I look at the OP and the manner of conveying this absurdity and the minister who is a disgrace to Nigeria and the law profession and I wonder what's the difference
Dude is just a tax burden to his generation and country. Truth is Lagos was and is on autopilot built by Nigerians especially migrants while the government just taxes and takes.
That's why Timubu has nothing to offer Nigeria but extortionist -taxation
Makelele004: Many wives ask the same question in silence. When did things change. Why does he feel distant. What happened to the connection we had.
Feelings in marriage do not vanish suddenly. They weaken over time. Love fades through habits, not single mistakes. A husband loses feelings when emotional connection breaks down and stays broken.
The most common cause is emotional neglect. This does not mean absence or cruelty. It means a lack of response. Conversations feel one sided. Concerns feel dismissed. Appreciation feels rare. Over time, a husband stops sharing what he thinks and feels. He learns it leads nowhere. Emotional withdrawal starts quietly.
Another cause is repeated conflict without repair. Arguments alone do not damage a marriage. What causes harm is the tone inside those arguments. Sarcasm. Harsh words. Constant criticism. When conflict turns personal, respect erodes. Attraction struggles to survive where respect feels lost. A husband who feels belittled stops leaning in.
Unresolved resentment plays a major role. Issues that never get addressed do not disappear. They build pressure. A husband may stop bringing things up because past attempts failed. He withdraws to protect himself from more disappointment. This distance often gets mistaken for peace. It is not. It is emotional shutdown.
Identity drift also matters. People change after marriage. Responsibilities grow. Priorities shift. Problems start when couples fail to talk about those changes. One partner grows in a new direction. The other feels left behind. The marriage starts feeling out of sync with real life. A husband loses feelings when the relationship no longer reflects who he is now.
Sexual disconnection follows emotional distance. It rarely leads it. When intimacy feels forced, rejected, or avoided, emotional closeness weakens further. A husband who feels unwanted stops trying. Desire fades after connection fades.
Many assume losing feelings means love is gone. That assumption blocks healing. In most cases, emotional detachment follows many failed attempts to reconnect. By the time feelings seem absent, warning signs existed for years.
Marriage does not break because people stop loving. It breaks because they stop repairing. Emotional connection responds to behaviour. Change the pattern and feelings often respond.
This understanding matters. It shifts focus from blame to action. Marriage survives through awareness, effort, and honest repair.
the problem of the modern liberal marriage where they believe men and women are equals. They are not
If the writer is a man, he is an emotional simp who cries and complains like a woman
Islam, Satan's own religion is not for peace but subjugation and domination.
Remember Islam permits their adherents to lie to you and deceive you to further their Islamist course. It's is 100% acceptable in islam.
Remember Islam does not coexist, it is against their tenets, they must conquer, dominate and destroy. That's why they can't flourish in a democracy or normal society.
And that's why they are the most backward of the backwards.
Remember Islam is anti democracy, anti capitalism, anti freedom and anti progress.
There's no society that has witnessed the mass migration of Islamists that wasn't destroyed.
this swamp should be drained along with the terrorist.
Northerners are complicit in the insecurity and terrorism in Nigeria. As was Buhari who who boldly claim that an attack on Boko Haram was an attack on the north and never apologise for that statement.
SixSeven: Mods do better please. Na only naptu2 de post news here wey you go enjoy the details. Stop posting slop on FP
and he is one emotional wreck with a big ego. If the police gets the ordinary citizens they quickly do press briefing and mug shots now I have not seen this bandits photos being paraded anywhere m
sweetTai: This is bad! I hate the northern Nigeria but for trump to think he has the power to attack a sovereign nation? The biggest black nation in the world? This is bad! And if Tinubu doesn’t act and send USA ambassador out Nigeria, he’s a complete idiot!
stuffs2002: Yet Africa's biggest coward and liar called Ojukwuwent and prostrated before France begging France to support his silly war until France accepted his pleas and supported the Biafran war.
you can be seen and heard without the read fonts and emboldened letters.
Not everyone grew up battered, dehumanised and bullied that they need to be a peacock to speak.
And when this individual is sad, bittered and emotional to the point of peddling lies, we should seek support and care.
