risks to escape poverty, you'll end up in a single room with your wife and children complaining about the past. This is not an advice.

And which modern woman will manage with you in your one room.

doncartel:
But you have referred to a woman as ugly even when she’s more good looking than you.

In Anambra state we believe that Ego Bu Mma Nwoke- Money Is A Man’s Beauty. Once you don’t have it, you are ugly to all women.

💯

Dpsychologist:
The Reason Why Many Men Are Called “Broke” by People Who Can’t Afford Their Own Demands is Due to A Paradox of Perception

Let’s cut through the noise.

A man can have a solid apartment, a stable income stream, upward mobility, and long-term potential that outclasses most of his peers.
Yet an Almajiri-level critic : someone struggling for basic sustenance, someone who relies on chance, survival instincts, and occasional handouts can look him in the eye and call him broke.

Why?
Because he can’t finance a lifestyle she cannot finance for herself.

That’s the irony of modern dating economics.

In today’s social climate, “broke” is no longer an objective financial status it’s a punishment word for any man who refuses to sponsor another person’s lifestyle fantasy.

And this is exactly where the systemic damage begins.

When a society conditions men to be treated like lepers whenever they hit a financial low, those same men often hit their breakthrough with a deep backlog of resentment, scars, and a revenge mindset.

Suddenly, the man they ignored becomes the man they admire and he starts making choices from a place of memory, not maturity.
He remembers every insult.
Every dismissal.
Every moment he was treated like he carried a contagious disease called “No Money.”

This is how cycles of emotional mismanagement are born.

Because truth be told:

If men used financial qualifications to measure women the same way women often measure men…

90% wouldn’t even make the eligibility list.

Financial contribution is rarely requested.
Economic stability is rarely expected.
Yet men are required to show up as providers even to people who cannot sustain their own expectations.

Here’s the uncomfortable reality:

Economic imbalance fuels emotional imbalance.

And until we fix the metrics, the narratives, and the entitlement,
we will keep producing relationships built on pressure, not partnership.

End.

When you say relationship built on partnership where you keep penis

Chucks13:
Pls where is him? Pls somebody who knows his real address should quote me and tell us we want to reach out to him. Honestly I didn't know he is still alive.

I believe God has remember him for bringing this topic up about him.

Rest you wan carry am do content abi.they said he is fine.

DanielJones:
It is just co-incidental that the person you wrote about is my uncle. Half of what you wrote about him is not true.... For instance, Uncle Etim Esin is not living quietly in Akwa Ibom state. He now lives in Lekki (quietly in his house there). He also has houses in Surulere and other parts of lagos... While the write-up about the armed robbers' incident is just 70% correct, the incident about rape is false. You need to understand his perspective.He did not rape anyone, I spoke with him about this incident myself, and the narrative he gave is quite different - it was a case of frame up. Uncle Etim John Esin that I know in person is not regretting anything... I can tell you that for free.

I know that we have several Ex-Super Eagles players on this platform too, probably reading this post. We need to celebrate our heroes. My uncle is a Living Legend, let's celebrate him while he is still alive.

Akwa ibom men and restlesness when it comes to women.men wey carry penis for hand.

OverCalculating:
The Story of Etim Esin – The Star Who Destroyed Himself

Etim “African Maradona” Esin was a footballer whose raw talent shook Nigeria. Long before social media, stadiums filled to capacity across the country just to watch him play. Many even believed he was more skillful and better than Austin JJ Okocha.

He dazzled for Calabar Rovers and earned a place in Nigeria’s squad for the FIFA U-20 World Cup.

But on a fateful night in camp, he broke curfew to go clubbing in Surulere, Lagos. On his way back, armed robbers attacked him and shot him in the thigh. His World Cup dreams—and his rising career—collapsed instantly.

Yet, despite his condition, the NFF treated him and still took him to the tournament half-fit, something unheard of in professional football.

It was said the same robbers returned to apologize, saying they didn’t know he was Etim Esin.

Although Nigeria performed poorly, his talent was undeniable. He was called up to the Super Eagles and secured a professional contract in Belgium. The national team was even being built around him.

Not long after arriving in Europe, Stephen Keshi—then a senior player—warned him about the danger of getting involved with foreign women, as false rape allegations against Black players were common.

