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Foreign Affairs / Re: President Donald Trump Pleads Not Guilty In Georgia Election Racketeering Case by Weathered: 7:31am On Sep 01, 2023
itsme01:
cool



Trump is now a problem to both Democrats and republican

Democrats are doing everything to stop him from getting Republican ticket

Republicans want a fresh Candidate with new ideas that can challenge Biden

Trump is Rich, he can buy anyone, his lobby group are spending millions



.
4 out of the 6 Republican presidential candidates said they will still support Trump if he were found guilty!

Where do you get your news from?
Crime / Re: Lagos Police Apprehend Suspects Counterfeiting Engine Oil by Weathered: 7:20am On Sep 01, 2023
Ejioforrr:


https://ikejabird.com/lagos-police-apprehend-suspects-counterfeiting-engine-oil/
if they didn't disclose the names and the location then they are not going to prosecute them.
Celebrities / Re: Portable Performs At NBA Concert, Lawyers Stage Walkout by Weathered: 10:10pm On Aug 31, 2023
afroedo:
what is wronge with dat, is he not a human being,what make this lawyers more human down Portable.
what is wrong with that is exactly what's wrong with your horrible sentence construction and writing skills.

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Politics / Re: Isese: Kwara Police Arrest Salah Ayodeji Who Was Declared A Wanted Terrorist by Weathered: 6:02pm On Aug 31, 2023
waynetee:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/08/isese-kwara-police-nabs-islamic-cleric-declared-wanted-as-terrorist/amp/
so many things wrong with Nigeria and Nigerians. From the citizens to law enforcement.

The fool that was disturbing traditional worshipers to the commissioner of police who ordered the family to produce the suspect.

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Politics / Re: Forgive Nnamdi Kanu, Work For His Release – Ohanaeze Begs Northern Leaders by Weathered: 1:05pm On Aug 31, 2023
When a people without political clout dabble into politics they beg in public without tact too.
Family / Re: 7 Reasons Why Nigerian Marriages Are Crashing In The UK by Weathered: 10:18am On Aug 31, 2023
uche87:
Nigerian Marriages always appear solid and formidable until the union gets a visa. The moment it passes through the UK Point of Entry, it starts to develop cracks until it takes more falls than the Naira under the current Tinubu administration. In this piece, I will be taking a dive into the common reasons why Nigerian marriages struggle on UK soil.

(1). Personal Vendetta:
Marriage as an institution in Nigeria is modeled around patriarchy - a system of male dominance. In this case, the man is the king while the woman is the queen. As you know, the king dominates the queen, and nothing he does is wrong in most cases (especially for the wealthy men). The woman could be forced to endure physical, verbal, psychological, financial abuse, and lots more. She stands to get mocked if her marriage crashes. This creates age-long bitterness and a cold war in the union. Women have a long memory and they hardly forgive. The moment the marriage transits to a society that gives women an upper hand against men, they come for their pound of flesh like Shylock. This destroys the foundation and subsequently brings it to an end.

(2). Level Playing field:
Marriage in Nigeria is a bit lopsided in terms of the professional profiles of the couples. In some cases, the husband might be a doctor while the wife might be selling beauty products or other petty items that cannot sustain her financially. The man steps in, and this gives him an undue edge in the marriage. In the UK where a hard-working bartender can match a nurse financially, and there is a level playing ground, power changes hands. The man who might be an alpha male loses that edge. This kind of equality - an unfamiliar territory for the man, if not well-managed might be the collapse of the marriage.

(3). Cultural Issues:
In the UK, the difference between a man and a woman might be that one menstruates and the other doesn't. In fact, people switch genders according to their moods. In simple terms, there is no duty/responsibility that is totally exclusive to a man or woman. Over here, men go to the market, clean, wash, cook, babysit, run errands, and also fund the home. Local champions who are used to being served like emperors by their wives might struggle to cope with the new environment and could feel short-changed.

