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Seyi Shay has shown again why she is one of Nigeria’s sexiest singers with the release of her much anticipated single ‘BIA’.

‘BIA’ is a salsa-flecked afropop song that finds Seyi Shay embracing her sexuality.

Watch video below

DOWNLOAD Seyi Shay – ‘BIA’ ON WNR

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A Nigerian police officer serving with B Division in Warri, Delta State was caught by the good people of Okere Urhobo community having sex with his stepdaughter today

He was paraded alongside the girl by the youths of the community.

A Nigerian police officer serving with B Division in Warri, Delta State was caught by the good people of Okere Urhobo community having sex with his stepdaughter today

He was paraded alongside the girl by the youths of the community.

http://wapnetrealm.com.ng/photos-police-officer-caught-sex-stepdaughter-warri/

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What does it take to be a really good web developer?

If you’re working at your first programming job, you probably found out quickly that it’s not easy.

It’s one thing to watch coding tutorials, read programming books, and make portfolio sites. It’s quite another to have to build websites from spec, to meet deadlines, and most importantly, to make sure that your bosses and clients are happy!

On top of all that, technology changes fast. You may feel like you have to stay on top of trends or risk becoming obsolete next year.

Want to know a secret, though? You don’t have to be afraid.

As you keep working, you will gain experience in your job. In the same way that you’ve learned coding, you can also learn how to perform at a high level at work.

It’s possible to learn how to be a good web developer. And it’s even possible to be an indispensably good web developer. (Obviously, I can’t guarantee your job security, but you know what I mean.)

My first job

I’m a self-taught web developer, who never took a formal computer science course. I’ve currently been in the field for about seven years. And of course, I’ve struggled with the learning curve and with impostor syndrome.

But I’ve also picked up a lot of valuable experience and skills along the way. You might find some similarities to my experience and your own.

When I started out as a junior web dev in my first real job, I was beyond thrilled.

But to be completely honest, I was terrified for the first two years.

Every day I would have to do something for work that I had no idea how to accomplish. And I often didn’t have a clue how to even get started!

I felt incompetent a lot of the time.

Thankfully though, everything always worked out. I had really supportive supervisors and coworkers who showed me the ropes. And I somehow met all my deadlines.

Over time, I wasn’t feeling as stressed as before.

And after four or five years, I actually started feeling confident in my skills. I know five years may sound like a really long time to you. Especially if you’re just starting out.

Just remember this:

Success will never happen overnight. But it often happens after days, weeks, months, and years of trying hard and not giving up.

I feel like I’ve learned a lot in my own brief career. And I want to help newbie web developers who have fought so hard to land their current jobs.

There are some principles that I think will help you to stand out in a crowd. Applying them can enable you to become an asset to your company and your customers.

And even if you’re not working yet, you can still apply most of these principles to your learning process.

Want to become an uncommonly good web developer? Read on!

#1: Understand that mastering anything is a marathon, not a sprint

If you’ve landed a job straight out of bootcamp or college, that’s great! Just know that you’re at the beginning of your coding journey.

Web development is a broad field, and like any skill, it takes a long time to really get good at it. You have a long road ahead of you, and at this moment, there is a lot that you don’t know.

But that’s ok! You’re a beginner. You can’t be expected to be an expert in everything right now.

Don’t expect that you have to know everything there is to know, right this second. It’s simply unrealistic, and it will cause you a lot of stress.

Obviously, you should want to learn and get better at web development. But try to keep a bird’s eye view of your progress and be realistic about where you are right now.

Think in the long-term sense of your career, not just in the short term of this current moment. And don’t give up too early.

#2: Try as hard as you can first before asking for help

In those early years, the feeling of having to explore uncharted territory was anxiety-provoking. I would feel this pressure of having to figure something out that I just didn’t know.

In that situation, I had two choices. I could go back to my boss and say, “Sorry, I don’t know how to do this. Can you do it for me?”

That might have taken the pressure off in the short-term, but it wouldn’t have been good for me in the long run. Because an employee that doesn’t know how to find solutions will take time away from everyone else.

The other choice would be to first do as much research as possible on my own. Eventually, I would hit the end of what I could understand.

Then I would finally go to my boss and say, “Sorry, I can’t figure this out. But here’s what I’ve tried so far, and I think it might be related to this…”

See the difference?

Instead of giving up early and asking someone else to do my work for me, I did as much as I could myself.

And when asking for help, I showed that I had done some work on my own.

Researching and testing on your own will help you learn how to teach yourself new concepts. This benefits you in two ways:

You’re learning new skills on the job — essentially, you’re getting paid to learn. You’re not sucking time away from your boss or coworkers with questions that you could figure out yourself. You’re an asset to your company, not a detriment.

Of course, the other extreme is that you spend several hours or even days stuck on a problem when you could have gotten the answer quickly by asking for help. That’s not good either because, at that point, you’re spending too much time on the problem.

You’ll have to figure out for yourself how much to try on your own, and when to ask for help. But through experience, you’ll be able to find a happy medium.

#3: Stay curious

When I first started my job, I frequently got positive feedback that I soaked up information like a sponge. I was willing to try anything, even if I didn’t know exactly how to do it. And I was honestly curious to learn how things worked.

This desire to understand how things work is at the heart of every engineer. Let your curiosity feed that desire.

Don’t shut it off just to get things done. Understanding the why is extremely important.

If you’re researching how to do something, don’t just stop once you’ve found the answer in some Stack Overflow code snippet. If you’re not pressed by an urgent deadline, take a few extra minutes to look at the solution and how it fits in with your code.

Try to understand why your code wasn’t working before, and why it is now. It’s ok if you don’t understand everything 100%. Just try to grasp the concept. Even if you don’t totally get it this time, you’ll be better equipped to further your understanding next time you encounter the same problem.

#4: Always be improving

This applies not just to web development, but to any area of life: cooking, driving a car, even relationships.

When you notice that something doesn’t go quite right, step back and get some perspective. Ask yourself: what did you want to happen, and why didn’t it happen?

If your code broke a website, what happened, and how can you avoid it in the future? Or if you got into an argument with a coworker while trying to explain something, what happened there?

Try to do the following:

Go back and analyze that non-optimal situation.
Figure out what happened.
Think of actionable steps that you can take to avoid the problem next time.
Writing out a plan for how to respond or deal with specific situations can help you for the next time.
It takes time, and sometimes we truly don’t have that time to go back and analyze every single decision.

But constantly glossing over mistakes and conflicts without learning from them will ensure that you will repeat your mistakes.

It’s tough to do because when something negative has passed, the natural instinct is to not want to dwell on it.

