₦airaland Forum

Kajaard:
Leave the women, let them continue deceiving themselves. Hand go touch them. They always lose in the end. Stay and manage your marriage they say no and prefer to go woke. Forgetting that men age like fine wine and women age like milk.

Our forefathers cheated on their wives but our mothers stayed and managed their marriages and still made the best out of it.

Which best did they make out of it you are delusional, ask them the mental torture they pass through, you can go for that generation of women and ve your piece and let others be.

Gnosispd:
I still don't understand this: why would you leave your marriage despite having a husband who never abused you, always cared for you and your children, yet you began dating married men after leaving the marriage and now seek public approval.

The day African women come to realize that an average black man is naturally inclined towards polygamy, that's when we'll see more lasting marriages. Conversely, our marital problems began when we started emulating Western lifestyles.

Warp out cry everyone is wired to be free and loose, it's only self-discipline that closes gaps is not gender base.
Work on your community gbola and your marriage will be fine

franchasofficia:
scared gini?

So long as your wife have given birth for you, I see no reason why any man should panic when his wife divorces him; it gives you the opportunity to replace her with younger hotties

Men only cry about divorce when their wife uses legal proceedings to take all they acquired, which only happens abroad.


Divorce only favor women in western countries where the law give them upper hand in property and investment sharing after divorce. Thank God such don't apply to Nigeria

You mean the hottie that is there for your pocket while also keeping her side piece on code, the joke is all yours to keep

Donake:
Its because established men dont want to take more than one wife. Once men have 4wives anyone can leave.

This copy and paste culture by westernization isnt working here and wont work. Men should get not less than 3wives as two isnt healthy. Get three wives and see the home grow. Everyone would be in a healthy competition.

You mean the wives that nysc boys will help you service , the joke is on you and body go tell you, try ask an NYSC guy was up with married women

2Radii:
Are u a single mother?? I want to spoil you and service you mercilessly

Spoil yourself and service your broke life

Laple0541:
At the end we shall see who will be at the receiving end.

A man can boastfully come out and count the number of women he’d slept with, if a woman tries it, she will be tagged a LovePeddler. Our mothers, grandmothers and great grandmothers that were patient with their husbands did that not because they were stupid. But they did to respect God’s commands and build better future for their children.

I’m not saying men should be wayward in nature, but the issue is, cutting off the head should never be a solution to migraine.

You are shallow in reasoning go and ask your grandmum if she is still alive, if she was ever happy in her marriage to your granddad then come back and ask your mum.
When a partner cheats it simply means the other partner is not good enough kapish , this is emotionally draining to bear and not everyone wants to go through the drain.

wagzyl:
Sincerely, this warped mentality (my man cheats, I must cheat too. what a man can do, a woman can do better) is the reason why our society especially Southern Nigeria continues to deteriorate massively in the name of being 'educated', 'woke', 'not taking nonsense'. Whether you like it or not, both genders are wired differently. The success of any marriage depends a lot on the maturity of the man and the patience of the woman. I'm not excusing men but this mentality has one and only one outcome, DESTRUCTION of the marriage. The white folks who brought/facilitated this warped mentality have already run down their own societies. They raise feminine men, high rates of divorce, and many more men shying away from marrying altogether. Their women hoe around in their twenties and are left with regrets in their forties, with many taking solace in their cats, dogs and other pets. Their society cannot sustain its own population and their politicians are facilitating immigration at insane levels. Those who fail to learn from the mistakes of others would definitely taste the same cycle of failure. A divorced woman is a money spinning venture (you can research more into their spending habits and the effect of divorce on the black communities in Baltimore, Chicago, etc.) and the children suffer the most.

What more? You divorce your husband for 'cheating' and end up as a side piece to another man in a relationship, most times married. The joke remains on the woman! Those who praise a woman for leaving a loving man whose only downside is cheating (no diseases, no violence and takes great care of his wife and children) are the same people who would quickly fill up her space. These women wont tell you but the truth is that it is only after about four to five relationships after their marriage, that they realize the enormity of the bad decisions that they've made but it's too late. They would then keep posting pictures online, seeking validation from random people to make it seem as though they're happy. If you disagree, it's fine but Jeff Bezos's ex-wife divorced him, remarried one everyday guy (a music or french teacher or so) and guess what? She divorced him again after 2 years. Is she married again now? Oh, you don't need to be married to be happy? Lol.. keep deceiving yourselves. The joke is on you!

Same joke is on , would you rather prefer the woman remains and also cheats on code I bett the joke will be on both of them right, not everyone Is strong to stand a cheating spouse.

zanebaddo:
all modern women cheat babe no cap! the ones that dont cheat are the ones that never get caught! reason they all tremble at the mention of DNA. take this, i havent been with a woman who didnt cheat. funny enough i wasnt even trying to find out when i found out. it is always by chance i get access to the phone and then boom! theres always another guy. its a reality i have i accepted! they will always be other guy or guys shes taliking to, planning to talk to, hanging out with, planning to hang out with, did things, will do things with, still in touch with, will still keep in touch. its just time and place and we all know the rest of the story. its the hardest reality of today but what can we do? nothing except dna once those kids are born after which she owes you nothing whether she remains your wife or not!

