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Solstar:
Dear Wonder2018,

I read your narration and it is well understood, then if the First Comment from a nairalander called Khallyella is the axis of reasoning of your husband, then it means I have read both sides of the story, so now let's discuss what is really happening to you and your home, which your husband is not aware of, which is supposed to be his responsibility utilize the opportunity to demonstrate his capability as a man, but you are the one with a build-up of certain acids and hormones, which alters your mood to the lowest barometer of feeling on the happiness index resulting in a decreased libido.

Stress of work, and managing your home has taken a toll on you, these days even with multiple house-helps, it is still tough. The emotional lows is increasing as there is no more fun in your family. Your husband needs to take you out, take you shopping, help you out with some of the things that bother you, then introduce new games, new movies, new songs into the house. It also helps a lot to change the furnitures, re-design the kitchen and the bedroom with new stuff, that is the best way I handle my own marriage and it is called Spicing Up the home. When my wife becomes bored and tired and wants to go abroad, then I throw some new surprises, then that makes her stay home and I introduce massage sessions, after nice sauna experience daily in the evenings. It does not take much time, but it is a magic wand. Then at least once in a year, you guys can fly to some holiday at any location outside, where you can see new stuff to inspire the marriage and you both. That is why a lot of us travel, it is mostly to help keep the union spiced up.

I totally understand how it feels like, but your husband has a responsibility to play a fast game against the ego, his ego needs to be lectured on the essence of happiness and the compulsion to his wife totally, when we love our wives totally, they are so happy that they do not know the game we play outside, and the wife should also understand the need to loosen up sometimes from the stress of work, have alcoholic wines sometimes like 5% conc. hots no one. Make your marriage heaven on Earth, life is too short abeg.

A man must decide if he is worth being called a Man. Real men do not chicken out of marriages. Because it is a responsibility to defeat every imagined and unimagined obstacles on all levels of Human System; Physically, Emotionally and Spiritually.

IamPlato:
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God Please Tell Me, somebody Here Attended "Leads Nursery And Primary School", Ijegu Egba, satalite town, Lagos

Flashmove:
This man is not a youth na as the headline talk.... Why killing people as if na animal? I fear Nigeria these days oooo ,

alexialin:
This frank317 ur case is special o!
I actually read to the end of this thread (all 11pages) hoping that you would call the joke. Please u still have time to do that.


Na wa o

Such marriage will be extremely boring .
I wil definitely make heaven but not like this dull method of having fun with ones spouse .

Jeez!

MRbrownJAY: i have a brain, and when i see uneducated people writing nonsense online, i must correct them! if you want to write about the Bible, and sins, at least dont write NONSENSE, and instead educate yourself (which is what i was trying to help you with)

MRbrownJAY: educate yourself instead of writing rubbish.........many highly respected men of god had concubines, lovers and women for the sole purpose of sex, and there was NOTHING wrong with that or considered a sin (in biblical times).
so long as these women were not married, a man could have hundreds of so called "sex friend"........ ask king Solomon who had 300 of such women!