Think about it like debugging your life. If you keep making the exact same mistake in your code, that would be pretty inefficient. It means that there’s something that you need to learn so that it won’t happen anymore.

Even if it’s just with tiny mistakes, practicing this mixture of self-awareness and self-improvement will reap your rewards in the long run.

#5: Get really good at solving problems

As a web developer, a large chunk of your job is solving problems. Whether you’re writing new code or debugging existing code, the end goal is to make it do what you want.

So how can you get good at solving problems in code?

First, you have to understand exactly what it is supposed to do, and all the parts involved in the process.

Look for clues as to why the problem is happening. Then you’ll be able to solve the mystery

Fixing a lamp

For illustrative purposes, let’s say that you have to fix a lamp that isn’t working.

In order to troubleshoot this lamp, you have to first identify the optimal behavior. In this case, it would be that switching the lamp to “on” will cause the light bulb to turn on.

If this isn’t happening, you could go through and check each step in the process to determine what’s failing.

Here’s a list that you might make:

Step 1: The electricity in the house comes through the outlet. Check that the electricity in the house is on, and check that the outlet is working.
Step 2: The lamp is plugged into the outlet to allow electricity to travel through the lamp. Check that the lamp is plugged in.
Step 3: The electricity travels through the wire and switch in the lamp. Check that the wire and the switch are both working.
Step 4: When the switch is turned on, the electricity reaches the light bulb and turns it on. Check that the light bulb is working and not broken.
By testing each step, you can use the process of elimination to narrow down and identify the culprit of your problem.

Finding and fixing a problem in your code will be more complicated than testing a light bulb, of course. But the process is the same.

I’m not going to lie, debugging code and troubleshooting issues and errors can be extremely frustrating. There have been times where I’ve spent literally days or weeks stuck on a particular problem. These are the worst parts of being a web developer.

However, the flip side is that when finally discover that solution, you will feel amazing. You might almost feel all-powerful, at least in that moment. That feeling of exultation is without a doubt the best part of being a web developer.

Don’t overlook the non-technical skills

The last two tips will be quite a switch from the topics so far. There are some other aspects of being a professional web developer that has absolutely nothing to do with coding.

You might call them people skills or soft skills.

Even though we work with code, we are ultimately working with people. The websites and apps that we build are meant for humans. And no matter your job, you’ll be working with human customers, clients, or coworkers.

The best web developers aren’t just good at coding. They are also really good at understanding the big picture, and at working with people.

I personally think that these last two principles can really help you pull away from the pack. They’re not easy to master because they require a different kind of complex thinking.

And many web developers may not consider the need to develop these non-technical skills. This is where you can begin to make yourself uniquely useful.

#6: Cultivate empathy towards others

Empathy involves being aware of and understanding of the feelings, needs, and perspectives of others. In short, it’s the ability to put yourself in their shoes.

It’s not about “winning”.

When my husband and I have fights, we start off both feeling at odds with each other. I might feel like I’m 100% right — which is never the case in real life! So we talk everything through, even though it’s painful and difficult to do.

Eventually, we realize that it was all based on a misunderstanding or one of us had a bad day. We’re both able to finally see the situation from the point of view of the other person.

It’s not about being right or “winning” the argument. It’s about being empathetic and being on the same page as the other person.

In the same way, when you work with people you will inevitably have conflicts or disagreements.

But try to avoid jumping to conclusions and demonizing the other person. Most likely anything they did or said wasn’t meant personally.

Try to talk to them and find out where they are coming from.

They might have been really busy and simply forgotten to email you back. They might have just had a horrible meeting and regrettably took their stress out in you in the form of a terse reply.

And beyond giving others the benefit of the doubt, empathy at work also involves being aware and respectful of others’ workloads and situations.

Let’s say that one of your coworkers is working like mad on a close deadline. Don’t bother them with unrelated issues that really aren’t urgent while they’re in crunch time.

But it might be a nice gesture to ask them how it went once things have calmed down.

On a related note, if you’re interested in reading more about workplace etiquette, I’d recommend checking out the advice blog Ask a Manager. It’s super informative about what to do and not to do in the workplace.

#7: Be proactive, not reactive

In my opinion, being proactive versus reactive is a quality that differentiates successful people from mediocre people.

A reactive employee will do the work that is asked of them, but they will do no more than that. If something goes wrong they will fix it, but they won’t think ahead to prevent this problem from recurring.

They don’t consider the big picture or how interlocking parts of a system work together. The reactive person’s default mindset is: “If it doesn’t affect me, it’s not my problem.”

It’s very short-term thinking. Note that they are not doing bad work, but they are missing out on a lot that they could be doing.

In contrast, the proactive employee won’t just complete their assigned work and call it a day. They will also make small improvements as they go.

When something goes wrong, they will analyze what happened and make changes so that it won’t happen again. They constantly think about how to make processes at work more efficient.

In short, proactive people work in the present in order to improve things in the future.

They are able to see the big picture and are willing to put forth the effort to improve it.

Sounds pretty good, right?

To learn the skill of being proactive, you’ll have to use some trial and error, and a lot of observation. But once you figure it out, the benefits will spill over into other areas of your life.

In closing

Thanks for reading these tips on how to be a good web developer! If you’re a newbie web developer, I really hope that you’ve found some of them helpful.

If you want a nice printable version of the above list, you can pick one up here.

This article was originally published on Coder Coder.
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Get to know all you can with this brief biography on the Big Brother Naija 2018 Season 3 Double Wahala housemates.

Angel Awotarigha is your calm go to and simple guy that you would love to be around. The buff guy does not use his size to intimidate and makes himself easy to approach.

Here are 8 things you should know about Angel.

1. Angel is 31 years old, and one of ten children by his parents.

2. He is from Bayelsa State.

3. He is multi talented. He is a producer, director, singer, analyst and much more.



4. He has a diploma in directing and digital filmaking from the New York Film Academy.

5. Angel is passionate and calls himself a hopeless romantic.

6. He compares himself to a lion because he strong. He is also a mixed martial artist.

7. He considers the highlight of his career to be when he works with an American rapper.

8. Angel is a believer of freedom of expression.

http://wapnetrealm.com.ng/bbnaija-here-are-eight-8-things-you-didnt-know-about-bb-naija-2018s-buff-man-angel/

#Photo: Omotola Jalade Ekehinde Welcomed Her Followers To Her Birth Month


Actress, Omotola Jalade Ekehinde has announced her upcoming 40th birthday party with a photo she shared on Instagram.

Omotola who will turn 40 on February 7th has a 5-day event lined up for her D-day.