Since you ve come to accept this reality as a man, you will live long.

iLegendd:
Some men will go through their women's phone and notice she's cheating, but will keep quiet and pretend everything is fine.

He'll show her the world and his family without knowing it's part of making her happy only to finally Man-U her and take away the happiness in a snap like Chelsea did to Man-U and she slides into instant depression and becomes suicidal.

Is he wicked? Maybe, but why did she cheat? Men don't forgive cheats. Some can even kill you, so count yourself lucky if a man you cheated on didn't kill you.

My post is just an assumption of what may have transpired.

And if every woman was to go by your post 90% of men will be 6feet below. Cheating is not for a particular gender

Truths9ja:
that’s the most painful part. Well the ones that will be honest with their bodies will be honest and the ones that will cheating on their spouse will surely cheat no matter the situation maybe. It’s the men that always regret marrying them especially the clueless cheaters.

Honest with her body you are hilarious, will the man over there do same, the joke is on you.

franugo:
And if the lady had an issue with it, she would have voiced out. You people will leave abusive homes and husbands and be castigating loving spouses...

May you never happen to any lady , you just as same as the man in question

1Sharon:
And so what? Why didn't he insist that she relax? Why didn't he order food or at least help? I've just watched the video and that joke makes him seem much worse, why make a self-centered joke like that? He thought about himself while his wife was delivering his baby

Do you think he has the money to order food I doubt ,situations like this always arise with poor men

purples25:
Why do you like to make life hard for your fellow women, belittling the effort and pains of giving birth.

Do you know that because of women like you who make it seem like giving birth is not a big deal, many wicked people will judge all women to be like that? Because of women like you, many don't even consider letting those that gave birth in many pains and complications to be going through anything. Because of you so called superwoman, they expect every woman to be like that, to just enter the kitchen and start housework too.

See, if you like stress, if you like carrying everything on your head with no help so that Nigerian men can call you a strong woman, do it. But please, for the sake of your fellow Nigerian women, don't underrate the pains and efforts of pregnancy and childbirth. Have mercy on those who cannot do it like you and have weakness or pains. Many women keep lying and stressing so as to be called strong woman. They don't consider the effect on other women. They are in competition with other women rather, they want to be considered as more of a wife material than other women, showing themselves up and down. Why can't we protect ourselves rather than look for the praise of men at other women's expense?

Thank God you are so strong, but please don't belittle the effort of childbirth please. Don't belittle all the effects to make them rate it as nothing. Men don't suffer any of these things and they want to undervalue our pains to make themselves a more valuable gender. Also to avoid doing anything special for us. Many of the men you are trying to impress hate us, they don't want to do anything for us.

Don't mind her anything to be praised by a man.

Mandate1:
Victor AD should get 8.5 dat song is awesome. The rest na average

That song is wack

Skepticus:
Dem no get pussaay. The harsh life men face when they cannot fully provide

It's not like this men earned much during the active stage of their career or necessarily made bad financial choices. They were just passionate doing what they loved and lived with its consequences.

I hope he gets the needed financial assistance. Our rich money bags (who love to brag about how rich they are) should step up to this challenge instead of continuing to finance the useless lifestyle of ungrateful, cheating women that fill the street these days

And what is wrong with their cheating nature.

infofta:
Exercise caution otherwise for every innocent civilian you kill you will add 5 more militias. Except FG does not want to export crude oil any more. I forsee bombing of pipelines and destruction of oil installations starting again.

While the soldiers are in the creek.

CodeTemplar:
Fulanis killed a dozen policemen in Ughelli North some two weeks before okuama episode and nobody occupied anywhere to solve any useless case.

Six Bodies of Slained Officers Recovered

This is military.

illicit:
Abegi


Stop making a mountain out of a molehill


People fvck anywhere, everywhere


It's not rape

😑

You mean classless people inside bush

BareFacedLies:
If handle this lady in bed that nonsense spirit of lesbianism will leave her body immediately

Get over your ignorance a lot of women are bisexual

G00dharddick:
Those were the commandments our mothers and grandmothers of the 20s, 30s 40s and 50s followed and they had blessed and happy homes, considering the fact they married as virgins.

Sadly, Nowadays a girl of 16, 17 has tasted about 23 dicks around both in her sch, lecture, neighbourhood etc, by the time she hit 18, 19 and 20 she already a pro in oloshoism and hookup business. All these commandments are highly irrelevant to Nigeria girls of today.

