₦airaland Forum

omoredia:
That's why u don't just marry anybody

tnerro1:
No go ooo, the man go nack the housemaid scatter if you go

MVLOX:
For a woman to be a “glory” to her husband requires her to show proper regard for his headship. Even when her husband is not a faithful worshiper of Jehovah, she should remain submissive and support his decisions as the head of the house. She ought to maintain praiseworthy conduct and prove herself to be a real credit to her husband. This is in harmony with the counsel given by the apostle Peter: “You wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, in order that, if any are not obedient to the word, they may be won without a word through the conduct of their wives, because of having been eyewitnesses of your chaste conduct together with deep respect. . . . [Let your adornment] be the secret person of the heart in the incorruptible apparel of the quiet and mild spirit, which is of great value in the eyes of God.”​—1 Pet. 3:1-4.

In her submission, the Christian woman should display a “quiet and mild spirit.” This means that, regardless of the circumstances, her dominant feeling should be one of calmness and an even temper, not aggressive. Her heart should move her to manifest proper subjection to her husbandly head. This was the case with Abraham’s wife Sarah. As Peter noted: “So, too, formerly the holy women who were hoping in God used to adorn themselves, subjecting themselves to their own husbands, as Sarah used to obey Abraham, calling him ‘lord.”’ (1 Pet. 3:5, 6) Sarah referred to her husband as “lord” not merely audibly for others to hear, but even “inside herself.”​—Gen. 18:12.

For a Christian woman to be like Sarah would, of course, mean never doing anything contrary to God’s will. This is because she is bound by the superior law of God and of Christ. Hence when her husband’s “law” interferes with true worship, she, like the apostles in the first century C.E., would ‘obey God as ruler rather than a man.’ (Acts 5:29) In all other areas, however, her submission to her husband should be exemplary.

I hope you get the point which is so long whatever the husband directs in not against God's own standards and laws the woman must be submissive and obey it

Ladoja19:
Can't you see he is short of words when he got to Husband turn
Coz he knows husband is not just A man but Crown
I'm hungry oo
Thunder fire Tinubu's

okoroemeka:
you are seeing the issue from a shallow and naive perspective,that the man refused such visit means there is an underlying factor behind it,a normal man in a happy home cannot refuse such visit if asked respectfully but a distressed man in a toxic and combative marriage will refuse such visit to maintain his honor and dignity as the head of the house,that the woman called all those people to intervene shows the type of woman she is a normal woman will back down and switch on feminine mode and the consent to travel will be given in a week,as a wife never challenge the authority of your husband,before heaven and man he is ordained by God to be the head of the family

Fryx:
Just prepare to marry whoever you listen to aside me, your husband. No one will tell you to pack your load and go.

Ngwamankillyou:
Sir /madam,

If you have a daughter train her well and never encourage her to look down on her husband because real men will always correct your daughter.

Kobojunkie:
How did she get this job? Who hired such a closeminded individual with no respect for the rights of individuals including women for this particular position for Pete's sake? This utterance of hers is an insult to the department she presently resides over.

Let me guess, she will equally tell kids not to scream out for help when being pummeled by parents or guardians? Nonsense!

Armaggedon:
It's a man's decision to make how he expresses love for his family and not in woman's place to judge. A responsible man is a man that plays his role and fulfils his obligation to his family and not a man without ego. Every man has ego and pride while every woman crave for care and attention.

In most cases of domestic violence (not all) it's provocation by women that cause it. If you provoke a man to act violently on you and you expect to blackmail him with "maturity" or "responsibility" you are not helping yourself since you both are most likely going to reconcile. Even if you decide to abandon the marriage, you are not leaving intact, and he has far better chances of remarry than you. Who lost.

What's the point of exchanging words since you can simply keep quiet and save your children from watching scenes of violence. This is the point the minister is making.

Use of seemingly hurtful words on wife doesn't indicate lack of love from husband. Even so, men will apologize in most cases when the rage is over.

Walai:
Abia people should set aside one day every year to celebrate that FUTO VC returning officer that refused bribe.
She saved the future of millions

AchrafHakimi:
Pain went straight to Tonto Dikeh
The shame she must feel now will be severe. Another prettier, younger woman made your home work where you failed.


Take it or leave it, any home is made or destroyed by the woman. Let no one deceive you.

BlueRayDick:
I don’t know why media always hide the identity of the bank and then name the perpetrator .

Small LinkedIn search shows the bank he works for currently . Funny enough his LinkedIn profile has the following description in his about :

Banker | Finance Expert | Preacher| Gospel Teacher

Which kind Yeye Gospel this one dey preach now ?

BoboNogoDie:
Good.

The only thing I vex for this man for is MohBad's senseless burial.
For allowing them bury him in that man and in such a nonsense coffin breaking his neck.

AS FOR THAT OLOSHO WIFE - WÙNMÍ, SHE WILL NEVER NO PEACE TILL THE END OF TIME.
THAT BOY WILL GROW UP TO HATE HER, WHETHER HE'S ACTUALLY MOHBAD'S SON OR NOT.

I watched a recent video on how she threw a white cloth wrapped in something on the coffin when they asked her to pour sand on it... People who are traditional and spiritual KNOWS what that act means and the reason why she did it.

I even heard a voice note message where MohBad was cursing her for covering his face with a cloth he has warned her never to use to cover him again.


IN THIS LIFE, FEAR DESPERATE GIRLS FROM POOR HOMES, THEY ARE EXTREMELY EVIL AND DANGEROUS.

APOPTOSIS:
Memories of my snatched Toyota Camry in Port Harcourt reverberating in my brain now .
At least, the good thing is, the decision of those robbers to rob me that night rekindled my decision of leaving Nigeria for good & such a car is now what I give out

Never engage armed personnel except you're 💯% sure of ur luck. I could recall people saying I should have fought them since my car was barely 5 weeks old. Now they're happier I didn't attempt such.