Here is the photo she shared

http://wapnetrealm.com.ng/photo-omotola-jalade-ekehinde-welcomed-followers-birth-month/
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Music diva, Seyi Shay is back again and it is with style.

The singer posted on her Instagram a series of photos and video teasers of what her new song BIA would be all about, and from what we see, it’s going to be a hit. We can only guess what BIA is all about.

The music video is shot by known director, Clarence Peters.

See teasers below
http://wapnetrealm.com.ng/download-video-seyi-shay-bia/
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#BBNaija: Meet Nzemeka MARTINs (Rapprince) BBNaija 2018 HouseMate Miracle Twins Brother Nzemeka MARTINs

Nzemeka MARTINs (Rapprince) is a rapper, a singer, signed under Damex Records

He’s fans keep saying they are twins

see his picture below
http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/bbnaija-meet-nzemeka-martins-rapprince.html
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see unclad photos of BBNaija 2018 double wahala housemate, Khloe






Related news, #BBNaija: See the housemate Annie Idibia is rooting for

Nollywood actress and mother of two, Annie Idibia already has a Big Brother Naija housemate she’s rooting for in the Big brother Naija house, and it’s the fashion/stylist entrepreneur, Khloe.

The 24-year-old has quite a number of celebrities following her on Instagram; Annie Idibia, Banky W, Peter Okoye, 2Face Idibia, amonsgt others.

About BBNaija 2018 housemates – Khloe:

A horror movie buff, Khloe owns having no hidden talent and is only looking to bring drama to the house.

At the core of herself, Khloe believes she is often misunderstood and hopes to use her time in the House for her true self to shine.

If Khloe were a world leader, she would “stop university education” because she’s “real”, she doesn’t “sugar coat” and says it “the way it is”.
What irritates you most in other people: Lies
What will you be bringing into the BB House: Drama
What will you do with the prize money: I want to start a foundation to empower street children. I also have like two movie scripts that I want to produce.

Khloe is a 24-year old fashion designer and is single. She loves horror movies and would be a cat, if she were an animal. She wants people to see the real her whilst she is in the House because she is sometimes misunderstood. She detests people who lie.

The third season of reality TV series, Big Brother Nigeria was launched on Sunday with 20 contestants also known as “housemates”.

This year’s edition, which is tagged “double wahala” stars Vandora, Teddy A, K Bruce, Nina, Miracle, Alex, Princess, DeeOne and Ahneeka.

Other housemates are Rico Swavey, Bito, BamBam, Leo, Khloe, Angel and Ifu-Ennada, Anto, Tobi Bakare, Cee-C and Lolu.

The show is running for a second consecutive running year as it had previously suffered a 10-year hiatus after holding its first edition in 2006.

Popular artists, Mayorkun and Kiss Daniel performed live during the launch.

Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, who returned to host the show for the second time, introduced the housemates in groups of four.

This year’s contestants are a cross-section of musicians, comedians and entrepreneurs.

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BBN contestant, 24-year old Miracle Ikechukwu, has shut down reports that he is a married man. Some Nigerians dug into his IG page immediately he got into the house yesterday and found photos of him rocking a wedding band. This sparked a controversy online because he did not mention to his other housemates that ''he is a married man''.

His team managing his IG page has however refuted claims that he is married. According to a post shared on his IG handle, Miracle is single and has never been married.

Recall that last year, there was a lot of controversy in the house because one of the Contestants, Thin Tall Tony, never mentioned he was married and was having a serious affair with his other housemate and single mum, Bisola, in the house.

See Miracle's post refuting claims he is married below



http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/bbn2018-contestant-miracle-shuts-down.html

A hardworking husband whose wife likes it whenever he does the home chores decided to send her hilarious ‘Sexts’ in attempt to get her turned on at work.

Dirty ol Sob, a Reddit user sent his wife photos of himself doing various stages of cleaning, including laundry and wrote:

'My wife really likes it when I do housework so I sent her these pictures while she was at work hoping it would turn her on.'


http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/photos-husband-sends-wife-hilarious.html

I am a virgin, Nigerian men are not romantic – Actress Ufedo Sunshine

Speaking in an exclusive interview with Vanguard, the Kogi state born actress who starred along side Cossy Orjiakor, Bukky Wright, Keppy Ekpenyong Bassey in the blockbuster movie, Pure Honey, attributed the poor performance of Nigerian men on the challenges in the country. She also also noted she’s a virgin, and as thus never had anything sexual with a man.



When asked, Ufedo replied, “Who dash monkey banana? Romance fire! Fuel scarcity alone won’t let Nigerian men be romantic. I will rate them 2/10 please. The thing is, Nigerian men go through a lot in this country that has left them with no room for romance. Just my thoughts though, but some of them act romantic sometimes.”

On her rumoured secret marriage, the Kogi state born thespian and businesswoman has this to say; “Is this a ‘let’s hear from the horse’s mouth situation?’ Well, I’m a virgin please. Hahaha. I think relationships, marriage, civil partnership should be kept out of social media. When you post your relationship online, and something goes wrong, you come back and post what has gone wrong, explaining the situation and be making a fool out of yourself”.

Regarding the notion that many celebs are now hiding their relationship status and spouses to avoid their colleagues from intruding and snatching them, Ufedo said, “I can only laugh. Anyone who allows him/herself to be snatched, was never meant for you. It’s as simple as it sounds. Anyone that does not respect and love you enough to stay away from your colleagues, does not deserve you. You can only get drowned in water when you go into it.”



The actress then speaks on how and why she maintained her original skin despite bleaching being the order of the day among a large number of Nigerian celebs.

“When you go black you can’t go back. Black is beautiful. Black has always been cool and black is currently being recognised even though those bleaching haven’t realised that. I am proud to be born black. I can never bleach my skin for anything in the world. I sincerely feel sorry for the bleachers, they are not aware of the danger they are causing to their skin. You can’t even sit comfortably with some, their skin stinks already from bleaching. I love my coconut oil and shea butter.”

http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/i-am-virgin-nigerian-men-are-not.html

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A sex starved couple who couldn't wait until they got home were caught having sexual relations on a subway train in Paris, France.

The viral video shows the couple having sex in broad daylight in front of other passengers while a woman films them.

In the video, the woman can be seen bent over, her panties pulled down to her knees, clutching the train pole, as her gentleman takes her from behind.

It was also reported that passengers tried to stop the couple, but the pair who could have been drunk were obviously in their own world.