(4). Busy Schedules:
It is no longer news that the cost of living in the UK is as high as a COVID-19 patient's temperature. In my previous articles, I have overemphasized how people inevitably work for long hours in order to cope with rising living expenses and financial demands from their families back home. This might affect bonding between young couples and reduce intimacy. Most times, when one party is ready for a "mid-section parley", the other might be unavailable due to conflicting shift patterns, not being in the mood due to mental or physical stress. This gradually takes a negative toll on the marriage.

(5). Women Are Powerful Abroad:
In the West, there are checks to prevent the domination of women by men. This has made women so powerful. In the event of a conflict, the odds are always against the men. The Spanish FA chief, Luis Rubiales learned the hard way for controversially kissing midfielder, Jennifer Hermoso at the recently concluded 2023 Women's World Cup. Also in February 2021, Yoshiro Mori - head of the Tokyo 2020 Olympic Games Organising Committee, was coerced into resigning after saying 'women talk too much in meetings'. Former Manchester United player, Mason Greenwood apparently ruined his career due to struggles with his partner. In marriage, some women mischievously abuse their powers. A colleague lost his marriage of 5 years after his wife reportedly abused him physically multiple times. A behaviour that was never evident in Nigeria according to him.

(6). Cheating:
A randy man who is obsessed with beautiful women would easily make mistakes in the UK. The UK exposes you to numerous women of different shapes, forms, and beauty. If you think you have seen it all, you need to see the Jamaican, Somalian, Pakistani, Iranian, curvy Kenyans, and some pretty Indian women. It is not just how they look alone but what they are wearing. Some of them might fancy you and might be willing to hand you the cookie on a platter of gold. There are also several single mothers who have nothing to lose. They are ready to 'share it' graciously like the Federal Government palliatives across their community. One person's husband might be hooked to the detriment of his marriage.

(7). Finances:
Another area of challenge in a UK home is money. In an informal survey I personally conducted, I realized it is the most common problem around. It is extremely difficult for a man to singlehandedly foot the household bills in the UK. Paying for everything is easily obtainable in Nigeria where the cost of living is lower. A woman who is used to the Nigerian system might be hoarding cash, and under-declaring her finances. This is done to force the man to fill the vacuum. This creates discontentment, and over time, frustration starts to hit the man. He might be tempted to seek solace outside the marriage to boost his mental health.

Osahon George Osayimwen is a Journalist and a Developmental Psychologist. He writes from the South Yorkshire region of England.
Bini men would see nothing wrong in this. No challenges at all. They are used to women slaving for them.

By the way, watch your own mental health over there. I see you crumbling like an ovulating pussy soon by your write-up.

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Career / Re: Adamawa Policeman Weeps As He Is Dismissed From Service For Wrongdoing (Video) by Weathered: 10:08am On Aug 31, 2023
Culpable homicide and unlawful exercise of power.

That's very evil and a lot more police are guilty of this crime. They should be charged to court to face their crimes.

Also, the useless senators and lawmakers in Abuja should pass law for all police officers on the beat to have body camera or mandate citizens to record police during operations.

A lot of innocent people have died with the police lying and no evidence to the contrary.

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Politics / Re: President Tinubu Reacts To Gabon Coup by Weathered: 3:59pm On Aug 30, 2023
EyeCumInPiss:
Mandate thief has spoken.

Coup d'Ballot far worse than Coup d'Etat.
the worst civilian rule is better than the best military rule.

You don't believe the presidential election tribunal anymore?
Foreign Affairs / Re: Gabon Residents Hail Soldiers, Celebrate Military Takeover by Weathered: 10:27am On Aug 30, 2023
Even the military dey do press coup d'état.

One word for the military coup plotters, you will always go down in history as the bad guys and then your country and international community will never forgive or forget
Crime / Re: NDLEA Arrests South African With Meth Consignments by Weathered: 5:39pm On Aug 27, 2023
chisomkachy:
As NDLEA intercepts 1,343.8kg skunk, ketamine going to UK, Indonesia, others; seizes 514,420 pills of opioids in Gombe, Adamawa, Ogun raids



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid03dmzXsfzXnL36jvfJcn6bRtnXx6pCXBkMkkhBtqLdxsecFkf3jpzbfycWJdmWct5l&id=100069123281551&mibextid=Nif5oz
I Knew it will never be a black south African.