France, like the EU are a sinking entity. Destroyed by liberal socialism and feminist radicalism.
How ideology and sentiment have grown and eaten her up.
While France relies on her former African colony for economic survival. The worthless satanic EU is relying on taxation of American tec platform to carter to her socialist agenda of free mass migration and socialism.
Afriifa: Nope. Tinubu is expected. Everyone knew he bought his way. He never enjoyed overwhelming support like Buhari. Also, Tinubu never portrayed himself as a saint. So Tinubu corruption or whatever failure associated with his government are all expected. What should be surprising is if Tinubu performs. Interestingly, in terms of infrastructure, as a southerner, the coastal rail is a hit for me.
Afriifa: Mr Integrity Buhari was the biggest scam of the decade. Is unlike some of us never knew or fell for the scam. I mean, Fela sang against this guy's corruption as PTF Chairman, and we all knew the legendary Fela as not someone with sentiment. Oga was raw in his advocacy. So how could a rational man listen to Fela and support Buhari?
tito44: It's funny how this man becomes the most hated human in Nigeria. Carrying bad energy and bad name for tinubu's govt.
Maybe they should start with telling us what they expended all the revenue Nigeria generated for the past years. Quick to throw out numbers when it suits them.
there's no difference between the man and Tinubu. I don't know why they are separating the two
Timubu removed fuel subsidy and promised more infrastructure and better conditions. Nothing happened. Things are even far worse
The Timubu administration is fixates on tax to assuage for the massive corruption and expenditures of unprecedented state theft and financial costs of turning Nigeria into a single party state
RealityKings1: This man just systematically created potential terrorists, drug dealers, oil bunkers, hookup and a host of other social vices. 15 children
aribisala0: This is emotional nonsense You claim the West is going down but your country men are trooping there in droves Even if the West is going down how is this the why? You say they tax people. to cater for women and the lazy homeless and drug addicts
So women are in the same category as lazy homeless and drug addicts?
You only reveal a deap seated irrational fear and hatred of women
Whatever your issue is with women fix it
If you do not cater for the so called lazy homeless and drug addicts they become bandits and kidnappers
In the UK they use tax also for free Healthcare for everyone, free education for everyone and to provide a quality of life for their citizens we only dream of
If there is a power cut anywhere IT IS NEWS
Arisola, a Nairaland squatt-er has just written a full thesis on western society, women and imagination because I said the West has a very bad tax system.
Nairaland is not the real world where you seek validation and rewrite your failures
You just psycvoanalysed yourself in a most brutal bio.
The West has very absurd taxation to cater for women and the lazy homeless and drug addicts.
This is why the West is going down this is also what cold stone corrupt tinubu wants to introduce to a third world country that doesn't even have roads
Glimpsetv: The Nigerian Army 82 Division Band delivered a remarkable performance at Christ the King Parish (CKP), GRA, Enugu, during the parish’s annual Festival of Nine Lessons and Carols held on Sunday, late December.
The event opened with a solemn candlelight procession led by the Army Band, moving from the church into the main arena. The band later joined voices with the Christ the King Parish Choir for the carol service, before thrilling the audience with a powerful solo musical performance that added elegance, colour, and grandeur to the celebration. This year’s programme uniquely blended the traditional Carol of Nine Lessons with a Christmas Festival, alongside the official blessing of the parish’s newly completed baptistry. The blessing was performed by the Auxiliary Bishop of the Enugu Diocese, Most Rev. Ernest Obodo.
Several notable personalities were in attendance, including the Minister of State for Foreign Affairs, Ambassador Bianca Ojukwu, and the Speaker of the Enugu State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Engr. Uche Ugwu. In his Christmas message, Bishop Obodo spoke on the theme “The Role of Women in the Economy of Salvation,” emphasizing the central role of the Virgin Mary in God’s divine plan.
Footage from the 82 Division Army Band’s 2025 performance has since been circulated by local media outlets, including The Choice Flame Newspaper, drawing widespread admiration online. Many viewers have praised the band’s professionalism and musical excellence since the video surfaced. Watch this beautiful performance by our gallant Armed Forces and share your thoughts in the comments.