Watch the video below
http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/video-couple-filmed-smashing-on-subway.html

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Daddy Showkey confirms robbery report ongoing around his house

Veteran singer, Daddy Showkey has backed up a viral report by a neighbour who said two suspected armed robbers tried barging into his house, and forcing him to open his door.
In the video @Smilesparker shared, he tried asking the men who they were looking for, but they claimed they do not know the name.
The video from @Smilesparker came with the caption;
“People please help me… SARS OR ROBBERS ARE IN MY HOUSE…. ”

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Daddy Showkey who confirmed the robbery report shared by the man above, disclosed that the robbers shot sporadically in the area and his life might be in danger. He wrote;
This is happening behind my house is like my life is in danger right now Pls help they are shooting straight bullet might hit me or anybody around my house so my people help ooo @smilesparker with @instarepost_app — People please help me… SARS OR ROBBERS ARE IN MY HOUSE…. @POLICEng
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Recall that few days ago, three suspected armed robbers who invaded the Lekki home of Nollywood actor, John Okafor popularly known as Mr. Ibu over the weekend, were arrested by the Lagos police command.
Mr. Ibu confirmed the arrest to E-Daily when he was contacted yesterday, adding that the police have already commenced investigation into the matter. He revealed that two of the three arrested suspects were picked by the close circuit camera,CCTV, which he installed in his home.
According to the comic-actor who’s currently in Enugu, the bandits invaded his home over the weekend, carting away property and cash worth more than N14.3 million.
“ My wife told me that the operation started at about 3am and lasted till about 4:25am on Saturday morning after which they left with all my property and cash,”Mr.Ibu narrated.
Describing the ugly incident as “a big shock to him”, Mr. Ibu said he never expected that this kind of a thing would happen to me in this new year


http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/daddy-showkey-confirms-robbery-report.html

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Man reveals why he killed his daughter by throwing her inside septic tank

We brought you a report yesterday, about a 19-year-old girl, Chiburuoma Boms, who was strangled to death and dumped inside septic tank in Port Harcourt, on Wednesday, January 24th.
This was done by a relative who has now been confirmed to be her father.
According to this new report, the dad defended his actions, saying she has been ill for more than 7 months, and her illness was believed to be because of her promiscuity and incest.
He angrily dragged her and threw into the soakaway.
Read the report below…
http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/man-reveals-why-he-killed-his-daughter.html

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Photos: Young lady raped and murdered in her hair salon; legs and hands found bound

The body of a hairstylist, Fatou Loum, was found in her salon at Kololi, Gambia, on January 24.

According to online report, the young lady was raped and murdered inside her salon. Her legs and hands were tied together with pieces of clothes

Spokesperson for the Gambia Police, who confirmed the incident said no arrest has been made yet.

http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/photos-young-lady-raped-and-murdered-in.html

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Dirk and Jenny aren’t like normal couples. Their sentiments are: to love one another, to support one another and to share a lot of their private time together. The only thing that sets them apart is Jenny is a ‘real doll’ that Dirk bought for 6,000 euros (that’s $6,750).
Dirk and Jenny have a fixed daily schedule. Every evening at 6 pm they are sitting on the sofa watching television
They have been living together in Dirk’s flat for 4 years now, after Dirk suffered a breakdown from feeling lonely. With Neil Young’s Such a Woman playing, they tied the knot in Dirk’s flat, and instead of a wedding ring, he gifted her a heart shaped pendant on a chain.
What sets their relationship apart from that of simply a sex doll is that Dirk has forged a true genuine relationship with Jenny. He can hear her, talk to her and “perceive her soul”, believing she speaks back.
Documenting the couple’s day to day lives,the photographer, Sandra Hoyn, discovered the 40-year-old man bathed Jenny on Sundays, they wrote a blog together and watched football in front of the TV side by side. Dirk, however, hasn’t told any of his family or friends, including his child from a previous marriage. When he has guests he conceals her in his bedroom and dims the lights.
The photographer’s biggest challenge, was coming to terms with treating Jenny as the person Dirk sees her to be; to not to just see the doll just as a doll, but to “recognize what the man sees and loves in her”. She actually started to feel her presence, and when Jenny was put in bed for a ‘sleep’, actually felt her voice volume lowering, afraid of waking her.
“I can’t live without love. My loneliness destroyed me.”. Dirk says of his silicone doll. Dirk carrying Jenny into the bathroom. He always has to remove the door so that Jenny fits through. “Jenny is such a sensitive being. She is so helpless.”. He said.
“Jenny gives me security. I never want to live without her again. I am moved from her words. The purity, serenity and honesty of her speaking.”.
“Jenny likes to wear beautiful clothes. But she does not care for brands.” Every Sunday Dirk washes her lace lingerie and wigs.
Dirk powders and massages Jenny’s feet. He cares for her silicone skin every Sunday after bathing to keep it soft.
See all the photos below.
http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/photos-inside-home-of-man-married-to.html?m=1

http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/photos-girl-sneaks-food-into-cinema.html

Photos: Man Killed By His 8ft Long Pet Python

A man who owned 10 snakes and 12 tarantulas was killed by his 2.4m (8ft) pet python called Tiny, an inquest has heard.
Animal lover Dan Brandon died of asphyxiation at his home in Hampshire on 25 August last year, Basingstoke Coroners’ Court was told.
Coroner Andrew Bradley recorded a verdict of misadventure following the incident with the African rock python. Mr Brandon, a keen snake handler, had owned Tiny since she was small enough to fit in his hand.



A man was killed at home by his own 8ft pet python named Tiny, an inquest has heard. Thought to be the first case of its kind in Britain, a coroner at the inquest in Basingstoke, Hampshire, was told the snake escaped from its case and crushed its owner, 31-year-old Daniel Brandon, to death. Couple named Daniel and Danielle born on same day in same hospital marry 40 years later Coroner Andrew Bradley recorded a verdict of misadventure and said:
‘The most likely scenario is that Tiny was engaged with Dan – I have no doubt about that. ‘She was coiling around him, at which point I have no idea. There was a point at which either she takes hold of him unexpectedly or trips him up or some other mechanism.’ Mr Bradley said the snake then hid, probably ‘because of the shock of him falling or because of his reaction’. Last year the coroner’s office ruled Mr Brandon died of asphyxiation at his home in Church Crookham, Hampshire, on August 25, 2017.
His snake was found hiding in the same room as his body.



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A man actually wrote an essay in an attempt to convince his love interest on social media to send him nudes.
Call it what you want, but i call it genius, (LOL)

Read what he wrote below;

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There’s a certain amount of respect i would love to obtain with you. But this aspect of understanding and knowledge of each other, I would love to get to know you better in all ways in order to respect you more gully, ways i can obtain this respect comes with the knowledge of knowing you better physically, mentally, spiritually, and in all other aspects. Shall we start with our physical aspects.