Those lazy mofos never venture out of their food stamp comfort zone
TV/Movies / Re: Yorubas Started Nollywood, Own It —Aisha Lawal, Actress And Scriptwriter by Weathered: 10:15am On Aug 27, 2023
That Yoruba own nollywood is pure academic. Igbos own Nollywood and Nigeria movie industry and have even taken it to Ghana.

It's like Africa claiming jazz in America today. Stupid, inferior idiots everywhere.

Nigerian movies suck. They should lift their standards and get away from lazy storylines and cheap plots
Music/Radio / Re: Afrobeat Is Nothing, Lacks Substance- Burna Boy by Weathered: 1:07pm On Aug 26, 2023
Winner90:
Using pidgin alone which is an inferior version of a language means that whatever crap you sing won't have a universal appeal.
are you talking about Fela?
Politics / Re: Nigeria Did Not Apply To Join BRICS, Says Shettima by Weathered: 8:34am On Aug 26, 2023
ATEAMS:
I just want to disappear
into this universe.
Be the sun and the sand, 
the wind and the water 
moving aimlessly.
I want to be the dance 
between the earth, the sky
and the waves.
Be the energy that holds 
everything in its place.
And then I just want to appear
as a tiny human being
and open my eyes
and open my heart
to see myself.
fool
Romance / Re: Has A Married Woman Ever Tried To Seduce You Before? Share Your Experience by Weathered: 5:05pm On Aug 25, 2023
izonborn098:
If u are doing well and well behaved... All type of women are dying to have you.... Whether married, single, poor or rich....
I can say na everday them dey tempt me....
is that how married women in your lineage go after men?
Politics / Re: Shettima Represents Tinubu At BRICS Summit In South Africa (Photos) by Weathered: 8:54pm On Aug 24, 2023
TMKsouth:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2023/08/shettima-departs-abuja-for-15th-brics-summit-in-safrica/amp/
south Africa's qualification to Brics was hinged on her being the largest economy in Africa.

Ever since she has been overtaken by Nigeria since 2014 and Egypt a few years after, her membership as Brics member in Africa has been overtaken and rendered redundant by facts.

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Family / Re: After 9 Years Of Trying My Wife Finally Gave Birth by Weathered: 10:09pm On Aug 23, 2023
MrUgo4christ111:
It is with joy in my heart and a gladdened spirit,I wish to inform esteemed family section members that I am now a father of a bouncing boy given birth to buy my wife in the early hours of this morning smiley

We had tried for so long to have a baby,there were doubts creeping in from friends and family alike but our faith in God never wavered.It wasn't easy.My wife was having birth complications as the doctor said her pelvic region wasn't opening up enough to birth a child and that the baby was rightly positioned.Fear gripped me cheesy but I had to be a man and offer encouragement to my wife because she was already asking me if she dies while giving birth,will I marry another wife? cheesy cheesy Those complications took a lot of strength from her and finance from me and she spent some days in the hospital before she finally gave birth in the wee hours of this morning to the glory of God.Mother and baby in good health.

Thank you lord for your mercies.

that's 9 years of ceaseless, endless fawking.
Sports / Re: I'm A Beautiful Woman And I Want To Start A Family— Francisca Ordega by Weathered: 10:08pm On Aug 23, 2023

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Romance / Re: Could This Be A Freudian Slip From My Married Colleague? by Weathered: 3:26pm On Aug 23, 2023
thesilentman:

yes,i just learnt the word,exactly two days after you were born.
stay off married women.

There's a rope around your thin neck already.

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Crime / Re: Sowunmi Ayodeji Kayode Wanted By NDLEA (Photos) by Weathered: 3:25pm On Aug 23, 2023
Searching a suspects house in his absence and discovering 10.5 kilo of loud? Dude could deny it.

Could also claim he thought they were kidnappers and robbers when he drove in and saw them.