The man spent too much time. Those robbers were just on their routine surveillance for any potential prey. They were never sent to confront him specifically.
Sorry Bro, I share in ur TOYOTA loss

Obainoman6:
Ontop bride price wey u pay, na u dey dull yourself naw if na me na 2 hot slaps she go use open those stupid legs for me, can you imagine?

SoNature:
It's interesting to see an English PM take a bold position on this gender debate happening in the west. It's equally disturbing to see a man who has strong Indian roots boldly say his party supported same-sex marriage.

We can choose to pretend, but one thing is certain: Live and let live shouldn't be allowed to happen anywhere. What the next person says or does affects the way your children think because it takes more than parents to raise a child.

Africa should be teaching the west what marriage, family and gender truly are, not copying this madness from them to show we are woke!

Melonsmasher:
I bet you can be a happy man after discovering your wife has been cheating

Nebes:
Fathers please carry your children along. Don't just send them to school. Let them see how you do what you do.
See as that boy was looking up to his dad in the first pic. He was seeing what he was going to become.

franchasofficia:
The number one prayer every man should be praying to God everyday is for him not to lack financially, and lastly for good health.



Without financial stability, a man is doomed in our current world, this is nothing but the bitter truth.


No woman loves a broke man sincerely for long, she will get tired and give up.



Dear single guys, please spend your youthful age brainstorming on legitimate things and businesses you can start to stabilize your income. Don't wait until you get a job, start something, even if it means being an errand guy providing errand services to people around you, please do it without shame, over time, if you remain dedicated and focused in it, God will increase you through that small thing you are doing.



If you fail to establish a moving business by age of 35yrs, it will be almost impossible to start one after 35yrs as a man because your mates must have stabilized and you will be feeling so ashamed and demoralized to start anything from scratch, so while in your 20s, follow your mates and hustle like you have no father or family, but please run away from crime and illegal businesses, they only give you false hope and leave you empty later in life.



Start a legitimate business that you can be growing yearly till it becomes well established.



Money makes a man, no jokes

Lanre1st:
Be careful with house boy and house girls, nobody likes to be slave, it just a time to disguise to survive

Skyview01:
That was my friend that was set on fire by the husband. They have 4 kids

Babastrong:
This
one
wants
to
take
style
marry
Olosho
all
in
the
name
of
love.
The
unforgivable
sin
in
my
love
dictionary
is
cheating.
i
will
eat
her
mother's
eyes
unless
if
i
don't
catch
her.

BItt:
Don't ever take a cheating girlfriend back. She did not cheat once. she did it more than twice and trust me, she has done more than that
Na you no just know. Imagine how that guy take knack her raw and came in her for 3 weeks
In the kitchen, on the chair, in the dinning, on the table and even under the bed. Knacking her raw
let that stick in your head

About you seeing her in your dreams and all, fvckthat shlt. Get a lady that looks better than her. If you don't fill the space she used to occupy, it will always be vacant for her.

Get some serious hard sex too. Some good sex will make you forget any binding memories with her

IamMobisola:
A girl was raped but by a different person. Police arrested someone they thought fit the profile but you still somehow blame women😓😓

GUNITGuy:
Honestly, I live in a country were Alot of the men don't give a damn so the women just get pregnant and take care of themselves and their children beautiful black women I must confess ......... I never see one taking any one out like to a restaurant like we do hype our own yet this women would love a man like anything ....E be like say they never learn make them come marry black American or Jamaican and see Wetin dey sup

TsbAfrica:
well that is based on the level of your understanding... Every human being deserves to be respected.

Now about the case being discussed, the man was the reason why she ever had a break to begin with, he paid her way to the US becasue of his plan to provide a better life for his family. To now be faced with reality of this magnitude... I hope you know his case is not in isolation, many African men are choosing murder of thier spouse when they get emasculated to a point. Anyway like I said everything we think we know is subject to understanding and we both fall within those limitations. But I will advice you if you are a woman becasue you sound like one, respect is everything to a man, no matter now lowly you might percieve him.

TsbAfrica:
well that is based on the level of your understanding... Every human being deserves to be respected.

Now about the case being discussed, the man was the reason why she ever had a break to begin with, he paid her way to the US becasue of his plan to provide a better life for his family. To now be faced with reality of this magnitude... I hope you know his case is not in isolation, many African men are choosing murder of thier spouse when they get emasculated to a point. Anyway like I said everything we think we know is subject to understanding and we both fall within those limitations. But I will advice you if you are a woman becasue you sound like one, respect is everything to a man, no matter now lowly you might percieve him.

7arrows:
If u need babes then full. Get urself happy my guy and free that woman. Like the other guy said treat her like a room mate.

oluwalonprovide:
Because the educated ones always believes they have right of want or need but the uneducated believes so much in need of each party (the father playing fatherly role of authority and the mother playing the role of submission).

franugo:
If you are okay with sex twice a week, then state it for yourself alone and don't say any normal man. Most normal men in that age range will never be okay with such an abysmal sex life

addmole:
2 days ago, it was the day set for the 1 round we were supposed to make love, she just said, something is on her face. I wish I can describe it. I was like, why Is it that anytime its when we want to make out is when you must have en excuse, she just shouted at me, that I should go that i dont care. I was like, this was the same person who was jumping and telling me she wants to fix a nose ring. Very healthy and bouncing all over the place, but when it comes to my usual 1 round on the old timetable. She would look for an excuse. Her mother shouted at me that if I want to divorce her, I should go ahead that she's tired of settling our differences.