Knowledge of each other physically can be accomplished in several ways, perhaps a tactic of understanding can be done in photography in of our physical bodies.

Perhaps we could exchange detailed photographs of us physically in order to understand each other better in turn to set the stage for an even deeper, solid, and respectful relationship

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Oga composer !! Twale for you !!!

Photos: Man sleeps with his neighbor’s wife… then he beats her husband after he caught them

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It was double tragedy for a young man, Felix Ojirike who was brutally attacked by his neighbour as he lost his eye after the attack by one Chidera Eze who was accused of sleeping with Ojirike’s wife in Lagos.
The incident happened at Sanni Dauda Street in Ejigbo, Lagos where they resided.

P.M.EXPRESS scooped that one of the Ojirike’s eyes was badly damaged, he cannot see with it as he was still lying critical ill at West Care Hospital in Ejigbo, Lagos.

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It was gathered that trouble started after the neighbours informed Ojirike that Eze who was an Okada rider used to sleep with his wife whenever Ojirike went to work.

P.M.EXPRESS gathered that after the neighbours had informed Ojirike that Eze usually left early for work but comes back after he had gone to his own work to stay with his wife, an embattled Ojirike then decided to find out if what their neighbours told him was true. He reportedly prepared and informed the wife that he had gone to work but later came back and met his wife on top of Eze’s bed.

P.M.EXPRESS learnt that it became an issue in the neighbourhood which led to exchange of bitter words that eventually resulted into a public fight between Ojirike and Eze in the compound.

During the fight, Eze reportedly took a sharp object and stabbed Ojirike’s eye. He was rushed to the hospital where he was being treated.

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The incident was reported to the police at Ejigbo Division; Eze was arrested and detained at the police station.

When our correspondent visited Ojirike in the hospital, he confirmed the incident and narrated how he caught Eze with his wife.

However, Eze denied that he had sleeping with Ojirike’s wife and explained that it was their neighbours that caused the whole trouble between him and Ojirike by lying against him.

But he was unable to explain what Ojirike’s wife was doing in his room apartment when her husband was not around.

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At the police station where Eze was detained, the police source confirmed the assault and detention of Eze and said he will soon be charged to court.

P.M.EXPRESS reports that Eze was brought before Ejigbo Magistrates court on Friday and was remanded in prison custody for the alleged offence.
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A man identified as Abogoh Lucky has just unravelled that his wife of 1 month carries the child of her ex-boyfriend.

A heartbroken Nigerian man has cried out on Social media after discovering that his wife’ pregnancy belongs to her former boyfriend.

The man identified as Abogoh Luckyo on Facebook discovered that even after their wedding, the wife has been in constant communication with her ex boyfriend, professing her love for the man.

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Nigerian man discovers his wife's pregnancy belongs to her ex-boyfriend lailasnews5According to Abogoh Luckyo, even the parents of the woman are aware of the fact that she was pregnant for another man and they still allowed them to go ahead with the wedding
He wrote;
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“I can’t believe that this is happening to me. This world is really a wicked place! Her parents knew that their Daughter’s Boyfriend had gotten her pregnant yet they hid the information from me and duped hard me and my hard earned money into getting married to their daughter, only to start persuading me to undergo some goat-killing rituals so that all will be normal. Evil in this world is too much. Thank God I refused to do such Devil’s sacrifices”
Lucky had earlier shared a thank you note in December, thanking his family, bride’s family, friends and colleagues for gracing his wedding.

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The troubled man also shared a photo of the alleged boyfriend of his wife.

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And also a shot of the paternity test:

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Some pictures from their Traditional wedding:

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The man also shared a screenshot of his wife’s chat with the ex-boyfriend. She had told the man that she was pregnant for him but she would take the pregnancy to another man. And it seemed Abogoh Luckyo was the unlucky fellow here.
It was even obvious in her chat with the boyfriend that the man was aware of the pregnancy and not cool with the fact that she was going to pin the pregnancy on another man. But the woman insisted she had to marry Lucky.

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A Nigerian man named Olu Adegoke via his facebook page has come to say if your pastor has no day [other] job apart from being a pastor; he is a thief.

He went on to mention names of men of God in the bible who had jobs; He said Paul was a tent maker, Peter was a fisherman and Jesus was a carpenter.

Hence if Your Pastor has no day job, he is a thief

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“Paul was a tent-maker, Peter was a Fisherman, Jesus was a Carpenter. If your Pastor has no day job, he is a Thief”

see some reactions below;

Abigail Emmanuel When people don’t know wat to say they should just shot de hell uppp Jesus was not a capinter his father was and he was assisting when he started ministering work it was not recorded DAT he was doing capinter work peter stop fishing fish when he was called and started fishing men don’t change de Bible Weldon sir….

Oluwa Pikin In this 2018 i have learned how to mind my business. whether they are thieves or God servants it’s not my business, it’s between them and God. All that concerns me now is anything that will boost my destiny

Evidence Obonofiemro Harden Eagle Jesus practice carpentry as a child, from the time they started following Jesus, they seized from fishing but fished souls. Glory Hallelujah…

Omokaro Princewill Supported ��…How can Pastoring Work Be Someone’s Hussle??..If the Holy Spirit Refuses to Move,The Pastor Will Start Moving cause Maga Must Pay!!!
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The sexdoll is still a trending topic on social media, and it has caused folks to air their opinion, thus causing division on social media.

The male folks are of the opinion that the dolls are a better replacement to ladies, while ladies think the dolls won’t last and would make the male folks crawling back to them.

Actress, Maryam Charles, even aired her opinion, and she posted stuffs the dolls cannot do, but a woman can. [Read Here]

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So, there was a little digging, and here’s what was discovered…

Sexdolls have been around for over 20 years, but like every technology we ever know, they advance with time and that’s when we get to know about them. So here is Harmony and what she can do:

1. She runs on batteries that are rechargeable just like your smartphones and laptops.

2. She’s designed to meet your sexual fantasy just like a real human does but in a way only a machine can do.

3. She can self lubricant during intercourse, moan, talk dirty, remember your name, call your name during sex, maintain any position you like, highly flexible so you can divide her legs like the red sea anytime, she can even climax during sex.

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4. She is a good partner and can engage you on discussions just like a human does.

5. She can self warm her body.

6. Her mouth is also human like and moist, so you can trust down her throat if that’s your fantasy.

7. Skin like textures made of silicone and very soft, it feels just like a real human skin and ROBOTIX plans to up their game by making them moist just like a real human during sex.