Any Law Enforcement Agency run by a military personnel, active or retired always lacks wisdom and tact .

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Romance / Re: Could This Be A Freudian Slip From My Married Colleague? by Weathered: 3:09pm On Aug 23, 2023
thesilentman:
She is married and a senior in my department. She never got tired complimenting my eloquence-always says she likes the way i speak.

Everyday,she'd wait for me so we can work together out of the plant and anyday i tell her i ain't ready for home yet,she gets clearly pissed.We chit-chat a lot.

Yesterday,she cosied up to my desk,as usual and said,in the presence of fellow colleagues,"Baby...oh,sorry,mr bla bla bla..."

Everyone was gobsmacked cos that's the same way she addresses her hubby who ocassionally drops her at work.

Now tongues have been wagging on account of that incidence-that both of us are probably...

I tried to dismiss the matter by saying that it was a freudian slip but my colleagues who were not having any of it,just told me to be careful.

Wahala dey o!
I no know whether you just learn the word "Freudian slip" newly and in a hurry to use it.

But I hate men who complain that a married woman is after them.

Bro, the degree of welcome she feels around you, you created it, nurtured it and encouraged it.

Don't come here pretending because you're probably the most disgusting, irritating piece of human skunk right now.

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Politics / Re: Court Jails UNIZIK Ex-Lecturer For Defamatory Comments On Facebook by Weathered: 12:33pm On Aug 23, 2023
How did he get to spend 4 months in jail over defamation in awaiting trial?

Sounds very fishy to me.
Celebrities / Re: Shatta Wale: Nigerian Artistes Make Ghanaian Counterparts Look Mediocre by Weathered: 9:33am On Aug 23, 2023
FreeStuffsNG:
Nigerian artistes making Ghanaian counterparts look like feeding bottle musicians – Shatta Wale


https://dailypost.ng/2023/08/21/nigerian-artistes-making-ghanaian-counterparts-look-like-feeding-bottle-musicians-shatta-wale/




attention -seeking orc

Nobody is fooled Ghana is eternally envious of Nigeria including this haggard looking human vomit called Shatta Wale.

Funny thing is how a tiny , insignificant Ghana won't look for her mate to measure dick with.

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Family / Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Weathered: 6:58pm On Aug 22, 2023
Verokeena:
Good afternoon Nl family
Please pardon my epistle

My husband lost his job two years ago and ever since he has been so reluctant on getting another.. not to brag but I can say I have been the one keeping the family going ever since the job incidence (not like I ever complained) .

What I noticed about him is he now drinks and smokes and he is always hissing (obviously he is not happy and I try to always console him just to elate his Spirit)

Fast forward to last two months.. I got back from work and I was very tired.. I had to go pick the kids from school , bathe them, feed them and to make matters worst I wasn't feeling too alright .. (when I got home he (my husband) wasn't at home)

When I was done with the kids and fixing the house I was so tired I thought to myself to take a lil nap that was how I slept off (and this was around 9pm) ..

He got back around 10pm obviously drunk and smelling like a skunk.. he went straight to the kitchen. That was how the whole problem started.. first was insult.. then my phone, smashed it on the ground later my clothes he started tearing them .. saying all those things he was destroying was why I was feeling untouchable that he knows I have male friends sleeping with me..

I tried securing my items so he doesn't destroy more things that was how he pounced on me..

The next day I got him arrested he spent two days there.. but now I feel so guilty... He doesn't talk to me anymore.. I have apologized times without number

I don't just know what to do...


