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TheHulk616:
all comicbook movies this year has been terrible but DC is worst.
Suicide squad was boring and stupid.
Black widow was trash, with gender swapping characters, boring plot and useless jokes.

hmmmmm
Am I seeing things, or is hulk616 actually thrashing a marvel movie?

FaruqMadridCr7:
Mods pls don't delete this post I know it's a wrong section i just need help pls.
This is will be lengthy but please bear with me

I think it's high time I share what I've been going through with you guys cause I don't know which way again.
I'm an introvert, I'm always shy this makes me feel so less and the worst part is that I'm scared of almost everything as well, this particular fear is drowning me.I don't know what to do again,I always try to read some motivational quote,they help me sometimes but it's never permanent.
I always try my best to be brave and confident but it only works for few minutes,hours, days it's never permanent.i don't know whether it's only me in this shoe but those who knows what real fear is will understand me, it's Soo hard for me to do things on my own,fear always grip me plus shyness,and what I've observed in me that cause this fear is THINKING.

I think too much, even when I don't want to think, those thought will just come to my head without control and I'll be just be thinking whatever and this is really affecting me psychologically. it's really affecting my live.i can't think straight.
I always feel less confident at home and work, when my peers are talking and gisting I'll find it very hard to join them, thinking of how to associate with them in my head.These people are not newly friends to me,yet I still find it very hard to feel free with them . It's always a bad experience for me infact it gets to a certain point when I'm shy and scared I'll be shaking and having a hot temperature as if I'm in war can you imagine

But, whenever this fear and shyness leaves me(when I'm trying to act bold it sometimes will)I feel like a normal person,I control things,I do whatever I want to do,THAT IS ALL I CRAVED FOR but it's never permanent.
I don't just know how I'm going to live my life on my own way. I'm tired of these things guys I don't know what to do again please help me.Anyhow. I'm scared as I'm typing this scared with no one or nothing pursuing me oo
I pray so much on this. It's been happening to me since I was small.i always think it will leave me when I grow older but now I'm 19 and it's just getting worse.It cause so much depression in me there was I time I thought of committing suicide cause I was totally fed up of everything. I'll just wake up every single day thinking of how to overcome fear while it grips me more.Being shy is normal but the scared part is what is killing me.Anybody with help pls just don't know where to face
Lalasticlala,dominique mynd44 pls help me push this to front page

Bro.
Your problem is 99% similar to mine–even though mine has reduced.

I'm not 100% sure of what is bringing fear/shyness into your life, but I can talk from my own experience with this.

Almost throughout my chronic shy days (ages 15-19), I blamed it on myself.

I had trouble mixing with friends, feeling confident, and eliminating FEAR–like you.

As time progressed though, I came to realize the two main problems–and I'm 90% sure that it's the cause of your problem too.

Let me cut straight to the point : You likely have a disorder–like ATTENTION DEFICIT AND HYPERACTIVE DISORDER (ADHD)/(ADD), and YOU'RE LIKELY SOMEONE WHO IS ADDICTED TO Something HIGHLY STIMULATING–like porn, drugs, video games.

I want to tell you more but my phone is dying!

Maybe later.

indadi:
My Dad called me this evening to tell me the essence of praying. The thing is that I don't believe praying solves anything Atleast to me. the day I stopped believing and started working more on myself, I found out that things started getting better for me than those who goes to the Church and Mosques.

When I think about a lot of things I have read and what I have experienced I feel like I have always been deceived all my life.

The Pastors and Prophets with their fake miracles or the Boko Haram and their suicide with the reasons of going to heaven to get virgins.

I currently live with them though I plan on moving to my own place by the end of this year or early next year.

I really want to tell them in a polite way so they can accept my way.

My Dad won't accept this, as he believes that it is God or nothing.

I was kinda like you at one point in my life. And I understand you.

I grew up with parents who valued Christianity very much--even though it didn't really resonate with me.

My dad is a pastor, he always forced me to pray every day. Anytime he noticed my unseriousness about the things of God, he would be so disappointed, and bitter.

Those things didn't changed my lack of interest in Christianity though--especially since I wasn't seeing any Tangible evidence of it.

We still remained poor, our family still had problems--despite all the prayers.

But, as time went on, I changed--because I found True Christianity.

You see, the reason why you want to give up religion is because you haven't experienced God yet.

Your parents are likely religious people, as opposed to people who have a personal relationship with God.

That's why they don't see any results when they/all of you pray.

All you need to do is to find God (JESUS) personally, like I did.

I hope you understand me.

this is the best posts I've read in a while.