8. You can install new language accents on her and get her to speak in any accent you like, so if you love Spanish women accent you can get Hermonie to speak to you in such accent.

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Sex bots are still in an infant stage the company promises that subsequent versions will have human like locomotions and move their bodies during sex, so if reverse cowgirl is your favorite, your in for hours of riding nonstop.

The doll costs around $2500 on average and can be customized to any shape, size and skin color you prefer. The company sells about 600 of them every year in the US alone and demands are skyrocketing.

Meet Harmony:



Watch the video of the bot interacting with a man here:
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You’d love this Hilarious Whatsapp Chat between a Nigerian guy and a lady who stole his number from her friend’s phone.


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According to the chats, the lady is apparently a “professional sex worker”, and she needs new clients, reason she stole the number from her friends’ phone.



But then, the guy wasn’t buying the idea.. Read the chats below;
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Hmmm: “Dated him for 6 years, had 7 abortions, paid his fees.. Next week, he’s marrying my Best-friend”

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This story might just make you CRY.. Literally. This story is saddening, saddening because the lady in question may or may not be able to conceive again. Saddening because, some men are truly scum and also, because a lover was not only fooled but a close friend was used to fill the gap. Life! More.
In the year 2009, Ms. J who resides in Abuja, rounded up her Secondary School studies and like many other Nigerian fresh high school graduates, she attempted JAMB. (For readers who aren’t familiar with our great country’s education system, Joint Admissions and Matriculations Board (JAMB) is a Nigerian entrance examination board for tertiary-level institutions.

The board conducts entrance examinations for prospective undergraduates into Nigerian universities. Of course, she was a very smart girl, so she passed with a good score (297 to be precise) and luckily for her, she was shortlisted for PUME (An examination conducted by Universities to further screen candidates).
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Fast forward to her journey to the West, she was to stay with her aunt for her PUME and like every concerned Nigerian parents, they had instructed her aunt (father’s youngest sister) to make sure she read thoroughly for her PUME which was suppose to hold in few days. But truly, they didn’t even need to go that far, because she was a “serious-bookworm”, a bookworm who intentionally bereft herself from the pleasures of “hanging out or making friends” but made sure her books followed her wherever she went to!

In fact, she was the Library prefect in her Secondary School days (I forgot to chip that in, earlier.) Few days after flying into town, it was time for her to yet again make her family proud. Her aunt drove her to the University…. It was the University for the big boys and girls.

The University where things happen.. The University where “all dem ladies” loved packaging themselves. She went in for her PUME and came out with smiles. She knew she had worked her usual magic and was very certain her first attempt into University was a done-deal.

She had asked and begged her parents to let her stay with her aunt for a while, so as to chill with her (her aunt wasn’t married by the way).

Her parents agreed, after all, she was with her closest relative they thought, it wouldn’t be so nice to just let her breeze in for her PUME then out immediately she’s done. “Give the girl some breathing space”, they thought. Her aunt was an entrepreneur who had a thriving Digital Agency, which was quite popular. She had a staff strength of about 25. One day, Ms. J asked that she followed her to the office, and she obliged. That was the day everything started changing! She met Mr. J in her aunt’s company. He was a part-time staff in the agency and right after her meeting with him, things took a drastic turn. In fact, it was love at first sight for her. According to her, Mr. J had everything she ever wanted in a guy. He did not only tickle her fancy, he also took her to cloud 9 by just gazing. (The question would be, what does a 17 year old book-worm know about “tickling fancy” right??).. Well,…

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One thing led to another, they started communicating, and all through the five weeks she stayed at her aunt’s, she always followed her to her workplace and the times she stayed back home as a result of her menstrual cramps, she informed Mr. J, so he called in sick, didn’t show up at work but went to chill with, comfort and caress her. At that point, she was over the moon. To her, no one had ever shown her such care during her “painful moments“. This happened for 3 days and right under her aunt’s supervision. She got excited when she got to realise that he was in the same university she applied and wrote her PUME. He was a second year student who decided to make extra cash by running a part-time job in Ms. J’s aunt’s digital agency.. It meant one thing, they will be closer if she eventually got admission into the University.

It was time for her to fly back to Abuja, they said their goodbyes over the phone and she begged that he continued communicating. This, they did and when the list came out, she was accepted into the University to study Law (Her first choice).

Fast-forward to when she got into Uni: Ms. J had convinced her parents that, she wanted an accommodation in campus. She told them that it would be easier for her to be more focused with her studies, easier to access the school’s library, study there and also, easier for her to attend lectures on time because her aunt’s place was quite a distance from the University and the usual traffic will be stressful. Her parents “okayed” it and sent her funds for her hostel accommodation but unbeknownst to them, she did this so as not to be supervised by her aunt and also, to be free to be with her Mr. J (Young love).

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In her first year, second semester, on her birthday to be precise, Mr. J asked her to be his girl, of which she agreed to and that indeed, changed the course of her destiny. She was so in love with Mr. J that she became his mother, care-taker, lover, financial adviser, helper, money lender, money-dasher, bill-footer and the list goes on. (By the way, she was from a very rich family, so money was truly never her problem).

She did everything for and with him and maybe…, just maybe that’s why he decided to take her for granted. Three days after her birthday, he begged her to come over and spend the night at his place (He shared a room with his friend). They had planned to “make love” that night. Of course, this was her first time, and she was very much okay giving her body to her first love. Things were going great, her clothes off, about getting a lubricant then a knock on the door was heard. It was his roommate. He had come back from a fellowship. The time was some minutes past 8pm.
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Though he had informed and begged his roommate to chill in another room that night, his roommate didn’t oblige. (His roommate was one of those overly-not soggy guys), so he had messed up their plans big time! So many pleas from Mr. J fell on deaf ears and he actually insisted on lying on the same bed as the girl and Mr. J.. In his own words, “I pay the same amount of money with you, so I have to sleep on the bed.” Crazy right?…. Yes! Every plan they had was shattered, she had to leave the room and head back to her hostel because the bed was not big enough to accommodate three people. Luckily, his apartment wasn’t so far from the hostel.

Four days after the incident, Ms. J paid in a huge sum of money into her boyfriend’s account and asked him to get a well furnished accommodation. The decision to do this was made after she consulted her closest friend on campus, Titi. Titi happened to be her bonk mate and also, course-mate. Mr. J, after series of refusal to accept her offer, later obliged (After all, it was beneficial to both of them). He got a house, very comfortable, got furniture and also, got a generator. The money was that much that her could get all these and have some more change for running around

The night after he had settled into the new house, his “wash-night plan” was to deflower her. He made love to her (at least, that is what she thought). From that moment, she became his sex doll. Every time and everyday, he’d control her to his house for sex. Sometimes during her lectures, he will keep buzzing her till she finally decides to leave class for his apartment. He even suggested that she moved in with him, to stay from Monday to Fridays since she normally spends the weekend at her aunt’s. She accepted this, thinking it was in her own best interest. At least, everyone would know it is official – So, she thought.