Nb: even while he was there I was still taking food to him
for you to disrespect, lock up your husband in a police cell, another man is fawking you

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Politics / Re: Kano Protesters Dare Police, Take To The Streets by Weathered: 5:13pm On Aug 21, 2023
How many court rulings do the illiterate Nigeria police need to have to understand that peaceful protest is a constitutionally guaranteed right and cannot be determined by people who wear black
Politics / Re: Supreme Court Subverting Justice In Nnamdi Kanu’s Appeal – IPOB by Weathered: 11:30am On Aug 21, 2023
mrvitalis:
When government frustrates legal means of conflict resolution like this how can you then want to solve the conflict

It's very obvious the FG is enjoying the issue in South east... It's even more likely they maybe instigating it

It's really sad
IPob are the criminals behind what's happening in the South East

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Foreign Affairs / Re: We’ll Hand Over To A Civilian Govt Within 3 Years – Niger Coup Leader by Weathered: 10:18am On Aug 20, 2023
Asgard73:


Pained and ignored.. he rants.

Next!
you see what we mean?
You're claiming to ignore me when you have responded to every damn one of my posts.

You cursed my parent first and yet called me pained.

Were you born feet first or sideways?
Foreign Affairs / Re: We’ll Hand Over To A Civilian Govt Within 3 Years – Niger Coup Leader by Weathered: 10:15am On Aug 20, 2023
Asgard73:


Imps and fools… Like flies..

Yawn!

Next.

Asgard? Even your name is fiction. Your life expectations and goals are no different.

Irredeemable movie addict forever stuck in Nirvana fallacies grin grin grin

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Foreign Affairs / Re: We’ll Hand Over To A Civilian Govt Within 3 Years – Niger Coup Leader by Weathered: 10:11am On Aug 20, 2023
Asgard73:


I don’t read trash and gibberish races with insults for your father..

Next!
it was actually for you and the peasants who sired an inferior human debacle like you.
Foreign Affairs / Re: We’ll Hand Over To A Civilian Govt Within 3 Years – Niger Coup Leader by Weathered: 9:59am On Aug 20, 2023
Asgard73:


Yoruba man democratic government is measured by ballot stealing and rigging

Already Damaged youths of Nigeria.

Tribalists why sophistication


Human Cesspool, I'm not Yoruba. You will be shocked.

It is trite we educate human pus like you that democracy is a process and will get better with time.

Military coups are a drawback and make any country to stall back politically, legally and economically.

Nigeria would have had better advancements in our democratic processes and experiences if Abacha , Babangida and co didn't waste the national time delaying that process.

What Peter Obi has done is great, the next election will never be the same and it's a step forward for the process and for our democracy whether the tribunal grants it or not.

But human vomit like you, eternally eaten alive by feminine emotions and wickedness will encourage an evil thing like military coup just because your candidate didn't win? Who told you I even voted Tinubu?

Now bastard, what is the difference between you and the biblical jealous woman who killed her baby by mistake and wants her roommate baby dead also?

The whole country should burn because you lost an election?

What a becrowned idiot!!!
Foreign Affairs / Re: We’ll Hand Over To A Civilian Govt Within 3 Years – Niger Coup Leader by Weathered: 9:04am On Aug 20, 2023
Asgard73:
After 3 years .. Good man.

By then France and their fellow colonist will have to renegotiate..

Unlike some Nigerian that will wish Nigeria to suck both the balls and arse of the colonist for crumbs .. those are the ones that fear the seperation and disintegration of the shit hole.. yet trumpet daily on how sophisticated they’re .


Niger General and their fellow Sahel Generals got real balls .. not the ones with fat bank account , corrupt fools with pot belly.. encourage by tribalists and sycophants..
Ordinary Fulani herdsmen andrag tag esn the out them out like fouls ..

Stop hiding my post.. una hate reality . Tinubu and his people love praise singers and propagandist
military gallantry is measured by Coup D'ètat?

The kind of damaged youths Nigeria has...there's no hope for this country.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: We’ll Hand Over To A Civilian Govt Within 3 Years – Niger Coup Leader by Weathered: 9:01am On Aug 20, 2023
Taylor90:
Good one

I support una

Let the military purge and reset the country first before handling over

That’s the kind of formatting we even need in Nigeria
Another bitter loser.

May military you wish happen to you and your family alone.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: We’ll Hand Over To A Civilian Govt Within 3 Years – Niger Coup Leader by Weathered: 8:47am On Aug 20, 2023
Three more years ofl looting and theft

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