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Trust has no two faces, But, when,you re trying to give it another face, then be [b][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][/b]ready for the outcome, Rem, WHATEVER YOU SOW ,YOU SHALL REAP.If you sow true love, you will surely reap true and sincerely love that will spread thru your generations yet unborn

Danke , U r right , Many advisors bring choice of wisdom and other tins

zeora , Good advice will go a long in correcting many things and l believe that there are still good advisors

Missy B is not always so, Blunt advice will always help you out

BigSis "You are his sugar mama.  He is a loser". Pls, can you explain further, ?

hassymo5, nautrally ,everybody is empowered to care for him /herself at a point in time , The purpose of a loving relationship is to lead to marriage. It is a good tin, if one parnter helps the other to grow in all aspect of life, but it must be directed to the purpose of such relationship. With the b/f demanding or depending on her always, it shows the level of seriousness of the b/f to get job or provide himself a job, Too much dependence on a person shows the level of sincerity from such dependents.

hassymo5 her b/f is purely selfish

Mugabe, l will like to know more about you and l guess  that  you are  into  Relationship consultancy, but you need  o know that Joichi can read and  she will surely call you when she needed you too, Sincerely speaking, l'm not gettin on your nerve but l need  to draw  your  attention to the effect  of  askin her to either call or email you. From your two posts your contact is there, Do you think that Joichi will not jump out of  her skin again , ? 

Always my mugabe

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1. Long courtship often do not  lead to marriage.  2. ldentify what you do  really want in  a  given courtship/relationship  cuz, some people hold on, due to what  they can get from such relationship at the expense of  their  love itself ( lack of focus is really a problem)  3. The case of  forgettin about the past hurts in  a  relationship is  a big deal.  Generally, ladies are emotionally-rooted  while guys are logically-rooted.  lt takes longer time  for ladies to forget and forgive in a particular relationship than guys ,cuz, more than 75% of them truly love and put everything into such relationship.Also, it's very eaiser for ladies to love by virtue of  their nature than guys with  rigid hearts. 4. In this turbulent era, where  everything is really astronomical in  nature, cases of distrust ,break-ups and  other social vices do have  effect on a particular loving relationship . The best thing  to do is to ask questions, whenever you do  not understand a given trend /trait/way/method that you  have known your  partner with, in this regards, ladies are more sensitive and  they could see  when a  relationship is packin up.

Do not endanger your life

My friend, what actually happened to you was a case of some Nigerian collaborators selling people's visas with  the help of american officers at  the American Embassy. It could be sold for between N500k- N2m depending on  their "weight " of their clients. You can sue them when your claims are REAL and US government will not tolerate such things but it's purely NIGERIAN FACTORS HERE

My friends, what actually happened to you was a case of some Nigerian collaborators selling people's visas with  the help of american officers at  the American Embassy. It could be sold for between N500k- N2m depending on  their "weight " of their clients. You can sue them when your claims are REAL and US government will not tolerate such things but it's purely NIGERIAN FACTORS HERE

Well, it is good to help one's b/f, but it's also a fact dat helpin your bf can be so damaging to your social, mental, physical and spiritual beings.Luv is about give and take, hence, from the info provided, your b/f seems to be very selfish and lack love for you. You re not interested in  the relationship anymore simply coz, you r unbecomin of him due to his selfish act. You can always spend your money in those tins  that will improve your life, tak care  of your family and at  the right time, the right man will come knockin at the door of your heart askin you to marry him. Your b/f will never change and you should plan to improve yourself socially,mentally, physically and spiritually and  at  the  appointed time, your  man will show up. The only person that can really help anyone is God, the Creator of the  Creatures.

Marriageable relationship is beyond sex and your parameter of being sexually attached to him is really an error and only 2% of REAL relationship is based on sex and romance. Take care and smile cuz, your days are coming.