His fourth year was a bit rough for him. He had quit his part time job in Ms. J‘s aunt’s place to fully concentrate in school, and for the fact that he was the first of five kids from a broken home and his mum did menial jobs to sustain herself and the kids, help from home wasn’t forthcoming. He was sad to say the least but Ms. J became his knight and shinning armour. She would make sure he lacked nothing, I mean nothing at all. Ms. J always got an excess of N70,000 monthly allowance from home, so she’d keep N20,000+ for herself and give N50,000 to her boyfriend. (It is noteworthy to mention that Mr. J was paid N50K monthly from his part time job he quit).
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Meaning, she started paying the exact same amount he was receiving when he was still working.. (Indeed, she truly loved this lad). She’d use N20,000+ to take care of herself. Deprived herself of the things she normally used which were expensive and because she didn’t want her parents thinking about how she suddenly developed a lavish lifestyle, she never asked that they topped her monetary-allowance. Mr. J was living the life. Now he could afford to spend without thinking of how the money was made. Flexing at the detriment of his bae. Drinking, smoking and even womanising.. His true colours started showing but she still loved him, regardless. Prior to his fourth year, after deflowering her, he normally wore a condom each time he wanted to have sex with her, but, after his fourth year; second semester, he insisted they go raw. This caused a strain in their relationship because Ms. J didn’t want it but he insisted that if she truly loved him, she would oblige.

They had a serious fight over this, so she went back to her accommodation in school, once again, confided in Titi (who eventually became her best friend in Uni). Titi advised that she give in because she had already given a lot to the relationship and it will be dumb for her to lose him because of “sex”. And like always, she agreed. Days after their fight, she went to his house to apologise but met a girl there. A 300L Law student who she recognised (She would later discover he had sex with her and many others too). Bae begged silly that night, cried her eyes off, cried like a pikin just so he could forgive her for refusing to have sex without a condom. But my guy refused. It took the intervention of Titi, who came to his house to subdue the whole tension and issue.

Titi had played her part, time for her to go, he asked that he gets her number just so as to be able to reach Ms.J through her incase Ms.J’s phone is switched off. Ms. J, reluctantly accepted (She couldn’t do much at this point, because she didn’t want another issue and for the fact that Titi was her closest friend and the reason why things didn’t fall apart, she just kept mum in the background). Sex was like free food for Mr. J and his PULL OUT GAME was LAME! That same year, she had 3 abortions for him (3 abortions in one year) and each time she aborted, he’d promise that he would be careful next time.

Mr. J in his final year, had issues with some courses, so he automatically had an extra year. Ms. J was in her 4th year now, and about to graduate. Her grades had somewhat nose-dived because of the stress in her relationship. Things weren’t going as planned anymore and it now looked like she was just a sex-doll for him, yet, she still had hope that he loved her. That same year, she had another 3 abortions, and on her sixth attempt, she almost died of complications. In fact, the doctor said he won’t be involved in any abortion case concerning her, anymore. She almost bled to death. It was at this point she started re-thinking life.(But this didn’t last for long because she was blinded by love)

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Just like her boyfriend, she had issues with some courses and had to re-sit. That year saw her G.P fall like an Iroko tree. She started struggling with average grades in almost all papers. Her boyfriend finally graduated with a 2.1 after sorting some lecturers (money he got from his bae) and was posted to Abuja for his NYSC. She was ecstatic after hearing about this because she had planned to relocate full time to Abuja immediately after the completion of her studies. Her law school was already prepped by her parents in Abuja. (They were that influential).

Titi had graduated before her and left the university to her base in Oyo State. She regularly spoke to her concerning life’s matters and most importantly, issues between she and her bae Even after graduating, Ms. J was still financially responsible for him and the funny thing is, after four years of dating, he never for once even introduced her to his nuclear family. (He always had an excuse each time she raised the topic. Always!) After 3 weeks in Kubwa camp, and getting his Place of Primary Assignment (PPA), he headed back to Lagos to see his family and also, Ms. J. Unbeknownst to her, he actually came to see her so she could help him raise some money to rent a boys quarters (BQ) he found which was close to his primary assignment.

The sum was quite much, but she just had to raise it so he could be comfortable in Abuja, she did the usual, sent funds to his account. After that day, he was coming to their lodge for steady knacks.. She fell pregnant again! And like always, was asked to do the needful which she reluctantly did. (Her 7th abortion in 4 years). Because their regular abortion-expert doctor refused to do the D&C, they had to travel all the way to another state to flush it. Titi had recommended a good doctor. After the successful D&C, the doctor made it known to her that, she might not be able to bear a child again because her womb may have been affected. And she decided to share this vital information with her best friend, Titi… (Ladies, keeping to yourself helps a whole lot).

Fast forward to her graduation and relocation back to Abuja: Titi had started her Law School earlier and was based in Abuja too, a stone-throw from Mr.J’s house. In fact, Ms. J was aware they sometimes visited themselves. Ms. J begged her friend to help with foodstuffs for her bae, which she obliged. Their bond became stronger, then the “long-overdue affection” began to manifest. Titi had made it known that she always had feelings for him since University days and was jealous of her his relationship with Ms. J. Mr. J also, made it known that, he felt same way and though he never buzzed her after collecting her digit way back in school, his main intention was to get to know her better but couldn’t because he somewhat had Ms.J full time at home and didn’t want to arouse suspicion.

Titi decided to spill the beans on her best-friend’s inability to bear a child and immediately Mr. J heard it, he found a LEVERAGE to leave her. Citing that, he definitely won’t be with her anymore because what he is looking for right now is a WIFE MATERIAL. When Ms. J came back to Abuja, she noticed Mr. J had changed towards her, and in fact, each time they had sex, he always wore a condom, cold shoulders, lackadaisical attitude towards her and rarely even called or checked up on her but still, she was still giving him his regular pay check on a monthly (50k). Three months gone, his behaviour worsened, it was clearer to her that she probably had lost his love. So one day, she decided to show up at his, unannounced. Lo and behold, she met bae with Titi, lying down in his bed,…. Stark Naked! (My question at this point was, since he heard a knock on his door and most likely verified it was Ms. J, why didn’t he ask Titi to dress up? At least, even if she had her clothes on, she won’t have been really fussed!)…..