Our mothers were miserable they only endured get your facts right

Calitoscassius:
This guy that is always talking rubbish, he went from been in big brother UK to some self appointed spokeman for men, he has also being involved in money lundering allegedly.

Dude is not who he portrays, he has been caught countless times hiting on Instagram model, this is a guy that claims he his the price

zagorakis:
women are pawns used to destroy men.
I am sure Tates will come out clean.

Their penis sold them out

CandidAdmin:
I started loving this guy when he said
"As a woman, the greatest empowerment you can receive is making sure the only man that sees your body is your husband"(not word for word)

If only they'll listen.

Love this guy!!!

Jargons

Tonytonex:
na wa oh. Another pesin dey cheat, na another person come dey die for her sin.

Do you now see the foolishness of culture

efemena5050:
irony of life .....GIVE A WOMAN A CHANCE TO ACCESS EDUCATION OR MONEY ......her disdain for men and children comes out immediately....she begins to crave for self actualization..........GIVE A MAN ACCESS TO POWER AND MONEY .....his gluttony for women and weirdly and wordly foolishness comes in ....

More so .....GIVE THE WOMAN POWER......she will hate the man and trample on him for life........power money and education .....brought about the greed and let down of the world .....from competition to strive.

Do you now agree with me that most men have low IQ
Women seeking for self-actualization and men............

DrFunmisticGlow:
This movement should come to nigeria.

One thing I agree with wholeheartedly.Having Children is a very expensive endeavor with little return on investment.

Marriage is becoming a scam for educated women because the things trapping a woman in a marriage are removed when she gets an education and becomes financially stable. The men unfortunately aren't willing to meet halfway.

Women are going some where and they will surely get there

Bestvicky16:
Stay and fight for your marriage
It rains EVERYWHERE
Who do you want to leave your children for?
No man will marry a single mother
God hates divorce
Men are the prize
ALL OF YOU THAT HAVE BEEN DECEIVING WOMEN WITH ALL THESE YEYE TALKS, OYA YOU PEOPLE SHOULD GO AND EAT HER FLESH OOOO😡

Only gullible women can be deceived, women with self-worth know better

blackpanthar:
the so called informed women u speak of, are the ones whose husbands are mute, or about to divorce them and feel undervalued.


First world countries are not better than Africa, pls understand this.

God is real and his standards are real
In a HOME, it is not 50/50
The Husband is the HEAD, no matter what.

Marriage is not for everyone, Marriage doesn't even profit men in anyway but rather increases their responsibilities and liabilities.


Women who are independent and very informed are best to remain single... even in the bible they were single and no one complained.

If marriage doesn't profit a man then why all the tears for submission
I repeat you don't control an adult save the tears.

blackpanthar:
Maybe you are not a Christian but even in Islam it is worse......

AS FAR AS AFRICAN MARRIAGES ARE CONCERNED........... the woman is the property of the man... IT IS NOT AN OPINION... if you like call it slavery but you can not select what part of authority you want to enjoy.

IT IS CALLED BRIDE PRICE FOR A REASON AND NOT BRIBE PRICE.

Have sense so you can marry well with the right perspective.


YOU CAN'T MARRY AND THINK YOU WILL BE ALLOWED TO DO AS YOU WERE DOING AS A SINGLE.

Let this reside in your mind only ok, never try this with an inform woman, if not it will end in hot tears.

Anashe:
Here comes religious manipulation. The same way Esther is glorified over Vashti because she refused to be ridiculed by a drunk king and his guests? And Esther a child, a teenager that was prepped for a whole year for a paedophile king? A woman is the "glory" to a husband that is fully submitted to God. Not a husband masquerading as the weapon fashioned against her. Sarah called Abraham "Lord" for nothing? How many of the men on earth are like Abraham? This delusion needs to stop.
At the end of the day, you people assume a woman's life begins and ends with a title or an institution. LMFAO. I am patiently waiting for what the Bible says about husbands

Your last paragraph is all an African man lives for. So sad the Generation Z are changing the narrative which is the bitter tears you see on a daily from them it's even going to get worst, they will certainly cry an ocean

LilMissFavvy:
You are the one who needs to have sense. You are supposed to know that most of the cultures your African ancestors practiced were bad and are no longer regarded in this modern times. A woman is not a man's property, the bride price you mentioned cannot buy human life, hence a husband does not own his wife, rather she's a partner who deserves equal love and respect.

Looking at it from the biblical point of view, the Bible instructs the husband to love his wife as himself and as Christ loves the church (Eph. 5:25). If this man loved his wife he would definitely allow her visit her family or he should have given her good reasons why she should not travel. . For him to stop her for no reason is somehow and if she disobeys him, then he caused it.

In reality you own no body not even your children.
It's irks me how a grown adult will expect another grown adult to seek permission to do a thing.african men with their egoistic charade