he just feels insecured.its either u are very beautiful and he's scared of losing u or he's just naturally jealous.BEWARE

God is a jealous God. and we men are made in His image. Thus its perfectly normal for your boyfriend to b jealous about u givin ur numba to other guys.
my girlfriend use to do it, i didn't like it one bit, but i neva complained or made an issue about . Reasons y i didn't complain, i don't know.maybe if i did , we would still be 2geda 2day.
anyways , strictly speakin from a guy's point of view, givin a guy ur numba when u have a boyfriend tends to put a strain on d relationship cos it portrays u still interested in those oda guys. u are hooked, stay hooked, if u want out, do it d right way.
relationships involves sacrifices. and this is a tiny weeny small one u can make

nothing is wrong with giving boiz your number,being too friendly with them,flashing your close up advert smile for them and even receiving sms from them as long as nothing is wrong with your guy giving girls his number,smiling and staring at them,receiving calls and sms from them.it goes both way.

hey poster,

tell your guy to grow up and be a man. such guys will tell you they wouldnt want you to work when you both get married(if), its a free world, he is just showing his high degree of insecurity.
i have a girlfriend, and sometimes she tells me she wants to go clubbing with her friends, sometimes i choose to drop her off if am not in the mood to join her and go about my other businesses, she will be the one telling me all what happened, tell your guy to believe in himself, even if he loses you tell him he can get somebody better if thats what he wants. infact i begin to feel he doesnt trust you.

enjoy

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Girls are sometimes funny ,

Would you accept your boyfriend taking a girls number? How would you feel if you read sexy sms on your guys phone?

Wouldn't you be kind of Jealous . ?

I also disagree with my girl giving her number to guy , I nearly stab a guy to dead on friday night simply because he sent a sexy sms to my lady and i mistakenly read it,

, If you already have a boyfriend and you really love you , what on earth would make you give your number to another guy? what exactly do you want from him? Girls are always funny,

Have a nice day,

N.A.S.T.Y

That's right! what exactly do u expect from other guys that u've not gotten from your b/friend.
Is it text messages . . . and not just Holy text message; but sexy !
Na wa ooo!

there is something i have discoverd in life, being around a lady 24/7 is no guarantee of fidelity cos they reason with their emotions, care less about her , have friends of the opposite sex, just be you, ofcourse you speak when there is need to , being overly protective sends wrong signals, and in most cases she is being screwed by a guy unknown to you.

@Poster

Ahhhh Mogbe!!! This thread just confirmed my fear, Naija girls have gone western. Even western women don't give other men their numbers once they find a guy they really like. For what reasons will you give another guy your number?? He ain't talking about nothing more than " I want to Bang the $#it out of you". Well, maybe not in those exact words but that's what he's driving at. Naija boys we are in trouble o, these girls no be like their mamas o!!!!

@post come to think of it, if he dose the same way how will you feel about it? and i will like to ask , Is your guy a jealose lover? , Always ask yourself how will he feel, Will he like it, Will i admit it if it's me

@ poster, shie b u don hear so, u dey wan play games like my girl ehhen, continue e go ova u,

den theres this post
there is something i have discoverd in life, being around a lady 24/7 is no guarantee of fidelity because they reason with their emotions, care less about her , have friends of the opposite sex, just be you, ofcourse you speak when there is need to , being overly protective sends wrong signals, and in most cases she is being screwed by a guy unknown to you. Please this intrest me,what # can i call u at, and what does that bolded word mean

I'm sure if he's collecting numbers from girls, you'd be the first to come here and post a thread wondering if he's being unfaithful to you. Use your hand and dig your grave you hear? Shior.

Announcement ladies and Gentlemen i jus want you to know i have a boyfriend. Hooray for you gal. he soesnt want me to give my numbers to any other man. like u are not happy about it. Abeg mke i hear word.

I've yet to meet the guy that's pro- his girlfriend wantonly givin her number out to other guys.
just smacks of sheer disrespect for him.
Girlfriend, i really think u need to apologise n straighten up if u serious 'bout this guy.

ma thot's.

@poster its clear that your bf does not trust you, its better you guys sit down talk it over cuzz what of when you get married in future assuming you do.Is this how you will become a prisoner in your own home No male friends allowed to pay you visits thats really serious. As for me also I dont like the idea but what choice do I ve i just ve to trust my gf and now so far she has been faithfull,

My friend, explain to him.

And you too, let him trust you, if those people are your casual friends, tell them to stop sending romantic text to you, if yo truly love him and sees his future like a brighting star.

please, is good to enjoy realtionship than to endure, but you have to let himtrust you, and make sure you introduce ur frinds to your guy, let tehm know that is ur future partner. I hink he'll appreciate that.

Ur case is like mine, but i always introduce them to him, and tell them to stop sending romantic text.

If you love him dearly, try to endure.

Trust has no two faces, But, when,you re trying to give it another face, then be [b][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][/b]ready for the outcome, Rem, WHATEVER YOU SOW ,YOU SHALL REAP.If you sow true love, you will surely reap true and sincerely love that will spread thru your generations yet unborn

infoseye people dey advice u stil dey advice, ur thread make sense sha but i hope say u no lash ur ex o, seriously

@poster

u r in a relationship, why you want to give other guys your number

Just be careful who you give your number to b/c they have some creepy fellows out there

take care

@ fine cat
please grow up, if you want a gal like ur mama- go 2 ur village

@namun, YOU AGAIN , BABEGIRL LOL !

I don't blame the guy he is just too scared of losing you. On the other hand he should trust you, there is no need of relationship that there is no trust in its baseless.

why don't you beat d hell out of him. i was joking. if he loves u he should understand. u know Wat i mean try to explain yourself to him.

sincerely yours that is what guys hate most. u are creating unnecessary rivalry. pls stop dat if yu truly love him.

If it were the poster complaining about the man giving other girls his number in her presence, some people would be up in arms about how
hes disrespecting her, she should dump his sorry ass, etc etc, now shes giving guys her number, the guy isnt happy, shes cool with it, and some
people here are labelling the dude possessive, immature, etc.
Poster, if you respect your guy, you wont do that. And if you do, you will at least respect him enough to carry him along, and be transparent, i.e if its a business associate, or a friend, etc,

He has a point

:-x :-x :-x :-x

@webman, na me oh

wel,if ur reallyy sure dat he's really crius wit u den uv got no probs n d same has 2 apply 4 him 2 cos it has 2 be a 50-50 tin u knw.so dnt wory urself bout it only if u smell a rat if u knw wot i mean .n u neva can say dis times,a guy who's actin dat way mite av hidden agendas,u knw guys now,dey r so un predectable .

Tell him 2 go to hell and even go ahead and give your number to his friends.

Really, i cant blame the guy wen he frown at u giving other guys ur num coupled with that he reads sexy romantic texts on ur fone from other guys. what i feel is that for a girl to give her num out to a guy means she wants to be friendly with the guy and u have given the guy access to call u weneva he wants.

will u be happy if u read sexy romantic text messages from ur man's fone?

i believe that once u have met some1 u love and he loves, pls try as much as possible to limit ur interaction with other men.

are you saying he is controling you?like he ask need to know where you are all the time and what you are doing or saying you cant go out or tell you what to wear etc??if not ask yourself why you need to give ur numbers to guys?/i have seen many friends sleeping with each other there are ways to dodge tempations,i guess if you are inlove you will fell the way he is feeling,i think you are still young and ready to explore while he is not,i can tell from what you say that the relashionship is going nowhere baby.