The answer I got was; maybe they were tired of hiding and didn’t care anymore. She was greeted with a smile from her supposed BEST FRIEND and before she could say a word, Mr. J said, “I broke up with you long ago, I broke up with you the very day I was told you may not be able to bear children. How will I marry a barren woman?” Right there and then, she knew Titi was behind this but all she could do was sob and leave… 5+ years of her life gone, 5+ years of so many sacrifices for Mr. J, 5+ years of giving her all for the relationship. 5+ years gone to the drain.. 5 + years! All these flooded her thoughts. As I write this, Ms. J is out of the country and an IV for Titi and Mr. J’s wedding has flooded Social Media. Titi and her Ms.J’s ex dated for a year+ and decided to tie the knot. Mr. J now works in a big Engineering Firm in PortHarcourt while Titi just finished her NYSC.

The wedding is for 27th,January What a life!

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Curvy Ghanaian actress Juliet Ibrahim and curvy Ivorian actress Eudoxie Yao both rocked the same dress recently, and we couldn’t help but compare who wore the dress better!
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A Nigerian Man Named Legit Dollarface Peters Is In Desperate Search Of A Babymama according to his instagram post He is Willing to Pay Her N1Million If She Gives Birth To A Girl And N2Million if she gives birth to a Boy

“Urgently needed before i Leave Nigeria

Baby mama needed must be a graduate must be Beautiful without makeup, must be an Igbo woman, If You give birth to a baby Girl N1Million But if you Give Birth to a baby Boy N2Million, You are free to visit the baby and i will always take care of you financially and otherwise, AAO+ Please No Slay Queens”

You will recall that Dollarfacepeters Spent ₦1Million On Drinks during his Girlfriends birthday Then Proposed To Her but they tragically Broke up barely 3weeks later i guess he has finally given up on love… read below incase you missed it;
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London-based Nigerian blogger Chidera Eggerue, who is very proud of her saggy boobs and even offers styling tips to other ladies with saggy boobs has made a funny declaration on social media.

Chidera who goes by ‘The Slumflower’, on Twitter recently accused music executive, Don Jazzy of body-shaming her. Read here, and recently she took to Twitter give ladies advice on how to reply men who talk about ‘saggy breasts’. read here.

Chidera Eggerue also has a radio show, a blog and has presented gigs such as the MOBO awards .

See her interesting post below;
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My body matured faster than my mind did. I never got the opportunity to celebrate my teenage body because I was too busy picking it apart and condemning it, even though it was doing its best. If I could go back in time, I’d make peace with my spirit sack but the past can’t be changed. Although, our perspectives can change and that’s exactly what I had to do to arrive at a place of peace within my body.

First of all, women do not exist for the consumption of men. Biologically, our bodies are built for babies. Babies don’t care about how perky your boobs are; they just wanna be fed. Men aren’t and will never be in a position to tell women ‘how to be a woman’. Impressing men isn’t even a goal worth making. As long as you have a female reproductive organ, men (cis-het) will naturally be drawn to you anyway. Nature doesn’t recognise beauty standards. There is literally no wrong way to be a woman. There is literally no wrong way to have a body as long as your body is functioning well enough to keep you alive.

http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/photos-beautiful-nigerian-lady-chidera.html
When I’m wearing an outfit without a bra, I often get stares from people so trapped in their own insecurities that the sight of someone else taking charge of their body intimidates them. Majority of the time, people’s problems with you are an extension of their problems with themselves. It’s hard enough, trying to silence the voice in your head telling you that you will never be good enough so why make room for an external voice that will only amplify that self-hating voice?

Due to under-representation of saggy-looking boobs in the media, we are all taught that there’s only one way to be beautiful and that includes having super perky boobs. But majority of these films, campaigns and music videos are directed by men (who a lot of the time, don’t even know what they want anyway so why aspire to please an inconsistent person?). If I had seen women with saggy boobs being glorified for their beauty, I wouldn’t have developed a complex as a very young teenager. This is exactly why representation is important. The more you see someone who looks like you in positions of success, the more your image is normalised; the less of a spectacle your reflection is; the more comfortable you will be in your body. It is that deep.

http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/photos-beautiful-nigerian-lady-chidera.html
If you are having trouble accepting your body, please look at mine and look at how socially unacceptable my boobs are. But also look how bossy, snatched and GLOWY I look! I’m living my best life and my boobs aren’t going to stop me from meeting someone amazing. They’re literally gland sacks. And they’re actually pretty awesome. Shout out to my boobs.

Saggy boobs matter.

http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/photos-beautiful-nigerian-lady-chidera.html

According to multiple online reports, a 54-year-old businesswoman simply identified as Maggie beat up her 26-year-old boytoy after allegedly catching him red handed making love with a girl in her own car in Lusaka, Zambia.

According to reports, the angered lady took the law into her hands and beat this young man like a little child, punishing him for messing with her heart.

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Today, Bobrisky shared a seductive video of himself twerking up a storm on a Nigerian Big Boy’s thing, while the said big boy, sprayed him with N500 notes.
The Big boy is identified as Kogbagidi, a popular show promoter.



Apparently, Kogbagidi rolls with some really big boys in Lagos, Davido inclusive, and the latter has shown he’s not happy with the show promoter.


Kogbagidi in the video stripped to his boxers, and his manhood was “erected” while Bobrisky twerked on him.

Davido reacted to this on his Snapchat, and he’s said he is quite disappointed with Kogbagidi… See his series of Snaps below;


Of course, Bobrisky responded to Davido, and said it’s simply just business. Watch below;


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I don’t care about the judgement right now.
Doctors, please help me and put me through my difficult time.
I discovered that I am pregnant after a blood test, the pregnancy was not up to Four weeks because I was suppose to see my period on 6th of January. My last Period date was 14th December.

I took Miso-fem, 800mg vaginally on 9th of January, there was cramps and pains but no bleeding at all. I took the second set the next day by placing the tablets under the tongue and yet no bleeding. I was scared because there was serious pains but I did not even drop a blood.



On Friday, I went for Ultra Sound. The man that attended to me said that if the pregnancy is not up to 4 weeks, It will not show on the scan. I asked him if I was not suppose to see blood after taking Miso-fem even if the pregnancy is not up to a month. He answered affirmatory that I was suppose to bleed.

I talked to a Nurse, the Nurse advised me to get Cytotec.

On Sunday, I bought Cytec. I used it vaginally as well, there was pains but no bleeding. Up till now, I have not bleed after taking Miso-fem and Cytotec. I have been doing exercise hoping it will push out the blood.

What could be the problem?


http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/unbelievable-i-took-abortion-pills-but.html?m=1