But Etim did not listen. Soon, he was accused of raping a minor, a scandal so serious that he fled Belgium to avoid prison, abandoning his contract and his European future.

The allegation shut the doors of the Super Eagles and Europe forever. He couldnot go to USA'94 World Cup.

He returned to the Nigerian league, but his career never recovered. His fall created the space for Austin JJ Okocha to rise and become a legend.

Twenty-five years later, the allegation of rape was finally proven to be false. But the damages had already been done, his career and future destroyed forever.

Today, Etim Esin lives quietly in Akwa Ibom State, largely forgotten by Nigerian football. And I know that sometimes, as he sits alone, he must be wondering “What If? " What Could Have Been?”

Reflection: Indiscipline has destroyed many stars. Etim Esin remains one of the clearest examples of a destiny that slipped away.

A man with a restless penis is bound to fail.

SmartPolician:
Those who know Regina should advise her to stop fighting that man. While Senator Ned has given solid reasons why Regina is at fault, she just keeps playing the victim card.

Madam, go and make peace with that man because being with him pays you more. Senator Ned is a wealthy man who can afford to marry many more women of his choice, but you may end up becoming a "pass-around" for boys.

Let that bother her and not you,Mr talk talk.

Azazyel:
The boy don knack wetin no good commot for her body. No style wey he never try for her body. Chai. Now he wanted to move to the next chapter. This girl's hot temper has put her in trouble and she'll definitely do the time. I won't be surprised if she was also cheating

Knack Wetin no good you said ,se na with crayon 🖍️ size gbola or which one .

okoliobinna84:
This girl has not tasted the security of being with a man....like the peace of mind associated with being with a "man" knowing fully that your back is covered.

How funny which security,my neighbor husband runs at the sight of a snake.

muyico:
If you married industrious woman, that gat kinds heart! Bros? U gat no problem

But you will still cheat on her

Mom

marlow1962:
Only the feminist ones who can't even secure a boyfriend talk more of keeping him can do this
Through the pvnk behind bars.

Btw, watch as no woman here will condemn her, but let if it was a man, you go see many smelling mouth ladies speaking up

Men are the cheapest thing for a woman to get , get that correct.

Lovit:
In all you do, marry an emotionally intelligent woman

If not, small quarrel like this, she won't cook talk less of serving you food

Women low on EI, always lose their marriages, sometimes people think it is an evil spirit or village people that are causing women from a particular family to lose their marriages, but it is just low emotional intelligent that runs in that family

How do you know a woman with low emotional intelligence?

1. They quarrel a lot
2. They are very irritable
3. They don't know how to say sorry
4. If there is a quarrel, even if she is at fault, she won't admit it and she won't apologize
5. If you are married to them, you the man will always be the one to make peace, she doesn't know how to make peace
6. Their mood swings controls them, they don't think outside the box
7. Relationship with them is always one sided, you do everything to keep the relationship going. the day you stop, relationship dies
8. They are always critical, frowns at jokes, they don't overlook faults

etc

All you listed here can also be found in a man.

JackDaAlienz:
I always knew Men are the PRIZE

No man will go through this because of a woman. Impossible

Hear talk men go through worst just to please a woman make I name things.
Ritual money making na for who
Arm robbery na for who
Gbola enlargement na for who
Guy enter house

Vulcan24:
It is always sweet at this stage but in short time reality will set in, men would sleep with her, promised her, used her and dump her! She will get the cats, more drugs more cash and at that moment realize her life is pointless!

Then she will activate tiwa salvage mode, showing respect and making sense that nobody wants to know!

She will look back and know that marriage and been in a man's house is the greatest goal of a woman

Speak for yourself and your miserable sister that needs the validation of a man in their space.
It irks me how a man thinks he knows what a woman truly wants.
And the women that died in a man's house was what, I guess it was their greatest goal to die.

virginboy1:
Well cultured...This is Respect.

And that's how Women used to greet their husbands traditionally...till bittered Feminist scattered everything

if na that one you go wait tire,kneel down kill you there

henrybomb:
LGBTQ should not be added to people’s personal choices especially “ this force it on “people mechanism.

If it is not an issue to you it is a big issue to a few of us because as we speak against hard drugs or alcohol, the same should be done to LGBTQ nonsense.

And if they both stay without partners ,you and your kind will echo evening newspaper.
Let them be we all must not be same.